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07-30-2022, 07:12 PM

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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩

dude just casually suggesting to move a new country outs yourself as a moron. Do you know how hard it is to do that, even if I for some reason wanted to move an entirely new country where I dont have any family or friends or know the language etc etc etc, you cant just pick a country and move cause you feel like it.

If you're going to throw insults to anyone offering you some solid advice regardless of whatever fcked up reality you live in then you deserve all of the misery that comes along with it. I'm 5'5 and I have never had trouble with women, I have good language skills and can easily relate to anyone's situation. You're choosing to let yourself be fooled by this idea that if you don't have xyz that it's a death sentence. Plenty of people daily say fck it and uproot their lives and start new, every single day, you're too much of a pssy defeatist to do anything about it. Negged.

07-30-2022, 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩

No, just no. If I didnt do what I did I was never going to own a house. you dont know what you're talking about. Even the house I bought is currently valued at a price I wouldnt be able to afford if I had to buy it today. Thats how fast prices went up. You're delusiional.

Haha caveman logic. Using your own logic...."finding a woman is virtually impossible"

Your problem is your are unwilling to compromise on things. Stay angry if you wish bro.

07-30-2022, 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted By DrAlchemist⏩

It literally is the opposite of that. In person you can truly show your personality, confidence, charisma, humour, non verbal communication, etc.

LMAO

bro, when you look like me, you are auto rejected on sight. They do not want to talk to you because they are absolutely not interested in a 5'3 ugly africel. You dont get the time to show them anything because they reject you and move on to men they are physically attracted to

07-30-2022, 07:18 PM

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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩

No church.

Cool for that guy, exceptions to every rule.

I see them all the time. Your attitude will definitely keep you alone forever. So you're writing your own will.

Start going to church. What do you have to lose at this point. Start helping with your community. Be a part of something.

Something I noticed. I haven't been to a church service since I was young. I think modern day churches for the most part have been corrupted. But when I went for the first time it was like a different world. What I realized is that women will value a man with...value. Social status. Your odds of finding a woman drastically improve in this environment because they tend to look for a man of faith and value.

If you are atheist, then the secular world will eat you alive with your attitude as it already has done.

OP, I'm intentionally forgoing sex and relationships now with girls who are secular and don't have faith. I may never find a woman myself. If that's my path then so be it. But I'd rather wait and put myself into places where my value is more attractive than just how I look. These secular women these days are not worth it. They're gone.

If I read what I just wrote even 3-4 years ago I would think I'm insane. But this is the world now. If I told you I'd be abstinent until I find a good woman of faith, started church hopping to find a good community, and even wanted to go to church I would say I was crazy. That's what these past two years have done.

You have to start giving back. Locally. Join a community. As your self worth grows, other's will notice.

I'm trying to think of other things besides just church nowadays, but man I couldn't tell you. Sports only goes so far. If you're not religious this post will probably turn you off but that's the most pertinent useful advice I could give. Because trust me....I'm 31 and single and not marrying any of these hoes.

07-30-2022, 07:19 PM

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Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩

Haha caveman logic. Using your own logic...."finding a woman is virtually impossible"

Your problem is your are unwilling to compromise on things. Stay angry if you wish bro.

Dude spends 6 pages justifying why he can't do what he's complaining about and when offered solid advice that would fix his issue he decides to throw insults. Trolling at its finest. No idea how he is green with 14K reps.

07-30-2022, 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted By roosky11⏩

If you're going to throw insults to anyone offering you some solid advice regardless of whatever fcked up reality you live in then you deserve all of the misery that comes along with it. I'm 5'5 and I have never had trouble with women, I have good language skills and can easily relate to anyone's situation. You're choosing to let yourself be fooled by this idea that if you don't have xyz that it's a death sentence. Plenty of people daily say fck it and uproot their lives and start new, every single day, you're too much of a pssy defeatist to do anything about it. Negged.

I've moved to new places twice, within the united states. Ive done that. The fact is moving to an entirely different country is not something you can just do.

And yes, you are 5'5 and have success, you are also white. I dont know how many times I have to say this, white guys have it on easy mode. you dont need to be tall or particularly good looking if you're white. White guys can 'just be confident bro' and get a woman. that is not true for african guys

07-30-2022, 07:22 PM

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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩

I see them all the time. Your attitude will definitely keep you alone forever.

its rare to even see men that short, let alone ' see them all the time', let alone 'see them all the time with women'. so pls stop the bs man.

And no, being 5'3 and ugly is keeping me foreveralone.

why do you peoople ignore the fuking obvious and deflect to these other things that are clearly secondary to the problem of being ugly and short

07-30-2022, 07:23 PM

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Originally Posted By roosky11⏩

Dude spends 6 pages justifying why he can't do what he's complaining about and when offered solid advice that would fix his issue he decides to throw insults. Trolling at its finest. No idea how he is green with 14K reps.

you're not offering solid advice, you're completely ignoring the reality of my situation and suggesting extreme unrealistic solutions like uprooot my entire life to another country as if it can just be done whenever one feels like it.

Even if I moved to another country, i'm still 5'3 and ugly as fuk. Unless magically they love ugly short black guys in other countries, nothing will change.

07-30-2022, 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩

you're not offering solid advice, you're completely ignoring the reality of my situation and suggesting extreme unrealistic solutions like uprooot my entire life to another country as if it can just be done whenever one feels like it.

Imagine going to another country when you live in the USA lol

Brb spending 50k and just going on a 3 month vacation

07-30-2022, 07:25 PM

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Last night I was at the gym, I have been swimming twice a day. My first workout I came late and came back 3 hours later for my second. Decided to stop at the front desk and talk to the guy about why I thought my second workout was better than the first. This cute girl also at the front caught on to our conversation and directly asked for my name and said she wanted to remember me because I seemed knowledgeable about working out. You don't even have to be on the hunt for getting women's attention to get their attention or be noticed if you can sharpen and hone your social skills.

07-30-2022, 07:26 PM

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Originally Posted By Bigbuster1⏩

Is OP the dude that wins all those huge sports bets?

Still wondering this lol.

OP you’re definitely fighting an uphill battle. I think the practical solutions are to try to date within your own race and to stick with the apps.

But I think you’re also having a problem a lot intelligent people have when it comes to girls/ dating. You look at everything so analytically. Women are driven by emotion and feelings and your analyzing everything to death. Dating has obviously gotten a lot tougher with social media etc but I think if you could try to treat dating and women more emotionally you would feel better about it.

You have a lot of strengths. You’re obviously smart and accomplished. You say you have a good friends etc.

Idk like a lot of others said, if there’s one thing girls find repulsive it’s guys who think down on themselves, and guys who try too hard to get girls. You kinda have to walk a fine line of letting a girl know your interested without being desperate

07-30-2022, 07:26 PM

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Imagine spending 5 figures on a wedding and being "happy".

07-30-2022, 07:26 PM

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Originally Posted By roosky11⏩

Last night I was at the gym, I have been swimming twice a day. My first workout I came late and came back 3 hours later for my second. Decided to stop at the front desk and talk to the guy about why I thought my second workout was better than the first. This cute girl also at the front caught on to our conversation and directly asked for my name and said she wanted to remember me because I seemed knowledgeable about working out. You don't even have to be on the hunt for getting women's attention to get their attention or be noticed if you can sharpen and hone your social skills.

dude good for you, wtf does that have to do with me. That kind of thing would never, ever happen to someone that looks like me. I dont understand why you cant grasp this concept.

07-30-2022, 07:29 PM

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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩

I've moved to new places twice, within the united states. Ive done that. The fact is moving to an entirely different country is not something you can just do.

And yes, you are 5'5 and have success, you are also white. I dont know how many times I have to say this, white guys have it on easy mode. you dont need to be tall or particularly good looking if you're white. White guys can 'just be confident bro' and get a woman. that is not true for african guys

Again with the excuses. The only thing you need is a plane ticket. You're from the USA and English is your native language, you could literally spin the globe and choose any random spot and those two things alone are enough to find you some way to start building a life.

07-30-2022, 07:29 PM

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Originally Posted By monster0ultra⏩

OP should just lower his standards and go for landwhales and/or retards.

Oh wait:

LOL

This can't be real tea. Wow.

07-30-2022, 07:29 PM

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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩

its rare to even see men that short, let alone ' see them all the time', let alone 'see them all the time with women'. so pls stop the bs man.

And no, being 5'3 and ugly is keeping me foreveralone.

why do you peoople ignore the fuking obvious and deflect to these other things that are clearly secondary to the problem of being ugly and short

Yes, yes I do. I grew up playing soccer. Half my life's friend groups were short mexicans. Most of them were between your height and maybe 5'7/5'8.

The difference is they didn't view themselves like you do.

You are ensuring yourself to be alone forever. Not your height or face, you. Until you realize that then, yes, you will be forever alone and angry at other people's happiness. You ignored my entire post just to tell me you're a beta bitter angry african ******* defined by a number.

Women don't want you because you're a loser. I just went through you thread quick and man...good luck. Find God brother.

07-30-2022, 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩

I've moved to new places twice, within the united states. Ive done that. The fact is moving to an entirely different country is not something you can just do.

And yes, you are 5'5 and have success, you are also white. I dont know how many times I have to say this, white guys have it on easy mode. you dont need to be tall or particularly good looking if you're white. White guys can 'just be confident bro' and get a woman. that is not true for african guys

Wrong again, I knew and know plenty of short black guys who swim in it. Again, they have good communication skills and know how to be relaxed and have fun. You're your own worst enemy and babbling on here for 6 pages isn't going to do anything but waste my precious post count ( I do enjoy having a low post to join date) and keep this stupid thread stuck at the top.

07-30-2022, 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted By Bigbuster1⏩

Still wondering this lol.

OP you’re definitely fighting an uphill battle. I think the practical solutions are to try to date within your own race and to stick with the apps.

But I think you’re also having a problem a lot intelligent people have when it comes to girls/ dating. You look at everything so analytically. Women are driven by emotion and feelings and your analyzing everything to death. Dating has obviously gotten a lot tougher with social media etc but I think if you could try to treat dating and women more emotionally you would feel better about it.

You have a lot of strengths. You’re obviously smart and accomplished. You say you have a good friends etc.

Idk like a lot of others said, if there’s one thing girls find repulsive it’s guys who think down on themselves, and guys who try too hard to get girls. You kinda have to walk a fine line of letting a girl know your interested without being desperate

thanks man, actually a well thought out post repped.

A weird thing in my situation with race, is that actually my best odds are not with my own race. black women are hyper obsessed about height and they also tend to like tyrones/criminals/thugs etc. I'm not viewed as attractive to black women. So I cant have any success with my own race, thats a huge reason for my problems. The very very few chicks I got were white, and I expect if I ever did get anyone else its likely a white chick.

07-30-2022, 07:34 PM

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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩

dude good for you, wtf does that have to do with me. That kind of thing would never, ever happen to someone that looks like me. I dont understand why you cant grasp this concept.

Post your photo then. WTF is complaining about how ugly you are if you can't post yourself and at least allow some positive feedback on how to improve.

07-30-2022, 07:34 PM

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Originally Posted By roosky11⏩

Wrong again, I knew and know plenty of short black guys who swim in it. Again, they have good communication skills and know how to be relaxed and have fun. You're your own worst enemy and babbling on here for 6 pages isn't going to do anything but waste my precious post count ( I do enjoy having a low post to join date) and keep this stupid thread stuck at the top.

you're full of chit. There arent even that many black guys who are that short in general. But you, random white miscer, know plenty? I dont even know plenty and most of my friends in life have been black and obviously my family is black.

In terms of " they have good communication skills and know how to be relaxed and have fun", ugh so do I. That has helped me make friends. Has nothing to do with someone being sexually attracted to you. those are traits that make friends.

07-30-2022, 07:36 PM

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Originally Posted By roosky11⏩

Post your photo then. WTF is complaining about how ugly you are if you can't post yourself and at least allow some positive feedback on how to improve.

You cant improve height and fundamental face structure. Im 31 years old, I dont need you to tell me where I stand, I've had plenty of feedback over the years by people who know me

07-30-2022, 07:37 PM

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You're btching about how your car is a broke POS but won't take it to a mechanic, that's it, I'm out of this roll troll bread.

07-30-2022, 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩

you're full of chit. There arent even that many black guys who are that short in general. But you, random white miscer, know plenty? I dont even know plenty and most of my friends in life have been black and obviously my family is black.

In terms of " they have good communication skills and know how to be relaxed and have fun", ugh so do I. That has helped me make friends. Has nothing to do with someone being sexually attracted to you. those are traits that make friends.

If you really did have good communication skills and knew how to be relaxed and have fun, this thread wouldn't exist.

07-30-2022, 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted By roosky11⏩

You're btching about how your car is a broke POS but won't take it to a mechanic, that's it, I'm out of this roll troll bread.

well realize a mechanic cant fix everything. If a car is fuking totaled wtf is a mechanic going to do? It depends on the problem

07-30-2022, 07:39 PM

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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩

LMAO

bro, when you look like me, you are auto rejected on sight. They do not want to talk to you because they are absolutely not interested in a 5'3 ugly africel. You dont get the time to show them anything because they reject you and move on to men they are physically attracted to

Alright brother, if you say so, but I don’t think you’ve approached enough strangers to come to that conclusion.

The thousands of people I’ve observed over the years tell me that what you’re saying isn’t representative of the real world.

If you want to make a new thread where you log your approaches, or every new activities you try (because believe me there are countless things for you to discover and meet women while doing so) count me in as someone that will contribute to your learning and support your journey.

But until then, this is a moot point because you are way too stuck in your ways.

I wish you the best, brah, srs

07-30-2022, 07:41 PM

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Originally Posted By roosky11⏩

If you really did have good communication skills and knew how to be relaxed and have fun, this thread wouldn't exist.

wtf does one have to do with the other? because I make a misc thread about this part of life, that means I cant relax and have fun with my friends.

Logic, not even one time

07-30-2022, 07:41 PM

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The funniest thing ITT is that after 4.5 years of OP posting the same chit in countless threads, people still give him serious responses...

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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩

You cant improve height and fundamental face structure. Im 31 years old, I dont need you to tell me where I stand, I've had plenty of feedback over the years by people who know me

Being on this forum you have access to hundreds of perspectives and opinions from low life deadbeats to millionaires and everyone in between who have nothing to gain from lying to you to make you feel better. The one thing about misc is they always give solid truthful advice no matter how much it sucks.

07-30-2022, 07:42 PM

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Originally Posted By DrAlchemist⏩

Alright brother, if you say so, but I don’t think you’ve approached enough strangers to come to that conclusion.

The thousands of people I’ve observed over the years tell me that what you’re saying isn’t representative of the real world.

If you want to make a new thread where you log your approaches, or every new activities you try (because believe me there are countless things for you to discover and meet women while doing so) count me in as someone that will contribute to your learning and support your journey.

But until then, this is a moot point because you are way too stuck in your ways.

I wish you the best, brah, srs

dude what, why is hard to believe that an a 5'3 ugly ethnic wouldnt be well received on cold approach? Like.....i feel like im saying the obvious but you miscers are acting like im the crazy one. What planet do you dudes live on lol