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03-08-2022, 01:31 PM
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Thanks for the pics, OP.
03-08-2022, 01:32 PM
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Inb4 OP deletes this thread. If you knew what people would say why ask the question? Your wife dun goofed by giving her Instagram to that guy. Why the fuk would she do that? So odd. Guarantee you that **** is strokin his penor to your wife's IG. How does that make you feel?
03-08-2022, 01:33 PM
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Thread has derailed....as expected. I guess at least I brought some life back to the misc.
Just lol at some of these responses though, it's like some of you have never been in a relationship with someone you can trust......but I hope one day you get there....but what did I expect after all this is The Misc and it hasn't disappointed. I'm glad that some of you can make these outlandish assumptions from a few sentences that I've written to describe the situation and have turned this into much more than it actually is.
I'm not scared, I'm not getting cuked, Im not threatened, blah blah blah
All I wanted were a few suggestions on how to handle this situation like an adult....which as a reminder was 5-6 innocent interaction between my awkward/overly nice wife and some creeper who cant read social ques, without making things weird at the only viable gym in our city or coming off like Im some insecure meathead making something out of nothing or putting us in a situation where this guy gets worse. 10 years ago I know how I would have handled this, but in my mid 30's with a career, responsibilities and a much more mature mindset, that's not an option.
Thanks to those who understand real life relationships and provided level headed, legit responses .....and thanks for the laughs to those who cant even fathom the idea of a stable relationship.
...She gave him her IG b/c she was caught off guard and didn't know what else to say...it's private and she's not going to accept the request.....Which will lead into him asking why and is where she can make her stand and tell him off.
Just lol at some of these responses though, it's like some of you have never been in a relationship with someone you can trust......but I hope one day you get there....but what did I expect after all this is The Misc and it hasn't disappointed. I'm glad that some of you can make these outlandish assumptions from a few sentences that I've written to describe the situation and have turned this into much more than it actually is.
I'm not scared, I'm not getting cuked, Im not threatened, blah blah blah
All I wanted were a few suggestions on how to handle this situation like an adult....which as a reminder was 5-6 innocent interaction between my awkward/overly nice wife and some creeper who cant read social ques, without making things weird at the only viable gym in our city or coming off like Im some insecure meathead making something out of nothing or putting us in a situation where this guy gets worse. 10 years ago I know how I would have handled this, but in my mid 30's with a career, responsibilities and a much more mature mindset, that's not an option.
Thanks to those who understand real life relationships and provided level headed, legit responses .....and thanks for the laughs to those who cant even fathom the idea of a stable relationship.
...She gave him her IG b/c she was caught off guard and didn't know what else to say...it's private and she's not going to accept the request.....Which will lead into him asking why and is where she can make her stand and tell him off.
03-08-2022, 01:34 PM
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Originally Posted By TonyTriangles⏩
bro she didn't know what to say....did your wife exchange FB, snapchat, & phone numbers too?
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03-08-2022, 01:35 PM
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Originally Posted By HayZues
Was onboard until:You're getting played.
Not saying your wife is cheating, but she's definitely perfectly capable of handling this if she was really being creeped out by this guy.
She is either trying to get a reaction out of you, or preemptively lying and painting this guy in a light so when anything comes out, she has this bs back story.
It's also very obvious you are threatened by this guy. "Scrawny 5'10" guy..."
Even if everything your wife said was true, how pathetically weak and autistic is she that she's "genuinely uncomfortable " and can't think of a course of action on her own?
I'd laugh in my wife's face if she came to me with these exact details. Now if she had told dude to stop and he didn't, then I'd step in.
Your getting played, and evidence by making this thread, you already know it in your gut.
She found nothing creepy about this guy until there was a good chance you'd find out about their "friendship."
Not saying your wife is cheating, but she's definitely perfectly capable of handling this if she was really being creeped out by this guy.
She is either trying to get a reaction out of you, or preemptively lying and painting this guy in a light so when anything comes out, she has this bs back story.
It's also very obvious you are threatened by this guy. "Scrawny 5'10" guy..."
Even if everything your wife said was true, how pathetically weak and autistic is she that she's "genuinely uncomfortable " and can't think of a course of action on her own?
I'd laugh in my wife's face if she came to me with these exact details. Now if she had told dude to stop and he didn't, then I'd step in.
Your getting played, and evidence by making this thread, you already know it in your gut.
She found nothing creepy about this guy until there was a good chance you'd find out about their "friendship."
"I'd laugh in my wife's face if she came to me with these exact details. Now if she had told dude to stop and he didn't, then I'd step in.
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You'd laugh in your HUSBAND's face, ****it.
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03-08-2022, 01:36 PM
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OP is screwed.
A shoulder to cry on becomes a d!ck to ride on.
And if you tell your wife she cant talk to that dude no more, she will be even more willing to talk to him. And when she does talk to him, her first thing is to complain about OP. Then see first point.
A shoulder to cry on becomes a d!ck to ride on.
And if you tell your wife she cant talk to that dude no more, she will be even more willing to talk to him. And when she does talk to him, her first thing is to complain about OP. Then see first point.
03-08-2022, 01:37 PM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
BRO, I've been married 15 yrs, married extremely young. The fact that you are making excuses for this behavior is not a good sign> Your wife should have shut this down from the start, and you haven't portrayed yourself as a protector/provider which is part of the reason why it has gone on.Thread has derailed....as expected. I guess at least I brought some life back to the misc.
Just lol at some of these responses though, it's like some of you have never been in a relationship with someone you can trust......but I hope one day you get there....but what did I expect after all this is The Misc and it hasn't disappointed. I'm glad that some of you can make these outlandish assumptions from a few sentences that I've written to describe the situation and have turned this into much more than it actually is.
I'm not scared, I'm not getting cuked, Im not threatened, blah blah blah
All I wanted were a few suggestions on how to handle this situation like an adult....which as a reminder was 5-6 innocent interaction between my awkward/overly nice wife and some creeper who cant read social ques, without making things weird at the only viable gym in our city or coming off like Im some insecure meathead making something out of nothing or putting us in a situation where this guy gets worse. 10 years ago I know how I would have handled this, but in my mid 30's with a career, responsibilities and a much more mature mindset, that's not an option.
Thanks to those who understand real life relationships and provided level headed, legit responses .....and thanks for the laughs to those who cant even fathom the idea of a stable relationship.
Just lol at some of these responses though, it's like some of you have never been in a relationship with someone you can trust......but I hope one day you get there....but what did I expect after all this is The Misc and it hasn't disappointed. I'm glad that some of you can make these outlandish assumptions from a few sentences that I've written to describe the situation and have turned this into much more than it actually is.
I'm not scared, I'm not getting cuked, Im not threatened, blah blah blah
All I wanted were a few suggestions on how to handle this situation like an adult....which as a reminder was 5-6 innocent interaction between my awkward/overly nice wife and some creeper who cant read social ques, without making things weird at the only viable gym in our city or coming off like Im some insecure meathead making something out of nothing or putting us in a situation where this guy gets worse. 10 years ago I know how I would have handled this, but in my mid 30's with a career, responsibilities and a much more mature mindset, that's not an option.
Thanks to those who understand real life relationships and provided level headed, legit responses .....and thanks for the laughs to those who cant even fathom the idea of a stable relationship.
03-08-2022, 01:38 PM
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
Jfl, women have a lifetime of exp rejecting men, specially women with IG.Ignore the typical misc drivel about what it means if your lady doesn't shut him down ditectly. It's understandable if a woman feels uncomfortable outright rejecting a guy publicly, especially if the woman is normally shy/introverted/unsettled by the person talking to him. It can be intimidating. Replying neutrally as she did seems like a normal response given the situation.
It seems like it has been said multiple times but I will reiterate... I think the best course of action is approaching him yourself individually and calmly explaining it ain't cool.
It seems like it has been said multiple times but I will reiterate... I think the best course of action is approaching him yourself individually and calmly explaining it ain't cool.
Op, what kind of pics does she post on IG? Anything more than couple pics, pics of her pets or coffee and jfl. Insta is an image platform to show off your goods, is she showing off her goods?
Also terrible advice asking him to get involved. Sounds very insecure. It is up to the wife to reject the men, not her husband to reject them on her behalf. The only times a man rejects men on their wife’s behalf are when they’re insecure and they’re usually insecure because their wife has never given them a reason to be secure, I.e shutting down other men cold if they try to make a move.
03-08-2022, 01:38 PM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
You trust a woman who doesn't know how to reject advances?Thread has derailed....as expected. I guess at least I brought some life back to the misc.
Just lol at some of these responses though, it's like some of you have never been in a relationship with someone you can trust......but I hope one day you get there....but what did I expect after all this is The Misc and it hasn't disappointed. I'm glad that some of you can make these outlandish assumptions from a few sentences that I've written to describe the situation and have turned this into much more than it actually is.
I'm not scared, I'm not getting cuked, Im not threatened, blah blah blah
All I wanted were a few suggestions on how to handle this situation like an adult....which as a reminder was 5-6 innocent interaction between my awkward/overly nice wife and some creeper who cant read social ques, without making things weird at the only viable gym in our city or coming off like Im some insecure meathead making something out of nothing or putting us in a situation where this guy gets worse. 10 years ago I know how I would have handled this, but in my mid 30's with a career, responsibilities and a much more mature mindset, that's not an option.
Thanks to those who understand real life relationships and provided level headed, legit responses .....and thanks for the laughs to those who cant even fathom the idea of a stable relationship.
...She gave him her IG b/c she was caught off guard and didn't know what else to say...it's private and she's not going to accept the request.....Which will lead into him asking why and is where she can make her stand and tell him off.
Just lol at some of these responses though, it's like some of you have never been in a relationship with someone you can trust......but I hope one day you get there....but what did I expect after all this is The Misc and it hasn't disappointed. I'm glad that some of you can make these outlandish assumptions from a few sentences that I've written to describe the situation and have turned this into much more than it actually is.
I'm not scared, I'm not getting cuked, Im not threatened, blah blah blah
All I wanted were a few suggestions on how to handle this situation like an adult....which as a reminder was 5-6 innocent interaction between my awkward/overly nice wife and some creeper who cant read social ques, without making things weird at the only viable gym in our city or coming off like Im some insecure meathead making something out of nothing or putting us in a situation where this guy gets worse. 10 years ago I know how I would have handled this, but in my mid 30's with a career, responsibilities and a much more mature mindset, that's not an option.
Thanks to those who understand real life relationships and provided level headed, legit responses .....and thanks for the laughs to those who cant even fathom the idea of a stable relationship.
...She gave him her IG b/c she was caught off guard and didn't know what else to say...it's private and she's not going to accept the request.....Which will lead into him asking why and is where she can make her stand and tell him off.
If it's 5/6 INNOCENT interactions, why the fuk is this thread necessary? Why do you have to do anything at all?
You're contracting yourself.
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03-08-2022, 01:40 PM
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Originally Posted By havoc00⏩
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03-08-2022, 01:50 PM
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Originally Posted By Paul
this. women in committed relationships would never entertain or even acknowledge a random gym guy's advances. 5-6 interactions and she's already giving out her IG.... imagine what the next 15-20 interactions will bringBRO, I've been married 15 yrs, married extremely young. The fact that you are making excuses for this behavior is not a good sign> Your wife should have shut this down from the start, and you haven't portrayed yourself as a protector/provider which is part of the reason why it has gone on.
makes me wonder if OP has ever been in a relationship with someone he can trust, because her actions arent trust worthy at all
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03-08-2022, 01:51 PM
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Dude, your job as a husband is to step in and deal with the situation if he keeps persisting AFTER she has done her job and shut this guy down.
You've got bigger problems that have nothing to do with this specific guy. Ded fkn srs.
Not trying to be an ass...I am old and have had lots of experience with broads in my life. She has put you in a really dumb fukkin position here....if you approach this guy, he will rightfully tell you "her and I speak all the time...she even gave me her Insta." You are going to FOREVER be an insecure pha99ot tot his guy who will KNOW you are threatened by his dominance, since your wife isn't complaining to him, YOU are.
Talk to this guy if you want to in this specific case, but understand that you will be walking away from that convo with him knowing he owns you. Again, not trying to be an ass, that is just how guys are.
But without question, talk to her about it. Tell her to get her sh*t together so she doesn't keep lowering your status every time you are in a room with other men. Call that immature if you want, but as long as you have a functioning cawk and balls, you are always in direct competition with every other man within eyesight of you...don't allow your wife to be the reason they have one up on you.
You've got bigger problems that have nothing to do with this specific guy. Ded fkn srs.
Not trying to be an ass...I am old and have had lots of experience with broads in my life. She has put you in a really dumb fukkin position here....if you approach this guy, he will rightfully tell you "her and I speak all the time...she even gave me her Insta." You are going to FOREVER be an insecure pha99ot tot his guy who will KNOW you are threatened by his dominance, since your wife isn't complaining to him, YOU are.
Talk to this guy if you want to in this specific case, but understand that you will be walking away from that convo with him knowing he owns you. Again, not trying to be an ass, that is just how guys are.
But without question, talk to her about it. Tell her to get her sh*t together so she doesn't keep lowering your status every time you are in a room with other men. Call that immature if you want, but as long as you have a functioning cawk and balls, you are always in direct competition with every other man within eyesight of you...don't allow your wife to be the reason they have one up on you.
03-08-2022, 01:51 PM
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Originally Posted By leafs43⏩
Where did you get an indication that we're in distress.OP is screwed.
A shoulder to cry on becomes a d!ck to ride on.
And if you tell your wife she cant talk to that dude no more, she will be even more willing to talk to him. And when she does talk to him, her first thing is to complain about OP. Then see first point.
A shoulder to cry on becomes a d!ck to ride on.
And if you tell your wife she cant talk to that dude no more, she will be even more willing to talk to him. And when she does talk to him, her first thing is to complain about OP. Then see first point.
and it's not 1950.....if I felt that I needed to tell my wife who she could and couldn't talk to, I wouldn't have married her.
Originally Posted By Paul
What behavior? Being a normal human and speaking to another human when spoken to?BRO, I've been married 15 yrs, married extremely young. The fact that you are making excuses for this behavior is not a good sign> Your wife should have shut this down from the start, and you haven't portrayed yourself as a protector/provider which is part of the reason why it has gone on.
Chit didn't get weird until he asked for her IG yesterday.
Originally Posted By plsmire⏩
Last pic she posted was her and her mom on her mom's bday which was 3 weeks ago. And, no......90% of the pics over that last 9 years are with me in the, 5% are of our dog and the rest are of things/places.Jfl, women have a lifetime of exp rejecting men, specially women with IG.
Op, what kind of pics does she post on IG? Anything more than couple pics, pics of her pets or coffee and jfl. Insta is an image platform to show off your goods, is she showing off her goods?
Also terrible advice asking him to get involved. Sounds very insecure. It is up to the wife to reject the men, not her husband to reject them on her behalf. The only times a man rejects men on their wife’s behalf are when they’re insecure and they’re usually insecure because their wife has never given them a reason to be secure, I.e shutting down other men cold if they try to make a move.
Op, what kind of pics does she post on IG? Anything more than couple pics, pics of her pets or coffee and jfl. Insta is an image platform to show off your goods, is she showing off her goods?
Also terrible advice asking him to get involved. Sounds very insecure. It is up to the wife to reject the men, not her husband to reject them on her behalf. The only times a man rejects men on their wife’s behalf are when they’re insecure and they’re usually insecure because their wife has never given them a reason to be secure, I.e shutting down other men cold if they try to make a move.
Originally Posted By HayZues
I've only been entertaining the idea of getting involved since last night when she told me he asked for her IG, other than that she's just said he's weirding her out, not getting it when she clearly acts like she doesn't want to talk to him and now that he's done that, she said she's uncomfortable knowing he's going to be at the gym/grocery store now.You trust a woman who doesn't know how to reject advances?
If it's 5/6 INNOCENT interactions, why the fuk is this thread necessary? Why do you have to do anything at all?
You're contracting yourself.
If it's 5/6 INNOCENT interactions, why the fuk is this thread necessary? Why do you have to do anything at all?
You're contracting yourself.
Up until that point, it's just been innocent/annoying small talk.
03-08-2022, 01:53 PM
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Originally Posted By Cleveland33⏩
the mature way srswhen you are there with her, you two should approach him together. Make it friendly. He'll lose interest
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
If it would've been a homeless crackhead, she wouldn't have given him her IG, so it's not the reason she was intimidated enough I guess.Ignore the typical misc drivel about what it means if your lady doesn't shut him down ditectly. It's understandable if a woman feels uncomfortable outright rejecting a guy publicly, especially if the woman is normally shy/introverted/unsettled by the person talking to him. It can be intimidating. Replying neutrally as she did seems like a normal response given the situation.
It seems like it has been said multiple times but I will reiterate... I think the best course of action is approaching him yourself individually and calmly explaining it ain't cool.
It seems like it has been said multiple times but I will reiterate... I think the best course of action is approaching him yourself individually and calmly explaining it ain't cool.
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
This. And maybe introduce you next time.Womens "discomfort" make men do stupid things. She's an adult, she needs to flat out tell him shes married and uninterested
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
Well taking that all at face value, there is really nothing to do. Is your wife new to the gym? I've been a memeber at 10+ gyms in 15+ years. I've had dozens of akward and unwanted interactions.Where did you get an indication that we're in distress.
and it's not 1950.....if I felt that I needed to tell my wife who she could and couldn't talk to, I wouldn't have married her.
What behavior? Being a normal human and speaking to another human when spoken to?
Chit didn't get weird until he asked for her IG yesterday.
Last pic she posted was her and her mom on her mom's bday which was 3 weeks ago. And, no......90% of the pics over that last 9 years are with me in the, 5% are of our dog and the rest are of things/places.
I've only been entertaining the idea of getting involved since last night when she told me he asked for her IG, other than that she's just said he's weirding her out, not getting it when she clearly acts like she doesn't want to talk to him and now that he's done that, she said she's uncomfortable knowing he's going to be at the gym/grocery store now.
Up until that point, it's just been innocent/annoying small talk.
and it's not 1950.....if I felt that I needed to tell my wife who she could and couldn't talk to, I wouldn't have married her.
What behavior? Being a normal human and speaking to another human when spoken to?
Chit didn't get weird until he asked for her IG yesterday.
Last pic she posted was her and her mom on her mom's bday which was 3 weeks ago. And, no......90% of the pics over that last 9 years are with me in the, 5% are of our dog and the rest are of things/places.
I've only been entertaining the idea of getting involved since last night when she told me he asked for her IG, other than that she's just said he's weirding her out, not getting it when she clearly acts like she doesn't want to talk to him and now that he's done that, she said she's uncomfortable knowing he's going to be at the gym/grocery store now.
Up until that point, it's just been innocent/annoying small talk.
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I had a situation very similar to this about 10 years ago when my wife and I just got married, She was going back to school to upgrade some courses for career advancement. BBC in her class starts normal chat at first and then he asked if she was single etc and she told him married ,thanks but not interested. He became more aggressive after she told him not interested in the following days and started with the usually BBC stuff " that because I was white I couldn't satisfy her as much as he could " etc etc . She asked him to leave her alone and he didn't. She told me about it that night at dinner and she wasn't looking forward to going back to school the next day and dealing with him. I dropped her off at school the next day and asked her to show me what he looked like. That night I went back to school when she thought I was at the gym and waited for his class to finish and followed him from the school about a block or so . I introduced myself to him and explained what was about to happen and then starting tomorrow at school he would never talk to her or even look at her again. I beat the living **** out of him and went home that night. The following day I asked my wife how school was and if the guy bothered her again, she told me he wasn't in class so it was a peaceful day .The guy ended up dropping out of class and my wife never had to deal with him again. I never told my wife that story either , till this day she has no clue it ever happened.
Bottom line OP sometimes thats the only way to deal with a problem. The guy knows you exist and continues to disrespect you and your wife.
Bottom line OP sometimes thats the only way to deal with a problem. The guy knows you exist and continues to disrespect you and your wife.
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Originally Posted By Spazzzzy⏩
the amount of times i've had girls say that i'm a fukboy still want to fuk me is so high that it's hard to believeSloots gon sloot
If a girl doesnt like a guy she says fuk off creep or "I'm married". If he keeps approaching she then speaks to gym management and he gets his membership revoked.
This isn't 1950.
Your wife loves the attention and is talking to you about it to see how you react. Recognise it for what it is.
If a girl doesnt like a guy she says fuk off creep or "I'm married". If he keeps approaching she then speaks to gym management and he gets his membership revoked.
This isn't 1950.
Your wife loves the attention and is talking to you about it to see how you react. Recognise it for what it is.
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03-08-2022, 02:01 PM
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Originally Posted By HayZues
We've been going to this gym for 2 years....he's relatively new (2-3 months), or at least is now coming at the same time we do.Well taking that all at face value, there is really nothing to do. Is your wife new to the gym? I've been a memeber at 10+ gyms in 15+ years. I've had dozens of akward and unwanted interactions.
03-08-2022, 02:09 PM
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra⏩
And his wife has found a wiener.It sounds like you've found a winner.
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03-08-2022, 02:10 PM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
brah the truth is your wife is a grown women who has to learn how to deal with gym creepers - she's probably a people pleaser and wants to be liked by everybody, but truth is that is just a form of manipulation. She has to learn the life skill known as discernment.We've been going to this gym for 2 years....he's relatively new (2-3 months), or at least is now coming at the same time we do.
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03-08-2022, 02:14 PM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
So after 7 pages of suggestions what is the plan, man!?We've been going to this gym for 2 years....he's relatively new (2-3 months), or at least is now coming at the same time we do.
What ya gonna do and when?
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03-08-2022, 02:18 PM
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#176
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Originally Posted By x-trainer
I've only got 4 bud.So after 7 pages of suggestions what is the plan, man!?
What ya gonna do and when?
What ya gonna do and when?
Let her clean up her own mess....and if she doesn't, apparently I have to divorce her.
03-08-2022, 02:19 PM
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My wife is hot so I've had to deal with this before. You have a plethora of options:
1. Go to a different gym - beta
2. Go to the same gym at a different time - beta
3. Tell him something like "Hey man - my wife told me that you're making her uncomfortable and I don't want to make this a bigger deal than it needs to be. So if you could leave her alone from here on out, that would be great" - Alpha
One thing I know for sure...if you confront him and tell him to stop, it makes you the alpha male in the situation and your wife will absolutely love it even if she pretends she doesn't. You can be nice about it, but also authoritative. Then grab her tits/ass while he's watching. Women are hard-wired to be attracted to the alpha. Just handle that **** like a man and bang her brains out that night for max gainz.
Usually asking does the trick. Occasionally it doesn't. I've had to manhandle a couple drunk dudes who touched my wife after she told them to stop. The most recent instance was last summer at Cheyanne Frontier Days. Drunk dude grabbed her, put his arm around her, and started to walk off. She told him to stop and he didn't. So I grabbed his arm, twisted it behind his back, and shoved him on the ground lol.
1. Go to a different gym - beta
2. Go to the same gym at a different time - beta
3. Tell him something like "Hey man - my wife told me that you're making her uncomfortable and I don't want to make this a bigger deal than it needs to be. So if you could leave her alone from here on out, that would be great" - Alpha
One thing I know for sure...if you confront him and tell him to stop, it makes you the alpha male in the situation and your wife will absolutely love it even if she pretends she doesn't. You can be nice about it, but also authoritative. Then grab her tits/ass while he's watching. Women are hard-wired to be attracted to the alpha. Just handle that **** like a man and bang her brains out that night for max gainz.
Usually asking does the trick. Occasionally it doesn't. I've had to manhandle a couple drunk dudes who touched my wife after she told them to stop. The most recent instance was last summer at Cheyanne Frontier Days. Drunk dude grabbed her, put his arm around her, and started to walk off. She told him to stop and he didn't. So I grabbed his arm, twisted it behind his back, and shoved him on the ground lol.
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03-08-2022, 02:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Lefticle⏩
Absolutely false...an "alpha" will direct his wife to deal with this the way she should have. Her manipulating him into cleaning up after her will make her see him as anything but "alpha". Men lead, not follow.One thing I know for sure...if you confront him and tell him to stop, it makes you the alpha male in the situation and your wife will absolutely love it even if she pretends she doesn't. You can be nice about it, but also alpha and stern. Women are hard-wired to be attracted to the alpha. Just handle that **** like a man and bang her brains out that night for max gainz.
03-08-2022, 02:25 PM
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#179
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
Using a wild hypothetical scenario as a counterpoint. Strong.If it would've been a homeless crackhead, she wouldn't have given him her IG, so it's not the reason she was intimidated enough I guess.
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03-08-2022, 02:25 PM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
fixedChit didn't get weird until she willingly gave him her IG yesterday.
she just opened the door for him to keep pursuing her
does your wife also have tatts op? time for a divorce
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