Most women are vapid as fuk brah, this isn't anything new. I do imagine certain things (ie social media) have probably exasperated it even further though.

Brad and nonsense's lives revolve around sloots. Theyre dedicated simps and dont even realize it

Nonsense injects his azz, works out, diets, brags about money, stages his photos, dresses for sloots, haircuts for sloots, etc., etc. All for sloots

Theyre going for mass appeal

Theyll have more matches with more dimes but less quality for partner. So, sloots

Id bet my left nut striker would get higher quality people, albeit at a lesser clip

Yeah, I'm with you, in Chicago too.

I was in a relationship during the lockdown and an back on the online apps now. It's a complete chitshow.

Hinge pre-covid was relatively new and that's where most of the attractive chicks migrated, now all the Plenty of Fish chicks from 3 years ago are on Hinge.

Then there's the super hot chicks who all have their bikini pics while lounging on some dude's boat, or at the beach in all the exotic locations they are looking for a man to take them to.

Plenty of literal prostitutes who are looking for "genorosity" in return for their time.

Then there are all the Poly sloots.

The chicks with 2 kids who will always be their #1 priority and if you're not ok with it swipe the other way.


Any decent looking chick out there has already been run through by dozens of guys at this point. No one is new to online dating anymore.

Okay I must have missed that part. I see what you are talking about. Going to try and wait another week or so then. Because no way this is the dating pool from Chicago, even if I didn't use some of these filters.Yea I know that's why I'm so surprised. Maybe I'll wait a bit and see and use some filters.

Simps
Actually fuking these bitches



Pick 1

Okay I'll wait a bit.

I'll give this app a month or so and see.

I'm not acting like I'm the king of kings on here and I should be getting flooded by the hottest hoes in Chicago. But was just shocked at getting .1% of "attractive" or relevant women to my profile. I thought it was a joke.

/dating post-2012

Have problems even using hinge due to no verification codes.

Bumble sucks.

Tinder had some success but now im living with rents and unemployed

As someone who used to do well on tinder and bumble and going back to dating apps after 4 years away this thread is depressing lol


Was about to download hinge bc I thought it was the newest trendier one but from brahs itt it’s gone to chit just like tinder and bumble? I heard hinge is so much better as long as you are willing to pay to play

I'll let you know in another week.

The only thing I can think of is the algorithm is taking its time to curate the matches. The star part has almost all the women that would be compatible with but you have to spend money on roses to send them. I'll pass on that. But I've never seen them in the regular matching.

So far I just get the opposite of my preferences with some decent ones sparsely thrown in, and now they are showing me past chicks I've x'd on for a second time.

Just jumped on hinge...

nope, nope, nope, no way, maybe... wait I'm just thinking that because she isn't as bad as the last 4, no, nope, nope, nope, well she seems ok but lives 45 min away... fuk this chit put phone down

We keep telling you guys cold approaching is the way. Stop letting society shame you into not cold approaching

The problem with your post and the misc is I see average men with average women all the time no matter where I go.

You really aren't contributing anything here.

While neither are simps, it's evident that a lot of their self esteem or worth revolves around women (to an unecessary degree). Otherwise they wouldn't feel the need to let everyone here know how much play they're getting.

Once you get past 30 that behavior really isn't becoming of a grown man who's fully confident in himself.

why does simp stop at fuking these bishes?

maybe im using simp wrong. and i mean more the wk version.

actually, i just checked.. looks like i was right:

"a simp is: Someone who tries way too hard to impress the person they like, often going above and beyond to satisfy their every need"

you could absolutely still be a simp after fuking women. "poosy whipped" is what it used to be called

for instance, nonsense shortening his life injecting himself... for poosy

internet dating started going downhill the moment the smartphone became means for dopamine hits for women. That is all their dating profile is to them. They base their self-worth on how many push notifications / likes their phone zaps them with.

I decade ago, if you were online dating, 9/10 times it was cute shy college aged chicks laying in bed on their computer looking for D. You will probably have much better results with much less effort if you just talked to women in public...but that would require you to actually talk to a woman irl

Why are the foreign asian chicks so ****ing autistic though.

It's hilarious how there are universal similarities on women's Hinge profiles, like the travel, food, caption about taking forever to textback or right away etc. Then there are the location dependent generic Hinge messages. Over here in the UK it's something about 'dad jokes'.

I've defo gotten the most out of Hinge than any other dating app. I will say tho OP, it might take a bit of time/swiping before you get through the garbage. When I started my profile, I KEPT getting fat, trans, non-binary, physically disabled etc etc. I even got dwarfs srs. Literally every swipe was something like this. Obviously it is a woke app but even I was baffled at the app's approach - like it was trying to convince me that everything that's far from the norm is the norm. It did pass tho, idk if it'll be the same for you but this was my experience.

Can confirm , plus having a micro doesn’t help with pulling the sloots either .
Well that and old age lol

women all do whatever other women do
water is wet
majin buu lands on namek

LOL an Irish Goodbye is when you ghost someone in the middle of the date, basically. I'd only recently heard the phrase myself.

I'm surprised by the Love Languages thing. That used to mostly be popular in Evangelical / married ministries and now much like the enneagram it seems to have taken off into mainstream culture. Not a bad thing, but it's disorienting to see it on a freaking dating app.

Welcome to online dating, OP, where unless you check off 10/10 boxes for a woman physically, she won't give you the time of day and has unlimited options to not think twice about turning you down/ghosting you. That's just how it goes nowadays, mate. I was there online during the glory days of Tinder/Bumble where above average dudes still had a puncher's chance and even before Hinge became THE app where, again, normal dudes had a chance. Now, unless you're extremely handsome or 6 feet + 6 figures, you don't really have a shot anymore.

The advice is the same as it is for everyone who isn't one of the select few that pulls on the apps: let OLD supplement, but not be the source of, your dating life.

EDIT: No offense brah but you also need to get out more if you don't know what an Irish Goodbye is.

This is actually pretty solid advice.

This.

I constantly was dating someone from gr 10 till married. I didn't know that I was "networking", but I talked to /knew everyone. That was just normal.

Fking talk to people

OMG another online dating thread.

Ok guys, listen, and listen well.

The vast majority of you ain't chit. I'm not saying that to rip on you, but you guys are just as unrealistic as the single moms who feel entitled to a millionaire.

For the guys complaining in this thread - give an honest accounting of what you actually bring to the table? Why would a cute young girl want you? Do you have your life 100% sorted out? Do you have a good stable profession? Are you ambitious? Are you growing in your career? What's your realistic career ceiling? How much money are you making now, and how much will you realistically make on your career path? Do you have your own home, own apartment, have roommates, or live with parents? Are you fit and in shape? Have you spent a minimum of 2 years in the gym consistently & eating right? Do you dress well, and is it appropriate for your age? Are you in control of your OWN life?

These are the most basic questions and basic building blocks, and I'd bet serious money the majority of you guys that are complaining about your online dating results are BELOW AVERAGE, certainly not anywhere near top 20%. Did you notice I didn't even include looks / height / weight / body? I'll tell you why.....cuz you'd fail before we even got there.

Here's another uncomfortable truth - most of you are using dating apps because deep down you KNOW you aint chit - you are using the app because you can't attract girls in "real life" either, it's total cope. If you can't pull girls in real life, what makes you think you can pull girls on the apps when it's even HARDER on the apps? I'll tell you why, because you're desperate and you're STILL swiping right on the fatties, the chubbies, the single moms, etc because you're below average and have no dignity or respect for yourself....most of ya'll will sleep with literally anything because you don't get laid.

So get off the stupid apps, stop wasting your time, and improve yourself into the MAN who would actually be attractive to a young physically / mentally healthy women.


So if you're going to complain - lets seriously have this conversation then - tell us the truth about yourselves so we can give you an honest evaluation of where you rank, and what you need to work on.


*edit*
And holy chit OP, if you can't get girls in Chicago there is no helping you. Anytime I visit Chicago my phone literally explodes from an endless stream of seriously cute and downright pretty girls, they are all friendly, warm, bubbly, it's one of the best places for girls I've been to. If you struggle there you need to take a realistic assessment of yourself.

I also saw this time and again when I tried dating apps. It's as if women check out other women's profiles before they make their own so they get some ideas what to put on them. It's as if they have no individuality, no distinct character, no remarkable qualities to their personality they feel should be front and center of a self-advertisement, so they just stick with what the others in the herd are doing. I really can't think of any other explanation. No legit reason why dozens of women's profiles should say "Pam looking for her Jim!" or some reference to a TV show with some characters who fell in love.

they gots ego, but as you kinda said.. their mindset is in the collective

it happens when you're inculcated with excessive ego; too caught up in yourself to see around you; dunning kruger in effect too. also women less on the hunt, and more on the receiving end so not as cognizant about it. more likewhensome guy approaches notifsome guy approaches mindset.

as i think about it, may explain humanity tbh

they all copy the same caricatures they see online while on social media

its absolutely wild how cookie cutter like they all really are yet will tell you how unique & different they all feel that they are LOL

at least they make it apparent that they spend entirely too much time on social media and allows you an easier time to sift through the undesirables

North Carolina is a really good place to find solid attractive females. I was on a trip to Charlotte once during one of my least attractive times(30-40 pounds overweight and not looksmaxxed) and still matched with a couple 7.5/10ish girls who were sweet and absolutely great GF material. Not really a fan of North Carolina otherwise, but it seems like it produces really great girls.

Jordan B Peterson explained this really well when he talked about cliches. When you write a bio to describe yourself on a dating app, you're opening yourself up to judgement. If you offer up a cliche, it's like holding someone else's shield over your head and having it take the crticism. "Well, Dolphin Pilot thinks my Jim and Pam bio is lame as fuk, but that wasn't my idea. He's not judging me on what I'mreallylike."

Women are mortified of judgement, and will deflect it (fat acceptance, sloot acceptance, etc) or just avoid it at every turn. They need to fit in, and they will take safe, lame, and corny over risking disapproval all day.


It's also good to know I'm not the only one with a trash Hinge feed. It's worse than walking into a Walmart DFS.