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post 1657872693 03-13-2022, 02:15 PM
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non-chad miscers, what your strategy on dating apps?

im so tired of always being the one carrying the conversations while most girls just replay to your question and never ask anything.
what can you do with that?


obviously its all come to the fact the most girls get 50 matches a day and alot of guys texting them, so unless your a chad - why would she put alot of effort?



so being a chad - obvious solution. but what can you do beside that?
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post 1657873333 03-13-2022, 02:28 PM
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Nothing. It’s over for you srs.

The best thing you can do is take new pictures. Take picture you usually see chads have. That’s the closest thing you’re going to get to having Chad tier photos in your profile knowing you’re not a Chad.
post 1657873423 03-13-2022, 02:31 PM
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post 1657873593 03-13-2022, 02:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
I just say hey or hello.



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post 1657873723 03-13-2022, 02:36 PM
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Focus irl. If your only way for attracting them is photos, your average guy is fcked. Also the text game holds me back back because my text game is miles better than my irl game.
post 1657873753 03-13-2022, 02:37 PM
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I have success on dating apps because I have social pics and my profile is kinda funny

For example my job is “customer satisfaction at fyre festival” so many girls have matched with me over that like literally hundreds have sent me messages commenting on my job
post 1657873863 03-13-2022, 02:39 PM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad
I have success on dating apps because I have social pics and my profile is kinda funny

For example my job is “customer satisfaction at fyre festival” so many girls have matched with me over that like literally hundreds have sent me messages commenting on my job
lol @ Fyre Festival
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post 1657874093 03-13-2022, 02:41 PM
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I say improve and retake pictures/looksmax if you're not getting the attention/engagement you want. If it doesn't work, try again.

Repeat until success or you decide it's no longer worth it.
post 1657874333 03-13-2022, 02:46 PM
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fukk having convos on tinder, just ask them out right away or almost right away. if they dont go for it on to the next one. but tbh Im a chad so not sure if this will work for you
post 1657874533 03-13-2022, 02:50 PM
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post 1657874813 03-13-2022, 02:55 PM
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post 1657874883 03-13-2022, 02:57 PM
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First off if you are not chad. You need to get in the mindset of chad. What will chad do, what will chad say. What will chad become.

Once you accomplish that, near cake walk from there.
post 1657875143 03-13-2022, 03:03 PM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad
I have success on dating apps because I have social pics and my profile is kinda funny

For example my job is “customer satisfaction at fyre festival” so many girls have matched with me over that like literally hundreds have sent me messages commenting on my job
This is the kind of stuff you need to do. Have a hook. Funny job, good profile pics. Stand out a bit, or at least enough for her to be interested enough to swipe.

I'm a personal trainer, do archery for fun, a cute dog and sing in a rock band. One of my female friends said all I need is a motorcycle and I have the ultimate dating profile for pretty much anyone.

Once you match, set up an in person meet ASAP. Don't message more than one basic conversation, maybe two at the most. And work on your text game.
post 1657876113 03-13-2022, 03:25 PM
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Chad doesn't get a real conversation out of them either, because they are incapable of one.

Chad just gets their panties off. And that's enough for him. He isn't looking for deep thoughts or profound philosophical ideas.

So don't sweat feeling like you are talking to a child, because mentally, you are.
post 1657876123 03-13-2022, 03:26 PM
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post 1657876193 03-13-2022, 03:28 PM
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post 1657876483 03-13-2022, 03:33 PM
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Originally Posted By MilkforBrains
Focus irl. If your only way for attracting them is photos, your average guy is fcked. Also the text game holds me back back because my text game is miles better than my irl game.
This sounds good in theory but in reality the average man is still better off using dating apps.

The problem most men have with women is actually encountering available women consistently, it’s far more efficient to use a dating app rather than maybe finding one at work or in a grocery store etc.
post 1657877403 03-13-2022, 03:51 PM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad
I have success on dating apps because I have social pics and my profile is kinda funny

For example my job is “customer satisfaction at fyre festival” so many girls have matched with me over that like literally hundreds have sent me messages commenting on my job
This is what most dudes aka saps and Schlubs don’t understand



You gotta master being aloof to win the dating app game, and flirting in general. You take your profile seriously aka “my goal is to help save the planet and reduce carbon emissions” you’ll look like a ****ggot , even to the liberal girls who say they care about that stuff


Funny cocky ******* game always works
post 1657877423 03-13-2022, 03:51 PM
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You don't need carry any conversation. You can approach and quickly sense how interested they are by how fast they respond and their efforts. Anyone who don't meet your standards you disregard.


I matched with my fiancé and we sent legit two or three messages back and forth before I deleted her because I didn't approve of her level of effort. Next time we matched a year alter she initiated the convo. Srs lol


The tactic might have been a bit too instant and harsh, but overall worked out so whatever
post 1657882613 03-13-2022, 05:39 PM
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thanks for the tips misc
about the pics - i already got the best pics i can have. in the end im average, not gonna fraud being chad lol.
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post 1657882773 03-13-2022, 05:42 PM
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most of yall are not that ugly, your pictures are probably atrocious though

anyways, unless you're good looking apps won't work for you

why not just make friends IRL and expand your social network/status? throwing **** at a wall(dating apps) and not building a social life/network is why you're failing
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post 1657884283 03-13-2022, 06:10 PM
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i'm just not going on apps until I looksmax.
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post 1657884483 03-13-2022, 06:15 PM
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very simple, but miscers don't wanna hear it

1. get matches, reup your account every 2 weeks
2. send one message, no talking or bs "hey lets meet up for a drink sometime"
3. follow up is the location, a location 5-10 minutes from your house. Coffee or walking in the park

-no reschedules get a time and date down
-no confirming dates beforehand
-if she's more than 5 minutes late leave
post 1657884513 03-13-2022, 06:16 PM
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Having handpicked pics that make you look better than you are
Fun/social pics
Travelling pics (girls love travelling)
Funny profile
Being tall

Not saying I slay but the girls I get online are similar attractiveness to what I pull irl when they are suppose to be worse
post 1657884533 03-13-2022, 06:16 PM
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Lower standards
Only respond to girls that message first
Only respond if you have something original to say based of their pics/bio
Get their Snapchat
Meet

* have interesting/social pics and avoid any that would be mistaken as a serial killer
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post 1657885183 03-13-2022, 06:28 PM
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Swipe on everyone, just message every single person whos not disgusting
eventually someone responds more than once and you just talk about normal sht
at a certain point, before the interest dies down, you try to meet in person
try not to give a fuk and escalate at some point to avoid friend zone and it should get you laid eventually

work out so you have some advantage over others and look aesthetic in some way at least
I think I naturally developed a good sense of humor and my gf cant stop laughing at everything I say. Def helps
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Originally Posted By SamIAm1892
First off if you are not chad. You need to get in the mindset of chad. What will chad do, what will chad say. What will chad become.

Once you accomplish that, near cake walk from there.
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