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post 1665348603 08-01-2022, 10:17 AM
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Originally Posted By rollerball
That f*ggot ain't doing chit. If he was actually suicidal he wouldn't be so against the illegality of prostitutes. He wouldn't give a chit about obeying laws like that. Nor would he have the energy to debate like he does over these stupid threads.

Op is just a psychological weakling who loves pity.
I can't rope until my parents are gone, once they are gone are I am absolutely out of here. I don't have anything to live for
post 1665348663 08-01-2022, 10:18 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
I think 90% of “successful” marriages stay together for money or kids. Love is not really relevant. Most lasting marriages involve cheating or sexless or other big hidden issues. Marriage is really just a transaction for money and kids.

Op is idealizing marriage from a very naive and unrealistic perspective.
Too much material thought. Focus on your consciousness.....this banter is all just EGO.
post 1665348733 08-01-2022, 10:19 AM
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Originally Posted By donblaximus
Saving for what?? I thought the ultimate plan was to rope?
I'm not going to do it tomorrow. I'll rope after my parents are gone. I still need money like everyone else, I could lose my job tomorrow then what.

You guys are fuking idiots
post 1665348863 08-01-2022, 10:21 AM
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Originally Posted By FA*******
OP's sitting around in that house talking about how he wants to blow his head off, so was buying a house really the strat?
Yes. The house is one of the few bright spots you moron. If I was still stuck rentceling with no hope of ever owning I'd be even worse off
post 1665348983 08-01-2022, 10:23 AM
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Originally Posted By Darkeen
So OP what do you think your main problem is, your height or your 'uglyness'? If height then it's pretty extreme but you could consider leg lengthening, if it's 'uglyness' then you could just thugmaxx because there's a certain amount of sloots that don't care about how good looking your face is they just care about how masculine or 'thuggish' a guy is. Personally I think your biggest problem is in your head. You say you've already had a gf so you've already gotten further than ~30% of all miscers probably
Its both but I think height is worse. Being this short is auto rejection for the vast vast vast majority of women
post 1665349033 08-01-2022, 10:24 AM
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Originally Posted By rollerball
Yeah I'm completely suicidal but I better think about setting up a Roth IRA
Facts bro. Gotta make sure you maximize the angles on the unqualified accounts along with parlaying your HSA with solar stocks for maximum gainz bro.
post 1665349153 08-01-2022, 10:26 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
I think 90% of “successful” marriages stay together for money or kids. Love is not really relevant. Most lasting marriages involve cheating or sexless or other big hidden issues. Marriage is really just a transaction for money and kids.

Op is idealizing marriage from a very naive and unrealistic perspective.
I'm not idealizing marriage, I'm still black pill. I fully understand a lot of people get fuked over or aren't happy in the end.

But when you do see an example of everything coming together, and you're lonely and hopeless like me, you realize what everyone is aspiring for when they go for it. And it makes your life apparent for how dogchit it truly is.
post 1665349183 08-01-2022, 10:27 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
I'm not going to do it tomorrow. I'll rope after my parents are gone. I still need money like everyone else, I could lose my job tomorrow then what.

You guys are fuking idiots
If the ultimate plan was to rope, why would you need assets like a house? Just rent an apartment. Its temporary. Along with the fact that it will be passed to nobody.
People with truly bleak outlooks dont plan like that. Ive experienced this first hand. Your internet persona is just coming across as a high estrogen person.
post 1665349243 08-01-2022, 10:27 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Its both but I think height is worse. Being this short is auto rejection for the vast vast vast majority of women
Correct, just like being a single mother. See how that works?
post 1665349273 08-01-2022, 10:28 AM
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Originally Posted By mamarika
They're happier than being alone your entire life.
Miscers can't understand this simple concept
post 1665349363 08-01-2022, 10:30 AM
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Originally Posted By donblaximus
If the ultimate plan was to rope, why would you need assets like a house? Just rent an apartment. Its temporary. Along with the fact that it will be passed to nobody.
People with truly bleak outlooks dont plan like that. Ive experienced this first hand. Your internet persona is just coming across as a high estrogen person.
can you fuking read. The plan is to rope after my parents are gone. I mean who knows but that could be 20 years for now. Why not enjoy living in a house by myself for another 20 years instead of some chit apartment.

Or I could sell it in a few years and make enough money that I don't have to work for a bit
post 1665349473 08-01-2022, 10:32 AM
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Originally Posted By donblaximus
Correct, just like being a single mother. See how that works?
Single mothers are in way higher demand than mega manlets. Most men are desperate and simp for single moms anyway
post 1665349623 08-01-2022, 10:33 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
can you fuking read. The plan is to rope after my parents are gone. I mean who knows but that could be 20 years for now. Why not enjoy living in a house by myself for another 20 years instead of some chit apartment.
Yes I can read just fine can you? People with truly bleak outlooks arent worried about enjoying a house vs apartment etc.

Take a deep breath and calm down James. Im just taking a piss and having a little fun.
post 1665349793 08-01-2022, 10:37 AM
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Originally Posted By donblaximus
Yes I can read just fine can you? People with truly bleak outlooks arent worried about enjoying a house vs apartment etc. LOLz
I'm not like debilitatingly depressed, its more of 'juice isn't worth the squeeze" for me. I think it makes sense to rope if the quality of your life can't meet a certain threshold
post 1665350003 08-01-2022, 10:40 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
I'm not like debilitatingly depressed, its more of 'juice isn't worth the squeeze" for me. I think it makes sense to rope if the quality of your life can't meet a certain threshold
Why not go out with a bang instead of roping like a cuck ? If you have nothing to lose (once your parents go) you can liquidate everything and engage in countless thrills that 99.9% of people will never experience
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post 1665350093 08-01-2022, 10:42 AM
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Originally Posted By DrAlchemist
Why not go out with a bang instead of roping like a cuck ? If you have nothing to lose (once your parents go) you can liquidate everything and engage in countless thrills that 99.9% of people will never experience
Decent chance I do something like that, it depends when it happens though. If its in 20 years maybe not. If its like next year then probably.
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post 1665350233 08-01-2022, 10:44 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
I'm not like debilitatingly depressed, its more of 'juice isn't worth the squeeze" for me. I think it makes sense to rope if the quality of your life can't meet a certain threshold
Im honestly glad to hear that man. Everyone goes through these roller coaster rides of emotions.....and yes I can empathize with you on your challenges for sure. Being 100% serious.
post 1665350243 08-01-2022, 10:44 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Nah you are Catastrophizing your situation and idealizing other peoples situations.

I lived that ideal life that looked like everything came together. We looked like the perfect couple goodlooking succesful in love etc. But it was rotten from the inside. And I know so many other “successful” marriages that behind the scenes involve cheating or sexless.

And you CAN be happy on your own. I’ve been alone for a decade now and I’m pretty happy. I enjoy all other aspects of my life. My ideal life was a happy marriage and I don’t have that but without that there are still plenty of ways to really enjoy my day to day life. I’m alone but pretty happy overall srs
I'll say this, I think its very different for women to be alone than men.

A man who is alone forever and never even gets laid or has a relationship is a lot bigger problem than a woman, because a woman is effectively doing it by choice.

A woman always has options.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
That is depression talking. I’ve been depressed before and I know how you feel. Depression is a temporary state just visiting you. It’s not who you are. If you can find your true self you will see how beautiful life is.
Its not depression, it's a cost benefit analysis. Objectively someone like me does not have a life worth living. Too much is missing for too little gain.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
I'll say this, I think its very different for women to be alone than men.

A man who is alone forever and never even gets laid or has a relationship is a lot bigger problem than a woman, because a woman is effectively doing it by choice.

A woman always has options.
Id argue that ruling out single mothers (there are a lot of them out there and ones with those circumstances could be much more willing to compromise) is also a factor of you lessening your success to find true love by choice as well. Thoughts?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
You’re wrong op

Life can be beautiful even when single. You can enjoy health and fitness, travel, hobbies, money, deeper relationships with family and friends.

You are depressed srs. You can’t see it because you’re so far down into it. I’ve been there to that dark place and it’s temporary. You can beat this and enjoy your life.
This is the problem with stuff today, people love diagnosing depression instead of acknowledging that some peoples lives aren't good and that's why they feel this way.

I saw a doctor on YouTube talk about this. He said, before you even consider "depression " ask these questions.

1. Do you have a job and financial security
2. Do you have friends
3. Do you have hobbies and things to do for fun
4. Do you have a relationship/source of intimacy

If the answer to any or all of these is no, you aren't depressed. You're just missing a fundamentally important part of life. In other words, you feel bad because your life actually is bad.

Some people can be happy alone. But most people can't. That doesn't mean you're depressed it means you're human
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Originally Posted By donblaximus
Id argue that ruling out single mothers (there are a lot of them out there and ones with those circumstances could be much more willing to compromise) is also a factor of you lessening your success to find true love by choice as well. Thoughts?
Obviously having absolutely no standards and taking literally anyone ups your chances but getting used by a single mom isn't for me. I'm not a cuck
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Obviously having absolutely no standards and taking literally anyone ups your chances but getting used by a single mom isn't for me. I'm not a cuck
Correct. Your choice. However there are some good people out there that are single mothers (made questionable decisions in youth) that aren't looking for a mate just for the sake of taking care of their kid. I will say however maybe in your predicament they might just be looking for that so I can see your perspective.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Don’t you have three out of four though?

You said you’re educated and have a well paying job and own a home etc so that’s pretty good. A lot of people strive for that.
3 of 4 yes but the thing missing is a big deal. Only until recently has society tried to normalize being single forever and never getting married or having kids.

It used to be people did these things very early in life and if you didn't everyone thought something was wrong with you. Its an important part of life that most people need.
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Originally Posted By donblaximus
Correct. Your choice. However there are some good people out there that are single mothers (made questionable decisions in youth) that aren't looking for a mate just for the sake of taking care of their kid. I will say however maybe in your predicament they might just be looking for that so I can see your perspective.
yea I don't think it would be coincidence that single mom all of a sudden is interested in 5'3 mega manlet after Tyrone abandoned the baby
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