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post 1662544123 06-08-2022, 02:16 PM
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feels like just last week OP was degenmaXXXing
post 1662544173 06-08-2022, 02:18 PM
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she probably did you a favour, you were most likely masking things which you disliked about her so you could keep fukking

thats what 99% of men do. including me.
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post 1662544303 06-08-2022, 02:19 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish
should have beat her up a little bit if you wanted her to love you

gals can't fall in love without a taste of physical violence

why are all women like this

Spoiler!
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post 1662544503 06-08-2022, 02:24 PM
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I hate to break it to you but you should not be this sad over 3 months. Be thankful it did not drag on longer than it did and thank goodness she told you out right instead of being a pu$$y and just doing dumb **** like ghosting or becoming disinterested hoping it will die off to make it difficult.

Consider yourself extremely lucky it ended this way. Cheers to new adventures BB you got this.
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post 1662544993 06-08-2022, 02:32 PM
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Hopeless Romantic.
post 1662545063 06-08-2022, 02:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze
Hopeless Romantic.
Probably, and nothing wrong with that. Op falls in love often and sees the best in people, or maybe sees what he wants to see.
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post 1662545083 06-08-2022, 02:34 PM
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Just read that OP had two prostitutes as ex GFs? Like literal whores other guys were fuking at the same time,

Ayy lmao, OP is a beta second tier male
post 1662545113 06-08-2022, 02:35 PM
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pics or negs ****g0t
post 1662545123 06-08-2022, 02:35 PM
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Originally Posted By littlemissy
I hate to break it to you but you should not be this sad over 3 months. Be thankful it did not drag on longer than it did and thank goodness she told you out right instead of being a pu$$y and just doing dumb **** like ghosting or becoming disinterested hoping it will die off to make it difficult.

Consider yourself extremely lucky it ended this way. Cheers to new adventures BB you got this.
This.

OP found an above average girl (lmao at 8/10. Nice try homie) for the first time in his life and started imagining spending the rest of his life with her after 3 months.

In the meantime the girl wasn’t even in love.

Man up, OP. Focus on your career, pushing it in the gym and being better every day.
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post 1662545233 06-08-2022, 02:37 PM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze
Hopeless Romantic.
Lmao totally something the **** wearing a fish net would say

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post 1662545633 06-08-2022, 02:43 PM
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Originally Posted By redraider86
Probably, and nothing wrong with that. Op falls in love often and sees the best in people, or maybe sees what he wants to see.
Definitely. I would know because while I hate to admit it, I'm the same lol.

It can definitely be a weakness that needs to be mitigated, but it serves as a benefit sometimes.
post 1662545783 06-08-2022, 02:45 PM
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This must be your theme op


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post 1662546023 06-08-2022, 02:48 PM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze
Definitely. I would know because while I hate to admit it, I'm the same lol.

It can definitely be a weakness that needs to be mitigated, but it serves as a benefit sometimes.
Same! We are very alike!!!We want to see the best in people - have you ever heard of limerence? Think you have a smidge of that, or do you keep it sane?
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post 1662546203 06-08-2022, 02:52 PM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger
Immediately went NC. I didn't beg I didn't argue. Just told her "Thank for your honesty".

End of a 3 months relationship with a legit 8/10 of 24 yo.

Long story short : I'm a wonderful person but she can't manage to fall in love with me.

She was not exactly setting the world on fire with her intelligence but it was refreshing and I got used to talk to her everyday and see her every weekend.

I honestly considered getting engaged to her in a year if things went well.

This is were it hurts the most : You envision things, you set a roadmap and when you think you finally got "the one" she pulls away.

I don't even want to try anymore : I just want to rot and things to end in a way...

Life is too damn difficult.
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post 1662546543 06-08-2022, 02:59 PM
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You'll get over it. Focus on your life and only put time and effort into good women.
post 1662547253 06-08-2022, 03:16 PM
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Jeezus Cries...3 months and this is your reaction? No wonder she's not taking you seriously.
post 1662549163 06-08-2022, 03:49 PM
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Not to downplay your feelings or anything m8, but 3 months of dating is WAY too quick to be getting so invested in a woman so much like that. You sound like one of those birds who feels like a guy needs to propose marriage within a year of dating to be worth her time, or a single mother broad who tries to rush a relationship by introducing a new guy to her kids after she's only been dating him for a couple months.
post 1662549553 06-08-2022, 03:55 PM
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The first 3 months is probably the best time anyway. Starting back at the beginning will bring energy back brah.

FTB time for the next one.
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