never have i started a relationship with such a spark. 28 years old, crazy hot, no kids, wanted kids and marriage, but had a slight snarky and strong personality. said i had small quirks that made me fell out of her favor. was a keeper cause she wasnt about that degenerate life.

damn.

Well I can promise you this... if she was "snarky" and had an attitude just by dating you, then I 100% guarantee she'd have been an absolute bitch towards you most of the time once she had you locked into marriage, most likely resulting in divorce down the line after years of you being the only one putting any effort into trying to salavge a broken marriage in which she ends up seeking attention from Requise in Morocco she secretly met on a dating ap her green haired sloot friend showed her over her own husband.

Where's the bloody foooking pics

Why was she 28 and single tho?

One thing is wanting kids at that age put what did she want age 18-28? If she wanted to travel & Get fuked during those years & only wanted marriage & kids once her biological clock started ticking she was for the streets always

thats was funny. thanks man.

she was super affectionate, really made me feel like a man, did everything sexually that i asked for, paid for tabs and food and restaurants, got me my favorite bourbon for my birthday.she dated someone for 6 years. the guy never got his sht together, smoked weed all day, couldnt pay his share of rent, and she got tired of waiting for him. she is a hard worker, never traveled, finished university, and has been working hard ever since.

what bothers me is that i have my sht together and could have provided everything she wanted. she gave that bum 6 years of her life, but less than 1 for me. whatever. she said she just couldnt waste too much time.

why crazy?


why keeper?

huh?

what were the quirks OP? Any other reasons?

"i had small quirks that made me fell out of her favor"

don't worry about her bro

it's hard but get out there and move on. you shouldn't feel inanyway**** about someone not wanting to be with you because of your "small quirks".

those small quirks are what make you unique. and whilst she might not appreciate them, someone will. and until then - embrace those quirks and justbe youbrah

Yeah breh, my ex did all that chit for me too back when we dated. Then I got used for a paycheck towards her student loans for 8 years of marriage (which she became progressively kuntier towards me throughout), and that was that.

I'm not kidding though, don't underestimate what a bullet you dodged in not marrying a chick with a snarky asss attitude. That chit starts out cute when you're dating a chick and she's still sucking your dink multiple times a week without acting like it's some huge chore. After a few years of her settling into marriage and knowing that a divorce would likely be a big pita for you? Lol forget it, breh. She'd invariably turn into a nasty bitch on ya. Srs.

why say crazy girll


but also say keeper girl


how girl crazy and keeper?

so when we would have an argument, or misunderstanding, i would apparently double back to something i've already said multiple times. I did that because I felt like she wasn't fully grasping my intentions, or reasons. E.G I was going to sleep over about a week ago on Wednesday, but I left early so she could get her sleep. She found this annoying. I tried to reassure her multiple times that it was a selfless not selfish decision because I wanted her to rest properly. I just felt like she wasn't registering the fact that I was looking out for her.

what led her to break up with me was this:

I called her this Sunday afternoon to hang out on monday, her day off. She said no, she'd rather have a day off to herself since she hasn't properly rested in days, or possibly go out to do her nails. Ok, i'll give her her space then. She texted me at 2am monday, then 4am and then again at 2pm on whatsapp. I didn't read her messages. I was just gonna ghost her for half a day so I could get my mind clear. Calls me at 5pm saying she wanted to hang out with me, but not anymore because I irritated her by not answering earlier and that she's in a bad headspace. ok, she legit just told me a day earlier that she wanted to be alone. I call and convince her to hang out that night, and when I'm 5 minutes from her house, she cancels. I call her trying to see what's up, gets upset that im trying to change her mind when she clearly doesnt wanna go out. I hang up.

An hour later i send her a message detailing exactly how the turn of events unfolded in an attempt to show her how irrational she's been. Immediately replies saying that the relationship just won't work out, that we're not on the same page.thanks bros, means the world to me. tearing up a little writing all this down.

Bruno nailed it

No offense brah, but anytime your wife/gf voluntarily declines to spend time with you so they can do something boring like "rest at home on their own", it's code for the fact that they fully intend on having a different brand of sausage than you have for them during that time slot. Srs.



****Edit.

After reading the rest of this post more closely, holy chit wow, breh. Sounds you and her were balls deep in a the eye of the storm of a chitty breakup. None of what you just described sounded like even halfway remotely healthy behavior for a relationship. You two were doomed all along, for real.

aware

Sorry OP, it is my turn

This.

Girls with attitudes right out the gate are trying to assert the prescedent that they are Queen / in charge - they may like you, phark you, have you meet their family / friends, be hot, seem perfect otherwise, but that trait lingers and grows, behaving like an invisible leash that's in full force when marriage comes around. Identify it, phark around with her if you want, but deny her for the long term or otherwise you'll be whipped in life. SRS.

Hard worker? University?

Girls like this never settle for someone on their own level. She will always try to trade up. She Even has a history of dumping guys. Not feminine to me at all.

She was Also snarky? Which means she treated you like a bish? Seems like she wanted to be the man in the relationship

Good riddance mayne

This.


Also, lmao at how absurdly biased OP is in favor of his ex. Dude says right in the thread that she's got a snarky bitchy attitude, she just dump over some stupid nonsense, yet he STILL automatically takes her at her word 100% when she chit talks her other exes to him.

Newsflash, OP. You know how her ex-bf was some abusive asssshole who never deserved her, she was always a victim of his various deep personality flaws she bitched to you about? Now that you are also her ex, she's definitely saying all same terrible chit about you to the new guy(s) she's plowing. You're probably also bitched about the most since you are her most recent ex. I assure you, her ex almost certainly wasn't as awful as she made him out to be, especially if she still never wised up and learned to appreciate a bs-free fellow like yourself for a relationship.

didnt even think about that one. just wonder how he got 6 years of her when I barely got one. dude probably didnt put up a fight, just took everything and took up weed to cope with her attitude.

Haha wow she doesn't sound like a keeper at all; she sounds like a fukcing brat.

She sounds like a fuking bitch and you lucked out. Try finding a non-whore this time around boyo

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lul OP you dodged a bullet. Her biological clock wasn't just ticking it was ringing like an alarm was going off every second of every day. You should consider finding a younger girl who isn't just trying to get married and have a child by next year. Not saying you gotta hit college bars to find 22 year olds, but there is a big difference in priorities for a 25 year old vs even a 28/29 year old.

Are you by any chance SS' husband?

Should have ate that ass bro.

The story that led to the breakup has so many red flags. Also not cool she expected after she said she needed time to herself on her day off that she expected for you to be ready at the drop of a hat to hangout if she changed her mind.My only thoughts for future reference would be to not make a decision for them, even if it's intended to be in their best interest, when you've already agreed to something else.
Change your mind for your own best interest if you feel the need to but don't do it on their behalf.

As others said, sounds like she was not worth the pedestal you put her on even if she had some redeeming qualities.
BOL brotha, we all gonna make it.

Yeah, it just sucks being alone when you were just having top tier sex with a crazy hot girl. Thanks, ill snap out of it eventually. Thanks guys.No thats a man, baby.I did. First ass I ever ate in my life. She was just that hot and hygienic.I see. Yeah looking at it now, making choices for others on my own accord rids their freedom of choice and just doesn't seem like great communication. Lesson learned, i'm glad i'm catching onto these things now so I won't repeat them with maybe a better woman.
yeah looking back at it now, she started to change when I began doing this ****. of course it was just my reaction to her attitude, which came first, but it just got worse from there. I tried to not chase, but she just got even more irrational, and tried to instigate something when she realized I wasn't reacting to her attitude. can you go into this scarcity mindset? im unaware.

She just texted me saying thanks for the movie streaming website i linked her yesterday, followed with a blushing face emoji.