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post 1666569233 08-22-2022, 03:13 PM
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Do women hit on men? Or slide into their DMs?

In 2022? Or just only Chads?
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post 1666570253 08-22-2022, 03:37 PM
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Yes. If they're very forthright, I just tell them I have a girlfriend. If they're insinuating, I just pretend like I didn't get it. These are average looking women I'm talking about. Attractive women will never be that forward because they're not used to asking guys out but they'll give you all the clues that they want to be hit on by you.
post 1666570443 08-22-2022, 03:41 PM
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If they feel enough of a social 'in'
post 1666570473 08-22-2022, 03:42 PM
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have had a few slide in DMs on IG after a strongman comp i was in and got tagged
post 1666570493 08-22-2022, 03:42 PM
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Yeah.
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post 1666570503 08-22-2022, 03:43 PM
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Yes
post 1666570543 08-22-2022, 03:43 PM
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post 1666570613 08-22-2022, 03:45 PM
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Yes, but it's very rarely direct. Women are almost always indirect when they hit on you, so that way if you reject them, they can cope / save face and pretend they weren't trying to hit on you.

Usually it's just finding ways to be around you, finding ways to make it so you have to contact them for something super trivial, making eye contact for a long time or repeat eye contact etc. And yes, occasionally they will even slide in the DM's but again, it won't be direct, it will be an "innocent" comment about something as a way to initiate the convo.
post 1666570683 08-22-2022, 03:46 PM
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Yes

if you are hot, women will make the move. even if they are shy, they will get the courage to make a move even if you dont lift a finger.
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post 1666570693 08-22-2022, 03:46 PM
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The ones with social clout will even get 10’s begging to be their side piece and even be their sugar momma.
post 1666570763 08-22-2022, 03:47 PM
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I get approached all the time erry day. Any time i go out srs. Been like this since i started lifting.

It isn't direct like others say though they just follow you around and say silly stuff and want you to start up a convo with them srs
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post 1666570953 08-22-2022, 03:51 PM
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Just post stories of you having fun and sloots slide in the dms
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post 1666571043 08-22-2022, 03:54 PM
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Originally Posted By CalmWind⏩
Yes

if you are hot, women will make the move. even if they are shy, they will get the courage to make a move even if you dont lift a finger.
So if I have to reach out to women then that means I'm not hot then...
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post 1666571133 08-22-2022, 03:57 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
I get approached all the time erry day. Any time i go out srs. Been like this since i started lifting.

It isn't direct like others say though they just follow you around and say silly stuff and want you to start up a convo with them srs
No, you don't. Shut the F up
post 1666571153 08-22-2022, 03:57 PM
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Originally Posted By thadderbox⏩
So if I have to reach out to women then that means I'm not hot then...
If girls give you signs often, that means your hot/good looking. If attractive, fukable girls approach you directly, as in talk to you first or slide into DMs, means you are Chad.


Eitheir way you are top 20%.
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post 1666571163 08-22-2022, 03:57 PM
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Not commonly but it does happen.
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post 1666571423 08-22-2022, 04:01 PM
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Originally Posted By thadderbox⏩
So if I have to reach out to women then that means I'm not hot then...
unfortunately.


even if the girl is hot, and has a LOT of options.. if she thinks you're attractive, she will make a some sort of move on you. doesnt even have to be direct, could be something simple like, randomly telling you, "hey thadderbox, the other day i was trying to learn how to set up my XYZ, and i realized i dont even know what im doing. maybe we could spend a second to show me how to do it, its just so i can learn, i dont know what im doing"..... which is code for come spend time with me



stuff like that


others will be way more direct


but women will make a move, doesnt matter how shy, or how hot, or how many options, if they really think youre attractive
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post 1666572333 08-22-2022, 04:17 PM
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The way women hit on men is this:

- notice a guy with either a lot of money or with good bone structure
- smile and give a prolonged look
- stand next to the said guy for no reason at all, thus giving him a chance to start a conversation

Sometimes it’s stuff like accepting a ride home, inviting a guy to see their place, that one is a 100% sign she wants dick in the next week or less.

A co-worker female would start small talk and continue it for too long with a smile, you know right there she wants the dick.

Amazingly in my youth I was so slow and stupid to read these signs from females that I legit realized YEARS later in a couple of cases that I was getting hit on LOL
post 1666576933 08-22-2022, 05:42 PM
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Originally Posted By kusok⏩
The way women hit on men is this:

- notice a guy with either a lot of money or with good bone structure
- smile and give a prolonged look
- stand next to the said guy for no reason at all, thus giving him a chance to start a conversation

Sometimes it’s stuff like accepting a ride home, inviting a guy to see their place, that one is a 100% sign she wants dick in the next week or less.

A co-worker female would start small talk and continue it for too long with a smile, you know right there she wants the dick.

Amazingly in my youth I was so slow and stupid to read these signs from females that I legit realized YEARS later in a couple of cases that I was getting hit on LOL
this is why i always say, "game is for ugly people"


if you're attractive, you dont need game.
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post 1666577213 08-22-2022, 05:46 PM
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The old saying is true:

"If you have to ask..."
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Yeah they do but it's rare if you're sub-chad.

I get some girls hit on me occasionally but it's almost always 3-4/10s. Almost never ones that I actually find attractive.

Although this weekend a chubby HTC made first move but she had a nice face and teddies, was definitely bangable so was happy with that.
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No, they do not. I'm pretty sure everybody else in this thread is lying, OP


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post 1666577803 08-22-2022, 06:02 PM
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Yes but women are really bad at it.

Even if they slide in your dms they are still passive with chit like "How was your day?"
post 1666577873 08-22-2022, 06:04 PM
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they do but you're a **** as a male if that's what you think the m.o. is

also a good bet its not your looks match but someone below you

i also think women actually infatuated with you, as in a crush, won't make a move. they'll be too scared. but moreso with lust

also think most dudes are oblivious to women checking them out. as more females prob look at you when you're not paying attention.

also i dont consider dating apps. cause that's different. a place where people knowingly go somewhere for something

also its probmostlysocial status where your reputation precedes you. like friends of friends

so, op, as a male i dont think you should care about this. worry about having balls and showing interest and being direct

you think women are the hunters and men are the prey? or vice versa?
post 1666577933 08-22-2022, 06:04 PM
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I’ve literally made 300+ threads showing examples of how women do it. If you know you know.
post 1666579043 08-22-2022, 06:23 PM
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Originally Posted By leafs43⏩
Yes but women are really bad at it.

Even if they slide in your dms they are still passive with chit like "How was your day?"
Women are so used to having the guys take the lead, that they have no experience at it and are really awkward at it. That makes it even better.

Remember those turnabout / Sadie Hawkins' dances in high school? Those were so funny. Whenever a girl would try and ask me, I knew what she was trying to do but just played completely oblivious to it, making her actually say the words "Will you go to the dance with me?" They would start out making small talk and say something dumb like

"The dance is coming up."
I was like yep.
"Are you going to go?"
Don't know.
"Do you like going to them?"
They're alright.
"Are you going out with anyone right now?"
Not really
"We should go together"
What, like as friends?
"Do you want to go as a date?"
Like dinner and a movie sometime?
"No, I mean the dance."
What about the dance?
"Are we going to go?"
Don't know yet, no one asked yet
"I'm asking"
Asking what?
"You to the dance"
You are?
"Yes"
Then ask me properly.
"Will you go to the dance with me?"
Sure.

This was almost the word for word way a girl asked me to one at her school (next town over). She was seriously nervous and sweaty looking by the end of it. She was so frazzled that I didn't just ask her when she approached me.

I told her to remember that is how many guys feel when they put themselves out there and risk rejection. Her face changed like that thought had never crossed her mind.
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Hell yeah they do. But if you have to ask that question then I got sum bad newz
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I'm not a chad but at the first (and only) frat party I went to some sorority girl and her friend hit on me at the pong table.

Ended up making out with the sorority girl in about 30 seconds, talked for a few minutes, then left, then she blew up my phone, then she ended up driving to my dorm. And that was that.

So I guess it depends how slooty they are maybe? The sloots will just approach I think, but that girl did say she didn't usually do that so idk.

I haven't tested this extensively since I barely ever go out.
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