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post 1665037203 07-27-2022, 04:46 AM
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Originally Posted By Shysty021
Ngl that sounds like some creeper chit

Who the fuk just locks eyes for 20 seconds

If anything just to up and talk to them if you’re interested…most of the time they do the choosing with the stares, no need to stare a hole in her face the whole night
I mean I literally did this in a grocery store yesterday and it worked. She ended up saying hello and then wrote her phone number on a receipt about 45 seconds later.

At bars though is the ideal place for it.

But it works at nearly a 100% rate if done correctly.
post 1665037623 07-27-2022, 05:07 AM
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Originally Posted By Shysty021
Ngl that sounds like some creeper chit

Who the fuk just locks eyes for 20 seconds

If anything just to up and talk to them if you’re interested…most of the time they do the choosing with the stares, no need to stare a hole in her face the whole night
this, 20 seconds is way too long wtf. Whenever Im at the bar/club I just screen the whole place and lock eyes with whatever girl I like. If she maintains eye contact (for like 2/4 secs tho, not 20)/smile I just go up to her and talk/take her dancing. That's it, it's not rocket science
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post 1665038493 07-27-2022, 05:44 AM
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Originally Posted By xam1996
this, 20 seconds is way too long wtf. Whenever Im at the bar/club I just screen the whole place and lock eyes with whatever girl I like. If she maintains eye contact (for like 2/4 secs tho, not 20)/smile I just go up to her and talk/take her dancing. That's it, it's not rocket science
20 is not a literal number. I’m saying a short period of time. Use some discretion. I can’t believe I have to explain this.
post 1665038533 07-27-2022, 05:46 AM
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be attractive, don't be unattractive
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post 1665038643 07-27-2022, 05:51 AM
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You work & keep to yourself

Wtf did you expect geek.
You are a bachelor. Act like it.

Im married now & moved to new city. I dont have any girls walking up to me or showing interest & I used to slay back when i was single. I know i would slay here too had i made any kind of effort.

It all has to do with socializing, going out, meeting new people. As a man you cant be watching tv by yourself all Night. You will regret that chit once ur married & past prime. I dont regret anything because i actually lived life when i had the chance. Only thing i regret i spending too much money & time on chasing pusy instead of career goals.
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post 1665039343 07-27-2022, 06:10 AM
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Ok so ive been in 3 relationships. I met the last two on bumble. First one was pretty good looking, second was plain jane. In between these ive messed round on the field.

Basically the take aways are:

1) Cast as many lines as possible
2) Pretend to be overly excited about ****, girls love that.
3) Text-->coffee-->drinks near them/kiss-->drinks near you and pull
4) Spend some time/energy is setting up a "cool" and "mature" spot to get them back to
5) Attractive girls that are interested in you are worth the work. Average girls interested in you are worth some effort. Below average chicks interested in you are worth showing up for/having over when your going through dry spells

**If you have to ask if they are interested, then they arent
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post 1665039423 07-27-2022, 06:13 AM
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Originally Posted By FlexLex
Ok so ive been in 3 relationships. I met the last two on bumble. First one was pretty good looking, second was plain jane. In between these ive messed round on the field.

Basically the take aways are:

1) Cast as many lines as possible
2) Pretend to be overly excited about ****, girls love that.
3) Text-->coffee-->drinks near them/kiss-->drinks near you and pull
4) Spend some time/energy is setting up a "cool" and "mature" spot to get them back to
5) Attractive girls that are interested in you are worth the work. Average girls interested in you are worth some effort. Below average chicks interested in you are worth showing up for/having over when your going through dry spells

**If you have to ask if they are interested, then they arent
Forgot the most important step


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post 1665039433 07-27-2022, 06:14 AM
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Originally Posted By Eatforgains
I mean I literally did this in a grocery store yesterday and it worked. She ended up saying hello and then wrote her phone number on a receipt about 45 seconds later.

At bars though is the ideal place for it.

But it works at nearly a 100% rate if done correctly.
post 1665039533 07-27-2022, 06:18 AM
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Originally Posted By ftbwtb
it's brutal if you're an incel. You said you haven't drank in almost 2 years, meeting sloots at a bar is super easy but that requires you to be fun and actually drink. Women aren't gonna fall into your lap, you gotta go out and put in effort.
This is why I don't chase women. Seems like you always have to jestermaxx.

Any man worth his salt would looksmaxx, careermaxx, and socialize. Do those things and women will come.
post 1665039563 07-27-2022, 06:19 AM
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standards have risen OP. You're not attractive enough to get attention anymore.

Try whales
post 1665039573 07-27-2022, 06:20 AM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish
Well, there's your problem

Brutal
Crazy how so many guys say drinking is how you meet women. Not over a cup of coffee, not at a library, but bars. Clown world.
post 1665039623 07-27-2022, 06:22 AM
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This years and every other year.
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post 1665039643 07-27-2022, 06:23 AM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey
Any man worth his salt would looksmaxx, careermaxx, and socialize. Do those things and women will come.
tfw when you're short and ugly and nothing you do changes results
post 1665040043 07-27-2022, 06:35 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
tfw when you're short and ugly and nothing you do changes results
I see ugly and short men with women all the time. There's a woman out there for every man buddy. Do those things and you'll run into her.
post 1665040183 07-27-2022, 06:37 AM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey
I see ugly and short men with women all the time. There's a woman out there for every man buddy. Do those things and you'll run into her.
You see 5'6 white guys with women.

You don't see 5'3 ugly African guys with women. There aren't even that many of us walking around.
There's nothing I can do
post 1665040253 07-27-2022, 06:39 AM
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Most people meet at work
post 1665040693 07-27-2022, 06:47 AM
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We are in an era where women are punishing men by not having sex with them.

Women would rather get attention on social media than have sex.
post 1665040793 07-27-2022, 06:49 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
You see 5'6 white guys with women.

You don't see 5'3 ugly African guys with women. There aren't even that many of us walking around.
There's nothing I can do
nah he is right

i have a 5'2 indian bald friend and he gets laid all the time!
post 1665040903 07-27-2022, 06:52 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
You see 5'6 white guys with women.

You don't see 5'3 ugly African guys with women. There aren't even that many of us walking around.
There's nothing I can do
You’re already in a defeatist mentality brah. Stop comparing yourself to others just work on being the best person you can be.

You gotta learn to love yourself first
post 1665040993 07-27-2022, 06:54 AM
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whoremaxxx srs

in your 20s it's not needed, but just fuking lmao at going out every weekend in your 30s by yourself trying to pick up sloots, you might get lucky but odds are you'll have to go out a few times of getting nothing to finally get some. so you'll be losing money, having chit nights by yourself getting rejected

or you can skip all that and fuk a hooker
yeh i used to think it was pathetic paying a sloot
but nothing beats the convenience, and you'll be smashing a 9/10, good luck finding a single 9/10 sloot by herself at a bar or on tinder

it's not ideal but it's the way forward

or you can have a dry dik for another 2 years op, i dont care its up to you
post 1665041003 07-27-2022, 06:54 AM
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Originally Posted By Shysty021
You’re already in a defeatist mentality brah. Stop comparing yourself to others just work on being the best person you can be.

You gotta learn to love yourself first
I do that man it just doesn't make any difference. I don't meet the minimum threshold of looks necessary for anything else to matter.
post 1665041503 07-27-2022, 07:05 AM
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Originally Posted By andyray
whoremaxxx srs

in your 20s it's not needed, but just fuking lmao at going out every weekend in your 30s by yourself trying to pick up sloots, you might get lucky but odds are you'll have to go out a few times of getting nothing to finally get some. so you'll be losing money, having chit nights by yourself getting rejected

or you can skip all that and fuk a hooker
yeh i used to think it was pathetic paying a sloot
but nothing beats the convenience, and you'll be smashing a 9/10, good luck finding a single 9/10 sloot by herself at a bar or on tinder

it's not ideal but it's the way forward

or you can have a dry dik for another 2 years op, i dont care its up to you
For me at least a big part of the thrill and fun is meeting someone, connecting with them, and actually enjoying their company and intmacy. Doesnt have to always end in a relationship, but Id rather some sort of mutual interest and passion than paying someone for the physical

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post 1665041723 07-27-2022, 07:10 AM
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Step 1: go to bar
Step 2: have a few beers to loosen up
Step 3: make convo with any hot woman that is 5/10+
Step 4: babynanes.com




I go to the bar about once per week & banged 8 women in past 7 months using this simple method (1 was from hinge). Should make an ebook I guess.

90% of dudes are scared af to talk to attractive women and if they do they usually have no game. Just talk to them like a bro and don’t be desperate.


Example:
2 weeks ago I was walking into the bar, a young blonde girl held open the door for me as she was coming out. I was drunk don’t remember exactly what I said probably “never seen you here!” And 5min later we was making out right next to the door and she told me she dated a dude for 3 years and never orgasmed. I said challenge accepted but her friends wouldn’t let her come home with a rando and that was that. On to the next one. All single girls at the bar are dtf especially the older milfs. The hardest part is getting them to come home with you on first night, usually have to put in some time texting/seeing them out so they don’t think your a psycho killer. If they have their own place you’re golden, older women usually do and they very straight forward about fuking
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Originally Posted By FlexLex
For me at least a big part of the thrill and fun is meeting someone, connecting with them, and actually enjoying their company and intmacy. Doesnt have to always end in a relationship, but Id rather some sort of mutual interest and passion than paying someone for the physical

in b4 low test
i completely get that

but sometimes you just need to pound some pussy

it's healthy for us to be getting laid regularly


so i suggest try meeting someone but in the meantime whoremaxxx
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Originally Posted By wolfofmarkcity
Going to bars alone is tough. I have a triple digits slay count and I've never been out alone trying to get girls on purpose (happened by chance a couple of time though)

Bring an outgoing guy friend and just start talking to pairs or trios of girls. If you can bring them back to your place for drinks you're almost guaranteed to get laid. If they have "plans" already, get their number and invite them next time one on one.
See, I'm fukked right there. The only people I could call out to go barmaxx are

-guys in relationships who won't do it
-sexless ESL Indians.
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