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post 1669199413 10-09-2022, 04:26 PM
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Is dating a divorced woman a red flag?

Or is poon just poon?
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post 1669199543 10-09-2022, 04:29 PM
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Depends why she divorced.

If divorced because husband was in the secretary's sugarwalls, not her fault.

If divorced because she missed having hot girl summer and slooted with the poolboy, her fault.

If "irreconcilable differences"... probably still her fault.

Basically if the husband blatantly fuked her over, all divorce means is that she was worth marrying to someone, wanted to be monogamous, and had enough self respect to not take cheating/abuse/being treated like chit.

Literally any other reason and it's a red flag.
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post 1669199583 10-09-2022, 04:29 PM
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Really are no red flags as far as "dating" goes. You can stick your dick in just about anything.

Tying yourself to another person financially is where red flags come into play. And yes divorced or popping out another man's cooked baby batter are the two biggest.

Imagine the day when virginity was the only thing making women worth dating.

Thats what we need to work on getting back to. No hymen no diamond.
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post 1669200203 10-09-2022, 04:41 PM
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A divorced woman who was the one to initiate the divorce has already verified that her word is meaningless and that she has no strong principles or actual family values. Why would you assume she'd be a better wife towards you than she was towards her ex-husband? Exactly.
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You really have no choice but to date divorced women when you're over 30, but most on this forum are late 20s I think.
post 1669200643 10-09-2022, 04:51 PM
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Date? Who gives a fukk what she did

Marry? NEVER marry a divorced woman…even if it was the husbands fault, she’s damaged now
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post 1669212763 10-09-2022, 09:10 PM
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Originally Posted By azumi121
Date? Who gives a fukk what she did

Marry? NEVER marry a divorced woman…even if it was the husbands fault, she’s damaged now
How about a divorced man? Is dating a divorced man a red flag? Will you marry a divorced man?
post 1669212943 10-09-2022, 09:20 PM
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Originally Posted By EvaLim
How about a divorced man? Is dating a divorced man a red flag? Will you marry a divorced man?
Who gives a chit? Take that crap to lipstick alley.
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post 1669213143 10-09-2022, 09:24 PM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
You really have no choice but to date divorced women when you're over 30, but most on this forum are late 20s I think.
this is simply not true. loads of future spinsters in their late 30s and 40s never married are out there still thinking they're gonna have a fairytale ending.
post 1669213393 10-09-2022, 09:28 PM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
You really have no choice but to date divorced women when you're over 30, but most on this forum are late 20s I think.
. A guy over 30 can date younger
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post 1669214203 10-09-2022, 09:58 PM
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Originally Posted By iloveus
. A guy over 30 can date younger
If he’s attractive and makes good $$$$ but most men I know over 30 date divorced women as lately there are even more divorced women or single mothers who have never been married.

It’s not a big deal you just adjust to the fact that they have that baggage.

I just don’t like adjusting to 50 year old men with baggage lol.
post 1669214363 10-09-2022, 10:03 PM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
If he’s attractive and makes good $$$$ but most men I know over 30 date divorced women as lately there are even more divorced women or single mothers who have never been married.

It’s not a big deal you just adjust to the fact that they have that baggage.

I just don’t like adjusting to 50 year old men with baggage lol.
Those men just need to work on them selves they can get younger better women
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post 1669214963 10-09-2022, 10:24 PM
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Yes. Divorce is not okay.
post 1669215003 10-09-2022, 10:25 PM
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Originally Posted By iloveus
Those men just need to work on them selves they can get younger better women
Well, I live amongst computer nerds so they struggle.
post 1669215143 10-09-2022, 10:32 PM
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Like a lot of things, the answer is it depends.
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post 1669215203 10-09-2022, 10:36 PM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
Well, I live amongst computer nerds so they struggle.
They can improve themselves
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post 1669215423 10-09-2022, 10:45 PM
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Originally Posted By iloveus
They can improve themselves
They certainly can and I try to give them advice but they just white knight and don’t know how to talk to women.
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Originally Posted By EvaLim
How about a divorced man? Is dating a divorced man a red flag? Will you marry a divorced man?
I'm not a ****g0t, so you go find out and get back to us.
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
If he’s attractive and makes good $$$$ but most men I know over 30 date divorced women as lately there are even more divorced women or single mothers who have never been married.

It’s not a big deal you just adjust to the fact that they have that baggage.

I just don’t like adjusting to 50 year old men with baggage lol.
Younger women love guys in their 30's and 40's, regardless of how much money he has. Cope.
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
You really have no choice but to date divorced women when you're over 30, but most on this forum are late 20s I think.
am 30, turning 31 soon

have dated anywhere from 23-28


also OP, depends, but given the choice for dating to marry I would not take the risk.
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