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post 1659926883 04-19-2022, 03:53 PM
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It's amazing how many people don't understand that men and women have opposing sexual imperatives


for women: lock down the highest quality man into a relationship

for men: have sexual access to as many young/fertile women as possible


So for a woman to be 35 and single, biologically speaking she has failed

For a man to be single at 35 (assuming he has his sht together, and having sex with more than one woman) is actually following his biological imperative
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Originally Posted By nick5569⏩
It's amazing how many people don't understand that men and women have opposing sexual imperatives


for women: lock down the highest quality man into a relationship

for men: have sexual access to as many young/fertile women as possible


So for a woman to be 35 and single, biologically speaking she has failed

For a man to be single at 35 (assuming he has his sht together, and having sex with more than one woman) is actually following his biological imperative
do you think the most desirable and attractive men in our society tend to be single at 35?
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Originally Posted By TugOfPeace⏩
if you had a harem of fertile young women on rotation and you were a high value guy, would you sacrifice all that for a single woman?
Yes. If fukin random sloots was satisfying no celebrity male or athlete would get married. Yet most of them are by 35 usually.

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Oh I have plenty of issues
post 1659929393 04-19-2022, 04:38 PM
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Same women will be over 40 complaining there are no single men around.

Paying attention to what women say and want in general is cringey. Sure, act interested but deep down, its just childish talk and we know it.

Also women cant stand to see a guy living life and having fun. Every know a woman who was happy to see you partying it up with your buddies? Cant say that i have ever seen this woman.
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post 1659929593 04-19-2022, 04:41 PM
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I bet for Zoomers and below probably over 50% of men/women will be unmarried at 35
post 1659929993 04-19-2022, 04:50 PM
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Men over 35 have issues with marrying whores who will take them for half their accumulated chit, so yeah, issues.

blame feminism and divorce culture while you listen to your pussy dry up in real time and we are still banging hotter younger women.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Most 40yo men look like ****, and have not built wealth - so no.
This.

Be a dude who's in his mid/late 30s, have your life together, work out, and have plenty of friends...zero issues.

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post 1659937633 04-19-2022, 07:25 PM
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Originally Posted By nick5569⏩
It's amazing how many people don't understand that men and women have opposing sexual imperatives


for women: lock down the highest quality man into a relationship

for men: have sexual access to as many young/fertile women as possible


So for a woman to be 35 and single, biologically speaking she has failed

For a man to be single at 35 (assuming he has his sht together, and having sex with more than one woman) is actually following his biological imperative
We are not biologically programmed to have a harem you absolute potato

To think that you would have to believe that everything that makes us human doesn't exist, and if so, seek actual psychiatry
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Originally Posted By BrianDaMan⏩
I bet for Zoomers and below probably over 50% of men/women will be unmarried at 35
i say in 20 years 75-80% of the adult population will be single

have to throw in divorces for the younger married couples too

i would not be surprised to see 10% have successful marriages
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Originally Posted By AWSbruh⏩
They just mad because most single 35 year old men only date girls in their early to mid 20s. Females coping Lmao
This. Fukking lol. And those are just the words. Guarantee they don’t match their actions.
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post 1659939053 04-19-2022, 07:49 PM
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Originally Posted By blissful88⏩
We are not biologically programmed to have a harem you absolute potato

To think that you would have to believe that everything that makes us human doesn't exist, and if so, seek actual psychiatry
You need to do a bit more research mate.


Throughout human history roughly 30% of males have been able to reproduce vs 90% of females have been able to reproduce...

women have always preferred to share a high value man instead of settling for an average or below average man

-The only thing that prevented this in more modern times was forced monogamy via religion, laws, and shaming tactics-





Also it would only take 13 healthy males to impregnate EVERY SINGLE WOMAN ON OUR PLANET

Where as a woman can only bring one child (or two if twins etc) to term per year


Men have always had the biological urge to spread their seed far and wide, where as woman have always had the urge to lock down the most suitable male
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Women who say chit like that are the ones who are always in a relationship and a single life scares them. When one relationship ends, they hop to another quickly and think that's healthy because they can't be comfortable alone and they rely on someone else to bring them happiness.

Men are more comfortable being single and alone. We can work on ourselves and manage other priorities. Women who say those men must have "issues" is because they can't grasp how someone can be happy without someone else to carry them through life
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post 1659939533 04-19-2022, 07:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Amp30⏩
Women who say chit like that are the ones who are always in a relationship and a single life scares them. When one relationship ends, they hop to another quickly and think that's healthy because they can't be comfortable alone and they rely on someone else to bring them happiness.

Men are more comfortable being single and alone. We can work on ourselves and manage other priorities. Women who say those men must have "issues" is because they can't grasp how someone can be happy without someone else to carry them through life
It's because women feel anxious when they don't have the security of a man

So they assume that men must feel anxious when they don't have a woman

They don't realize that men and woman are not the same, thanks to feminist lies/propaganda
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Originally Posted By tehgosu⏩
women don't know wtf they want
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post 1659940663 04-19-2022, 08:22 PM
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Of course this black midget would be bitching about what some hens were gabbing about lol

Here’s a tip balls, don’t care about what women think
post 1659941333 04-19-2022, 08:35 PM
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Originally Posted By nick5569⏩
You need to do a bit more research mate.


Throughout human history roughly 30% of males have been able to reproduce vs 90% of females have been able to reproduce...

women have always preferred to share a high value man instead of settling for an average or below average man

-The only thing that prevented this in more modern times was forced monogamy via religion, laws, and shaming tactics-





Also it would only take 13 healthy males to impregnate EVERY SINGLE WOMAN ON OUR PLANET

Where as a woman can only bring one child (or two if twins etc) to term per year


Men have always had the biological urge to spread their seed far and wide, where as woman have always had the urge to lock down the most suitable male
30% of males in India maybe; every guy I've ever personally known has produced kids, can't think of a single one that doesn't have a family outside of the misc

You're completely ignoring the human bean psyche; we do not function physiologically on ingrained instinct like some 15 IQ cat with a den of lionesses
Originally Posted By TugOfPeace⏩
yes, we are. the goal of a mammalian male is to ensure the continuity of his genetics. can't do that if he's sinking all his sperm into one woman. it's why we crave variety and why porn is so addicting.

porn is essentially a harem simulator; think about how easily you'd quit porn if you could only fap to one woman forever.

having sex with one woman forever was never the ideal biological endgame for a male, the only reason it happened is so that society could actually function, evolutionarily speaking the goal was never for every male, including betas, to reproduce
Literally have had no desire to witness porn, haven't actively searched it out since I was a hormonal teen in the 00's

Unless you count the misc, but that's usually someone's dink because gay Indian forum
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Yes. If fukin random sloots was satisfyingno celebrity male or athlete would get married. Yet most of them are by 35 usually.

Miscers full of COPE
Yeah because male celebrities and athletes are known for being faithful once they’re married

Idiot
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Originally Posted By nick5569⏩
You need to do a bit more research mate.
you gotta understand its a pretty hotly debated topic. i wager most publications prob lean toward the more sexual side because of $$ and they will be more loud

single people spend more $$; attracting a mate, going out, dates, taxes, etc., etc.

the other side that also has their evidence in the same way says a few things about monogamy; monagomy developed as men inherently valued their seed. so, in other words.. their baby; a guy may stick around to see and protect the baby.

i get the feeling you mean "religion" influenced monogamy but monogamy goes back millions of years ago:
according to the New York Times, a 2011 paper showed that early humans, or hominids, began shifting towards monogamy about 3.5 million years ago—though the species never evolved to be 100% monogamous (remember that earlier statistic)
serial monogamy does seem more fit. but all im saying is there are multiple theories, nothing is definitively proven and its a debated topic. i just think there's a reason why one is more publicized as aforementioned
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
Yeah because male celebrities and athletes are known for being faithful once they’re married

Idiot
alot of people cheat in general but the point is they still try to get married etc when they easily could never do that and still get tons of sex.

if the highest value men in our society are typically not single by 35, being single at 35 is not a good sign

misc is so full of cope its embarassing
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I also have to add that any man that listens to what a woman thinks and is not committed to said woman, has already lost.... And even with a woman he loves, it's questionable.
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Originally Posted By TugOfPeace⏩
if you had a harem of fertile young women on rotation and you were a high value guy, would you sacrifice all that for a single woman?
Is that a rhetorical question? Obviously yes, if she is worthwhile, makes you happy, and gives a chit about you. Those qualifiers appear simple, but usually aren’t. Many options is the first step towards finding the right one.
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Originally Posted By TugOfPeace⏩
right, and what happens after the honeymoon phase is over?
I’m not sure how to answer that, as it appears that the honeymoon phase is where you’d like to remain.
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I only saw"Women at party said single men over 35 must have..."in the title and assumed the rest was going to say"...a decent amount of spare cash".
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Honestly, having a partner comes with benefits but also a hell of a lot of drawbacks. Sex is fun but let’s look at it for what it is. A few minutes of your penis feeling good. Honestly, fapping is alot easier and has fewer complications. A big part of why we men enjoy sex is the psychological positive reinforcement. Take that away and it’s pretty much the same thing as fapping. Before someone calls this incel cope, I’m sexually active with my girlfriend.

A wife/girlfriend costs money, time, energy. You’re always wondering if they’re cheating or getting bored. Why are her text messages becoming shorter and less frequent. It’s not a constant rollercoaster of amazing soul-bonding sex and mutual infatuation. I want to smoke weed and play video games today but I haven’t seen her in 2 weeks and she’s getting impatient. Sometimes it’s great and sometimes it fuking sucks and you wish you were single again.

I’m not anti-relationship. They can be great. But we need to take off the rose-tinted glasses and look at them for what they are. A transaction of time, money, and energy in exchange for sex and companionship.

Can’t help but mire single men hustling well into their 30s, 40s and 50s
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Originally Posted By Ironface⏩
A big part of why we men enjoy sex is the psychological positive reinforcement.
It is, which is why I don't think sex toys/dolls will ever replace it.

When a guy has sex, it's satisfying his ego to some degree. He's mating, he succeeded in finding a mate and reproducing.

It's all driven by low-level basic animal instincts -- sex and companionship.

If in theory, a person can override those base instincts, I truly think they've won the game. I used to believe I/we could, but now I don't - it's too powerful.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
It is, which is why I don't think sex toys/dolls will ever replace it.

When a guy has sex, it's satisfying his ego to some degree. He's mating, he succeeded in finding a mate and reproducing.

It's all driven by low-level basic animal instincts -- sex and companionship.

If in theory, a person can override those base instincts, I truly think they've won the game. I used to believe I/we could, but now I don't - it's too powerful.
When did you think you could override those basic instincts? How can I find out if I can override it?
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Originally Posted By JtotheIzzo⏩
When did you think you could override those basic instincts? How can I find out if I can override it?
Just live life on your terms without any women to complicate that, with complete freedom.

Can you reach a sustained feeling of fulfillment for the rest of your life? If yes, you can override it.

I believe that some Buddhist monks may have achieved that, or it appears so.

I lived most of my 20's with that freedom. Then the desire for companionship crept in; unfortunately in many ways.
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