fuark guys. 1-1.5 week ago i got a new match in tinder. really cute girl, im pretty sure i saw her in my town a couple of times (not sure if she saw me), and she also sent the first message (first time it happens to me with non-ugly females.)


anyway we chatted for a few days when most of the time she answer every few hours. anyway the convo itself seemed good.
a few days ago i asked her # to talk in whatsapp. i figured this way the convo will be faster.... right? no.
she gave it to me and i told her ill talk to her in the evening. i sent her a message in whatsapp (around 22pm, a bit late.)
and no answer lol.

2 days later i sent her a message in tinder and she answered a day later (today.)


wtf?
no idea why no answer in whatsapp. i would give up on her if she wasnt so cute. felt a good vibe at first but now feeling like im just 1 out of 50 guys she answer once a day. for example she answered in tinder and just ignored the fact 2 messages ago she sent her #. like she pays 5 seconds attention to me everytime.


what should i do?
NC?
talk to her about this?
try to just keep chatting hoping it will suddenly be better?
ask her out directly out of no where?

She probably thinks you're a loser.

Get an iPhone

WhatsApp and green bubbles are for creeps.

i got an iphone lol. idk how its in murica, but here everyone is using whatsapp only.

Nvm then.

Yeah I hear WhatsApp is popular over seas. In NA it's a massive red flag srs.

Anyways you're asking the wrong questions which is your problem. It's one girl. Who gives a chit if she ghosts you, I get ghosted by 9 out of every 10 girls I'm talking to on dating apps. You need to be talking to multiple multiple girls on these apps. Abundance mindset brah.

well the convo was kinda good and she showed alot of interest (for me i get this like once every 30 matches) + she is cute af so...

obviously if i had alot of options i wouldnt care but thats not my situation.

I would ask her out directly out of nowhere based on your options. Whatever you do, do not bring up your feelings or act rattled about the way she communicates as it will be an instant pussy drier.

Literally just say - "Drinks this weekend? There's a great new spot on xyz street I want to check out."

If she doesn't reply just leave it.

I thought whatsapp is for nigerians. Anytime I had customers wanting to pay or contact me, they always ask for whatsapp and it is always either from Nigerians or overseas people.

Trying to scam me or something.

Keep calling her and leaving voicemails, OP. Tell her you love her. Buy her flowers, uggs and ipad.

i think ill go for something like this tomorrow. gonna sucks getting rejected (95%) but w/e

If she was into you, she would be messaging you back as soon as she could.


It's far more likely that you are option J, kept in reserve when options A through I don't pan out.

meanwhile option A is getting near instant messages back from her or has already banged her so hard she is walking crooked.

Do this and report back for reps