They wont give it to me with my low credit score now, it dropped big time since i havent paid off my CC's

Let me introduce you to my friend Tony. He'll cut you a deal real nice. You pay off the cc, buy your girl some flowers.. real nice.

You'll just owe him a small favour in return, real small. Along with the principal and some interest obviously.

*Pinches cheek, slaps face.

I'll give him your number!

Im an Italian from NY...............



LMAO

Damn aren’t you black too?

Actually trying to overdraft my account even more so i can get a damn 6 pack of beer, its not letting me though, im getting denied

Bro i said 100 times i am from NY. even in this thread lol, im 34, im to old for the military on top of that i have 3 major neck injuries which will put me out of commission...Im 5k in debt i have two other CC's

Redo your resume

Life is peak and valleys

1. Don’t ever call yourself a loser. If you don’t stand up for yourself, others won’t either, because you give them no reason to believe in you.
2. Your debt is peanuts compared to the debts of many others
3. I hope your dad recovers quickly.
4. Everything is transient, including your financial situation. Don’t let a bad situation stop you from acting on changing it. Your will and actions are the most important thing. The immediate situation means less than what you are doing at this time to change it.

Start doing uber, uber eats, door dash, amazon flex until you get a job

This is the type of motivation i like to see, just repped you

get over yourself and quit playing the victim you pathetic old fuk
everyone whos anyone will go through some traumatic event in their life. youre not the only one
so get up look for a job and make something of yourself.

Location: California

It could be a hell of a lot worse.

We all have phark ups, it's about learning from them and doing things in the future to avoid repeats.

I'm 26. Last year for the first time in my life I was debt free, student loan and car paid off, made over $110k gross, saved back over $30k, and through a combination of lucky investing and options gambling like a mad man I got as high as $60k I believe with that account, all in the same year. Fast forward to now that account is actually $0. Ded fkn srs.

Now it's April 2022 and I've got back my emergency fund of 6 months, got a juicy 401k, still debt free with the same paid off car, but no extra investments/savings beyond that. Partially because I've bought a lot of chit lately, including study materials and an expensive exam voucher for a cyber security certification, which I studied for 3 months and passed on the first try thank phark.

I'm glad I'm 26. But it hurts and I've been depressed for 4 months due to a combination of the above, having also broke up with my gf of 3 years LTR last year, having zero social life, and I was not proud of my physique. I haven't laughed in months, not even a smirk when genuinely funny thing is presented to me. That's depression.

I've recently lost 15 pounds, and have gained a lot of confidence. I'm laughing again as of this week. I'm going out more, and wanting to be seen more. I want to build a social life and strike conversations with randoms and care about people. I actually went as far as to knock on the door of some hot neighbors, two girls that are roommates, who have been there for a year and I never knew their name, and they host parties and chit in their apartment from time to time. Super friendly, shook hands, told eachother our names, made some jokes, and I'm pretty sure I came off as endearing and sociable. I might get invited to future parties they have or hang out if I'm lucky.

I get it brotha I get it, my GF broke up with me on v-day, 3 year relationship, while i am not depressed anymore, i was in my teen years for about 5-6 years, im bipolar, im on medication for it so it helps me stay sane and stable. Im happy you're doing better...If you were in in NY I would invite you out for a beer bro, no kidding. Like everyone told me, keep your head up.


Edit: More impressed with your computer stats haha, im a web dev, and geek out on that sh*t

U in cali?

Why not just go to San Francisco and go to random stores and just walk out with as much stuff as you can carry, then bring it back home in your car? Sell what you bring back home on the internet to payoff debt

Srs

Only flaw in this plan is someone is likely to break into your car and steal what you got while you are inbetween stores. If that happens just go back to the stores

Now it's just one tankful of gas in a compact car.

Im in New York, living with my dad and brother selling what i can to make money. I am lucky to be living here rent free i know i am stupid sometimes

OP Verizon just raised their minimum rate to $20 an hour, maybe try them

https://www.verizon.com/about/news/v...age-20-an-hour

Honestly with my skillset for development i can do 35 an hour, my last job was 25 an hour, i dont want to settle, i hate settling, but i do appreciate what you posted

how old are you ?
whats your qualifications like? education/work experience
do you drink?use drugs?have a gf?
do you own a car?
live in your own apartment?
hows your relationship with your parents?
how much are you willing to sacrifice to get back on track?

Those are my answers

whats your work experience like? you didnt answer this.... how many years of working experience do you have? to make it simple. if you to find a job now , how fast do you think you can get it?? and how much do you think your median/avergae salary will be after tax per month ?

I've been quiet through this thread with you. I gave you 30 dollars a few months ago cause it seemed like you were on hard times and you were trying to ask people if they needed internet tasks done for a few bucks. I helped you out for nothing with the thought you were probably full of **** and you'd never pay me back like you said you would, you keep proving it. Too good to go out and work and make money doing anything but computer stuff like suggested earlier? You should make 35 an hour, but can't find a job. Last job you were making 25, you settled for that job, lost that job and don't want to settle so you just mooch off others? Thought your ego was too big to settle for anything you think is below you?

I think I'd rather work for 20 dollars an hour and support myself than live with my dad at 34 and beg people on the internet for 20 bucks.

if this is a legit post, then yeah op is a fail and a liar.... go join the military and stay with them for the next 20 years

First off bro, you are not a loser

You have humility, that's something

Second off bro, diligent hands will rule

Gotta dig deep and find that drive, it's there

If you have to, get a temp staffing job

There is work if you are willing

Just don't rot, weak chit

Lol you hardly have any debt p.haggot. Stop crying, check your test levels and get a job. I see you value time too, me too so get a part time job or 3/5, 4/5 days job.

And rationalize your problems, kids or people your age are literally dying in Ukraine right now getting their houses blown the fck up. Compared to them you have no problems you priviliged P.haggot.

Look at the posts in this thread, I could post a link to the thread he was asking for money in or screenshot the PayPal transaction. Don't really care to, he just needs to quit coming here for sympathy and acting like he's so ****ed when he can do something about his situation and quit being a leech and do something.

Also bro, a lot of online job apps are just a formality

If you want an insanely higher success rate, write cold emails

You have coding skills, just gotta network and meet the right people

If you know absolutely no one and can't go to networking events and chit

Then send out cold emails to companies that you are interested in working for

You have to go against the grain and think outside the box to succeed

Average actions will give you average results, it's hard out there

Gotta adapt and innovate to survive, try new things and fail

That's all the game I have for you bro, Godspeed

u need to get yourself a good suit, go into places and start applying for jobs in person. Don't forget a good strong handshake. remember first impressions matter, so smile and show them you have a good head on your shoulders!

Your ex girlfriend is a **** bitch good thing you dodged a bullet the software dev market is hot right now you can find a job no problem in tech. After multiple screw ups on previous technical interviews I just landed a job offer today, two weeks ago I was seriously considering joining the army for some tech positions because I thought I was ****ed with no job lined up after college but things turned around in a matter of minutes and I think it will happen for you as well. Apply to 10 tech positions per day at least