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Thread: If you had a son, would you prefer he be masculine or effeminate?

post 1664024123 07-07-2022, 06:09 AM
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If you had a son, would you prefer he be masculine or effeminate?

Would it matter to you, do you think? And if so, why?
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post 1664024333 07-07-2022, 06:14 AM
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Originally Posted By RICHSTRONG⏩
Well, of course, effeminate doesn't mean he's gay.
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post 1664024703 07-07-2022, 06:21 AM
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Originally Posted By RICHSTRONG⏩
What happened to this guy? Does he still misc?
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Srs though, what would you do?
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post 1664027963 07-07-2022, 07:50 AM
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I came in to ask what kind of gay question was this. I then saw who the OP was and immediately knew he was taking a tally on future grooming subjects.
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Define Effeminate? Is he gay? Or is he not just a confident, cocky, brash dude you'd consider masculine or alpha? Honestly I wouldn't care, but If I had my choice I'd rather raise him in a way that allows him to be both. To be able to be confident, brash, able to take risks when it called for it, but also be able to be soft, compassionate and nurturing. If he was gay I wouldn't care either...That's my son, and I'm not going to let his personal choices effect our relationship.
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post 1664028153 07-07-2022, 07:54 AM
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Lol what kind of question is this. Nobody wants a twink
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I'm beating the gay out of him if he comes out that way.
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Originally Posted By badbl00d⏩
Define Effeminate? Is he gay? Or is he not just a confident, cocky, brash dude you'd consider masculine or alpha? Honestly I wouldn't care, but If I had my choice I'd rather raise him in a way that allows him to be both. To be able to be confident, brash, able to take risks when it called for it, but also be able to be soft, compassionate and nurturing. If he was gay I wouldn't care either...That's my son, and I'm not going to let his personal choices effect our relationship.
That's lovely. I don't think it's a choice in any case. Nobody chooses to be something which other people really dislike.
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post 1664029773 07-07-2022, 08:22 AM
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Originally Posted By bchap05⏩
Lol what kind of question is this. Nobody wants a twink
Actually a lot of males a twinks before they put on muscle in their late 20s or whatever. It's just a body type.
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post 1664030173 07-07-2022, 08:29 AM
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Originally Posted By ukr1410⏩
That's lovely. I don't think it's a choice in any case. Nobody chooses to be something which other people really dislike.
Who cares what other people like or dislike. That's the problem with the world. Be yourself...If someone chooses not to fuk with you they know where they can go.
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post 1664030923 07-07-2022, 08:44 AM
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Originally Posted By ukr1410⏩
That's lovely. I don't think it's a choice in any case. Nobody chooses to be something which other people really dislike.
Maybe it's getting better with regard to the dislike? I think effeminate men used to be more common. Maybe nowadays they are more likely to give the tranny life a shot (I know, still a man, don't @FarmersSon me redraider86)? Growing up my wife got her hair cut by a guy that was a bit effeminate. I met him a few times, really nice man. He volunteered for various things, played the organ in church, etc. Never married or had kids. He lived in a really conservative area with a religious conservative family so maybe closeted gay? Not necessarily though, some hetero dudes are effeminate, too.

No difference in value to me, but If I was choosing for my son, I would choose masculine because I think it would potentially result in an easier life. Easier isn't necessarily better, of course, but when I step back and think about it I always come back to thinking life's hard enough already, I'm going to hit the easy button as often as I can. I think it would be easier for me to relate to a masculine son, and I think it would be easier for him to make friends and relate to more people. I agree with you though, I don't think it's a choice.
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Originally Posted By FarmersSon⏩
Maybe it's getting better with regard to the dislike? I think effeminate men used to be more common. Maybe nowadays they are more likely to give the tranny life a shot (I know, still a man, don't @FarmersSon me redraider86)? Growing up my wife got her hair cut by a guy that was a bit effeminate. I met him a few times, really nice man. He volunteered for various things, played the organ in church, etc. Never married or had kids. He lived in a really conservative area with a religious conservative family so maybe closeted gay? Not necessarily though, some hetero dudes are effeminate, too.

No difference in value to me, but If I was choosing for my son, I would choose masculine because I think it would potentially result in an easier life. Easier isn't necessarily better, of course, but when I step back and think about it I always come back to thinking life's hard enough already, I'm going to hit the easy button as often as I can. I think it would be easier for me to relate to a masculine son, and I think it would be easier for him to make friends and relate to more people. I agree with you though, I don't think it's a choice.
I agree too, actually. I'm not the most masculine tool in the box but I think on balance, life would be easier if I was a 'regular dude'. But then, I wouldn't be me. Your wife's hairdresser sounds really nice. I hope he was happy. I expect he must have faced some challenges in his life.
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
I'm beating the gay out of him if he comes out that way.
Beatings only make the son more beta and gay

Look at how beta asian men are.
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I have a son and a daughter. I don't care about any of that chit, so long as they are healthy and happy. That's all that matters to me.
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Of course I want my son to be masculine. I think 99% of misc would.

You're the butt pirate here. If you had a son OP, what would you prefer?
Originally Posted By TheWorldIsUrs⏩
What happened to this guy? Does he still misc?
Holy fuk where is he? Anorexilla right?
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
Of course I want my son to be masculine. I think 99% of misc would.

You're the butt pirate here. If you had a son OP, what would you prefer?

Holy fuk where is he? Anorexilla right?
Not exactly a 'butt priate', but hey. I wouldn't mind.
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if i have a son i hope he does this hnnggg

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Originally Posted By ukr1410⏩
Not exactly a 'butt priate', but hey. I wouldn't mind.
Not mind, which would youprefer
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Originally Posted By TheGoldenBull⏩
Beatings only make the son more beta and gay

Look at how beta asian men are.
Either the gay comes out or he dies.


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Whatever doesn’t make him gay or an incel.
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Originally Posted By XterraRob⏩
Don't let your son be sexually abused when he's young and you won't have a homo son.

Teach your son to be mentally, physically, and spiritually strong and you won't have a homo son.
Lol that's an old one that -- abuse makes you gay.
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
Not mind, which would youprefer
I'd get on better with a son like me rather than a typically masculine one, probably. Which is why I'd probably prefer a girl anyway.
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Originally Posted By TheGoldenBull⏩
Beatings only make the son more beta and gay

Look at how beta asian men are.
Someone's never been to a grocery store in the American south. I've seen kids get the black beat off them for acting up in public and it sure didn't make them beta or passive
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No man wants his son to grow up as gay/effeminate...
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Originally Posted By ElectronicsBrah⏩
No man wants his son to grow up as gay/effeminate...
What would you do then if this happened?
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