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post 1665249133 07-30-2022, 03:34 PM
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Weddings make me want to rope

Seeing people that happy and knowing I'll never know that feel. i'm never going to another wedding again, just makes me more depressed

Life fuking SUCKS as an incel that nobody gives a chit about.
post 1665249203 07-30-2022, 03:35 PM
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How many new women have you talked to this past week? Past month ?
post 1665249243 07-30-2022, 03:35 PM
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A lot of marriages aren't that happy, but you're a needy bish that craves external validation.
post 1665249323 07-30-2022, 03:36 PM
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i have never even been to a wedding
post 1665249343 07-30-2022, 03:36 PM
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Originally Posted By DrAlchemist
How many new women have you talked to this past week? Past month ?
Why does this matter?
post 1665249403 07-30-2022, 03:37 PM
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Originally Posted By Polaris
A lot of marriages aren't that happy, but you're a needy bish that craves external validation.
They're happier than being alone your entire life.
post 1665249743 07-30-2022, 03:42 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
They're happier than being alone your entire life.


post 1665249853 07-30-2022, 03:43 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Why does this matter?
This is ****ing pathetic. You don’t get to vent or complain without blowback if you aren’t even trying to get out of your inceldom.

Why are you not talking to women and/or putting yourself outside of your comfort zone ?
post 1665250133 07-30-2022, 03:46 PM
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Originally Posted By DrAlchemist
Why are you not talking to women and/or putting yourself outside of your comfort zone ?
Because i'm an ugly midget and its a waste of time
post 1665250253 07-30-2022, 03:49 PM
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra
Inb4 another 10 page thread where miscers insist that OP just needs to think more positive, be more confident, and put himself out there more when he's 5'3, LOL.
cant make it up man lol.
post 1665250373 07-30-2022, 03:52 PM
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Weddings are ok but you have to sort of suspend reality while wishing them well. You know how its going to end but have to act like it wont.
"To be a warrior is not a simple matter of wishing to be one. It is rather an endless struggle that will go on to the very last moment of our lives. Nobody is born a warrior, in exactly the same way that nobody is born an average man. We make ourselves into one or the other."-- Carlos Castaneda
post 1665250393 07-30-2022, 03:53 PM
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Originally Posted By crupiea
Weddings are ok but you have to sort of suspend reality while wishing them well. You know how its going to end but have to act like it wont.
Its better than being alone forever. To me at the very least its a celebration that you're not a pathetic sack of chit who never found anyone
post 1665250483 07-30-2022, 03:54 PM
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra
he's 5'3, LOL.
srs?

ITS OVER OP

you are basically a midget
post 1665250563 07-30-2022, 03:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Numba1Misker
srs?

ITS OVER OP

you are basically a midget
Like whats the point of life lol
post 1665250693 07-30-2022, 03:57 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Like whats the point of life lol
i dunno man been wondering the same thig for years already
post 1665250743 07-30-2022, 03:58 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Because i'm an ugly midget and its a waste of time
I did not know you were 5’3. Brutal, my sympathies and I won’t be grilling you anymore.

However, despite the fact you are not a viable mate for the majority of women, there will definitely be some women that will give you a shot if you’re willing to lower your standards and deal with more rejection than most. It’s a matter of resilience at this point and if you prefer to rot then that’s on you, but I will tell you that women can 100% smell the defeatist mindset you carry around.

Best of luck
post 1665250783 07-30-2022, 03:59 PM
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There are people that care about you. Unfortunately, you don't love yourself, so none of it matters.

If you're a tall, good looking sad sack, you may be able to get away with it when it comes to women for a while.

Short sad sack though? Game was over before it began.

I'd like to say I hope you eventually find the skills/therapy/pills to make your brain healthy enough to see life in a bit brighter light, but I know you will refuse.

You either love to revel in misery, or you're just too prideful to change your ways. Maybe it's both. You're too stubborn to change, and that more than anything else in your life is what stops you from finding the happiness you claim you want.

You have too much pride and too little grit. You don't have the balls to continue to get back up and try again to achieve the life you actually want. You're too afraid. Fear owns you. Women terrify you. You hate yourself, and that pride you think you have is all you have to cling to.

Maybe one day you'll get into an accident that damages your frontal lobe enough to drop your inhibition, but other than that, you won't change because you're a coward plain and simple.

If you rejected women because you were working on some huge goal that required your full attention, that's one thing. But you do want a women that you love nd loves you, but are too scared to keep trying, so you cling to the idea that the world is black and white and no woman will ever love you because it validates your fears and makes you complacent.

TLDR: Stop being afraid or rot
I'm back, bitches!
post 1665250843 07-30-2022, 04:00 PM
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Originally Posted By DrAlchemist
I did not know you were 5’3. Brutal, my sympathies and I won’t be grilling you anymore.

However, despite the fact you are not a viable mate for the majority of women, there will definitely be some women that will give you a shot if you’re willing to lower your standards and deal with more rejection than most. It’s a matter of resilience at this point and if you prefer to rot then that’s on you, but I will tell you that women can 100% smell the defeatist mindset you carry around.

Best of luck
At 5'3 it doesnt fuking matter dude.
post 1665250913 07-30-2022, 04:02 PM
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Just short black incel things

Negged
post 1665250993 07-30-2022, 04:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
There are people that care about you. Unfortunately, you don't love yourself, so none of it matters.

If you're a tall, good looking sad sack, you may be able to get away with it when it comes to women for a while.

Short sad sack though? Game was over before it began.

I'd like to say I hope you eventually find the skills/therapy/pills to make your brain healthy enough to see life in a bit brighter light, but I know you will refuse.

You either love to revel in misery, or you're just too prideful to change your ways. Maybe it's both. You're too stubborn to change, and that more than anything else in your life is what stops you from finding the happiness you claim you want.

You have too much pride and too little grit. You don't have the balls to continue to get back up and try again to achieve the life you actually want. You're too afraid. Fear owns you. Women terrify you. You hate yourself, and that pride you think you have is all you have to cling to.

Maybe one day you'll get into an accident that damages your frontal lobe enough to drop your inhibition, but other than that, you won't change because you're a coward plain and simple.
Brah I've done the best I could up until now, but into my 30s this just isnt going to work anymore. Im fated to be alone and its just not the way to live and be happy. which is why people try so hard to not end up alone.

I can make friends, I have good friends. I am not the person you've made me out to be in your head who nobody likes. the problem is because im 5'3 nobody ROMANTICALLy is interested. which should be obvious
post 1665251083 07-30-2022, 04:05 PM
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Originally Posted By BigDeeps01
Just short black incel things

Negged
f*k u
post 1665251193 07-30-2022, 04:05 PM
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just excort max i guess
post 1665251313 07-30-2022, 04:07 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
f*k u
Just too much whining from you bud
post 1665251393 07-30-2022, 04:09 PM
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra
You're cool but I always keep it real:

How are you going to say that OP has no grit when he has a Yale degree? What have you accomplished in your life that's anywhere close to that?
Thank you for saying it so I dont have to.

I guess going to the ivy league is just easy and requires no effort
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Thank you for saying it so I dont have to.

I guess going to the ivy league is just easy and requires no effort
You're a mostly well spoken, educated black guy, you have a lot of things going for you in life. And you're a land tyrone / home owner if I'm not mistaken

The fact that you whine a lot is really annoying
post 1665251493 07-30-2022, 04:11 PM
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra
You're cool but I always keep it real:

How are you going to say that OP has no grit when he has a Yale degree? What have you accomplished in your life that's anywhere close to that?
lol, you're the same buy who thinks the CCNA is more rigorous/difficult than the CFA.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
At 5'3 it doesnt fuking matter dude.
I’ve been around 100s, if not 1000s, of women over the years and I’ve seen their actions. There are a ton of women shorter than you who don’t need a 6’+ guy, and quite a few who are slightly taller, but don’t mind a shorter guy.

Will it be easy to find them? No. You WILL have to do things that most guys don’t need to, but if you don’t even want to bother trying then I guess it truly doesn’t matter
post 1665251543 07-30-2022, 04:12 PM
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Originally Posted By DrAlchemist
I’ve been around 100s, if not 1000s, of women over the years and I’ve seen their actions. There are a ton of women shorter than you who don’t need a 6’+ guy, and quite a few who are slightly taller, but don’t mind a shorter guy.

Will it be easy to find them? No. You WILL have to do things that most guys don’t need to, but if you don’t even want to bother trying then I guess it truly doesn’t matter
Kat Williams is 5'5 for example

Kevin Hart is 5'2
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Originally Posted By BigDeeps01
You're a mostly well spoken, educated black guy, you have a lot of things going for you in life. And you're a land tyrone / home owner if I'm not mistaken

The fact that you whine a lot is really annoying
well because im dying alone lol, it shouldnt be hard to understand the pain behind that
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
well because im dying alone lol, it shouldnt be hard to understand the pain behind that
You can't change your height though. There's just nothing you can do

You can wear inserts to appear slightly taller (Which you should) but that's about it

So focus on everything else. Focus on getting in the best shape possible, dress well, and also just lower your standards. The 8+/10 life just won't be for you. But you can still bang out the 5s/6s/maybe 7s

And keep career maxing

If guys like Kevin Hart can get laid so can you. Just adjust down on expectations
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