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post 1658233593 03-19-2022, 06:30 PM
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How to deal with clingy girls?

Seeing a girl currently who's giving me stage 5 clinger vibes

-cums multiple times during sex
-tells me she only feels comfortable around me
-tells me only I can make her cum
-wants me to cum on her face
-keeps talking about sexual chemistry
-told me about a time she left 50 missed calls on her exes phone


Etc. The sex is good but feel like I'm opening a can of worms. I have a big dick and am extremely good in bed (no brag) so maybe she just wants the dick but I dunno how to feel about clinginess
post 1658233743 03-19-2022, 06:34 PM
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post 1658234543 03-19-2022, 06:53 PM
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Originally Posted By topperstyle
Run
should i have a convo about how she feels
post 1658234973 03-19-2022, 07:02 PM
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post 1658235343 03-19-2022, 07:10 PM
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In on subtle brag thread
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Originally Posted By Obafemi1
In on subtle brag thread
if shes crazy, i dont want to have to deal with those problems
post 1658236393 03-19-2022, 07:37 PM
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Originally Posted By WantFatJohnson
Seeing a girl currently who's giving me stage 5 clinger vibes

-cums multiple times during sex
-tells me she only feels comfortable around me
-tells me only I can make her cum
-wants me to cum on her face
-keeps talking about sexual chemistry
-told me about a time she left 50 missed calls on her exes phone


Etc. The sex is good but feel like I'm opening a can of worms. I have a big dick and am extremely good in bed (no brag) so maybe she just wants the dick but I dunno how to feel about clinginess
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post 1658237613 03-19-2022, 08:03 PM
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Just show her this picture. I'm sure that she will take the next flight to North Carolina.

post 1658237973 03-19-2022, 08:13 PM
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post 1658247603 03-20-2022, 01:01 AM
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Bump
post 1658257433 03-20-2022, 08:39 AM
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bump until legit answers
post 1658257783 03-20-2022, 08:49 AM
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Originally Posted By Obafemi1
In on subtle brag thread
Subtle? lol.
OP - just be truthful. Tell her you'd rather have a fat johnson up your rear end and you have no interest in women.
post 1658258193 03-20-2022, 09:01 AM
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There's a playbook for this....

Never let her know where you live. Never bring her over. Have sex until things get too crazy, then slowly start adding some distance.
post 1658258203 03-20-2022, 09:01 AM
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Originally Posted By MegaSloot
Subtle? lol.
OP - just be truthful. Tell her you'd rather have a fat johnson up your rear end and you have no interest in women.
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50 missed calls is a sign of being a crazy ho
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Originally Posted By ChunkBuster
50 missed calls is a sign of being a crazy ho
she tells me she's changed since then. Was like 8 years ago and apparently she's matured
post 1658266533 03-20-2022, 12:39 PM
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You sure do start a lot of sex threads

Your last one sounded like you were uptight as hell, nice to see your gf actually orgasms
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Keep it going and don't change anything. If you see more signs that she's crazy then start being needy and clingy back to her, that's the safest way to get rid of these types srs
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Originally Posted By BabySuaz
Keep it going and don't change anything. If you see more signs that she's crazy then start being needy and clingy back to her, that's the safest way to get rid of these types srs
Sounds like that will backfire
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Originally Posted By Shortfuze
This. They often turn into stalkers. Had some sloot like this in the early 2000's and it took almost 2 years before she fukked off.
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Had this real clingy GF, she would want to talk on the phone for hours and hours and wanted to text 50+ times a day.

At some point I just told her, I'm not talking to you for more than 30 minutes a day, and not texting more than about 10 times a day.

She wanted to know why.

Basically I told her if we broke up and she was with some other dudes a couple months later I would be glad of all the time I didn't waste.

She was like OMG WTF WHY? I basically told her that's just something I learned over the years from previous ex-GFs, that they say all this and that forever, soulmates, blah blah, and when you break up they have a new BF in 2 months.

We broke up she had a new BF in less than 3 months. She broke up with him, had a new BF after that a couple months later, less than a year after that she was married to the guy.

Not a girl I would have wanted to marry, zero phucks given.
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Originally Posted By WantFatJohnson
Sounds like that will backfire
Only way it doesn't work is if you were wrong and she is actually sane and a normal girl. In that case then it's a win and you a good thing in your hands
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Originally Posted By multiplemiggs
This. They often turn into stalkers. Had some sloot like this in the early 2000's and it took almost 2 years before she fukked off.
She stalked for 2 years? Did you split up and she still stalked
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Originally Posted By WantFatJohnson
She stalked for 2 years? Did you split up and she still stalked
I never even got together with her in the first place. I already had a chick I was smashing that was lightyears hotter and had zero interest in fukking up a good thing for a sloot that looked like a side by side refrigerator with a horse face stuck on top.

Dumb sloot dumped her old man and thought I was going to take her and also look after her kid. I chatted with her a few times while I was waiting for her boyfriend to get back. Her BF and I were both in electronics and would swap parts and info back and forth so sometimes I'd run into her. Stupid young me never realized why the bitch was so chatty. My GF at the time said it sounds the bitch was into me. I didn't see it, but she was right.

Took a good year for her to slow down on trying to call daily and driving 20 miles out to my place so she could creepmaxx, and another year for her to fuk off totally.
This is after I went full NC.
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just tell her the truth that you're gay
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Just don't sleep with them to begin with.

Easy way to test and see if a girl is a clinger is if she likes you and you ignore her, does she get angry and upset (or run to another man) or just let you be.

Remember that people with a strong sense of self don't get angry about being left alone, since you're only there to 'enhance' their life, and not to 'fill a void'.

Who would have thought that girls who are actually independent are not going to be weird and clingy (unless they have a strange attachment style).

If you don't know any girls like this, it's because you your self are not a wholesome enough person to pique their interests.
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