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post 1661349073 05-15-2022, 01:19 PM
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Is it possible to have sex without the girl falling in love? (SRS)

I don't know if it's just me, but I feel like every girl I bang becomes obsessed with me.

I set the boundaries very clear I'm just looking for sex. And I speak to them about them getting attached and they're always like they'd never do that, but after a few visits, it just seems like they get attached or fall in love.

I have a big dick and am pretty laid back, confident etc. I'm not a good looking chap by any means but I wonder whether it's just natural for them to get attached or if it's my dick game or just my personality.

I'm starting to feel bad about making girls get attached. Dead srs.
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Women cannot do casual sex without being involved, socially.
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in my experience no
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Originally Posted By proudmanlet⏩
in my experience no
You can thank that anaconda in between your legs
Wort ew in th wold.
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It’s generally extremely difficult / next to impossible for girls (and the majority of guys) to not catch feels.

I had similar issues for a long time, and hurt a lot of cool girls. Took one of them who the “not catch feels” type explaining to me that I was sending a bit of unintentional mixed messages which was causing it.

Just like you said, you are chill / confident / good communicator. That is rare, and if your stick game is unselfish and you make them feel wanted / boundaries respected / sexy, then you have to be pretty naive or willfully ignorant (I was a bit of both) to not expect them to want more.
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Originally Posted By proudmanlet⏩
in my experience no
how big is your dick in reality? i know you've claimed 11" but i honestly doubt you're above 9. do you have any pics with a ruler?
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Originally Posted By WantFatJohnson⏩
how big is your dick in reality? i know you've claimed 11" but i honestly doubt you're above 9. do you have any pics with a ruler?
forgot to add the no homo at the end there

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I am sure there are some cool grounded chicks out there who are DTF w/o feelings, but I have not found one.
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Originally Posted By WantFatJohnson⏩
how big is your dick in reality? i know you've claimed 11" but i honestly doubt you're above 9. do you have any pics with a ruler?
it really is about 11” at max erection


yes I do
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Originally Posted By proudmanlet⏩
it really is about 11” at max erection


yes I do
Show a picture then or your full of ****
post 1661350783 05-15-2022, 01:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
I am sure there are some cool grounded chicks out there who are DTF w/o feelings, but I have not found one.
Interesting. So all girls have caught feels so far?
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Every girl i have ever gotten to know has gotten attached to me. Every. Single. One.
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Originally Posted By WantFatJohnson⏩
Show a picture then or your full of ****
believe what u want brah
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Originally Posted By steeler505⏩
Every girl i have ever gotten to know has gotten attached to me. Every. Single. One.
How big is your dick and how good is your dick game?

What do you think is the reason for them getting attached
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No, but the more of a slut she is the longer it takes her to become attached
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
No, but the more of a slut she is the longer it takes her to become attached
So all girls fall victim at the end of the day? I had a similar experience with one girl who was very slutty, high maintenance etc. Once I gained her approval, I went cold on her and I think it drove her crazy. Like she would always act nonchalant with me, then one day I got under her skin and she was shouting at me getting all hysterical cos I triggered her and got her emotional. Took me ages to break her down though
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Originally Posted By WantFatJohnson⏩
Interesting. So all girls have caught feels so far?
Man there was one chick in college who was super goal/career oriented and as far as I could tell did not catch feels. That was it though, other than that it was all emotions and drama and blah blah blah.

Such is the life of someone who is desirable with a good quality or two. It is a burden really.
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I’m pretty bad at sex and I’m only packing 7”, but every chick has been back for at least round 2 and has gotten angry when I ghost them

I think it’s just natural for most chicks to have that “I banged him, now I have to be with him,” post sex feeling because of the chemicals released during sex
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Originally Posted By WantFatJohnson⏩
How big is your dick and how good is your dick game?

What do you think is the reason for them getting attached
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Always make the sloot cum once or multiple before I bust, outrageous kissing game (neck, shoulders, nips, poosy, groceries)

7" and THICK srs
Takes me a while to cum, so easily go until i want to cum (unless super horny ofc)
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
Man there was one chick in college who was super goal/career oriented and as far as I could tell did not catch feels. That was it though, other than that it was all emotions and drama and blah blah blah.

Such is the life of someone who is desirable with a good quality or two. It is a burden really.
She might have been a cold blooded psycho tbh. I've broken down some outwardly tough girls and turned them into borderline stalkers dead srs. If a girl doesn't get attached, she probably is incapable of love srs
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Originally Posted By azumi121⏩
I’m pretty bad at sex and I’m only packing 7”, but every chick has been back for at least round 2 and has gotten angry when I ghost them

I think it’s just natural for most chicks to have that “I banged him, now I have to be with him,” post sex feeling because of the chemicals released during sex
7" crew checking in. I feel like when you're in that range, she gets attached. The golden standard of dick length
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Originally Posted By WantFatJohnson⏩
7" crew checking in. I feel like when you're in that range, she gets attached. The golden standard of dick length
7” crew plus I love to gobble the bean

Keeps em coming back
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Originally Posted By WantFatJohnson⏩
She might have been a cold blooded psycho tbh. I've broken down some outwardly tough girls and turned them into borderline stalkers dead srs. If a girl doesn't get attached, she probably is incapable of love srs
It kind of took me by surprise. I mean, I didn’t embarrass myself or anything but she had emotional control for sure. It was unfamiliar territory. Honestly I believe she was the least psychopathic female I have ever interacted with as far as intimate personal relationships go.

She probably saw right through my **** boi TBH. I have been pretty toxic in the past and if all she was doing was setting personal boundaries, good for her.

She was a high value female.
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Originally Posted By azumi121⏩
7” crew plus I love to gobble the bean

Keeps em coming back
Never once eaten pussy SRS. Eat ass sometimes lol. The GOAT sex position for me is missionary or prone bone.
My sexual philosophy is to provide something no one else can. By that, I try to utilise my length and girth. I also refuse to eat pussy or finger her, cos anyone can do that.
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
It kind of took me by surprise. I mean, I didn’t embarrass myself or anything but she had emotional control for sure. It was unfamiliar territory. Honestly I believe she was the least psychopathic female I have ever interacted with as far as intimate personal relationships go.

She probably saw right through my **** boi TBH. I have been pretty toxic in the past and if all she was doing was setting personal boundaries, good for her.

She was a high value female.
Interesting. That brings me to another point about toxicity. Depending on which girl I'm with, I'm either toxic or a really honest nice person. If the girl is a hard headed slut, I show my toxic side. Lots of lying, manipulation, ghosting, talking about other girls in front of her. Refusing sex at times.

If it's a nice girl, I'm honest and don't really want to lie or be toxic in any way. I only treat a whore as such because they don't respond to anything else. I think the girl in your case is hard to read or just knew she was better than you. **** knows how that went down. I can tell you for a fact if a girl acts like the **** with me, I slowly peg her confidence down until she starts to look UP to me
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generally in those FWB type relationships. It isn't always the girl who catches feelings. also pic of dick or negs
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Originally Posted By azumi121⏩
I’m pretty bad at sex and I’m only packing 7”, but every chick has been back for at least round 2 and has gotten angry when I ghost them

I think it’s just natural for most chicks to have that “I banged him, now I have to be with him,” post sex feeling because of the chemicals released during sex
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Originally Posted By WantFatJohnson⏩
how big is your dick in reality? i know you've claimed 11" but i honestly doubt you're above 9. do you have any pics with a ruler?
dude its an inside joke.
You think he sends around dick pics?
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Originally Posted By WantFatJohnson⏩
Interesting. That brings me to another point about toxicity. Depending on which girl I'm with, I'm either toxic or a really honest nice person. If the girl is a hard headed slut, I show my toxic side. Lots of lying, manipulation, ghosting, talking about other girls in front of her. Refusing sex at times.

If it's a nice girl, I'm honest and don't really want to lie or be toxic in any way. I only treat a whore as such because they don't respond to anything else. I think the girl in your case is hard to read or just knew she was better than you. **** knows how that went down. I can tell you for a fact if a girl acts like the **** with me, I slowly peg her confidence down until she starts to look UP to me
I have started being open, honest and transparent to the fullest extent. I find that is the best way to be. It prevents the drama and stuff later on. I feel more in control than ever. And being direct and assertive is a good way to "keep them in their place", not that it is my job to do that. There are just some things was all need to hear, and people worth saying those things to are open to hearing it. I would strongly advocate this approach. Not for them specifically, for you. They just happen to benefit from it too. I hope that makes sense.


It is easy for me to believe in this case, she knew she was better than me. It just took her a week or two to figure it out, and by then already loved the d. It slowly fizzled out after about two months.

The one that got away lol.
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