Feminist asked me during our weekly book club.

"why is it bad when a woman has a one night stands or friends with benefit, but it's ok for men to do it?"


I'll take the best answer and read it to her.

just tell her about how that a lock any key can open is a chitty lock but a key that can open any lock is a master key. Theres literally no reasoning they can use against that analogy because its true and it applies. she will just say you are mansplaining and call you a nazi probably.

because men are superior to women and we can do as we please. now get back in the kitchen and fix me a turkey potpie bitch

Tell her its the same reason you are a pathetic loser for putting pussy on a pedestal, but it's fine for her to drool over dudes.

Good answer here, unlike the frustrated rejected virgin above lol

same reason a man who is 5'4'' can't get dates but a woman who is 4'10'' can.

cause women judge men for certain things and men judge women for certain things. women judge for height, men judge for slootiness

"Why is it so hard for you to find a boyfriend?"

Serious answer because a woman's sex is the most valuable thing she can offer a man, and if she gives it away to a random dude she barely knows well then her sex is worthless, isn't it? Hit her back with "why do women give the puss for free to losers who aren't good enough for a relationship but when she meets a guy with his act together she makes him work for it or wait for it?"

Because it comes down to paternity. A woman can sleep with 200 men, fall pregnant and she knows the child is 100% hers.

A man can sleep with 200 woman and they can all get pregnant but he still isn't guaranteed that one of the kids will be his.

Everything has a basic fundamental instinct to ensure their genetic material is passed down, men sleep around because we need to spread our seed due to the points above. The way our penis is shaped, our pre-cum killing other men's sperm, to us being the most attracted to women who are at their most fertile.

This is why virginity is prized, no matter how isolated a tribe or civilization they all placed a high price on virgin brides.

The point of sex besides the 2seconds of bliss is procreationq, women who sleep around cause issues because it shows her lack of standards in a mate which means someone is going to have to take care of that bastard child.

Like others have said all a woman has to offer is her youth, looks and sex. Men have to offer a whole lote more, usually resources, when you have a lot it's fine but when you don't you don't want to share it with a bastard child.

Even sex itself has huge connotations, woman lay on their backs and get penetrated by a foreign object. If anyone was going to penetrate me with a foreign object I wouldn't let anyone on the street do it.

For men it's more difficult to get laid than to stay celibate.
For women it's more difficult to stay celibate than to get laid.

A woman's value decreases the more men she sleeps with. It's so easy for women to get laid and the more men she's been with, the more we men will view her as nothing more than a vagina. If she was a great catch (and not mental), she would have settled down.

Men that have slept around usually means he has something of value to these women.

a key that can unlock a lot of doors is a great key

a lock that can be opened by many keys is a chitty lock

bad for both imo

If you puke on my bat, I rinse it off. If I puke in your purse, you get a new one.

Honestly, your best bet is just avoid her from here on out unless you wanna end up hearing from HR. Srs.

women only sleep with men they like.

men sleep with anything.

if she is sleeping with guys she likes as a FWB its only a matter of time before she falls in love and gets attached.

so the man is not really attached in the beginning and says he doesn't want a relationship

girl gets upset, all men are trash etc (top %10 of men who can actually get FWB is what she means) blah blah

repeat the cycle a handful of times then you have a jaded female with too much baggage.

Lots of great answers in here.

You want her to change or you want to win?

If the first, I'd go with something like, "I can't think of anything more antifeminist than investing in a risky game with a random man who doesn't care about your pleasure and will not make you orgasm. It's the most pickme behavior on the planet. (Editor's note: Massage that last sentence or delete if you'd like, it's a bit direct.) Your version of feminism is nothing more than cheap male gratification, and you gain nothing and risk everything because man's peepee."

Because its FAR FAR easier for women to get laid outside of elite men (be it looks/money/status)

Most men are desperate as **** to get laid/get female attention so care far less about standards

I mean ffs you have pathetic losers PAYING for onlyfans/subbing and donating to twitch thots.. Like hello? if you can't get laid there is 1000s of free porn sites.. these kind of losers will role over backwards if actual pussy is offered to them

A 1 to 8 out of 10 male is having a far harder time on average then a woman when it comes to attracting the opposite sex

You see these stories of 300lb women being hit up by loser men (who at least look a bit better then her)

It just doesn't work the other way round

Because no man wants to be seen riding the town bicycle. If every man in town has had you then none of them are going to want you. Your value as a mate is damn near zero.

For a man that has slept with every girl in town the opposite is true. You would be the biggest gigachad in town and if there were a few women who didn't sleep with you, they would feel left out.

A man who cucks other men is considered a bull. A powerful animus. He draws respect, desire, jealousy.

A woman can't cuck other women, and if she fuks all the men for free she's a gutter slut. If she charges then she's the town whore. It's not just about paternity. We've evolved a disgust mechanism to protect against diseases too. And everyone knows harlots are disease repositories.

Lol op I'd go with this. Solid answer that will shock her blue hair dye off, for true.