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post 1659696053 04-15-2022, 09:53 AM
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Originally Posted By Cleveland33⏩
It's effort. It takes an effort to be a good partner. It takes effort to be a good sexual partner.

But i can't stress enough how important i think sex is in a relationship from the standpoint that if both partners are sexually satisfied, the little chit really doesn't matter. if your woman is sexually satisfied, she doesn't care if you leave your socks on the floor
So much this. If people are sexually satisfied there will be minimal problems, minimal drama in a relationship. As long as the guy has a desire to please his partner sexually, most sex issues arise because women don't initiate or don't reciprocate.

Is that because of lack of attraction for the guy? Maybe. Is that his fault? Yes and no. But will the woman actually confront the guy about her lack of desire, and why? Very very very rarely - which results in bitterness.

If a woman has lost attraction for a guy she won't be interested in 'saving' the relationship with him. In 2022 she can just go and find someone else in 5 minutes. She won't want to expend effort 'communicating'. Why would she, she doesn't need to
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post 1659697223 04-15-2022, 10:13 AM
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didn’t even read thru this thread, but having been married before (divorced now)…. Literally ppl are just picking the wrong partners ded srs

And sex had nothing to do with why I got divorced btw…. Literally the one area we never had issues in the whole time we were together for about 8 yrs total, even after having 2 kids

Like I’m legit ded srs…. and I would rather be single and never get married again for the rest of my life than to get locked down again and be stuck in some marriage like described in OP

There’s zero excuse and reason for it…. don’t even understand why a guy would ever settle for that

If that’s ur life, you’re with the wrong person because when you’re with the right person and the attraction and the right chemistry is there, unless there’s some kind of medical excuse or chemical imbalance or something that hasn’t been addressed, this chit should never be an issue and shouldn’t be occurring

I’m not at all saying that sex is everything in a marriage or relationship, but like why tf would u choose to be with someone that you clearly aren’t attracted enough to?

Legit don’t understand some ppl….

You deserve to be with someone that’s more attracted to you than that. This is guaranteed a contributor to why there’s so many divorces and unsatisfied or unhappy couples SRS

Pick better partners
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post 1659697353 04-15-2022, 10:17 AM
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Originally Posted By Scarrdbutsmartr⏩
This is actually the norm. Most of the married people I know dont have seggs more than 12x a year. 100% of the divorces I've known about have been due to libido/infidelity issues (dead srs)

..and I dont think my experience is isolated. There are thousands of Tik Toks of women stating seggs is a chore and they hate it.

The female libido is driven by novelty. It doesnt matter if you are chad, rich or famous they get bored with you and it becomes work for the vast majority of women. This is scientifically proven with studies.
So why not let the husband have sex with other women to keep the family together? As long as he's discreet and doesn't bring back kids, what's the problem?
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post 1659703353 04-15-2022, 12:07 PM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
So why not let the husband have sex with other women to keep the family together? As long as he's discreet and doesn't bring back kids, what's the problem?
Why not murder someone you are angry with so you dont become bitter...

Thats obviously a ridiculous exaggeration but doing something ratchet because another person is being ratchet is literally a race to the bottom of the barrel.

Thats not the type of behavior I want to be known for...
post 1659703563 04-15-2022, 12:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
It’s easy to understand when you understand people marry for reasons totally unrelated to sex. Kids money social status religion etc. Sex is basically irrelevant.
i would never ever marry someone i wasn't extremely attracted to and was banging 3-5x a week for ~3yrs+

that's a pre requisite.

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at marrying someone, 'committing' to them for life, because of kids/money/social status

what an unhappy, vapid life that person would lead.
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post 1659703923 04-15-2022, 12:19 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
im not talking about a fun wild side in the bedroom im talking about in life.

For women it isnt novelty of a person but novelty of experiences with a person. For men it is a new person.

So when I said they like a man with a wild side I mean in life, he likes to take some risks, have some fun, adventure into life and show her experiences she wouldnt have without him. Nothing turns a women on more than that and as a man you should continue to do this for your wife if you want good sex to continue.

But men are stupid, women aren't wrong, but thats why I always push men to date more women and sleep around and learn their perspective to gain an advantage.
This is incorrect according to just about every scientific study done in the last 20-30 years..

There are no less than five studies cited in the following article that directly contradict your statements.

https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/ar...nships/582736/

The summarization of the studies is that the female libido is indeed based upon novelty and that long term monogamous relationships kill the female libido. Studies show that new couples have a limerence phase where sex is frequent and then it dies as the relationship extends into a long term arrangement.


So this isnt my opinion, its the same conclusion from numerous studies over many years..If you want to believe differently, great. I wont continue to argue about it, however.
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Originally Posted By Scarrdbutsmartr⏩
So this isnt my opinion its the same conclusion from numerous studies over many years..If you want to believe differently, great. I wont continue to argue about it, however.
in my case sex was the same frequency as when i first met my GF who i was with the longest duration. we were just very attracted to each other and it didn't wane

i can see this happening with couples who aren't actually into each other though and just 'settled' as another poster put it
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Originally Posted By Scarrdbutsmartr⏩
Why not murder someone you are angry with so you dont become bitter...

Thats obviously a ridiculous exaggeration but doing something ratchet because another person is being ratchet is literally a race to the bottom of the barrel.

Thats not the type of behavior I want to be known for...
Youre misinformed, you think cheating consists of random bottom of the barrel women. It's not rachet at all unless you're smashing hookers. Most professional men who cheat are doing so with other professional women. It's discreet and quick.

It's a wife's obligation to sexualy satisfy her husband, just like it's the husband's obligation to protect and provide for the wife. If the wife wants to keep the husband happy and family together, she should let him smash other women. As long as he doesn't get any other women pregnant or bring back disease there is no problem. The family is still happy and together
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
It’s easy to understand when you understand people marry for reasons totally unrelated to sex. Kids money social status religion etc. Sex is basically irrelevant.
anddddd marrying for BS reasons other than legitimate true love, such as crap like “just for the kids,” social status etc is exactly the problem I’m talking about

Ppl are straight up picking the wrong partners or marrying for the wrong reasons…. thus, problems like stated in OP arise
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
So why not let the husband have sex with other women to keep the family together? As long as he's discreet and doesn't bring back kids, what's the problem?
the problem is that this chit is straight up degenerate behavior

If u wanna sleep around like that, don’t get married. It’s literally that simple
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i even get bored with the same girl im dating. something is wrong with my brain. it just gets boring.

sux because i want to get married and have sexors with the same girl.
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Originally Posted By XPmpnII⏩
the problem is that this chit is straight up degenerate behavior

If u wanna sleep around like that, don’t get married. It’s literally that simple
No it's not. Y'all are confusing cheating with random sloots when that's not the case. This will keep marriages happy because right now things are already degenerate
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
You’re a small minority then. The VAST majority of marriages are for other purposes and sex is irrelevant.
what actually 'is' marriage.

it's a lifelong commitment to a partner.

why in the FUQ would i want to commit to my partner for life when im not being sexually satisfied pre marriage?

let me clarify. i wouldn't stay in a relationship where i wasn't being sexually satisfied, so it wouldn't even get to the stage of contemplating marriage.

this is why its important to date for as long as possible before getting married. because you can spot true behaviours over time.

this is a perfect example of why your idea of marrying after like 1 year just wouldn't fly. its easy for a girl to put out whenever for a guy for a yr. try doing it for 5 years, if that isn't her true sex drive or she didn't really like him that much. almost impossible.
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
Youre misinformed, you think cheating consists of random bottom of the barrel women. It's not rachet at all unless you're smashing hookers. Most professional men who cheat are doing so with other professional women. It's discreet and quick.

It's a wife's obligation to sexualy satisfy her husband, just like it's the husband's obligation to protect and provide for the wife. If the wife wants to keep the husband happy and family together, she should let him smash other women. As long as he doesn't get any other women pregnant or bring back disease there is no problem. The family is still happy and together
isn't it the husband's responsibility to sexually satisfy the wife? if he's not doing it, can she discreetly bang other dudes?
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
Mind fukkin blown srs

How is that OK with you?
Why would it not be
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I understand your position but I’m telling you that’s not how 99% of people think. People marry for kids, money, social status, religion. Sex has nothing to do with it.
i dont have much respect for people who willingly enter into a situation that is legally and emotionally binding, if their most basic biological needs aren't being met by their partner

what's more startling is i'd be willing to bet a good amount of men marry their prude wives hoping the sex will increase.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
You’re living in fantasy land if you think anything more than a tiny percentage of marriages are based on true love and lust. That’s simply just not what marriage is about for the VAST majority of people.
or maybe it just seems like the vast majority cuz that’s all ur ever mainly around or exposed to…. or maybe u should just get out in the real world and off the PC more

not saying what ur claiming doesn’t happen a lot, but VAST majority? I don’t agree…. I think ur opinion is prob skewed based off ur exposure
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
No it's not. Y'all are confusing cheating with random sloots when that's not the case. This will keep marriages happy because right now things are already degenerate
Disagree

I say stay tf away from marriage if u wanna do chit like this

It’s degenerate bro. Defend it all u want, but it doesn’t change the fact

Open relationships/marriages are fkin disgusting and pathetic and literally some of the lowest degenerate behavior u could partake in ded fkin srs
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Misc still confused on what marriage is or what it should be, but too dumb to realize it's what you make it.

You wanna get married and cheat on your wife and be a degenerate of society, hey that's your marriage. Not mine. Some like to settle down in a small town with a dog and 4 kids, great.
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