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post 1659456893 04-11-2022, 08:49 AM
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It shouldn’t take more than 2 years to know if you Wanna marry someone

I always lol at people that are together for 5 years and not married, strong waste of time

If I was a female and a guy hadn’t proposed to me after a year, I’m out.

But srs, 2 years is the absolute max
post 1659456993 04-11-2022, 08:50 AM
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I know after 1 second.

I believe in love at first site.
post 1659457183 04-11-2022, 08:53 AM
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Agreed op. I would say you could properly vet someone in less time if you really put effort into it. Spend less time dating and more time courting, and you should see if she is wife material soon enough.
post 1659457293 04-11-2022, 08:54 AM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
I know after 1 second.

I believe in love at first site.
I actually agree with you srs
post 1659457453 04-11-2022, 08:57 AM
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Just because you know you want to marry someone doesn't mean you want to be married.

My brother was in a relationship with his wife for 10 years before marrying her. It was clear they would get married after probably like 4-5, but neither wanted to be married at age 25.
post 1659457873 04-11-2022, 09:05 AM
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It depends.

If there is no reason to get married... why do it?

Don't wanna have kids? Don't wanna share taxes? Don't wanna mix assets?

Just be together, but don't tell your local gov't about it.

People place way too much importance on "marriage". Don't kid yourself, it's nothing more than a legal documentation for the purpose of assets upon death/break up.

the whole lovey dovey BS is a facade. ded fukin srs.
post 1659458053 04-11-2022, 09:07 AM
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Yeah, I'm not sure I need a time frame or pact with the state to proclaim how much I care about someone.
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post 1659458273 04-11-2022, 09:12 AM
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Originally Posted By _zman⏩
Yeah, I'm not sure I need a time frame or pact with the state to proclaim how much I care about someone.
People are brainwashed.

brb, supporting a $57.9 BILLION DOLLAR wedding industry that literally produces nothing for the end user.
post 1659458453 04-11-2022, 09:15 AM
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Just googled, the average wedding cost in the USA is roughly $29k.

LMAO

that doesn't even include airfare/hotels for the traveling guests.

how retarded.
post 1659459633 04-11-2022, 09:40 AM
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Originally Posted By HMFIC_BROWSIN⏩
People are brainwashed.

brb, supporting a $57.9 BILLION DOLLAR wedding industry that literally produces nothing for the end user.
But "she's been dreaming of this day her entire life" meanwhile my sensible sister went to the court house. She planned on having a reception at a later date, but never did LOL so much money saved, proud of her.

Good friend of mine had good chunk of cash saved up and blew it all on his wedding, it'd say 20k for it all. All for a very simple ceremony, drinks and food. Yet, had to have a coordinator because it became impossible to manage and time it all out apparently.
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post 1659459713 04-11-2022, 09:41 AM
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You're right. The modern dating culture is retarded and the results (quality of homes formed, quality of children raised) speak for themselves.
post 1659459803 04-11-2022, 09:43 AM
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if i cant look at her at her worst having a dump everyday then I don't want her srS

(ded fkn srs)
post 1659459813 04-11-2022, 09:44 AM
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Meh... I wouldn't call it a waste of time necessarily because I have a few friends that have been with their GF happily for years because they were both content with the status quo... didnt require some piece of paper from the government to be with each other.
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post 1659459933 04-11-2022, 09:46 AM
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Originally Posted By HMFIC_BROWSIN⏩
Just googled, the average wedding cost in the USA is roughly $29k.

LMAO

that doesn't even include airfare/hotels for the traveling guests.

how retarded.
you dont need an expensive wedding, thats dumb, just a simple small wedding, a few close people, and the rings.

Its a symbol of love

once you're married then you proceed to have children and so on
post 1659460063 04-11-2022, 09:49 AM
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Lol at marriage srs

But I will have to do it tho cuz GF is asian and that's just how it works.

I am more excited for Bachelor party with my boys than the fake attention wedding ceremony srs.
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post 1659460253 04-11-2022, 09:52 AM
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Originally Posted By HMFIC_BROWSIN⏩
Just googled, the average wedding cost in the USA is roughly $29k.

LMAO

that doesn't even include airfare/hotels for the traveling guests.

how retarded.
That's really low. I went to a lot of $50K weddings in the 90s.

My wedding cost $7K and we had 150 guests.
post 1659460263 04-11-2022, 09:52 AM
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post 1659460273 04-11-2022, 09:52 AM
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Originally Posted By HMFIC_BROWSIN⏩
the whole lovey dovey BS is a facade. ded fukin srs.
total bs. you have never really been fukked. I feel bad for you.
post 1659460353 04-11-2022, 09:54 AM
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Eh I understand this but also getting married is pretty annoying. If you're happy who cares?
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Originally Posted By BrightThru2014⏩
Eh I understand this but also getting married is pretty annoying. If you're happy who cares?
it's an ancient covenant between two souls, god and community.
I guess I'd rather just have dogs and dildos than some limp dicked, insincere person who disrespects me by shooting blanks like a teen. sex with no marriage is shooting blanks. I wanted to respect men. Good god did I ever. The thing that kills respect is when they don't uphold their end of the bargain. Modern dudes think sex without marriage is okay. nope. haven't fukked in 11 years and have no plans to because folks are insincere about it.
casual sex doesn't lead to orgasm. sincere sex does, and then the male walks away and it's all just a waste. Marriage makes it worth it.
post 1659460933 04-11-2022, 10:03 AM
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Yeah you know within a few months whether someone is worth it
post 1659461063 04-11-2022, 10:07 AM
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Yeah I'd say even two years is too long srs. A few months MAX
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Originally Posted By 73ers⏩
If I was a female
If?
Would kick em in the nuts
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