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post 1666636483 08-23-2022, 06:24 PM
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Lack of libido. How to fix this (srs)

My libido has been trash for 1+ year. No hormonal issues.

Don't have the same interest in women, dating and sex as I once did. Used to be horny 24/ 7 and like an animal, but now I'm just bored.

Seem like my dopamine receptors are not functioning properly. Or maybe this is what late 20's feels like. Or I'm just depressed, although I don't feel unhappy but don't care about anything other than work.

Need help dead srs Want my urge to bang sloots back. Also can't seem to feel love or any attachment to any woman, no butterflies.

PS: Won't try men
post 1666636533 08-23-2022, 06:26 PM
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You might be depressed.


How do you know no hormone issues? You had bloods done?
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post 1666636573 08-23-2022, 06:26 PM
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Same thing happened to right when i turned 30. I think it's just normal if you don't take test srs. You can't always feel 20 as you get into your 30s and 40s there's just no way that's possible with the aging process. Stuff changes.
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post 1666636623 08-23-2022, 06:27 PM
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Does this make your dink twitch?



If not, go on TRT srs.
post 1666636683 08-23-2022, 06:28 PM
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post 1666636693 08-23-2022, 06:28 PM
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do you abuse any substances? porn addiction? etc?
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post 1666636723 08-23-2022, 06:29 PM
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late 20s and your libido is dead? its likely depression and stress or worry.


or lack of regular excercise and chit diet

If none of those then you likely need TRT or some boner pills

My libido crashed around mid 30s.
post 1666636933 08-23-2022, 06:31 PM
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Originally Posted By HayZues
You might be depressed.


How do you know no hormone issues? You had bloods done?
Bloods done. Everything seems fine. Test is hovering 650-700 (Sometimes even hits 800), Prolactin is fine, TSH is fine, LH, FSH, Estradiol, Free Test is a bit over range, SHBG is fine.

Don't know if depressed, but I'm brutally bored with dating. Can't think of anything other than fixing my life asap. Feel a bit pressured in life but not really sad tbh.
post 1666637103 08-23-2022, 06:34 PM
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If your bloodwork looks OK then it could be Stress and/or depression. Srs.

Both are total libido killers .
post 1666637223 08-23-2022, 06:36 PM
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Originally Posted By ProSaibot
Bloods done. Everything seems fine. Test is hovering 650-700 (Sometimes even hits 800), Prolactin is fine, TSH is fine, LH, FSH, Estradiol, Free Test is a bit over range, SHBG is fine.

Don't know if depressed, but I'm brutally bored with dating. Can't think of anything other than fixing my life asap. Feel a bit pressured in life but not really sad tbh.
There you go its a stress and worry issue, a lot of libido is mental, if your mind is worried its hard to get off or get hungry for it.
post 1666637343 08-23-2022, 06:38 PM
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Originally Posted By DrugsToGetBig
do you abuse any substances? porn addiction? etc?
I watch porn everyday and have sex everyday. Didn't seem to be an issue before
Originally Posted By ChaliHo
late 20s and your libido is dead? its likely depression and stress or worry.


or lack of regular excercise and chit diet

If none of those then you likely need TRT or some boner pills

My libido crashed around mid 30s.
Don't need TRT. Free test is high and Test is above average. Don't really have a limp dick, I just don't seem to have interest in sex.
post 1666637443 08-23-2022, 06:39 PM
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Originally Posted By ProSaibot
Feel a bit pressured in life but not really sad tbh.
You got other things on your mind...maybe a bit stressed. Do you exercise, how's your diet, sleep schedule?

All these little things can add up.
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post 1666637453 08-23-2022, 06:40 PM
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Originally Posted By ProSaibot
I watch porn everyday and have sex everyday. Didn't seem to be an issue before



Don't need TRT. Free test is high and Test is above average. Don't really have a limp dick, I just don't seem to have interest in sex.
stop watching porn and stop masturbating if you are
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post 1666637843 08-23-2022, 06:44 PM
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post 1666637893 08-23-2022, 06:45 PM
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post 1666637933 08-23-2022, 06:46 PM
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Maybe you’re just gay. Try men srs
post 1666637973 08-23-2022, 06:46 PM
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Originally Posted By ProSaibot
My libido has been trash for 1+ year.No hormonal issues.
Strongly doubt that.

I would focus on 7+ hours sleep nightly, getting exercise, losing bodyfat and filling in several other details you kind of glossed over. What is your free test level when you had it checked recently?

Dopamine receptors, you're talking about depression. You don't have it. Depression isn't a lack of sexual desire, it's much worse.
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post 1666638063 08-23-2022, 06:48 PM
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How about you fist yourself, then revisit your stance on trying men.
post 1666638083 08-23-2022, 06:49 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989
Same thing happened to right when i turned 30. I think it's just normal if you don't take test srs. You can't always feel 20 as you get into your 30s and 40s there's just no way that's possible with the aging process. Stuff changes.
Really?! You should think about TRT, bro. Srs. & No, OP. It's not normal to have low test in your late 20s. There are fuking 70+ year-old politicians & even people in nursing homes who can't stop fuking. I'm 28 & my libido's as high as ever. Since your test is actually high, you're almost definitely depressed, stressed, or both. I've had periods of time where I had absolutely 0 sex drive due to PTSD, and no amount of test would've helped me. Oh, and try men
post 1666638113 08-23-2022, 06:49 PM
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Originally Posted By ProSaibot
My libido has been trash for 1+ year. No hormonal issues.

Don't have the same interest in women, dating and sex as I once did. Used to be horny 24/ 7 and like an animal, but now I'm just bored.

Seem like my dopamine receptors are not functioning properly. Or maybe this is what late 20's feels like. Or I'm just depressed, although I don't feel unhappy but don't care about anything other than work.

Need help dead srs Want my urge to bang sloots back. Also can't seem to feel love or any attachment to any woman, no butterflies.

PS: Won't try men
Are you mRNA vaccinated? Big correlation of desire and dysfunction.
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post 1666638223 08-23-2022, 06:51 PM
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As others have said, sleep is a big one. Eat meat and eggs. Clean your diet up. Take vitamin d3 +k2. Exercise consistently. If you're overweight, cut weight and fat. If you're underweight, eat more (healthy foods though). Stop drinking alcohol. Stop watching porn and stop fapping.

That alone should clear up a lot of issues.

If not, then get bloodwork and consult with your doctor about what could be wrong.
post 1666638343 08-23-2022, 06:54 PM
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Originally Posted By ProSaibot
Bloods done. Everything seems fine. Test is hovering 650-700 (Sometimes even hits 800), Prolactin is fine, TSH is fine, LH, FSH, Estradiol, Free Test is a bit over range, SHBG is fine.

Don't know if depressed, but I'm brutally bored with dating. Can't think of anything other than fixing my life asap. Feel a bit pressured in life but not really sad tbh.
Two things there was a study that showed a lot of men saw a drop in hormones due to pandemic.

Second there’s something called bitch mode. You might be transitioning into a bitch.

Get your diet right. Try mangos. Get back to doing exactly what you were doing. Maybe it’ll change things.
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Originally Posted By ProSaibot
Can't think of anything other than fixing my life asap. Feel a bit pressured in life but not really sad tbh.
You're constantly thinking about "fixing" your life? Feel like you have a "broken" life seems like a solid amount of pressure. What exactly do you need to fix?
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Originally Posted By Strawng
Really?! You should think about TRT, bro. Srs. & No, OP. It's not normal to have low test in your late 20s. There are fuking 70+ year-old politicians & even people in nursing homes who can't stop fuking. I'm 28 & my libido's as high as ever. Since your test is actually high, you're almost definitely depressed, stressed, or both. I've had periods of time where I had absolutely 0 sex drive due to PTSD, and no amount of test would've helped me. Oh, and try men
My test isn't low though it's around 600 i just have constant anxiety and depression cuz can't meet anyone that does anything but talk about politics netflix and video games

Everyone i know or have talked to since Covid just got addicted to this stuff and idk what's going on
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Originally Posted By FrankCostanza
Two things there was a study that showed a lot of men saw a drop in hormones due to pandemic.

Second there’s something called bitch mode. You might be transitioning into a bitch.

Get your diet right. Try mangos. Get back to doing exactly what you were doing. Maybe it’ll change things.
That's because the mRNA spike antigen reduces ATP into the muscles which includes the Penis (Ded F*&n srs)
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I have all the same issues as OP i just feel no connection with anything anymore been like this for so many years now that idk what to do
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Originally Posted By eod8989
I have all the same issues as OP i just feel no connection with anything anymore been like this for so many years now that idk what to do
INTJ here as well, same feel
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Originally Posted By JUSA
Strongly doubt that.

I would focus on 7+ hours sleep nightly, getting exercise, losing bodyfat and filling in several other details you kind of glossed over. What is your free test level when you had it checked recently?

Dopamine receptors, you're talking about depression. You don't have it. Depression isn't a lack of sexual desire, it's much worse.
Can't remember really. It was slightly above the normal range though, I have to check my bloods but Free test was really high
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