Log In

Your email is not your username

Register

If you were a member of the old Bodybuilding.com forums and would like to reuse your previous username, you can request it below. We use your email only for registration and do not store it. For more information, please see our Privacy Policy.

Confirm your email

A registration code was sent to your email. Enter it here.

Welcome

You have successfully setup your account.

Sign in

Quick Navigation Bottom Misc
Forum » Would you fat shame your kid if he was too fat?
  1. Results 1 to 30 of 36
  2. Page 1 of 2
  3. 1
  4. 2
  6. Last

Thread: Would you fat shame your kid if he was too fat?

post 1665105513 07-28-2022, 07:20 AM
-
#1
  1. nattyteddies555
  2. Banned
  1. nattyteddies555
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Jul 2022
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 1,216
  6. Rep Power: 0

Would you fat shame your kid if he was too fat?

Donny2Yucky's parents are enabling him to become too fuking fat

If they were good parents they would be fat shaming him
post 1665105813 07-28-2022, 07:27 AM
-
#2
  1. PTzFree
  2. Sarcastic Sage
  1. PTzFree
  2. Sarcastic Sage
  3. Join Date: Mar 2010
  4. Location: United States
  5. Posts: 7,402
  6. Rep Power: 69078
Are we talking by clown world standards or regular?
AP7 Crew
Rogue Home Gym Crew
Officecel Crew
Motorcycle Crew

“When you want to succeed as bad as you want to breathe, then you'll be successful.”
― Eric Thomas, The Secret to Success
post 1665105883 07-28-2022, 07:28 AM
-
#3
  1. Underwrought
  2. Banned
  1. Underwrought
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Sep 2018
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 7,731
  6. Rep Power: 0
Wish my Dad had done so I might not be fat right now. He deff didnt like me being fat as a kid, but didnt really ever say much about it. Guess he didnt want to hurt my feelings he was a really good guy.
post 1665106083 07-28-2022, 07:31 AM
-
#4
  1. nattyteddies555
  2. Banned
  1. nattyteddies555
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Jul 2022
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 1,216
  6. Rep Power: 0
Originally Posted By PTzFree⏩
Are we talking by clown world standards or regular?
REAL FAT like having man tits
Originally Posted By Underwrought⏩
Wish my Dad had done so I might not be fat right now. He deff didnt like me being fat as a kid, but didnt really ever say much about it. Guess he didnt want to hurt my feelings he was a really good guy.
tell me how much poosay you got when you were fat
post 1665106423 07-28-2022, 07:37 AM
-
#5
  1. kingmanaverage
  2. Terrible poster
  1. kingmanaverage
  2. Terrible poster
  3. Join Date: Dec 2013
  4. Posts: 15,250
  5. Rep Power: 107906
It would be the parent's own fault their kid is too fat. Rather than shaming their kid they just stop feeding their kid fukin trash food.
“Steroids is now just a word that the lazy and ignorant use to describe any guy that has more muscle and dedication than them”– Mike O'Hearn


"I am like getting the feeling of cumming in the gym; I'm getting the feeling of cumming at home; I'm getting the feeling of cumming backstage; when I pump up, when I pose out in front of 5000 people I get the same feeling, so I am cumming day and night. It's terrific, right? So you know, I am in heaven."
post 1665106463 07-28-2022, 07:39 AM
-
#6
  1. phaginator
  2. Ayyy lmao
  1. phaginator
  2. Ayyy lmao
  3. Join Date: Apr 2013
  4. Posts: 36,761
  5. Rep Power: 122033
Stop feeding your kid junk, problem solved.

If your kid is fat, it's 100% your fault
post 1665106553 07-28-2022, 07:43 AM
-
#7
  1. ymer
  1. ymer
  3. Join Date: Feb 2005
  4. Posts: 24,422
  5. Rep Power: 85485
Post deleted by user
post 1665106623 07-28-2022, 07:44 AM
-
#8
  1. RobHarrisjr
  2. Registered User
  1. RobHarrisjr
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jun 2022
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 98
  6. Rep Power: 1094
Parents fault nuff said
post 1665106743 07-28-2022, 07:45 AM
-
#9
  1. Underwrought
  2. Banned
  1. Underwrought
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Sep 2018
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 7,731
  6. Rep Power: 0
Originally Posted By nattyteddies555⏩
REAL FAT like having man tits



tell me how much poosay you got when you were fat
Zero. Still dont. Only ever one time.
post 1665106783 07-28-2022, 07:46 AM
-
#10
  1. jmal2000
  2. Short for a Manmore
  1. jmal2000
  2. Short for a Manmore
  3. Join Date: Mar 2009
  4. Location: Arizona, United States
  5. Age: 39
  6. Posts: 9,658
  7. Rep Power: 55128
I grew up fat, mainly because my mom fed me noodles and cheese everyday. I use to blame my parents for being overweight but now I realize it wasn't their fault. There's no instruction manual on how to raise a kid. They were doing there best.

Losing weight was the hardest achievement for me by far. I don't think being fat shamed would've helped me.
You are your thoughts. Life is perception, thoughts are perception, perception is reality ergo thoughts are reality, I think therefore I am.
08/08/2011. the day the aesthetics died. never forget.
(づ｡◕‿‿◕｡)づ・。*。✧・゜゜・。 ✧。*・゜
░▒▓█ Read my paper █▓▒░
https://www.reddit.com/r/SchoolOfShadows/comments/1awjjjb/paper_on_life_life_is_addition_theory_v15/
post 1665107043 07-28-2022, 07:52 AM
-
#11
  1. Silencespeaks
  2. Banned
  1. Silencespeaks
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Aug 2015
  4. Posts: 114,138
  5. Rep Power: 0
Post deleted by user
post 1665107313 07-28-2022, 07:55 AM
-
#12
  1. swolefnatic
  2. Swole Fanatic
  1. swolefnatic
  2. Swole Fanatic
  3. Join Date: Apr 2016
  4. Posts: 5,601
  5. Rep Power: 29212
Absolutely. Other kids at school would fat shame me but it wasn’t until my parents did where it really hit me and I started losing weight. Saved my life from excess bullying going into middle and high school. I hated them in the moment but I absolutely appreciate them for that now.
"It is easier to find men who will volunteer to die, than to find those who are willing to endure pain with patience."

- Julius Caesar
post 1665107793 07-28-2022, 08:01 AM
-
#13
  1. Blond_airforcedude
  2. Registered User
  1. Blond_airforcedude
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Sep 2010
  4. Posts: 1,326
  5. Rep Power: 8105
Originally Posted By nattyteddies555⏩
Donny2Yucky's parents are enabling him to become too fuking fat

If they were good parents they would be fat shaming him
If you call someone fat and they are indeed fat its not shaming. Its be objective. "son you're overweight and its unhealthy" Nothing wrong with making an observation that needs correction.
post 1665108263 07-28-2022, 08:08 AM
-
#14
  1. Bigbuster1
  2. 41oz King
  1. Bigbuster1
  2. 41oz King
  3. Join Date: Aug 2013
  4. Posts: 10,571
  5. Rep Power: 86766
Keep his ass in sports and activities to keep him moving and active and make sure mom keeps his diet healthy.

Fat people absolutely DISGUST me, so would never let my kid get fat. I wouldn’t fat shame him though, if the kid is fat, it’s the parents’ fault
post 1665108833 07-28-2022, 08:19 AM
-
#15
  1. Drew23
  2. SFW!
  1. Drew23
  2. SFW!
  3. Join Date: Feb 2006
  4. Location: Connecticut, United States
  5. Age: 47
  6. Posts: 14,484
  7. Rep Power: 137196
If they were good parents they wouldn't have let him get fat. Kids get fat because their parents are lazy and probably fat too.
I'm not DrewDarden

Best Meet lifts: S:805 B:705 D:560 Total:2070 (220, equipped, drug free)
Best Raw (gym lifts): S:540 B:380 D:515

Want to bench more? Click here: https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=178958341
~ Molon Labe ~
post 1665108853 07-28-2022, 08:19 AM
-
#16
  1. PTzFree
  2. Sarcastic Sage
  1. PTzFree
  2. Sarcastic Sage
  3. Join Date: Mar 2010
  4. Location: United States
  5. Posts: 7,402
  6. Rep Power: 69078
Originally Posted By nattyteddies555⏩
REAL FAT like having man tits
nah, I meant by whose definition of fat shaming.

If we're going by clown world's definition, then absolutely. I would totally make my child aware they are overweight, unhealthy, and we need to do something about it. Then WE would do something about it.

If we're talking about mentally abusing my child thinking, by some twisted logic, they'll have an epiphany about their weight, then no.
AP7 Crew
Rogue Home Gym Crew
Officecel Crew
Motorcycle Crew

“When you want to succeed as bad as you want to breathe, then you'll be successful.”
― Eric Thomas, The Secret to Success
post 1665108983 07-28-2022, 08:21 AM
-
#17
  1. guest89
  2. Forever aBOARD
  1. guest89
  2. Forever aBOARD
  3. Join Date: Sep 2003
  4. Location: United States
  5. Posts: 41,701
  6. Rep Power: 170156
Originally Posted By Drew23⏩
If they were good parents they wouldn't have let him get fat. Kids get fat because their parents are lazy and probably fat too.
This. I don't have kids but when I do they'll be eating a primarily meat & fruit based diet. They'll be involved in athletic activities & lifting from a young age.

My kids hit puberty & they are going to be jacked and shredded.
post 1665109383 07-28-2022, 08:26 AM
-
#18
  1. Blond_airforcedude
  2. Registered User
  1. Blond_airforcedude
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Sep 2010
  4. Posts: 1,326
  5. Rep Power: 8105
Originally Posted By PTzFree⏩
nah, I meant by whose definition of fat shaming.

If we're going by clown world's definition, then absolutely. I would totally make my child aware they are overweight, unhealthy, and we need to do something about it. Then WE would do something about it.

If we're talking about mentally abusing my child thinking, by some twisted logic, they'll have an epiphany about their weight, then no.
Exactly, the same rules can be applied to school. You wouldn't let your kid skip or fail all his classes. You intervene and explain why its an issue. I'd rather he gets his feelings hurt in the short so he can be a better man in the long run. Its a good lesson on personal responsibility.
post 1665109843 07-28-2022, 08:32 AM
-
#19
  1. Drew23
  2. SFW!
  1. Drew23
  2. SFW!
  3. Join Date: Feb 2006
  4. Location: Connecticut, United States
  5. Age: 47
  6. Posts: 14,484
  7. Rep Power: 137196
Originally Posted By guest89⏩
This. I don't have kids but when I do they'll be eating a primarily meat & fruit based diet. They'll be involved in athletic activities & lifting from a young age.

My kids hit puberty & they are going to be jacked and shredded.
It's not even that complicated. Kids can do fine on most foods, just make sure they're getting a few really complete foods like eggs, milk, chicken, fruits, and they can still have ice cream, pizza, pancakes, etc. As long as they're active and you don't let them have whatever they want whenever they want it, they'll be fine.
I'm not DrewDarden

Best Meet lifts: S:805 B:705 D:560 Total:2070 (220, equipped, drug free)
Best Raw (gym lifts): S:540 B:380 D:515

Want to bench more? Click here: https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=178958341
~ Molon Labe ~
post 1665109863 07-28-2022, 08:32 AM
-
#20
  1. Duckliver
  2. Offal
  1. Duckliver
  2. Offal
  3. Join Date: Jun 2013
  4. Location: Washington, United States
  5. Posts: 32,177
  6. Rep Power: 347469
I preemptively fat shame as I see them eating unhealthy food too eagerly.
post 1665109893 07-28-2022, 08:33 AM
-
#21
  1. nattyteddies555
  2. Banned
  1. nattyteddies555
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Jul 2022
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 1,216
  6. Rep Power: 0
Originally Posted By Donny2Yucky⏩
damn boyo why u gotta be so insensitive?

just because i'm fat doesn't mean i'm a bad person srs.
have your parents ever intervened?

"Donny son, I think you are a bit overweight maybe tonight have a salad instead of that XL dominoes pizza"

yes no???

A little shaming goes a long way

"Son I think you are getting a bit too fat maybe eat something healthier"
post 1665109963 07-28-2022, 08:34 AM
-
#22
  1. Drew23
  2. SFW!
  1. Drew23
  2. SFW!
  3. Join Date: Feb 2006
  4. Location: Connecticut, United States
  5. Age: 47
  6. Posts: 14,484
  7. Rep Power: 137196
Originally Posted By Donny2Yucky⏩
damn boyo why u gotta be so insensitive?

just because i'm fat doesn't mean i'm a bad person srs.
True, being a gross p3do groomer is what makes you a bad person. srs.
I'm not DrewDarden

Best Meet lifts: S:805 B:705 D:560 Total:2070 (220, equipped, drug free)
Best Raw (gym lifts): S:540 B:380 D:515

Want to bench more? Click here: https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=178958341
~ Molon Labe ~
post 1665111043 07-28-2022, 08:49 AM
-
#23
  1. Silencespeaks
  2. Banned
  1. Silencespeaks
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Aug 2015
  4. Posts: 114,138
  5. Rep Power: 0
Post deleted by user
post 1665111263 07-28-2022, 08:52 AM
-
#24
  1. riveld
  2. Registered User
  1. riveld
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Oct 2019
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 339
  6. Rep Power: 1803
yes
post 1665111613 07-28-2022, 08:56 AM
-
#25
  1. Silencespeaks
  2. Banned
  1. Silencespeaks
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Aug 2015
  4. Posts: 114,138
  5. Rep Power: 0
Post deleted by user
post 1665112083 07-28-2022, 09:03 AM
-
#26
  1. Mulloway69
  2. (;`ー´)o/￣￣￣~>°)))彡
  1. Mulloway69
  2. (;`ー´)o/￣￣￣~>°)))彡
  3. Join Date: Sep 2011
  4. Posts: 11,104
  5. Subscribers: 4
  6. Rep Power: 302940
Originally Posted By ****inator⏩
Stop feeding your kid junk, problem solved.

If your kid is fat, it's 100% your fault
this
post 1665112173 07-28-2022, 09:03 AM
-
#27
  1. Legz422
  1. Legz422
  3. Join Date: Sep 2017
  4. Age: 57
  5. Posts: 45,722
  6. Subscribers: 2
  7. Rep Power: 626421
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
My friends kid is obese and she feeds him snacks all the time. She is completely enabling him.
Are the parents obese? It's pretty typical for fat parents to have fat kids.

I would not fat shame my son, but I would absolutely talk to him about it often and encourage/try to help him lose weight. My ex and I have always modeled healthy eating/exercise/lifting so it's not like he doesn't know how to be healthy or how to find out what to do to get healthy.

He's an adult so we don't have much control anymore. When he was young absolutely controlled his eating to make sure he was healthy.
~ In a world where you can be anything, be kind ~
post 1665112323 07-28-2022, 09:06 AM
-
#28
  1. littlemissy
  2. Practicing Safe Sets
  1. littlemissy
  2. Practicing Safe Sets
  3. Join Date: Apr 2012
  4. Location: Texas, United States
  5. Posts: 4,211
  6. Rep Power: 89259
I don't have kids so I can't say but I would think I'd want to pick up some type of physical activity to do with my kid to encourage better habits.

When I was growing up my dad outright told me to never get fat. That people in general do not treat fat people the same (poorly). He was probably just projecting because he was always making fun of fat kids lmao. But I'll give it to the man - he woke up at 5am to hit the gym every day like clock work. He has really good discipline when it came to fitness.
R 1 35
L├┼┤
2 4 6

"No Pecs No Secks, Can't do a curl - won't get a girl" - Chengman
post 1665113203 07-28-2022, 09:21 AM
-
#29
  1. Antoine99
  2. Registered User
  1. Antoine99
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Mar 2013
  4. Age: 35
  5. Posts: 14,302
  6. Rep Power: 82218
Not shame as in make fun of him, but HEAVILY encourage them to lose weight, not buy them chitty food, not participate in "body positivity" at the expense of health, etc.
Would kick em in the nuts
post 1665113383 07-28-2022, 09:24 AM
-
#30
  1. DustinTheHuss
  2. Banned
  1. DustinTheHuss
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: May 2019
  4. Posts: 27,697
  5. Rep Power: 0
No, that's terrible.

Mine felt like she was fat shamed by others and now she's anorexic and only eats one meal a day, so it's turned the other way and not good as she was fainting in the kitchen and her Dr. is very concerned about her weight loss.
  1. Page 1 of 2
  2. 1
  3. 2
  5. Last
Quick Navigation Top Misc
Bookmarks
Digg.com
Digg
del.icio.us
del.icio.us
Stumbleupon.com
StumbleUpon
Google.com
Google
Facebook.com
Facebook
Posting Permissions
  1. You may not post new threads
  2. You may not post replies
  3. You may not post attachments
  4. You may not edit your posts