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post 1658044123 03-16-2022, 11:40 AM
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Being the only single guy in group of friends

Anyone else in this position? Pretty much all my mates are now in LTR's, some even already have kids or are engaged in there mid/late 20's yet I couldn't imagine ever settling down.

Meanwhile I pretty much live a completely different life to them sexually, full blown degenmaxxing smashing super hot HTC Brazilian whores and the occasional regular sloots and never seeing the same girl more than once while they're locked down with one partner.

We all meet up for drinks every so often and they never bring there gf's or else the whole crew roasts them for it.

I have no plans to change my lifestyle anytime soon as I enjoy my freedom too much and can't stick to just banging one girl. Tried to 'date' girls before but it never works out.

how long can I keep this up for?
post 1658044343 03-16-2022, 11:43 AM
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OP acting like paying for pussy is a good lifestyle. lol
post 1658044813 03-16-2022, 11:51 AM
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Originally Posted By 73ers⏩
OP acting like paying for pussy is a good lifestyle. lol
It is when you're smashing big booty 9/10's that suck and ride dink like a pornstar at a moments notice with zero effort or commitment involved. The adrenaline rush before hand makes it even better lol.

I still pull regular sloots every now and again but hookers are convenient for a quick smash and dash.
post 1658045043 03-16-2022, 11:56 AM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
Anyone else in this position? Pretty much all my mates are now in LTR's, some even already have kids or are engaged yet I couldn't imagine ever settling down.

I pretty much live a completely different life to them sexually, full blown degenmaxxing smashing super hot HTC Brazilian whores and the occasional regular sloots and never seeing the same girl more than once while they're locked down with one partner.

We all meet up for drinks every so often and they never bring there gf's or else the whole crew roasts them for it.

I have no plans to change my lifestyle anytime soon as I enjoy my freedom too much and can't stick to just banging one girl.

how long can I keep this up for?
You can keep it up for as long as you want to be miserable and unfulfilled. For some people that's for life.
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post 1658045103 03-16-2022, 11:57 AM
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post 1658045313 03-16-2022, 12:00 PM
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Your friends are in relationships because they want monogamy and commitment. You want to stay single so you can bang hookers.

I mean different people want different things. Hard to believe.
post 1658045393 03-16-2022, 12:02 PM
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if youre happy doing what youre doing keep doing it... why do you even give a fukc what others are saying about you ?
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post 1658046183 03-16-2022, 12:16 PM
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post 1658046533 03-16-2022, 12:25 PM
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Originally Posted By MEDITATE⏩
if youre happy doing what youre doing keep doing it... why do you even give a fukc what others are saying about you ?
I dont lol.

I've had people criticise my lifestyle IRL saying it's sad, that I need to settle down and find a gf but that's to be expected.

On the flip side I've also gotten praise, saying don't bother getting a gf as it's too much hassle/headache.
post 1658046623 03-16-2022, 12:28 PM
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I have 2 mates, 1 of them who is engaged and the other has never been on a date (srs). I wanna hang out with them + the fiance and my gf but I’d feel bad for the dateless brah
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post 1658046643 03-16-2022, 12:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
It is when you're smashing big booty 9/10's that suck and ride dink like a pornstar at a moments notice with zero effort or commitment involved. The adrenaline rush before hand makes it even better lol.

I still pull regular sloots every now and again but hookers are convenient for a quick smash and dash.
100% this, for me it's the convenience and guys don't pull those types at clubs, at least not the enhanced ones
post 1658046753 03-16-2022, 12:31 PM
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You just gotta find new friends. This same thing happened to me, and I still meet up with them 4-5 times a year for drinks, but I needed to make new friends with similar interests. It's not worth trying to pidgeonhole yourself into their group being a single guy, but there will be a point where they want to do things separate from their families and you can hang with them then.
post 1658046923 03-16-2022, 12:35 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironface⏩
I have 2 mates, 1 of them who is engaged and the other has never been on a date (srs). I wanna hang out with them + the fiance and my gf but I’d feel bad for the dateless brah
There's nothing worse than being the third wheel and hanging out with couples srs. I've done it before and it's honestly just soul destroying.

Save him the humiliation and just hang out without the girls unless he brings one along himself.
post 1658047133 03-16-2022, 12:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
There's nothing worse than being the third wheel and hanging out with couples srs. I've done it before and it's honestly just soul destroying.

Save him the humiliation and just hang out without the girls unless he brings one along himself.
Yep. The girls do everything they can to devalue single guys, and the guys are kind of forced to put up with it. I hung out with couples a couple times and immediately said that's not something I'll ever do again.
post 1658047143 03-16-2022, 12:39 PM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
There's nothing worse than being the third wheel and hanging out with couples srs. I've done it before and it's honestly just soul destroying.

Save him the humiliation and just hang out without the girls unless he brings one along himself.
Well, you have 2 choices:

1. Find a girlfriend or

2. Keep up with your playboy lifestyle.
post 1658047713 03-16-2022, 12:50 PM
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kinda in a reverse situation with my brother, im married and expecting a child in a few months. my wife is awesome, super cool down for anything, female version of me. we go almost everywhere together because we pair so well

my younger brother (one year younger) is like you, OP, lives in a high rise in the city, works all day, bangs young chicks all weekend. sends me pics of girls, different one almost every night (mostly from hinge/tinder), not a single girl over 25, maybe 22 and has no sign of slowing down.

we used to hang out every day and now its spotty per week/month. i wish he would find someone but he says when he turns 40 hes going to eastern europe and coming back with a 20 year old.
post 1658047773 03-16-2022, 12:51 PM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
Yep. The girls do everything they can to devalue single guys, and the guys are kind of forced to put up with it. I hung out with couples a couple times and immediately said that's not something I'll ever do again.
Yeah you're pretty much just tagging along either watching them all loved up or watching them argue over petty chit.

Never again.
post 1658047913 03-16-2022, 12:53 PM
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Just do whatever fulfills you. If this lifestyle does it, then keep it up.
post 1658048073 03-16-2022, 12:57 PM
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Originally Posted By 73ers⏩
OP acting like paying for pussy is a good lifestyle. lol
He really is. Dude is a full blown degenerate and wears it as a badge of honor

What the actual fuk
post 1658048093 03-16-2022, 12:58 PM
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My honest .02 on this:

I've been married to my wife for 6.5 years (been together about 7.5)

Sex is important but it's a few times a week (or more) thing that last anywehre from 10 minutes to half an hour (reality)

The rest of that time is spent discussing life, laughing about this or that, planning future projects, encouraging each other on hobbies and whatnot

Sex with 1 person for rest of your life is only miserable if you both don't truly love each other, otherwise it's pretty fukin incredible to both be of the same mindset and knowing this person truly wants you not just here but always...nothing beats that feeling...but not knocking 1 ight stands eithe ror anything just my perspective
post 1658048213 03-16-2022, 01:00 PM
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welcome to your 30's. If you're single past say 35, your tour is fully over. Everyone will have a 9 year old child by then and youll still be single living like a "slayer". Most people will automatically assume you are on dat dere ****ggy time. Employers also start to look down on you if you aren't a family man. Not saying you have to do it, but thats some of the things i have seen/experienced from single men and women my age.

Keep in mind, sex becomes less relavent as you age. Comfort, emotional connection, and a bond with someone is king when you're 50 +. Not saying it will or should stop, but its not going to be on the front of your mind like it is in your teens and 20s.
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
I dont lol.

I've had people criticise my lifestyle IRL saying it's sad, that I need to settle down and find a gf but that's to be expected.

On the flip side I've also gotten praise, saying don't bother getting a gf as it's too much hassle/headache.
Its not sad, its disgusting.

That someone willingly sticks his dink inside a hole that was previously filled with who knows how many diks in the same day, and kisses someone who previously kissed who knows how many and sucked who knows how many dinks in the same day... its just...disgusting...

I almost want to say slightly ghey...
post 1658049453 03-16-2022, 01:24 PM
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Originally Posted By BuildKing⏩
Its not sad, its disgusting.

That someone willingly sticks his dink inside a hole that was previously filled with who knows how many diks in the same day, and kisses someone who previously kissed who knows how many and sucked who knows how many dinks in the same day... its just...disgusting...

I almost want to say slightly ghey...
I'm pretty sure 100% of the girls you've had sex with, has fuked multiple other guy before you so I fail to see your point.

Most decent escorts, the ones who aren't street walking crackheads only see 1-3 guys a day at most.

They also don't work 24/7 365 days a year either. Many only do it for 1-2 months, take a 3-4 month break then rinse and repeat.
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
I'm pretty sure 100% of the girls you've had sex with, has fuked multiple other guy before you so I fail to see your point.

Most decent escorts, the ones who aren't street walking crackheads only see 1-3 guys a day at most.

They also don't work 24/7 365 days a year either. Many only do it for 1-2 months, take a 3-4 month break then rinse and repeat.
No I have never fked a girl that had sex with a guy before me IN THE SAME DAY, im pretty sure.

Even if they have only a few guys per day it still means the same, she had their dinks in her poosyy and mouth and now you put your dink and tongue in it... thats pretty disgusting and ghey
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Originally Posted By EnforcerOTF⏩
kinda in a reverse situation with my brother, im married and expecting a child in a few months. my wife is awesome, super cool down for anything, female version of me. we go almost everywhere together because we pair so well

my younger brother (one year younger) is like you, OP, lives in a high rise in the city, works all day, bangs young chicks all weekend. sends me pics of girls, different one almost every night (mostly from hinge/tinder), not a single girl over 25, maybe 22 and has no sign of slowing down.

we used to hang out every day and now its spotty per week/month. i wish he would find someone but he says when he turns 40 hes going to eastern europe and coming back with a 20 year old.
How'd you meet your wife, brother?
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OP acting like he's a big catch
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Originally Posted By NoWheyOut17⏩
How'd you meet your wife, brother?
Believe it or not, Hinge. We hit it off immediately, I knew from the first date I would marry her.
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Originally Posted By EnforcerOTF⏩
Believe it or not, Hinge. We hit it off immediately, I knew from the first date I would marry her.
Hinge used to be decent, now it's chit and can barely do anything unless you pay for it.
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yeah lol

friends are still in party mode(we are in 20's) and are settling for women that aren't even hot and don't do anything, no idea why

blows my mind

mates and I are hitting a festival later this month and I am the only single one lol, their girlfriends aren't even going with them, imagine that

gonna be the only one banging randoms
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