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If you had the chance to get revenge on everyone who did you wrong, would you take it
04-15-2022, 02:09 AM
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04-15-2022, 02:37 AM
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04-15-2022, 03:26 AM
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Originally Posted By Adam16121⏩
I don't know - you never know how you're going to feel and react until you're in that situation.Let’s say you could beat up (or worse) anyone who ever harmed you at any point in your life. No repercussions.
Would you wreck some somebody who was chitty to when you were kids? Even if it's decades later?
Would you kick the chit out of somebody for being an ******* on the road?
If there were no repercussions for you, would you be a more violent person, and hold people accountable for things? Is the law the only thing that holds you back from it?
Edit: the reason I ask this is to see how many people find vengeance better than forgiveness, and live with that belief.
Would you wreck some somebody who was chitty to when you were kids? Even if it's decades later?
Would you kick the chit out of somebody for being an ******* on the road?
If there were no repercussions for you, would you be a more violent person, and hold people accountable for things? Is the law the only thing that holds you back from it?
Edit: the reason I ask this is to see how many people find vengeance better than forgiveness, and live with that belief.
I did spend a large portion of my life plotting and executing my revenge on people - i looked into the abyss for so long that i became it.
At this point in my life, i've forgiven most people, though if i see my ex gf out i am egging her on sight - that or just getting her plate of food and chucking it all over her, or just squirting ketchup, or pouring water.. you get the picture right? Just make her look and smell bad in front of people, but not taking it too far.
This is going to happen one day if i see her - then we will see who is who, what is what, and who the leader is.
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04-15-2022, 04:43 AM
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yes but selectively
and only cause i think they still might be a potential threat
otherwise no, cause like the other miscer said. they're living rent free in your head
and only cause i think they still might be a potential threat
otherwise no, cause like the other miscer said. they're living rent free in your head
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04-15-2022, 05:11 AM
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There's only one guy that I would legit want to see on the street with his life ruined, so if I had that chance I'd take it tomorrow. Other than that I can't think of anyone I'd wish revenge on to be honest.
04-15-2022, 05:15 AM
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
has it ever occured that you are that guy to somebody huh? Perhaps a bit of self reflection would be good, if you're capable of it, that is.There's only one guy that I would legit want to see on the street with his life ruined, so if I had that chance I'd take it tomorrow. Other than that I can't think of anyone I'd wish revenge on to be honest.
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04-15-2022, 06:18 AM
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04-15-2022, 06:46 AM
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I've already got revenge on a few people.
But its usually those who inflict the most hurt on you that are actually the psychopaths/sociopaths/narcissists
for that reason, while your revenge might affect them momentarily, they usually just brush it off and go about their day because they are able to deflect negative emotions or insults - as if they didn't happen. Or they just replace you with someone else
typically, the best revenge you can get on someone is just showing them you don't need them in your life to be happy. That's normally what control and abuse boils down to. People who try and hurt you, normally rely on your reaction to gain validation about themselves.
If you stop reacting to them, and actually no longer care, yes they may just move on to someone else but it will still sting, and you stop losing self respect.
and what's more, when they send you a message out of nowhere to see if you are still able to be controlled by them, either don't respond or tell them to go fukk themselves.
But its usually those who inflict the most hurt on you that are actually the psychopaths/sociopaths/narcissists
for that reason, while your revenge might affect them momentarily, they usually just brush it off and go about their day because they are able to deflect negative emotions or insults - as if they didn't happen. Or they just replace you with someone else
typically, the best revenge you can get on someone is just showing them you don't need them in your life to be happy. That's normally what control and abuse boils down to. People who try and hurt you, normally rely on your reaction to gain validation about themselves.
If you stop reacting to them, and actually no longer care, yes they may just move on to someone else but it will still sting, and you stop losing self respect.
and what's more, when they send you a message out of nowhere to see if you are still able to be controlled by them, either don't respond or tell them to go fukk themselves.
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04-15-2022, 07:01 AM
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No, a waste of my energy... no one that has done me wrong gets to have that power over me or live in my head like that. The only way I'd be sitting here wanting to get revenge is if someone permanently physically harmed me, or physically/mentally harmed anyone in my family. In which case, the revenge wouldn't be years later.
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04-15-2022, 07:37 AM
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No, I wouldn't. There are some people I hope that karma gets them, but other than that I don't think revenge is worth it. Now if someone hurt my son, then yes I'd want to go all Equalizer on their ass.
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04-15-2022, 12:28 PM
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Thought about this longer than I should've.
No.
All it takes is an off day, substances, misinformation, immaturity/youth/developing-brain, or even bad luck, for someone to do you wrong intentionally or unintentionally. Coming to this realization is one of the first steps of forgiveness, positive thinking, and continuance to looking towards the future rather than the past.
No.
All it takes is an off day, substances, misinformation, immaturity/youth/developing-brain, or even bad luck, for someone to do you wrong intentionally or unintentionally. Coming to this realization is one of the first steps of forgiveness, positive thinking, and continuance to looking towards the future rather than the past.
04-15-2022, 12:36 PM
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04-15-2022, 01:06 PM
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Yes. I would rather deliver my own karma than wait for something to happen by force of nature so the point never gets across. People tend to do ****ty things because they expect you to "be the bigger person and move on" so they can get away with it. I'm willing to bet most people who pull **** with other people regularly tend to think it's more noble to.move on and lol omg grow up ur pathetic.
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04-15-2022, 01:09 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
so just pre-empt it.Well yeah ofc you can’t get revenge on a sociopath by insults or other minor things. They dgaf about that. You would have to take revenge in a way that actually impacts their life. It’s dangerous though because in turn they will retaliate in some extreme way.
it isn't hard to outsmart someone clever. you just need to plan it for a while. it's how wars are won.
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04-15-2022, 01:11 PM
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No, vengeance belongs to the Lord
I forgive them, they have no idea what they do
People think this is weak, but they are not thinking so far ahead
This life, like a flash of mist and then you are gone, and then eternity
It makes a lot of sense to stay focused on the bigger picture
In the grand scheme of things, we will all die very soon
Stay focused on eternity, on God, not on vanity
You will have peace within forever
I forgive them, they have no idea what they do
People think this is weak, but they are not thinking so far ahead
This life, like a flash of mist and then you are gone, and then eternity
It makes a lot of sense to stay focused on the bigger picture
In the grand scheme of things, we will all die very soon
Stay focused on eternity, on God, not on vanity
You will have peace within forever
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04-15-2022, 01:19 PM
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Get revenge on one person. See how it feels, and report back.
It's common knowledge that it doesn't feel good. But the only way to REALLY LEARN is to act it out in real life. You learn nothing thinking about it theoretically.
It's common knowledge that it doesn't feel good. But the only way to REALLY LEARN is to act it out in real life. You learn nothing thinking about it theoretically.
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04-15-2022, 01:26 PM
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04-15-2022, 09:31 PM
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Can I ask a solid of you all here? Rep some good answers please. I’m trying to rep good responses and hit recharge so fast that this will take me a month. Thanks for the time and feedback to my question misc, it’s appreciated.
04-15-2022, 09:47 PM
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Just one, first wife. If I knew I could get away with it I'd burn her house down and take all her other financial assets. It wouldn't be full retribution but it would balance the scales of justice a bit more.
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I don’t think there’s such a thing as “free will”. It’s hard to think about revenge or vengeance when you think the way I do.
"The flowers bloom, then wither... The stars shine and one day become extinct. This earth, the sun, the galaxies and even the big universe, someday will be destroyed. Compared with that, the human life is only a blink, just a little time. In that short time - people are born, laugh, cry, fight, are injured, feel joy, sadness, hate someone, love someone. All in just a moment. And then, are embraced by the eternal sleep called death."
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Nah. Not allowed to hurt people due to my religion(Catholic).
I'm only allowed to kill in military endeavors.
I'm only allowed to kill in military endeavors.
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My bedtime routine
1. Brush teeth
2. Turn out lights and climb in bed
3. Fantasize revenge
1. Brush teeth
2. Turn out lights and climb in bed
3. Fantasize revenge
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Meh.
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Because you had secret evidence, and documents /
On how they raped the continents, and it's the prominent /
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