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Thread: How to handle (like an adult) dude from gym making my wife uncomfortable SRS

post 1657643273 03-09-2022, 02:15 PM
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honestly. 1 of 2 things are happening
1. she wants to see you go alpha on this dude. because it will make her feel excited by you.
2. shes enjoying talking to this dude and flirting with him, shes telling you hes making her uncomfortable that way when word gets back to you that they are talking a lot she has a prearranged excuse.

she gave this dude her insta for a reason. just because she didn't accept his request and they don't show up as friends doesn't mean they cant message each other on there, trade pics, ext.
pretty good chance shes already been sent a dick pic.

step one, tell her you dont expect to see her talking to him again.
step two, politely tell him you'd appreciate it if he didn't talk to your wife when you are not present. if he gives you the least bit of push back i would assume the worst.

Good luck friend.
post 1657643373 03-09-2022, 02:17 PM
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Originally Posted By jeshelton⏩
Hey OP this is 9 pages deep where the fuk are you?
I'm here.

This thread has gone off to take a life of it's own and I'm tired of people trying to read between the lines and make this something that it's not. Seems like a few poster's get it but the rest are just ridiculous and seem to have real issues with women/relationships. Again, as said before....this is the misc, I know the sentiment towards women and I knew that going into this thread, so no real surprise.

Wife asked me last night "what should I say to him when he asks why I haven't accepted his IG request" (obviously her IG is private)....and I told her to be straight with him and tell him she's not comfortable with it and that she'd appreciate if he just left her alone and we'd go from there. If you tell him that and he continues, then I'll step in.

She's on her way home right because she wants to walk in the gym together so he doesn't even approach her today, so she doesn't have to talk to him. I told her we can ride together, but you need to go in first so you can take care of it.
post 1657643383 03-09-2022, 02:17 PM
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Originally Posted By twovalvekid⏩
Not sure he thinks the dude is a cuck if he goes up to the wifey whilst hubby aint around. He's obviously paying attention, but never know.

Solid strategy though. Have wife approach and you provide some close watch team backup and step in if need be. However, like i said above and a few pages back, she could be getting low key stranger danger vibes, wants to avoid stranger danger, and is reaching out for help. If your wife is reaching out for help and your response is "go be a fukking adult babe"....eh
Did you read the OP?

I think not.
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post 1657643393 03-09-2022, 02:17 PM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
"I didn't know what to do so I told him what is was"
Not tryna be a dik OP, but hmmm

Just like there’s a big difference between “sorry I have a boyfriend” and saying “I have a boyfriend”, what your girl did kinda goes along those lines. Maybe I’m reaching, but I call a little sus,
post 1657643513 03-09-2022, 02:19 PM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
I'm here.

This thread has gone off to take a life of it's own and I'm tired of people trying to read between the lines and make this something that it's not. Seems like a few poster's get it but the rest are just ridiculous and seem to have real issues with women/relationships. Again, as said before....this is the misc, I know the sentiment towards women and I knew that going into this thread, so no real surprise.

Wife asked me last night "what should I say to him when he asks why I haven't accepted his IG request" (obviously her IG is private)....andI told her to be straight with him and tell him she's not comfortable with it and that she'd appreciate if he just left her alone and we'd go from there. If you tell him that and he continues, then I'll step in.

She's on her way home right because she wants to walk in the gym together so he doesn't even approach her today, so she doesn't have to talk to him. I told her we can ride together, but you need to go in first so you can take care of it.
there it is.
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post 1657643753 03-09-2022, 02:22 PM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
I'm here.

This thread has gone off to take a life of it's own and I'm tired of people trying to read between the lines and make this something that it's not. Seems like a few poster's get it but the rest are just ridiculous and seem to have real issues with women/relationships. Again, as said before....this is the misc, I know the sentiment towards women and I knew that going into this thread, so no real surprise.

Wife asked me last night "what should I say to him when he asks why I haven't accepted his IG request" (obviously her IG is private)....and I told her to be straight with him and tell him she's not comfortable with it and that she'd appreciate if he just left her alone and we'd go from there. If you tell him that and he continues, then I'll step in.

She's on her way home right because she wants to walk in the gym together so he doesn't even approach her today, so she doesn't have to talk to him. I told her we can ride together, but you need to go in first so you can take care of it.
OP, reading between the lines in this context is you trying to add all this non-existent "pressure" your massa feels because another man is talking to her. The people telling you she's slooting are only reading the facts of the matter with zero extrapolation and as I've mentioned before, misc is batting 1.000 on sloot matters for nearly two decades.
post 1657643863 03-09-2022, 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
I'm here.

This thread has gone off to take a life of it's own and I'm tired of people trying to read between the lines and make this something that it's not. Seems like a few poster's get it but the rest are just ridiculous and seem to have real issues with women/relationships. Again, as said before....this is the misc, I know the sentiment towards women and I knew that going into this thread, so no real surprise.

Wife asked me last night "what should I say to him when he asks why I haven't accepted his IG request" (obviously her IG is private)....and I told her to be straight with him and tell him she's not comfortable with it and that she'd appreciate if he just left her alone and we'd go from there. If you tell him that and he continues, then I'll step in.

She's on her way home right because she wants to walk in the gym together so he doesn't even approach her today, so she doesn't have to talk to him. I told her we can ride together, but you need to go in first so you can take care of it.
Just lol at planning your schedule around this guy.
post 1657643873 03-09-2022, 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted By iabs⏩
Did you read the OP?

I think not.
Right...totally didnt read the OP. You got me there.
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post 1657643953 03-09-2022, 02:25 PM
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post 1657644083 03-09-2022, 02:27 PM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
I.and I told her to be straight with him and tell him she's not comfortable with it and that she'd appreciate if he just left her alone and we'd go from there. If you tell him that and he continues, then I'll step in.
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wow so you did learn a lesson. Sounds like the misc steered you in the right direction to me.
post 1657644173 03-09-2022, 02:28 PM
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post 1657644413 03-09-2022, 02:34 PM
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post 1657644723 03-09-2022, 02:39 PM
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Thread is too deep now.. but has Opie addressed why his Wife gave out her social media to a guy she claims is being a creep? Giving out your Social media, whether it is FB, IG, ect.. is the equivalent of her giving her number out to a random guy. which if it makes me insecure whatever. but that **** is crossing a line.
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post 1657651373 03-09-2022, 04:35 PM
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Wife asked me last night "what should I say to him when he asks why I haven't accepted his IG request"


The fact that she has to ask you this is not a good sign. She should know damn well what to say.

Best of luck OP
post 1657658973 03-09-2022, 07:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Spazzzzy⏩
Sloots gon sloot


If a girl doesnt like a guy she says fuk off creep or "I'm married". If he keeps approaching she then speaks to gym management and he gets his membership revoked.


This isn't 1950.



Your wife loves the attention and is talking to you about it to see how you react. Recognise it for what it is.
Kinda this, my wife's response is usually, I'm married, and then a stern no.
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
I'm here.

This thread has gone off to take a life of it's own and I'm tired of people trying to read between the lines and make this something that it's not.Seems like a few poster's get it but the rest are just ridiculous and seem to have real issues with women/relationships.
or maybe some of us actually have real life experience in the matter and are trying to help u to open ur eyes to reality boyo
Again, as said before....this is the misc, I know the sentiment towards women and I knew that going into this thread, so no real surprise.

Wife asked me last night "what should I say to him when he asks why I haven't accepted his IG request" (obviously her IG is private)....and I told her to be straight with him and tell him she's not comfortable with it and that she'd appreciate if he just left her alone and we'd go from there. If you tell him that and he continues, then I'll step in.

She's on her way home right because she wants to walk in the gym together so he doesn't even approach her today, so she doesn't have to talk to him. I told her we can ride together, but you need to go in first so you can take care of it.
please tell me ur joking about the bold….. there is no way ur wife is this dumb or naive

It’s either that or she’s not dumb at all, knows exactly wtf she’s doing, and u are getting played

Either way, it’s a red flag and a no for me dawg
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post 1657671273 03-10-2022, 12:32 AM
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OP is in denial that his wife is fishing for attention from some random dude at the gym.
post 1657671603 03-10-2022, 12:48 AM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
and I told her to be straight with him and tell him she's not comfortable with it and that she'd appreciate if he just left her alone and we'd go from there. If you tell him that and he continues, then I'll step in.
wise, OP has redeemed himself. Best misc thread since ive been back tho srs
post 1657672013 03-10-2022, 01:05 AM
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Has someone made an aware thread yet? So much potential.

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post 1657672393 03-10-2022, 01:18 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
OP is in denial that his wife is fishing for attention from some random dude at the gym.
Even if this was the case its not that bad really. I fish for attention everytime i leave the house. Everybody does.
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Originally Posted By Sinan09400⏩
Has someone made an aware thread yet? So much potential.

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Ive seen like 3 yesterday lol
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Attention is the biggest insult on here, when it just means diddly squat
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Originally Posted By GayCumLord⏩
Ive seen like 3 yesterday lol
Damn missed those all. Gotta up my Misc game
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Originally Posted By Sinan09400⏩
Damn missed those all. Gotta up my Misc game
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not sure whom the 3rd was..
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Originally Posted By Paul
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not sure whom the 3rd was..
reallifealpha ded fkn srs

suprised roll bread still going. then again im bumping it with this post
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Originally Posted By Tuga88⏩
"he pulled his dik out and I didn't know what to do so I just sucked it" - OPs wife
This will be next weeks thread from OP lol
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