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Thread: How to handle (like an adult) dude from gym making my wife uncomfortable SRS

post 1657575643 03-08-2022, 03:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
No he shouldn’t

But random clearly knows she’s married and is targeting her when she’s alone, so he doesn’t care.

And no she shouldn’t have given out contact details

But you really don’t get how unnerving approaches can be, and how we are taught from an early fukken age not to excacerbate, antagonise or downright say no because stranger danger has a different vibe when you’re significantly weaker
Regarding the bolded, I agree. But I wouldn't really hold it against her for the reasons you've stated. Sometimes people do unsmart things when they're caught off guard. I've certainly done things I wish I could have back. Anyway she told her husband right away, it's not like she's trying to hide things.
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post 1657575713 03-08-2022, 03:09 PM
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post 1657575813 03-08-2022, 03:11 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
You fellas as so inconsistent

If a husband can’t step in when his wife asks him to is he even a man?

And I’m ballsy as fuk but dealing with randoms is never cut and dried and is never easy

Shut em down too hard and you end up being abused

See miscer incel threads ad nauseum
It's not a random, it's some gym cutie she knows and wanted to give her IG to and told her hubby to see how he'd react.

But strangers..yeah never be mean because I know someone who got punched in the face.
post 1657575903 03-08-2022, 03:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Btw op if your wife is “extraverted” and chatting up randos in the gym and who knows where else that is not a good thing.

She is married and doesn’t need to talk to other men there. If she gives them a death stare instead of being so open and so chatty then they won’t approach her either.

I think that probably works 95% of the time. Some men are just oblivious, though, and some just don't care.
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post 1657575923 03-08-2022, 03:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
It's not a random, it's some gym cutie she knows and wanted to give her IG to and told her hubby to see how he'd react.

But strangers..yeah never be mean because I know someone who got punched in the face.
Sloot confirms sloot slooting.
post 1657576013 03-08-2022, 03:13 PM
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lol...this is the price you kunts pay for marrying a westernized woman
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post 1657576033 03-08-2022, 03:13 PM
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Kinda LOLing at this rollercoaster thread.

Thanks OP.
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post 1657576113 03-08-2022, 03:14 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
Womens "discomfort" make men do stupid things. She's an adult, she needs to flat out tell him shes married and uninterested
This.
post 1657576143 03-08-2022, 03:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
It's not a random, it's some gym cutie she knows and wanted to give her IG to and told her hubby to see how he'd react.

But strangers..yeah never be mean because I know someone who got punched in the face.
A gym cutie eh?

Yeah I had some random back me up against a wall cos he didn’t like being ignored
post 1657576163 03-08-2022, 03:15 PM
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post 1657576183 03-08-2022, 03:15 PM
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OPs getting cucked and doesn't even realize.
post 1657576353 03-08-2022, 03:18 PM
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Originally Posted By TomWanks⏩
Sloot confirms sloot slooting.
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post 1657576433 03-08-2022, 03:19 PM
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Can't believe I'm agreeing with Silencespeaks in a thread
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post 1657576543 03-08-2022, 03:20 PM
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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
Can't believe I'm agreeing with Silencespeaks in a thread
Why wouldn’t you? she posts miscer memes and has a naked butt avi
post 1657576663 03-08-2022, 03:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Why wouldn’t you? she posts miscer memes and has a naked butt avi
I have all avis turned off. I just hope op handles this situation correctly
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post 1657576813 03-08-2022, 03:24 PM
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She should’ve NEVER given this guy her insta. I wouldn’t really be cool with that regardless of the excuse tbh. It’s not even insecurity, it’s just disrespectful and sends the wrong message (or the right one depending). Everyone under 70 knows why members of the opposite sex ask for socials. It’s obvious from both parties and he 100% thinks she wants him behind your back op. That’s just the honest truth of the situation. No way around it. I’d tell my wife that’s the last time it happens and if she doesn’t shut it down then she can make him her 2nd husband. I hate sloot games.
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post 1657576973 03-08-2022, 03:28 PM
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Why didn't she just say "I don't have an Instagram" or "I don't use Instagram at all" and lie, at the very least?
In my experience MOST women are sketchy about this sh!t. They play coy to gauge how you react but in reality they love the attention. Drove me up the wall with one particular ex.
post 1657577003 03-08-2022, 03:28 PM
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she shouldn't have given her IG
she should have turned him down and made it clear she's taken.
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post 1657577023 03-08-2022, 03:29 PM
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How hard is it to just bluntly tell the creeper "Hi, I'm John, Jane's husband. Not going to make this a big deal, but you are making Jane uncomfortable with talking to her and asking for her IG. I don't know you or your intentions, but you are to stop all contact with my wife, period. We cool?"
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post 1657577133 03-08-2022, 03:31 PM
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Originally Posted By akmerle⏩
How hard is it to just bluntly tell the creeper "Hi, I'm John, Jane's husband. Not going to make this a big deal, but you are making Jane uncomfortable with talking to her and asking for her IG. I don't know you or your intentions, but you are to stop all contact with my wife, period. We cool?"
Some broads value attention more than marriage
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post 1657577153 03-08-2022, 03:31 PM
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Originally Posted By akmerle⏩
How hard is it to just bluntly tell the creeper "Hi, I'm John, Jane's husband. Not going to make this a big deal, but you are making Jane uncomfortable with talking to her and asking for her IG. I don't know you or your intentions, but you are to stop all contact with my wife, period. We cool?"
Op think's that's a felony and will jeopardize his job. He's a mature guy and all.
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post 1657577203 03-08-2022, 03:32 PM
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the IG thing was weird, tbh.
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post 1657577313 03-08-2022, 03:33 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
No he shouldn’t

But random clearly knows she’s married and is targeting her when she’s alone, so he doesn’t care.

And no she shouldn’t have given out contact details

But you really don’t get how unnerving approaches can be, and how we are taught from an early fukken age not to excacerbate, antagonise or downright say no because stranger danger has a different vibe when you’re significantly weaker
I am a very small woman and I have no problem shutting someone down when I'm not interested/involved with someone. I'm not afraid to tell some rando that I'm not available.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah and the 5% that do approach you can just react cold as ice instead of being chatty and extraverted.They will get the hint real quick.
Yes.
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post 1657577383 03-08-2022, 03:34 PM
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Thanks but I'm not interested, continues working out and puts you on ignore IRL.

They get the message.
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post 1657577453 03-08-2022, 03:35 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I am a very small woman and I have no problem shutting someone down when I'm not interested/involved with someone. I'm not afraid to tell some rando that I'm not available.
This^^
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post 1657577473 03-08-2022, 03:35 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I am a very small woman and I have no problem shutting someone down when I'm not interested/involved with someone. I'm not afraid to tell some rando that I'm not available.
Everybody is different. Some people make it happen, others don't, for whatever reason. If they fall into the second category, the onus is on you. You can talk to her later.
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he's clapping her cheeks. serious.


she doesnt want to feel guilty so she's letting you know one piece at a time. and loves the attention from you both
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How would op's wife react if he gave her number to a woman with a big ass at the gym?
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Originally Posted By EagleOfWar⏩
She should’ve NEVER given this guy her insta. I wouldn’t really be cool with that regardless of the excuse tbh. It’s not even insecurity, it’s just disrespectful and sends the wrong message (or the right one depending). Everyone under 70 knows why members of the opposite sex ask for socials. It’s obvious from both parties and he 100% thinks she wants him behind your back op. That’s just the honest truth of the situation. No way around it. I’d tell my wife that’s the last time it happens and if she doesn’t shut it down then she can make him her 2nd husband. I hate sloot games.
This guy speaks the truth. OP, you should be more worried about your broad than this other guy.
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