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post 1663682623 06-30-2022, 11:05 AM
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3-weeks post breakup udpate

Got dumped on June 7th still feel like a train wreck.

I lost 10lbs because I can barely eat anything and I haven't been to the gym since.

It requires every ounce of willpower and control to not reach out to her and plead for her to give us a second chance and try again.

I miss her like a mofo, It's been a while since I've been through these post-breakup cravings. I feel like a fukkin crackhead on rehab.

I have no idea of how long this is going to last and when I'll finally start feeling myself again.

Why are women so cold-hearted brahs ?

I loved her very much, I would have gave her the moon.

Why did she blindsided me until the very end ? Why wait for me to finally open up and start falling in love to drop ? why not during the 3 months prior ?

It's over I give up on women : I'd rather stay a monk for the rest of my life than endure this pain over and over again. That's one time too many.
post 1663682673 06-30-2022, 11:05 AM
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Is this the literal hooker or a different chick?
post 1663682693 06-30-2022, 11:06 AM
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Bro....I mean...bro.....
post 1663682753 06-30-2022, 11:07 AM
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Originally Posted By BrianDaMan⏩
Is this the literal hooker or a different chick?
Different chick I met early February this year.

It was all a dream : communication was on point, the dates were great, she was beautiful until she decided to end things.
post 1663682833 06-30-2022, 11:09 AM
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Sorry bro chit happens. You have to protect yourself and always be ready to pull the plug when they act sketchy.

The good news is there's always another one right around the corner. It gets better, no pussy is better than new pussy.
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post 1663682993 06-30-2022, 11:12 AM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Different chick I met early February this year.

It was all a dream : communication was on point, the dates were great, she was beautiful until she decided to end things.
you were this in love with a chick you've known 4 months? Slap yourself and stop acting like a bitch
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post 1663683493 06-30-2022, 11:20 AM
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3 weeks and you still feel that way? Beta af bro

I got dumped in a 6 months relationship just on saturday.
It stings but can't say i feel as beta as you

And im wondering the same about how she could be so heartless ?
O well , girls aint logical

It will never make sense bro life goes on
post 1663683693 06-30-2022, 11:23 AM
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Originally Posted By SamIAm1892⏩
Bro....I mean...bro.....
I thought i was the worst post break up

Nah op takes it to another level

3 weeks of feeling that way ? Losing weight?
B-E-T-A

I aint lost no weight , im still smiling
And i dated the girl longer than op

Girls are heartless , time for op to accept female nature and get an abundance mind state
post 1663683743 06-30-2022, 11:25 AM
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Lmao ...havent been to the gym since?

You beta simp

I got dumped saturday

Didnt stop me from hitting the gym for an hour last night
post 1663684003 06-30-2022, 11:29 AM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Got dumped on June 7th still feel like a train wreck.

I lost 10lbs because I can barely eat anything and I haven't been to the gym since.

It requires every ounce of willpower and control to not reach out to her and plead for her to give us a second chance and try again.

I miss her like a mofo, It's been a while since I've been through these post-breakup cravings. I feel like a fukkin crackhead on rehab.

I have no idea of how long this is going to last and when I'll finally start feeling myself again.

Why are women so cold-hearted brahs ?

I loved her very much, I would have gave her the moon.

Why did she blindsided me until the very end ? Why wait for me to finally open up and start falling in love to drop ? why not during the 3 months prior ?

It's over I give up on women : I'd rather stay a monk for the rest of my life than endure this pain over and over again. That's one time too many.
Not to be cold, but my chick left me memorial day weekend after like 9 months, totally unexpected. It sucked. She sent me a long text, I replied with "K" and ghosted and blocked her. Easiest way to deal with it. 3 weeks later im pulling off of tinder with no problems, and I am super fat and not attractive. She made up her mind, shes not coming back, so move on and get laid bro.
post 1663684283 06-30-2022, 11:34 AM
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She was the best man
post 1663684463 06-30-2022, 11:36 AM
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My divorce was finalized about 4 weeks ago, I wouldn't wish that hell on my worst enemy. The amount of mental trauma/depression I went through and still go through is horrifying. I will never get that close to someone again.
post 1663684813 06-30-2022, 11:41 AM
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Yea not to come across harsh on ya bro

I know how it feels

You feel as if youlll never like a girl as much as her again . Look back in time, eventually soon or later a girl comes and tops it.

Sounds like we both dealt with some pretty garbage heartless sloots lately

I did everything you stated , treated her like gold and got stepped on in the end

Partly the reason why i walk away with no regrets , bc i know i tried my best.deep down she prob knows it .
post 1663685083 06-30-2022, 11:43 AM
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I can't bring myself to block her because deep down there is still the slightest hope that she might regret her decision and comeback running.

I unfollowed her from instagram though but neither of us was able to block the other. Blocking is quite petty, unless you got cheated on, lied to or deceived, this is too much.

I put her gifts in a box, I masked her photos but couldn't deleter them nor our conversation.

For all the previous breakups I was strong enough to deleter everything the minute the breakup was pronounced, but not this time.
post 1663685203 06-30-2022, 11:45 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Yea not to come across harsh on ya bro

I know how it feels

You feel as if youlll never like a girl as much as her again . Look back in time, eventually soon or later a girl comes and tops it.

Sounds like we both dealt with some pretty garbage heartless sloots lately

I did everything you stated , treated her like gold and got stepped on in the end

Partly the reason why i walk away with no regrets , bc i know i tried my best.deep down she prob knows it .
One thing is to just have focus in your own life. Let her be an auxiliary to it but not enough where you need it to survive.

It's the age of free love now and women got the upper hand unless you are like Zeus chad. But even then, they get played to.

Got to be Stone Cold now, rock solid hard and congealed. Nothing phases you, not even going toe to toe with a raging bull.
post 1663685233 06-30-2022, 11:46 AM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
I can't bring myself to block her because deep down there is still the slightest hope that she might regret her decision and comeback running.

I unfollowed her from instagram though but neither of us was able to block the other. Blocking is quite petty, unless you got cheated on, lied to or deceived, this is too much.

I put her gifts in a box, I masked her photos but couldn't deleter them nor our conversation.

For all the previous breakups I was strong enough to deleter everything the minute the breakup was pronounced, but not this time.
Listen, she aint coming back. For your own sanity and mental health delete all that stuff, throw it away, and move on. Someone better always come along and you cant get hung up on a chick that no longer wants you. Once a woman makes up her mind on this stuff, its over. Delete her and her freinds from your life.
post 1663685413 06-30-2022, 11:49 AM
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Originally Posted By badbl00d⏩
you were this in love with a chick you've known 4 months? Slap yourself and stop acting like a bitch
You’re saying this to a guy who fell in love with a working escort. Would you expect anything else? Why are you such a desperate simp? Move on and find someone that actually cares and wants to be with you.
post 1663685483 06-30-2022, 11:50 AM
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Bruh, forget about it and move on. In a year, you will regret wasting time thinking about her. It's over its over. You move on.
post 1663685573 06-30-2022, 11:51 AM
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You met her this February


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Originally Posted By Beararms⏩
My divorce was finalized about 4 weeks ago, I wouldn't wish that hell on my worst enemy. The amount of mental trauma/depression I went through and still go through is horrifying. I will never get that close to someone again.
How long were you guys together? Any kids? Why the divorce?
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Originally Posted By blazenbb⏩
You’re saying this to a guy who fell in love with a working escort. Would you expect anything else? Why are you such a desperate simp? Move on and find someone that actually cares and wants to be with you.
Lmao he what? No fuking way...
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Originally Posted By SamIAm1892⏩
One thing is to just have focus in your own life. Let her be an auxiliary to it but not enough where you need it to survive.

It's the age of free love now and women got the upper hand unless you are like Zeus chad. But even then, they get played to.

Got to be Stone Cold now, rock solid hard and congealed. Nothing phases you, not even going toe to toe with a raging bull.
Yes bro
Like someone told me on here before once that always stuck with me :

" just be glad you got a turn "

At the end of the day ill look back and be glad i had some hot se)( with a fob chinese girl
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Gotta move on.

I'll keep grinding, moneymaxxing, gymaxxing, careermaxxxing and in a few years when I'll look at her post-glow I'll have a laugh about how I wasted so many weeks over her.

Thank you all brahs.

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hey man I remember you broke up on the week I did except mine was a 2 year relationship where we where she was talking about marriage 2 months ago

so far I got back in the gym and cutting lost 10 pounds / lifting heavy again
got new clothes
friend / adventure maxxing

Still is a mix of emotions but I can feel longer and longer periods of me feeling like I'm moving on.. also remember she will be back

were all gonna make it
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if you are a dude and you legit loved the gal to fully get over her you need twice the time you spent with her
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Originally Posted By xxdef1antxx⏩
Listen, she aint coming back. For your own sanity and mental health delete all that stuff, throw it away, and move on. Someone better always come along and you cant get hung up on a chick that no longer wants you. Once a woman makes up her mind on this stuff, its over. Delete her and her freinds from your life.
I cant agree that shell never come back

I wouldnt block the girl , no point.

Exs come back all the time , especially if you treated them correctly.


But dont count on it or approach nc as a method to get her back

You go nc because you have quit and are now moving on
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
It's over I give up on women : I'd rather stay a monk for the rest of my life than endure this pain over and over again. That's one time too many.
Many live that life quite contently. Maybe not "happy" as happiness is mainly an illusion never far from collapsing. I am grateful that I never have and never will have to deal with a break-up. Just stay single and live on your own terms for a while and see how it goes.

Many warriors and heroes can be single for many years...nothing wrong with it.
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As an old guy that learned the hard way, never spend a moment of your fleeting life in heart break over someone that doesnt love you back.

You will look back and regret every second of it.

If its meant to be, she will come back. If not meant to be, she wont. In either instance you better get busy living because your hopes and thoughts arent going to change the outcome.
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Why did she blindsided me until the very end ? Why wait for me to finally open up and start falling in love to drop ? why not during the 3 months prior ?
It's always the same. Every sloot. As soon as she knows she has you, boom, shes on to the next.

Treat them like chit - regardless of how you truly feel - they will not leave. They will keep on coming back because you are the absolute best they can get.

Yes. Women are THAT DUMB
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