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post 1669960113 10-23-2022, 03:30 PM
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Struggling to get over my ex 4 months after the breakup

I have less willpower than a drug addict.

I can't stop checking her what's app online status and check her insta every other hour.

I have several anxiety attacks throughout the day : I know what I have to do to make them stop but I can't.

Checking up on her is the last link that I have to her, to stop would be to let go completely and accept the fact that I never meant something and that we're just going to live our lives as if we never met.

I cannot accept that I wast just an episode of her life, that she could forget me so easily and move on.

Last contact was last week when I wished her happy birthday.

It's not my first breakup but easily the hardest : Why can't she just block me instead of ignoring me ?
post 1669960203 10-23-2022, 03:32 PM
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Tonight shes gonna get plowed by her new guy. Hes gonna be smashing reverse cow girl and his penis is gonna slip out. shes gonna grab it and slide it back in

Time to block her from everything
post 1669960293 10-23-2022, 03:34 PM
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post 1669960333 10-23-2022, 03:34 PM
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Originally Posted By beansieweansie
Tonight shes gonna get plowed by her new guy. Hes gonna be smashing reverse cow girl and his penis is gonna slip out. shes gonna grab it and slide it back in

Time to block her from everything
I know bro, hence this famous copy pasta

"She's taking a new cock every other day while you're sitting there imagining being with her, look at how fuked up that picture this. getting railed by all kinds of guys. she doesn't give a fuk about you, why should you give one single fuk about her? disregard her completely, I don't care if you've been going after her for months or years, stop it now. I don't care if you think you've put too much time in, stop it. stop thinking how great it would be with her, because it wouldn't. you're better than that. she's just another slut that you were infatuated with. shes average. shes nothing to you. I don't care if she texts you saying she misses you, don't respond. don't wait 2 hours then respond and think you're alpha, you're in the same fuking spot with her at the end. forget about her, work on your goals for life, aesthetics being one of them. when you're aesthetic as fuk, don't give a fuk, alpha and confident as fuk you know what will happen since you've been disregarding her? she will come to you like never before, and you can toy with her fuking emotions if you want. girls live off emotions, you think you're fuked with this oneitis, imagine how bad it will be for her when she sees how awesome you are and you aren't giving her any time. it will eat her inside, then you can eventually fuk her and disregard if you want, or just forget about her. it doesn't matter, you know why? because you're the ****ing man so start acting like it. stop feeling bad for yourself, stop fantasizing about her before you go to bed, stop fapping to her, stop all of this nonsense. you're going to look back and laugh at how dumb you were for being infatuated with this chick when there are tons of them out there, go get more. put yourself out there, lift heavy as fuk, work on ceo'ing, adopt the not a single **** was given attitude and watch your happiness rise to higher levels than ever before."


It doesn't help.

Why does this sloot still have a video from one our date on her insta, 4 months after the breakup ? She's regularly removing pictures on her insta but this one still remains...
post 1669960413 10-23-2022, 03:36 PM
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post 1669960663 10-23-2022, 03:40 PM
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Originally Posted By explosiveMidget
it's all mind games u dumb fuk stop looking into everthing with a fine tooth comb and u won't have these problems
She definitely likes Fcking with OPs head.

Go Fck something OP…get your dikk wet
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post 1669960673 10-23-2022, 03:40 PM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger
I have less willpower than a drug addict.

I can't stop checking her what's app online status and check her insta every other hour.

I have several anxiety attacks throughout the day : I know what I have to do to make them stop but I can't.

Checking up on her is the last link that I have to her, to stop would be to let go completely and accept the fact that I never meant something and that we're just going to live our lives as if we never met.

I cannot accept that I wast just an episode of her life, that she could forget me so easily and move on.

Last contact was last week when I wished her happy birthday.

It's not my first breakup but easily the hardest : Why can't she just block me instead of ignoring me ?
Welcome to the club.

I tried ignoring her at the start and I did for 3 or 4 months after which i caved and stalked every one of her stories.

Took me 8 months to feel 'ok' and 'not in a cloud' and a year to feel pretty darn good - 3 years later I still STILL get pissed of when I think about how she treated me.

The truth is that if I was a good guy and emotionally stable/healthy, nobody could have done this to me - likewise, if you were a 'good guy' and were 'emotionally independent' to other people, you wouldn't care.

You have to take some time to 'get over her' and stop all the stupidity that led you to that point in begin with - if you don't, you'll just meet another one like her and the same thing will happen.

This is how life forces us to grow past what we thought the limitations were.

Don't worry about what she's posting, just take the time to 'get back to normal' - whether she thinks she loves you or not does not matter, it's about you feeling that love on your own.

She might not even realize it, but she loves you - the thing is she might not be as hurt as you because she was more emotionally 'whole' to begin with.

The thing is, anytime you're obsessed with somebody, you're the one at a loss, since you can't control it, and because 'falling in love' is soooo normal in our society, we don't even realize how stupid the concept is.

I guarantee you that if you were to take the time to heal and have those positive emotions with your self alone, you'll never have this problem again.
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post 1669960753 10-23-2022, 03:42 PM
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Bruh, you have a lot of issues with emotional attachment to women. From the hooker you were in love with to this.

What is it you are trying to get out of relationships? Probably not something you are going to ever find.
post 1669960853 10-23-2022, 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
Welcome to the club.

I tried ignoring her at the start and I did for 3 or 4 months after which i caved and stalked every one of her stories.

Took me 8 months to feel 'ok' and 'not in a cloud' and a year to feel pretty darn good - 3 years later I still STILL get pissed of when I think about how she treated me.

The truth is that if I was a good guy and emotionally stable/healthy, nobody could have done this to me, so likewise, if you were a 'good guy' and were 'emotionally independent' to other people, you wouldn't care.

You have to take some time to 'get over her' and stop all the stupidity that led you to that point in begin with - if you don't, you'll just meet another one like her and the same thing will happen.

This is how life forces us to grow past what we thought the limitations were.
the white version of cityjaeger, even more pathetic because he tried to spread his "wisdom" while being broken himself
post 1669961093 10-23-2022, 03:48 PM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking
the white version of cityjaeger, even more pathetic because he tried to spread his "wisdom" while being broken himself
I don't get why you're so averse to what I speak?

Do you not realize that love is an emotion that takes you over uncontrollably and transforms you?

Why are you so resistant to change anyway?

What are you hoping to walk away with from this life?

Sounds like somebody hurt you bad to begin with and you never want to feel good again, because it would involve you having to face your own 'demons'.
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post 1669961423 10-23-2022, 03:54 PM
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post 1669961463 10-23-2022, 03:56 PM
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Originally Posted By explosiveMidget
Romans 1:22-32 Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools,
tell that to the one billion muslims, slick
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post 1669961873 10-23-2022, 04:09 PM
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It’s amazing how guys don’t give a chit until the relationship is over then they fall apart and women care the whole relationship until it’s over then they fall on another cawk.

Not Srs.

OP you sound like a good. Go find a new chick bruh.
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post 1669963223 10-23-2022, 04:41 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
I don't get why you're so averse to what I speak?

Do you not realize that love is an emotion that takes you over uncontrollably and transforms you?

Why are you so resistant to change anyway?

What are you hoping to walk away with from this life?

Sounds like somebody hurt you bad to begin with and you never want to feel good again, because it would involve you having to face your own 'demons'.
such a weirdo
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