Last weekend I was drunk at like 3AM, and ended up texting a bunch of girls in my phone who I had hooked up with in the past. Didn't really amount to anything, and to be honest it was mostly entertainment to me at the time as I was probably too drunk to have sex anyways.

So yesterday, I was waiting in line at Chipotle for Lunch at 1PM, and I ended up getting a text from one of the girls saying, "Come meet me for a drink at a bar" that was about 3 minutes away. She's about a 6/10, and not particularly attractive but there's enough to get excited about to have some fun. She's a short girl with decent tits. Wasn't really feeling it at the time, and definitely wasn't going to meet her in public anywhere.

We exchanged some messages throughout the afternoon, and later I was at home laying on the couch last night doing the usual weekday nighttime Misc/TV/Dinner type of routine. She wanted me to come over to her house this time, and she promised me sex and a massage, which she said, "I'm really great at both." I'm not exactly sure where her house is, but IIRC from when we talked in the past it's something like 12-15 minutes driving away. I thought about it for a minute or two, and I although a massage and sex sounded pretty good, I had masturbated earlier in the day and decided that I wasn't really in the mood to get up and shower so I could go spend a couple hours having sex and getting a massage with this girl.

If this were like 2018, I would have absolutely done this without a doubt. Weeknight, guaranteed sex, massage, nothing else to do...would have been a nice couple of hours. But in 2022, that chit barely moved the needle. If she volunteered to come to me, I might have considered it a bit harder, but even then I didn't really want that chick coming over to my house.

Anyways, am I crazy? Turning down pussy that is being basically served on a platter? It's funny, because nowadays the only sex I'm seem to be interested in is with a girl I would consider actually dating, or some random late night afterparty sex where you're talking to a chick and end up fuking in the other room.

the barest of minimums

Are you a married guy?

It hits you at 28- 29, not worth the effort.

zero, if you think you need to put effort into getting laid these days then youre either a delusional basement dweller and/or you dont know what generation youre living in.

I'm actually 37.

Depends highly on the girl

If she's hot and I'm really attracted I'm going

If it's just some plane Jane bs then I'd prob skip it half the time too

I’m only 26 and I already don’t care anymore. Talking to two girls rn and haven’t made a move to even kiss one of of them yet lol


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Time to grow up mate

Not much to 0

Eh, I'm grown in most respects, but just don't really want to settle down.

29 is when i stopped having sex lol. Sex drive dropped a bit around then and i just got bored of it srs

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Kind of, but not at the expense of losing my freedom. Maybe that will change in the future, but it hasn't yet.

I'm already an uncle, and seeing my brother's kid 3x per year is about perfect.

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Much less effort than it would take me to read that post

You gain a lot more than you lose. People always think about what they might lose and end up missing out on everything they gain.

About 50 euro

Or about 80 pesos

this lol

I would be perfectly happy to wake up most mornings and phukk my wife all day long.

I've had 3 girls basically throw themselves at me for sex from the last few months, I'm 27. Girl 1 was hispanic and like 5'0, but she had a butter face, made out in her car and decided to just go home despite her inviting me over and stuff. Girl 2 was a whale, and frankly I was insulted she thought she had the chance, couldn't get over how she looks and probably smells, also acted like a dumb kid still in high school despite being in her early twenties. Girl 3 was a chunky upper 30's / lower 40's something, no lie the idea of a cougar is enticing to me, but she was just too chunky.

Outside of that I had a 27 years old girl I was talking to off a dating app for 10ish weeks. She's a foreigner but is a US Citizen, she's pretty, athletic (plays tennis), but she wants something serious (future husband, kids), she is very strong on her opinions, and has non-stop weddings and other events every freakin' month because of how huge her family is. Getting involved with her would've taken so much time out of my free time. Also she wasn't putting out after the couple of times we hung out, which I respect, but it made me lose the interest quicker because I kinda started talking / meeting up expecting no escalations and it was kinda just like hanging out with a friend. She's not one to mess around with anyone I guess.

So yeah, this one was the most recent, she wanted to hang out after coming back from a 3rd wedding since I've known her. I told her I've moved on, she got upset that I wasted her time all these weeks, and I'll never see her again lol. Didn't want to sacrifice my free time, and with how she is I'd probably end up whipped by her, and have my identity change from Visel to girl's boy toy yes man.

Talking to another girl now who asserts she "really wants to get to know me," out of the blue after our chatting kind of died off. She seems more easy / casual, so I'll probably AT LEAST hang out with her once or twice, but not with any serious intentions.

my logic is, there are guys out there that dont do nothing and dont have to think about the **** behind it. it either works out for you or it doesnt.

I don't have to do much.

i think the calibre of chicks that like you, reflects your actual SMV. so you gotta reevaluate yourself here if you think she didnt have a chance

Very little brah. I'll meet a girl for coffee and a 30 min chat, if shes not odd or annoying then I'll follow up with a text the next day inviting them to mine for a couple drinks and food later that week. Works most times and if it doesn't then its on to the next.

The amount of effort required to raise a kid for 18 years multiplied by some probability that is less than 1 but not much less loss

Yeahhhhh, I can't really be bothered as far as new local girls are concerned. I have 2 long term FWBs that I see weekly so that makes me want to give even less effort. Just looking for quality over quantity now these days. Smashing 8+ chicks in a week was cool when I was young but ain't nobody got time for that anymore. I make all my current and returning FWBs come to my crib for movies/wine/coom, always

They're the ones who are most desperate though, and alcohol impacts things too. Just cuz an ugly/fatty is hitting on you doesn't mean you're at her level, she's just shooting her shot till something lands. Besides, I'd kinda like to think all girls know what a hot guy looks like, and therefore you can kinda disregard the calibre of the girl... if you're getting attention you're getting attention.

I've had some looks and stares and stuff from 7+/10 hotties, one time in particular there was a girl who was presumably with her boyfriend and my friend said "bro she keeps looking at you," we made eye contact, she looked away, then didn't look back again the rest of the night (probs felt guilty since she was with somebody).

Another time this dude who was at the bar with his wife comes up and jestermaxed loudly so everyone in the vicinity could hear, and basically called out a 7+/10 early twenties blondie for looking at me, and she bought into it.