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post 1664916753 07-24-2022, 09:30 PM
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Zero luck with women this year... anyone else?

So, I tend to work a lot and usually keep to myself.

I haven't drank in about 2 years, don't necessarily miss it, and I've already done the whole bar culture.

However, things have been a bit dry for me this year, almost to no interest from women, or even any random women approaching me and talking to me.

I'd like to think I'm a decent look guy, good head of hair, take care of myself, got tattoos -- if height is a factor, I'm 5'9.

I don't look my age either.

Is the dating world just really that brutal?
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post 1664916853 07-24-2022, 09:32 PM
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Interesting enough, I just hopped back on tinder after a year and it was dry af. Nothing but ham beasts left on there so I quickly deleted that chit
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post 1664917083 07-24-2022, 09:37 PM
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Trust me brah it's brutal.
post 1664917253 07-24-2022, 09:41 PM
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it's brutal if you're an incel. You said you haven't drank in almost 2 years, meeting sloots at a bar is super easy but that requires you to be fun and actually drink. Women aren't gonna fall into your lap, you gotta go out and put in effort.
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post 1664917493 07-24-2022, 09:47 PM
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Originally Posted By ftbwtb
it's brutal if you're an incel. You said you haven't drank in almost 2 years, meeting sloots at a bar is super easy but that requires you to be fun and actually drink. Women aren't gonna fall into your lap, you gotta go out and put in effort.
How the fuk do you chat up sloots in a bar? 100k reps for a total incel level explanation. Say you're incel'ing out solomode and they're in a sloot pack of 2 or 3.
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post 1664917563 07-24-2022, 09:49 PM
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unless you are a gigachad in the top 5% or have a HS sweetheart, you will be an incel for life. No chance
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post 1664917603 07-24-2022, 09:50 PM
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I was on a 9-month dry spell until April of this year.

Added 3 notches since then....going for a 4th before the end of July.

posted pics of a couple of them here on the misc but got doxxed so nvr again srs
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post 1664917863 07-24-2022, 10:01 PM
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Originally Posted By FA*******
How the fuk do you chat up sloots in a bar? 100k reps for a total incel level explanation. Say you're incel'ing out solomode and they're in a sloot pack of 2 or 3.
Here I’ll help you.

Pick the girl..

Stare at said girl until she notices.

Keep staring.. she’ll start staring back

Make eye contact it’s important

Once you two lock eyes for 20 seconds or so smile and wave

She’ll wave back.

Motion her over..


She’ll come over to you


Now just chat her up like you would one of your mates
post 1664917913 07-24-2022, 10:03 PM
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Originally Posted By thadderbox
I'm 5'9.
It's over unless you have chad face like nonsense
post 1664917963 07-24-2022, 10:05 PM
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I only bang Indians now.
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post 1664917973 07-24-2022, 10:05 PM
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Originally Posted By thadderbox
So, I tend to work a lot and usually keep to myself.

I haven't drank in about 2 years, don't necessarily miss it, and I've already done the whole bar culture.

However, things have been a bit dry for me this year, almost to no interest from women, or even any random women approaching me and talking to me.

I'd like to think I'm a decent look guy, good head of hair, take care of myself, got tattoos -- if height is a factor, I'm 5'9.

I don't look my age either.

Is the dating world just really that brutal?
Well, there's your problem

Brutal
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post 1664918123 07-24-2022, 10:10 PM
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Max OHP of 135 indicates a lack of shoulder development

Shoulders are important to sloots. 5'9" and no shoulders = RIP


Have you tried men?
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post 1664918143 07-24-2022, 10:10 PM
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This was predicted years ago by RudyRude and FaceandLMS.

Social media and internet dating have had huge effects on women's dating habits, linked to their hyper inflated self SMV perceptions.
First it affected the stereotypical incels (bottom 40%) who were quite vocal, but they were ignored as let's face it nobody cares about of the down trodden.

Based on the rocket growth of ecancer sites like instagram/tik tok/tinder, etc it was predicted that eventually regular guys will have a harder time dating, then it will start affecting chad lites etc.

This thread is indicative that women just don't have the energy or time to waste with normies/chad lites anymore and are going straight to the top with a few clicks on their phones. Predicting that eventually geography/male order bride maxxing is going to be much more the norm.
post 1664918483 07-24-2022, 10:20 PM
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Originally Posted By OnlyHope
This was predicted years ago by RudyRude and FaceandLMS.

Social media and internet dating have had huge effects on women's dating habits, linked to their hyper inflated self SMV perceptions.
First it affected the stereotypical incels (bottom 40%) who were quite vocal, but they were ignored as let's face it nobody cares about of the down trodden.

Based on the rocket growth of ecancer sites like instagram/tik tok/tinder, etc it was predicted that eventually regular guys will have a harder time dating, then it will start affecting chad lites etc.

This thread is indicative that women just don't have the energy or time to waste with normies/chad lites anymore and are going straight to the top with a few clicks on their phones. Predicting that eventually geography/male order bride maxxing is going to be much more the norm.
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post 1664918843 07-24-2022, 10:30 PM
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Sometimes I have sloots trying to hit me up when I'm trying to get wasted alone. It's annoying
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post 1664918883 07-24-2022, 10:30 PM
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post 1664920253 07-24-2022, 11:09 PM
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Originally Posted By TimeTravelerBro
Strong analysis of peace
post 1664934653 07-25-2022, 09:25 AM
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Originally Posted By Eatforgains
Here I’ll help you.

Pick the girl..

Stare at said girl until she notices.

Keep staring.. she’ll start staring back

Make eye contact it’s important

Once you two lock eyes for 20 seconds or so smile and wave

She’ll wave back.

Motion her over..


She’ll come over to you


Now just chat her up like you would one of your mates
Reputation points delivered, but how do you stare and make it hot and not like an autistic serial killer.
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post 1664953733 07-25-2022, 03:01 PM
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its rough out there boyo. never used to be this way. fuk back in like 2014-2016 i used to slay. now, nothing like it used to be.
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post 1664954043 07-25-2022, 03:07 PM
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Originally Posted By friesbruh
its rough out there boyo. never used to be this way. fuk back in like 2014-2016 i used to slay. now, nothing like it used to be.
Repped.

Last real good year for me was 2019.

Pandemic sorta phucked things up a bit.
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post 1665036663 07-27-2022, 04:18 AM
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Originally Posted By FA*******
Reputation points delivered, but how do you stare and make it hot and not like an autistic serial killer.
It just works man, try it. There’s no special kinda of staring.
post 1665036783 07-27-2022, 04:22 AM
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Not a bad thing actually. Stay away from the sloots. Monkey Pox is spreading like wild fire. Stay safe Op.
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post 1665036883 07-27-2022, 04:28 AM
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I took the year off.

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post 1665036913 07-27-2022, 04:29 AM
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Other problems have distracted me from women for years, I can't deal with some tricky whore when I'm dealing with this type of sh!t
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post 1665036933 07-27-2022, 04:30 AM
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6'2 brah checking in

Have no idea how guys are getting any these days I haven't been laid in over 4 years
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post 1665036963 07-27-2022, 04:32 AM
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Originally Posted By friesbruh
its rough out there boyo. never used to be this way. fuk back in like 2014-2016 i used to slay. now, nothing like it used to be.
Well 2014-2016 was kind of the transition period into clown world things aren't the same as they were back then. Not even close actually.
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post 1665037013 07-27-2022, 04:34 AM
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Originally Posted By FA*******
Reputation points delivered, but how do you stare and make it hot and not like an autistic serial killer.
The difference is
1- how long you look
If you stare like an Indian, you will look creepy
2- how attractive you are
If you look like **** no matter what you do will be creepy and make you look like an autist with a staring problem

Going to bars alone is tough. I have a triple digits slay count and I've never been out alone trying to get girls on purpose (happened by chance a couple of time though)

Bring an outgoing guy friend and just start talking to pairs or trios of girls. If you can bring them back to your place for drinks you're almost guaranteed to get laid. If they have "plans" already, get their number and invite them next time one on one.
post 1665037033 07-27-2022, 04:35 AM
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Its not that brutal no. Don't listen to what incels on here tell you. My friend recently split with his gf. Hes only a year younger than me. Keeps himself in decent shape, decent hair, hes 6'0, decent car/job etc. Hes seeing a new chick every other week for different bullchit.. drinks, dates, bringing them around to his for the night etc. They're mostly 6s, some 7/low 8.
post 1665037063 07-27-2022, 04:36 AM
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Originally Posted By Eatforgains
Here I’ll help you.

Pick the girl..

Stare at said girl until she notices.

Keep staring.. she’ll start staring back

Make eye contact it’s important

Once you two lock eyes for 20 seconds or so smile and wave

She’ll wave back.

Motion her over..


She’ll come over to you


Now just chat her up like you would one of your mates
Ngl that sounds like some creeper chit

Who the fuk just locks eyes for 20 seconds

If anything just to up and talk to them if you’re interested…most of the time they do the choosing with the stares, no need to stare a hole in her face the whole night
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