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07-19-2022, 01:10 AM
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Ever have a date, goes well, but then
Suddenly she just stops being interested?
No obvious reason why. Convo was flowing, leading up to the date we were having good banter over text (that's why I was so confident going in to it that it'd go well).
She suggests we meet again before the date is even over. So we plan for about 4 days out and say we will confirm nearer the time which place and time etc.
We text back and forth after that but her responses seem off. When the date we agreed comes around I tell her I get off work at X time. She says she's super busy atm with work before she goes on vacation so not sure she will have time.
How can this happen within literally 4 days ..? Weird af man
No obvious reason why. Convo was flowing, leading up to the date we were having good banter over text (that's why I was so confident going in to it that it'd go well).
She suggests we meet again before the date is even over. So we plan for about 4 days out and say we will confirm nearer the time which place and time etc.
We text back and forth after that but her responses seem off. When the date we agreed comes around I tell her I get off work at X time. She says she's super busy atm with work before she goes on vacation so not sure she will have time.
How can this happen within literally 4 days ..? Weird af man
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07-19-2022, 04:38 AM
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07-19-2022, 07:06 AM
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Originally Posted By cam1987⏩
And when he does forget her and move on, she'll be back. lmaoIt's because she found someone better. You were her 2nd or 3rd option.
Forget her and move on.
Forget her and move on.
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07-21-2022, 10:18 PM
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Happens a lot to me too. They have friends that put bs in their head or they stalk your social media and a lot of them have like crazy deal breaker stuff
07-21-2022, 11:01 PM
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07-21-2022, 11:18 PM
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It’s happened to me. I’ve realized it’s impossible to know what causes the loss of interest. And a lot of times girls can fake interest during a date in order to get a free meal, safety concerns, trying to be nice, or keeping you as an option incase her top choices don’t pan out.
Might as well just expect it to happen and not get invested.
Might as well just expect it to happen and not get invested.
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07-22-2022, 09:11 AM
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07-22-2022, 12:02 PM
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Because choice happened.
You aren't the only dude in the picture
When dudes start realizing this , and take it for what it is ..you"ll be a lot better off
You aren't the only dude in the picture
When dudes start realizing this , and take it for what it is ..you"ll be a lot better off
07-22-2022, 04:54 PM
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Loss of interest occurs very easily when they are saturated with messages and attention from 100s of guys.
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07-24-2022, 10:36 AM
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
Its not weird it just means she didnt like yo uenough and was too shy to make it apparent. ghosting is basically the most polite way to show disinterest.Suddenly she just stops being interested?
No obvious reason why. Convo was flowing, leading up to the date we were having good banter over text (that's why I was so confident going in to it that it'd go well).
She suggests we meet again before the date is even over. So we plan for about 4 days out and say we will confirm nearer the time which place and time etc.
We text back and forth after that but her responses seem off. When the date we agreed comes around I tell her I get off work at X time. She says she's super busy atm with work before she goes on vacation so not sure she will have time.
How can this happen within literally 4 days ..? Weird af man
No obvious reason why. Convo was flowing, leading up to the date we were having good banter over text (that's why I was so confident going in to it that it'd go well).
She suggests we meet again before the date is even over. So we plan for about 4 days out and say we will confirm nearer the time which place and time etc.
We text back and forth after that but her responses seem off. When the date we agreed comes around I tell her I get off work at X time. She says she's super busy atm with work before she goes on vacation so not sure she will have time.
How can this happen within literally 4 days ..? Weird af man
07-24-2022, 03:02 PM
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happens all the time lmao
this is why you never drop your roster and have a rotation at all times
never buy the BS that she's into you or this or that, trust me
until you are EXCLUSIVE, just assume she will drop you at any point ded srs
this is why you never drop your roster and have a rotation at all times
never buy the BS that she's into you or this or that, trust me
until you are EXCLUSIVE, just assume she will drop you at any point ded srs
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07-24-2022, 04:48 PM
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07-25-2022, 11:38 AM
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07-25-2022, 12:25 PM
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Originally Posted By seeker477⏩
This is the harsh truth. You have to move fast in todays dating world. If a girl gets 20 matches a day, that's 80 in 4 days (really low balling here), so that's 80 men who could be more appealing than you at the moment.What can happen in 4 hours you ask? These girls are talking to 20 different dudes at a time.
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07-25-2022, 01:36 PM
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Originally Posted By Azrairc⏩
not necessarilydate didn't go as well as you thought it did as the likely culprit
I mean I'm sure it went "Great" for you but was "ok" or "meh" for her
happens all the time
I mean I'm sure it went "Great" for you but was "ok" or "meh" for her
happens all the time
the date could have went well but as soon as Chad slides in it's over
Women especially young 20's have an insane amount of options
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07-25-2022, 02:47 PM
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
Happens to the best of us brah. There's thousands of reasons and many of them probably have nothing to do with you. She could've lost interest, her ex of 5 years might be back in the picture, or whatever. Don't let it get to you, keep busy and do your thingSuddenly she just stops being interested?
No obvious reason why. Convo was flowing, leading up to the date we were having good banter over text (that's why I was so confident going in to it that it'd go well).
She suggests we meet again before the date is even over. So we plan for about 4 days out and say we will confirm nearer the time which place and time etc.
We text back and forth after that but her responses seem off. When the date we agreed comes around I tell her I get off work at X time. She says she's super busy atm with work before she goes on vacation so not sure she will have time.
How can this happen within literally 4 days ..? Weird af man
No obvious reason why. Convo was flowing, leading up to the date we were having good banter over text (that's why I was so confident going in to it that it'd go well).
She suggests we meet again before the date is even over. So we plan for about 4 days out and say we will confirm nearer the time which place and time etc.
We text back and forth after that but her responses seem off. When the date we agreed comes around I tell her I get off work at X time. She says she's super busy atm with work before she goes on vacation so not sure she will have time.
How can this happen within literally 4 days ..? Weird af man
07-25-2022, 03:55 PM
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if you didn't bang her or at least finger blast her the date didn't go as well as you thought it did
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07-25-2022, 09:55 PM
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Could be anything
if you genuinely were on your A-game and feel you did everything perfect (and arent lying to yourself about it) then nothing you can do.
She could quite literally have a bf already but then bailed and realized she wants to stay with him instead
if you genuinely were on your A-game and feel you did everything perfect (and arent lying to yourself about it) then nothing you can do.
She could quite literally have a bf already but then bailed and realized she wants to stay with him instead
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07-28-2022, 10:04 PM
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Could be a variety of things. Probably bad timing or smth. Relationships usually need a combination of mutual attraction, compatibility, and timing in order to get going. Timing is probably the biggest one of the 3 imo
08-14-2022, 06:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Nicky161200⏩
timing is incredibly crucialCould be a variety of things. Probably bad timing or smth. Relationships usually need a combination of mutual attraction, compatibility, and timing in order to get going. Timing is probably the biggest one of the 3 imo
lots of men/women go on dates without being "ready to date," they realize this and then vanish
seems like most people nowadays are not over their ex at all and really need to get over it already
anyone saying because you didn't bang is retarded lol. Maybe is this was tinder and you invited her over to your place while talking very freaky over text....
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08-14-2022, 07:28 PM
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no kiss? didn't go that well then
i'm not going to sit here and say you have to absolutely bang any girl who agrees to hang out with you, but if you THINK the date went super well but a kiss didn't happen, then recalibrate.
have you never had a first date where you DID kiss? i'm sure you would say that date went better. She surely has had a date like that.
i'm not going to sit here and say you have to absolutely bang any girl who agrees to hang out with you, but if you THINK the date went super well but a kiss didn't happen, then recalibrate.
have you never had a first date where you DID kiss? i'm sure you would say that date went better. She surely has had a date like that.
08-14-2022, 07:49 PM
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She’s found other prospects ,and you’ve become irrelevant
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08-14-2022, 08:57 PM
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Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis⏩
doesn't necessarily mean that, could be literally anythingShe’s found other prospects ,and you’ve become irrelevant
I stopped talking to hot chicks because I found out they live too far away or something, no other reason
OP either way, it doesn't really matter what the reason is, take it as it is and move on
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08-15-2022, 01:15 AM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
LMAO at thinking this means anything. All these girls belong to the streets.happens all the time lmao
this is why you never drop your roster and have a rotation at all times
never buy the BS that she's into you or this or that, trust me
until you are EXCLUSIVE, just assume she will drop you at any point ded srs
this is why you never drop your roster and have a rotation at all times
never buy the BS that she's into you or this or that, trust me
until you are EXCLUSIVE, just assume she will drop you at any point ded srs
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08-20-2022, 09:54 AM
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Only way is to not have any expectations… this way you will only be pleasantly surprised instead of perpetually disappointed. Gotta be your best self and just play the numbers game. Keep your dates relatively cheap and worst case if you’ll go out with a girl twice, spend $100 and then she ghosts.
08-20-2022, 01:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
That always happens. They show interest when you lose interest.And when he does forget her and move on, she'll be back. lmao
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One good date doesn’t mean anything anyway.
The eye opener for me came when I was on a date and she showed me her account with 1000 plus messages.
At that point, she could go on a new first date every day for about 3 years. Staggering.
The eye opener for me came when I was on a date and she showed me her account with 1000 plus messages.
At that point, she could go on a new first date every day for about 3 years. Staggering.
09-14-2022, 12:53 PM
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
It just means that she is not that into you.Suddenly she just stops being interested?
No obvious reason why. Convo was flowing, leading up to the date we were having good banter over text (that's why I was so confident going in to it that it'd go well).
She suggests we meet again before the date is even over. So we plan for about 4 days out and say we will confirm nearer the time which place and time etc.
We text back and forth after that but her responses seem off. When the date we agreed comes around I tell her I get off work at X time. She says she's super busy atm with work before she goes on vacation so not sure she will have time.
How can this happen within literally 4 days ..? Weird af man
No obvious reason why. Convo was flowing, leading up to the date we were having good banter over text (that's why I was so confident going in to it that it'd go well).
She suggests we meet again before the date is even over. So we plan for about 4 days out and say we will confirm nearer the time which place and time etc.
We text back and forth after that but her responses seem off. When the date we agreed comes around I tell her I get off work at X time. She says she's super busy atm with work before she goes on vacation so not sure she will have time.
How can this happen within literally 4 days ..? Weird af man
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