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post 1662720673 06-11-2022, 08:33 PM
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Feel like a lonely, loser.

I made a thread a few months ago, about how I liked this girl who is about a year older than me(im 26). I used to see her at the gym I go to, but had to leave the gym. Cause i was pissed the management told me the people were complaining i was smelling of BO .Which is such bull**** cause i used to go there daily for 6 months and know everybody, but anyway i digress. I thought that girl was the one, though i didn't say a word to her( she's on the bike and competes). This was march. I dont know how , but not seeing her made me forget her when just a few weeks back I thought she was the one.

Since then i leave the gym and join my local crunch fitness gym. I always make sure i wear deo and body spray now, cause id ****in rock the next person who says i stink, anyway i digress.

At this gym there was a lil(hardly 5 feet, im 6'2) Brazilian girl ( i couldn't even tell what she was at first ) but i though she was cute , she was the receptionist at the gym btw. i ask her name, she shook my hand ,since then i was always eager to see her at the gym. Since march to last month, she always greeted me with the biggest smile while saying my name. That's how i caught feels.

This past memorial day she tells she's leaving the gym, i say, ok it was nice knowing you. She offered me her social media. I really wish she didn't , she could have just been another passerby. So the past 2 weeks now, i have been doing a deep dive into her social media. Looks like she has had a kid when she was 19( she's my age, 26 now). Her kid was born on 2014, but after 2017, probably when she broke up with him, she hasn't posted at all about the child. Apart from older videos dating <2017, she has no where mentioned she has a kid, or even seemed so. The kid is with the guy, who now is with someone else. Anyway this doesn't matter.

I would never be with someone with a kid. I mean i go to the gym everyday hoping for a young virgin wife (hopefully Albion) whose only true love is me .

Misc, i just want you tell me how i missed out on this girl(pic below) and if ever i will find true love. I might be months away from getting an actual job, but even then , how long until i make big money to attract woman? when I'm as old as I'm bald?. Money doesn't matter without looks .

I feel like i cant love again, misc.
wut do

post 1662720713 06-11-2022, 08:34 PM
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Cliffs:
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-cant summarize my feels
post 1662720953 06-11-2022, 08:40 PM
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Autism speaks…

Caught feels over a chick whose job it was to say hello to you! JFL
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post 1662721083 06-11-2022, 08:42 PM
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I would say try men, but it seems like you already have based on the pic.
post 1662721133 06-11-2022, 08:43 PM
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post 1662721223 06-11-2022, 08:45 PM
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Dude wat
post 1662721423 06-11-2022, 08:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Toker095
I used to see her at the gym I go to, but had to leave the gym. Cause i was pissed the management told me the people were complaining i was smelling of BO
^^Didn't read a single word past this. My man had to leave the gym for smelling like shіt.


post 1662721643 06-11-2022, 08:54 PM
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Originally Posted By ExPatriot
Autism speaks…

Caught feels over a chick whose job it was to say hello to you! JFL
post 1662721713 06-11-2022, 08:56 PM
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Single mothers can be fwbs though in my book
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post 1662722313 06-11-2022, 09:10 PM
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A bit loose with your spelling there buddy..

You also sound like you need a diagnosis and therapy/treatment btw (srs, no hate).
post 1662722443 06-11-2022, 09:12 PM
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Originally Posted By miscallday12
I would say try men, but it seems like you already have based on the pic.
i have always loved the pixie cut, it shows her neck and she is skinny. can do wicked hand stands and flip and splits too
Originally Posted By nothingshocking
will be playing this on repeat. thanks for putting me on to it
Originally Posted By gwg77
^^Didn't read a single word past this. My man had to leave the gym for smelling like shіt.


man i swear to god, it might have been one or two in particular who were jelly of my aesthetics , as i was starting to do cardio then srs .

and the whole ****in gym smells of sweat. its a gym for ffs.
anyway its in the past now
Originally Posted By Nicklol
Single mothers can be fwbs though in my book
not her man, i really liked her.
what breaks my heart is a guy enjoyed her fruit at 19. while im here at 26, broke and never had a gf
Originally Posted By ExPatriot
Autism speaks…

Caught feels over a chick whose job it was to say hello to you! JFL
i have been misc'in long enough to know , rule #1. never fall for the receptionist.
But her hello's were different, she used to scream my name when she used to see me.
I could swear her look and smile were different when she saw me
post 1662722583 06-11-2022, 09:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Mulloway69
A bit loose with your spelling there buddy..

You also sound like you need a diagnosis and therapy/treatment btw (srs, no hate).
sorry about the spelling, i could swear i proofread it , but I'm too depressed to even do that right, i guess, just wanted to find comfort with the misc.
i have a final on Thursday . my gpa and graduation depends on it. but i cant even seem to focus on studying, cause of the fact she has had a kid.

why do u think i need therapy? i go to the gym everyday , isn't that enough?. you sound just like my family.
post 1662723623 06-11-2022, 09:37 PM
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Originally Posted By Toker095
i have been misc'in long enough to know , rule #1. never fall for the receptionist.
But her hello's were different,she used to scream my name when she used to see me.
I could swear her look and smile were different when saw me
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post 1662723723 06-11-2022, 09:39 PM
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post 1662723743 06-11-2022, 09:39 PM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking
Wizard
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Phantom north, I'll be there when you hunt them down.

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post 1662724363 06-11-2022, 09:56 PM
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Originally Posted By ExPatriot
lmao , this definitely helps my day dreaming of a life with her

At least tell me how beautiful she is misc,
so i can feel bad that when she was pregnant with her baby , i was busy playing fifa 15 in my sophomore year of college, funnily that's also when i started the gym.
always thought i was going to be a chad...8 years later, I'm loosing in love, back to back
post 1662724443 06-11-2022, 09:57 PM
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Originally Posted By Toker095
lmao , this definitely helps my day dreaming of a life with her

At least tell me how beautiful she is misc,
so i can feel bad that when she was pregnant with her baby , i was busy playing fifa 15 in my sophomore year of college, funnily that's also when i started the gym.
always thought i was going to be a chad...8 years later, I'm loosing in love, back to back
It's Sunday morning and I have already been to Mass so let me be honest - she looks like a teenage boy...Ded fkn srs
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post 1662724903 06-11-2022, 10:11 PM
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Originally Posted By ExPatriot
It's Sunday morning and I have already been to Mass so let me be honest - she looks like a teenage boy...Ded fkn srs
not a lot of women at 26-27, look as young as a teenager.
i really missed out on someone special, uh ?
post 1662725173 06-11-2022, 10:19 PM
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Originally Posted By Toker095
not a lot of women at 26-27, look as young as a teenager.
i really missed out on someone special, uh ?
Apparently, you missed the "boy" part...

But your autism is working full time!
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post 1662725403 06-11-2022, 10:26 PM
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Originally Posted By ExPatriot
Apparently, you missed the "boy" part...

But your autism is working full time!
so you think i can find someone better looking ?
post 1662725423 06-11-2022, 10:27 PM
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if OG coal man , sees this thread . u must be thinking im a beta fuk.
sorry im down bad rn
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What a cutie, shame she's tarnished. Not to sound too ****gy here friend but I had a similar experience when I had a girl like this we mutually liked (except her big reveal was she has herpes). Said she got it from the first guy she ever had sex with, dunno if that's true or not but regardless phuck him.

It's when I realized men are pigs. Sluts are gross don't get me wrong but sluts is a gender neutral term. Men who are slaves to their own body are as beta as beta can be.
post 1662725713 06-11-2022, 10:42 PM
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Originally Posted By Toker095
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didnt read lol
post 1662725863 06-11-2022, 10:46 PM
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Originally Posted By ThatsRightBitch
What a cutie, shame she's tarnished. Not to sound too ****gy here friend but I had a similar experience when I had a girl like this we mutually liked (except her big reveal was she has herpes). Said she got it from the first guy she ever had sex with, dunno if that's true or not but regardless phuck him.

It's when I realized men are pigs. Sluts are gross don't get me wrong but sluts is a gender neutral term. Men who are slaves to their own body are as beta as beta can be.
lmao

the only thing i took away from this is , its high time i stop thinking with my dink and being pussy whipped, especially when the pussy isn't even mine.

but, u think she is cute, uh? tell me how cute she is. It will make me hate myself even more that i wasn't her first love
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Originally Posted By Toker095
so you think i can find someone better looking ?
Well that's up to you innit?

I mean you are either trolling or a full blown autist if you "caught feels" over a girl who only ever said hello to you. Then you stalk her SM and find out that she is a single Mom, arguably the worst possible choice for a partner. You should be glad that it never amounted to anything...Ded fkn srs
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Originally Posted By ExPatriot
Well that's up to you innit?

I mean you are either trolling or a full blown autist if you "caught feels" over a girl who only ever said hello to you. Then you stalk her SM and find out that she is a single Mom, arguably the worst possible choice for a partner. You should be glad that it never amounted to anything...Ded fkn srs
'nuff said. thanks.

but fuk it hurts, how long is it going to take to get over this one now,uh?
always getting over girls whom i haven't even touched, fml . getting pathetically tiring now
post 1662726843 06-11-2022, 11:10 PM
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Originally Posted By Toker095
'nuff said. thanks.

but fuk it hurts, how long is it going to take to get over this one now,uh?
always getting over girls whom i haven't even touched, fml . getting pathetically tiring now
So stop investing your time / emotions in women (or anyone else for that matter) who don't value you. It's really not that hard of a concept...

Dating is a numbers game - separating the wheat from the chaff takes a lot of time and energy boyo. Keep plugging away but always put yourself first because if you don't, you will continue to end up in the same place!

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post 1662726983 06-11-2022, 11:13 PM
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didnt read but you are way out of her league srs
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This is a prime misc post right here
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Originally Posted By imbored21
didnt read but you are way out of her league srs
then why did she offer to give me her social when she was leaving ( to get into real estate btw )
when all we did was say hi and bye to each other

also, weren't u having sex with blowup dolls ?
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