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06-05-2022, 06:05 AM
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How about asking for second dates? My date yesterday went well but I'm not sure how long I should wait about asking for a second date.
Date went way better than my first. Lots of sexual tension in the car but she was pretty clear about taking it slow. So no escalation from there.
Date went way better than my first. Lots of sexual tension in the car but she was pretty clear about taking it slow. So no escalation from there.
06-05-2022, 10:46 AM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
did she hit you up the same night saying that she had a good time and got home safe? generally, i take that as a sign that they want to hangout again.How about asking for second dates? My date yesterday went well but I'm not sure how long I should wait about asking for a second date.
Date went way better than my first. Lots of sexual tension in the car but she was pretty clear about taking it slow. So no escalation from there.
Date went way better than my first. Lots of sexual tension in the car but she was pretty clear about taking it slow. So no escalation from there.
If not, might as well shoot your shot the next day. anecdotal, but i have a low success rate for getting a 2nd date if they don't hit me up the same night.
06-06-2022, 09:22 AM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
Was anything said about seeing each other again while you were together? Most guys would say they'd like to see me again around the end of the date and it went from there.How about asking for second dates? My date yesterday went well but I'm not sure how long I should wait about asking for a second date.
Date went way better than my first. Lots of sexual tension in the car but she was pretty clear about taking it slow. So no escalation from there.
Date went way better than my first. Lots of sexual tension in the car but she was pretty clear about taking it slow. So no escalation from there.
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06-06-2022, 09:30 AM
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Originally Posted By brightbrah⏩
did she hit you up the same night saying that she had a good time and got home safe? generally, i take that as a sign that they want to hangout again.
If not, might as well shoot your shot the next day. anecdotal, but i have a low success rate for getting a 2nd date if they don't hit me up the same night.
If not, might as well shoot your shot the next day. anecdotal, but i have a low success rate for getting a 2nd date if they don't hit me up the same night.
Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Well I shot her a song she was looking for and she responded quickly.Was anything said about seeing each other again while you were together? Most guys would say they'd like to see me again around the end of the date and it went from there.
I can understand how that may be a bad sign since she didn't reach out first however I can tell you why that isn't the case.
During the date we discussed texting etiquette and for her, she assumes if you don't text her, you aren't interested.
So with that being said, she's pretty much implying that she doesn't like to initiate text messages.
I'm honestly not super invested right now so if it goes nowhere I wouldn't be hurt.
06-06-2022, 10:03 AM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
Yeah, I'm not one to always initiate as I prefer when it's mutual. I think never initiating is weird. Since she responded right away to the song thing then I'd prob say get it out there that you want to see her again ASAP.Well I shot her a song she was looking for and she responded quickly.
I can understand how that may be a bad sign since she didn't reach out first however I can tell you why that isn't the case.
During the date we discussed texting etiquette and for her, she assumes if you don't text her, you aren't interested.
So with that being said, she's pretty much implying that she doesn't like to initiate text messages.
I'm honestly not super invested right now so if it goes nowhere I wouldn't be hurt.
I can understand how that may be a bad sign since she didn't reach out first however I can tell you why that isn't the case.
During the date we discussed texting etiquette and for her, she assumes if you don't text her, you aren't interested.
So with that being said, she's pretty much implying that she doesn't like to initiate text messages.
I'm honestly not super invested right now so if it goes nowhere I wouldn't be hurt.
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06-06-2022, 10:25 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I don't like it when they don't initiate eitherYeah, I'm not one to always initiate as I prefer when it's mutual. I think never initiating is weird. Since she responded right away to the song thing then I'd prob say get it out there that you want to see her again ASAP.
I'll ALWAYS get a reply, but I feel like they should be reaching out as often as I do
I don't expect them to text me all day or anything like that, but a little something here and there is nice
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06-06-2022, 10:58 AM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
Lurker and occasional poster checking in... Assuming the dates going well you should always be trying to set up another date during the first one. Not necessarily concrete plans but have something loosely lined up.How about asking for second dates? My date yesterday went well but I'm not sure how long I should wait about asking for a second date.
Date went way better than my first. Lots of sexual tension in the car but she was pretty clear about taking it slow. So no escalation from there.
Date went way better than my first. Lots of sexual tension in the car but she was pretty clear about taking it slow. So no escalation from there.
06-06-2022, 12:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I do want to see her again, and we've started texting so I'll go ahead and put new plans out there.Yeah, I'm not one to always initiate as I prefer when it's mutual. I think never initiating is weird. Since she responded right away to the song thing then I'd prob say get it out there that you want to see her again ASAP.
Originally Posted By antman12⏩
Oh yeah we were already talking about future dates, so she's interested in seeing me again. I just sent her a meme, and she responded so I'll lean into planning something else this week.Lurker and occasional poster checking in... Assuming the dates going well you should always be trying to set up another date during the first one. Not necessarily concrete plans but have something loosely lined up.
06-06-2022, 01:14 PM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
Good luck!I do want to see her again, and we've started texting so I'll go ahead and put new plans out there.
Oh yeah we were already talking about future dates, so she's interested in seeing me again. I just sent her a meme, and she responded so I'll lean into planning something else this week.
Oh yeah we were already talking about future dates, so she's interested in seeing me again. I just sent her a meme, and she responded so I'll lean into planning something else this week.
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06-07-2022, 03:24 AM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
Wow! Good for you!I do want to see her again, and we've started texting so I'll go ahead and put new plans out there.
Oh yeah we were already talking about future dates, so she's interested in seeing me again. I just sent her a meme, and she responded so I'll lean into planning something else this week.
Oh yeah we were already talking about future dates, so she's interested in seeing me again. I just sent her a meme, and she responded so I'll lean into planning something else this week.
06-07-2022, 08:54 AM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
First comes loveI do want to see her again, and we've started texting so I'll go ahead and put new plans out there.
Oh yeah we were already talking about future dates, so she's interested in seeing me again. I just sent her a meme, and she responded so I'll lean into planning something else this week.
Oh yeah we were already talking about future dates, so she's interested in seeing me again. I just sent her a meme, and she responded so I'll lean into planning something else this week.
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06-07-2022, 09:11 AM
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
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06-07-2022, 06:35 PM
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thoughts on people that never initiate?
I feel like I am too good to not get a 50/50 effort
always quickly reply to me but like id like it if they reached out here and there
am i overthinking
I feel like I am too good to not get a 50/50 effort
always quickly reply to me but like id like it if they reached out here and there
am i overthinking
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06-07-2022, 06:36 PM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
If they don’t initiate then it’s not worth it. It shouldn’t always be you reaching out and responding.thoughts on people that never initiate?
I feel like I am too good to not get a 50/50 effort
I feel like I am too good to not get a 50/50 effort
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06-07-2022, 06:55 PM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
I wouldn't be ok with that at all. If there's not mutual initiation I'd say they're not that interested. If it's someone that you feel you really clicked with in person say something and let them know you'd like more initiation on their part. If they refuse then I'd move on.thoughts on people that never initiate?
I feel like I am too good to not get a 50/50 effort
always quickly reply to me but like id like it if they reached out here and there
am i overthinking
I feel like I am too good to not get a 50/50 effort
always quickly reply to me but like id like it if they reached out here and there
am i overthinking
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06-07-2022, 10:32 PM
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whatever
im gonna hang out with my #2 now lol
im gonna hang out with my #2 now lol
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06-07-2022, 11:44 PM
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06-08-2022, 07:20 AM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
I hate it when the person never initiates. You're smart. I try to wait and be patient for them to initiate, but then if they don't I have to move on.whatever
im gonna hang out with my #2 now lol
im gonna hang out with my #2 now lol
06-08-2022, 10:14 AM
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the uggos dont stop hitting me up. crazy how much abundance u have with girls u mog but cant get a single girl on your levl to date you outside of rare circumstances like she fetishizes your ethnicity or something. i have a hard cutoff at 120lbs for dating and 140 for nsa sex. Not dealing with these fatties anymmore. it's bull****
06-08-2022, 11:30 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
What if they're waiting for you to intiate just like how you're waiting for them to initiate? So in the end no one initiates.I hate it when the person never initiates. You're smart. I try to wait and be patient for them to initiate, but then if they don't I have to move on.
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06-08-2022, 07:39 PM
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06-08-2022, 11:29 PM
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You look DYEL.Favorite escort moved. Sugarbaby has been cold lately. Only ugly girls want to meet off dating apps. People around me constantly getting married. Feeling suicidal these days.
Start lifting weights and I guarantee you'll start getting less ugly girls.
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06-08-2022, 11:39 PM
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06-08-2022, 11:44 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
This one is an easy lay.this is what I mean.
WTF is this ****? I'm not here for games. I want a wife or easy sex not looking to make friends or casual dating. What the ****.
WTF is this ****? I'm not here for games. I want a wife or easy sex not looking to make friends or casual dating. What the ****.
She said, "Nothing serious." aka CASUAL (Hookups)
Just get to know her a bit then invite her out.
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06-08-2022, 11:46 PM
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
dude im not going out in public with a girl just for a hookupThis one is an easy lay.
She said, "Nothing serious." aka CASUAL (Hookups)
Just get to know her a bit then invite her out.
She said, "Nothing serious." aka CASUAL (Hookups)
Just get to know her a bit then invite her out.
i want something serious or an easy hookup (she comes straight over)
06-08-2022, 11:49 PM
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
I initiated last time and had planned our whole date and did all the leg workWhat if they're waiting for you to intiate just like how you're waiting for them to initiate? So in the end no one initiates.
Reminds me of this skit:
Reminds me of this skit:
she went on and on about how great the date was and all that chit, don't really care anymore
actions speak louder than words
the least she could do is text me here and there
I think if she comes back to me I will just pump and dump
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06-08-2022, 11:56 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
Alright let her know that and go find another onedude im not going out in public with a girl just for a hookup
i want something serious or an easy hookup (she comes straight over)
i want something serious or an easy hookup (she comes straight over)
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06-08-2022, 11:56 PM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
I think if she comes back to me I will just pump and dump
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06-09-2022, 06:10 AM
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
I have a feeling that she would be more like SS and just want someone to sext with and give her attention.This one is an easy lay.
She said, "Nothing serious." aka CASUAL (Hookups)
Just get to know her a bit then invite her out.
She said, "Nothing serious." aka CASUAL (Hookups)
Just get to know her a bit then invite her out.
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