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Thread: Black guys have it the hardest in dating(USA)

post 1670507133 11-02-2022, 12:09 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
I also know someone who has won the lottery. exceptions to everything.
You have a better chance of winning the lottery than getting shot by a white cop, you dummy
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
I'm not what I would call attractive. Especially not now. I'm fat as fuk. Post a pic of yourself. You know what. Post a pic and I'll post a pic. So you can see for yourself.
you don't have to be attractive. If you're average even still way better than me.

How long you been married? You ever even experienced modern dating?

I'm not sharing pics. I have people in real life who see me every day
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Originally Posted By rollerball⏩
James Madison was 5’4” numbnuts.
This changes everything
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OP why don't you weekndmaxx instead?

He's short, chubby, African (Ethiopian), no tattoos yet still pulled Selena Gomez and Bella Hadid



Kendrick Lamar is closer to your height

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post 1670507883 11-02-2022, 12:18 PM
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Originally Posted By rollerball⏩
You haven’t asked out 100,000,000 women.

Your insecure ass probably hasn’t asked even out 10 women.
10? Dude cmon

Get serious. I'm 31. I'm also not an idiot. I've got enough data through the years to reasonably conclude what I'm saying.

Only on the misc is it just not possible that the ugly midget ethnic manlet is an incel. Everyone in real life is like no chit.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
you don't have to be attractive. If you're average even still way better than me.

How long you been married? You ever even experienced modern dating?

I'm not sharing pics. I have people in real life who see me every day
I've been with my wife for almost 11 years. But that's irrelevant. I do not have an Ivy League education. And I grew up poor as fuk. I am sure you grew up upper middle class, so you've had a huge advantage over from the day you were born.
Originally Posted By sword_⏩
OP why don't you weekndmaxx instead?

He's short, chubby, African (Ethiopian), no tattoos yet still pulled Selena Gomez and Bella Hadid



Kendrick Lamar is closer to your height

This, both those dudes are ugly as fuk. But somehow they have made it.
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post 1670508093 11-02-2022, 12:21 PM
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Originally Posted By BrianDaMan⏩
You are Ivy League educated in STEM right? rollerball is an astronaut judging by his avi, and he has no problem with women. Why don't you apply to the NASA Astronaut Candidate Program?

There's no height requirement.

https://www.nasa.gov/feature/applica...didate-program

The window should be open again soon.
Why?
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
dude lmfao. 'be yourself' doesnt work for black guys, because there's such a narrow range at what black women view as attractive. You cant be yourself. You need to fit the image of what they want. Other races can be themselves. Black men cannot, we have to play the role these women want. Which is often thug/criminal type OR gigatyrone with crazy unrealistic top 5% stats in height income status etc. Again Kevin Samuels expossed this for the world to see what black guys have already known forever.


You truly have no clue of how bad it is out there. 20-50 encounters? Dude to get 50 encounters would take me like 10 years. 10 years to get one or 2 dates? And you think this is normal or acceptable?

Wake up dude, it's a nightmare. its unachievable.
You're making it into a much bigger deal than it really is. Me, my brother and our circle of friends do not wallow in depression when we get rejected. We learn from our mistakes and move on:

1. How old are you? Is your profile age accurate (31)?
2. What State do you live in?
3. Do you use dating apps?
4. What is your immediate goal (ONS's or a LTR)?

Listening to people Like Samuel's creates a "self fullfilling prophesy" as to why you fail. You are perpetuating your doom and gloom with respect to relationships because media personalities are telling you such.

Forget the cold approaching. Get on a dating app and just Swipe right on EVERYTHING for like, 5 minutes straight. Eventually you'll get a bite, and even if it's some nasty sloppy fat hood rat, being able to talk to them with no sexual attraction (thinking with your big brain instead of your little one) it will give you experience in being comfortable just "talking" to the opposite sex. If you can't get 20 girls to talk to you, you just need the experience, forget finding the perfect girl.

People are getting mad at you ITT because you have such a defeatist attitude. I use to work in social services and dudes with literal Downs Syndrome and other debilitating disabilities had girlfriends. Do you think they're getting Advice from Tom Lykis or Bill Burr or Samuel's and saying it's hopeless?
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
I've been with my wife for almost 11 years. But that's irrelevant. I do not have an Ivy League education. And I grew up poor as fuk. I am sure you grew up upper middle class, so you've had a huge advantage over from the day you were
Dude 11 years? Lol just stop. You have no idea how much its changed even in the last few years as apps have taken over and feminism and Instagram and only fans etc.


And no, I was poverty. My family is broke immigrants. I grew up in the hood. Dont make bullchit assumptions
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Originally Posted By Maestro⏩
You're making it into a much bigger deal than it really is. Me, my brother and our circle of friends do not wallow in depression when we get rejected. We learn from our mistakes and move on:

1. How old are you? Is your profile age accurate (31)?
2. What State do you live in?
3. Do you use dating apps?
4. What is your immediate goal (ONS's or a LTR)?

Listening to people Like Samuel's creates a "self fullfilling prophesy" as to why you fail. You are perpetuating your doom and gloom with respect to relationships because media personalities are telling you such.

Forget the cold approaching. Get on a dating app and just Swipe right on EVERYTHING for like, 5 minutes straight. Eventually you'll get a bite, and even if it's some nasty sloppy fat hood rat, being able to talk to them with no sexual attraction (thinking with your big brain instead of your little one) it will give you experience in being comfortable just "talking" to the opposite sex. If you can't get 20 girls to talk to you, you just need the experience, forget finding the perfect girl.
dude lol. I was on dating apps for the better part of a decade.

I would swipe on every woman i saw for 5 mins? No, for MONTHS.


Dude I would literally get no matches at all EVER unless I lied and put 6ft in my profile.

You are clueless dude.

So no I don't use apps anymore cause I had to lie to even get someone to match with me.

I'm not telling you where I live but it's east coast

And my goal in theory would be literally anything I can get. It isn't possible..
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Originally Posted By rollerball⏩
You have a thin skin so I’m pretty sure your ego was so massively compromised by a small handful of rejections that you quit very early on and adopted this I’m-a-sexual-pariah mindset.
Lol. Thin skin. Tell me how many approaches and years did it take for you to succeed? If you say anything under a decade, don't talk to me about thin skin.

You ain't walked in my shoes.
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Needs to be stickied srs
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Dude 11 years? Lol just stop. You have no idea how much its changed even in the last few years as apps have taken over and feminism and Instagram and only fans etc.


And no, I was poverty. My family is broke immigrants. I grew up in the hood. Dont make bullchit assumptions
It hasn't changed at all. Back in my time Tinder was called POF, but it was the same shyt. It's clear you're not willing to put in the work, so have fun dying a virgin. At least that degree got you a high salary that you can enjoy by yourself.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
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Originally Posted By BrianDaMan⏩
So you can get a fat woman. Why do you feel entitled to get a woman if you don't want to put in the work to be an Astronaut, President, Navy SEAL, or Grammy award winning artist?

You're lazy AF.
Now compare this list to just be white


Its over for nigcels
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At 5'3 maybe you should consider heightening surgery op. Sounds like you got the wealth and no amount of copium advice people can give will solve the fact that you'll always be lacking in that field to women even if you do eventually get someone to settle with you. I'm not bad looking but I've been self conscious about myself from a young age, so I can tell you honestly if I had some kind of glaring unworkable flaw I'd get it fixed, **** what anyone else thinks about that. The knowledge that women were only 'okay' with that part of myself would always be in the back of my mind because of the fact that I also wouldn't be okay with it, and it sounds like you suffer those thoughts op.
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11 fking pages Jesus christ.




Op hop on tren

Get facials @dior

Hire a stylist

If you are outgoing and friendly, hang out with Chad's,changs and tyrones with alot of female friends.

Let your personality shine and own the room learn to network and if you do that I can guarantee you someone will be interested.



I know **** ton of ugly manlets sleeping with attractive women because they know everyone get invited to the most exclusive places.


Use insta it helps get atleast 1k followers you can get there easy by having good pictures and networking.
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
It hasn't changed at all. Back in my time Tinder was called POF, but it was the same shyt. It's clear you're not willing to put in the work, so have fun dying a virgin. At least that degree got you a high salary that you can enjoy by yourself.
I'm sorry, there's no point in discussing something you're completely ignorant of.

Tinder is nothing like pof. A lot has changed in even the last 10 years since the swiping apps came out.

The spike in male virgins happened when all this started happening. You simply don't get it, its impossible unless you're in it
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
you're a complete idiot. You have no idea what my demeanor is right now, im just typing. Im not angry or erratic or whatever. Did I sound angry in my voice note to muzz. no. im not. I just get annoyed at how retarded you people are.

Dude I have friends. I go out all the time. in fact, and this is going sound unbelievable I HELP OTHER GUYS GET LAID. Im a good wingman.

Im just not someone any woman finds physically attractive because im 5 foot fuking 3 and ugly and african. Ive said this a million times i dont know why you idiots cannot simply accept ugly short man cant date. holy chit.
I work with a filipino dude that's gotta be 5'4 at best...thats short AND asian, a double-whammy. He's in his late 30s, has no college degree, knocked up a ONS about 15 years ago so he already has a teenage son. He married that ONS but they divorced about 2 years ago. Even with all his shortcomings (no pun intended) he was able to get back out in the dating scene after being out of it for over a decade and now he has a fiance and they're getting married next spring.

You're manifesting imaginary failures you think you will have and willing them into reality.

On your dating profile what kind of photos are you using? If you haven't done so already, you need to get some profession portraits taken (at a studio) if all you have are selfies in a bathroom mirror or at a bar that's not going to cut it. Let your photos tells a story about you. Have a professional profile shot (something you'd use on a LinkedIn account) a photo of you washing your car or in your apartment cooking, a photo of you doing one of your listed hobbies, an academic photo (graduation picture) and a photo with friends.
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Originally Posted By ye193x⏩
11 fking pages Jesus christ.




Op hop on tren

Get facials @dior

Hire a stylist

If you are outgoing and friendly, hang out with Chad's,changs and tyrones with alot of female friends.

Let your personality shine and own the room learn to network and if you do that I can guarantee you someone will be interested.



I know **** ton of ugly manlets sleeping with attractive women because they know everyone get invited to the most exclusive places.


Use insta it helps get atleast 1k followers you can get there easy by having good pictures and networking.
only on the internet does everyone know a ton of ugly midgets fuking hot chicks.

It doesn't happen dude. Stop. Maybe you just hang out in some weird circle but the vast majority of ugly manlets are in the 30% of American males not getting laid.

Common sense. You people are idiots
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
I'm sorry, there's no point in discussing something you're completely ignorant of.

Tinder is nothing like pof. A lot has changed in even the last 10 years since the swiping apps came out.

The spike in male virgins happened when all this started happening. You simply don't get it, its impossible unless you're in it
My brothers used Tinder, and Bumble, and both had no issues. My brother even found his now wife in Bumble. And yes they're also black (my brother's), oh and my brother's now wife who he married less than a month ago is attractive white, conservative, Christian, with green eyes and a 6 figure job. My other brother will probably never settle down, but every time I talk to him he has a new girl.

So what's your excuse again?
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
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Originally Posted By rollerball⏩
I acknowledge that I've had it easier than you, but I'm just saying there's no way you've put in as much work actually approaching women as you claim. You just don't have the type of personality that could weather a storm of rejections so saying a decade is just false.

And just swiping right doesn't count for chit.
No dude, after like year 4 rejection didntt phase me at all.

The problem is just that I realized it wasn't even possible. If something isn't possible, wtf are you doing it for.

I don't like doing things that are not going to work.

After over 10 years, I've concluded it's not possible. And if its not possible there's no fuking point to it.
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
My brothers used Tinder, and Bumble, and both had no issues. My brother even found his now wife in Bumble. And yes they're also black (my brother's), oh and my brother's now wife who he married less than a month ago is attractive white, conservative, Christian, with green eyes and a 6 figure job. My other brother will probably never settle down, but every time I talk to him he has a new girl.

So what's your excuse again?
Cool good for them. Now ask yourself.

Are they ugly? Are they 5 foot 3? Do they look like they just got plucked out of the African safari?

If you answered no to any or all of those, its irrelevant to compare.

I never said no black men can do well in dating.

All I've said is

1. Its harder for black men than other races

2. My 5'3 ugly African azz is not capable of succeeding in modern dating environment

If you disagree with 1, fine its at least debate.

2 however is common sense and you're at best delusional if you don't get it
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Originally Posted By rollerball⏩
You weren't going non-stop, 24-7, 7 days a week for 10 years. Let's be real, you are grossly over exaggerating the amount of times you legitimately asked women out.

You'll pretend otherwise but we both know I'm right here.
If you're determined to make up a narrative and won't listen to the 1 person who would know (me), why are we talking
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
only on the internet does everyone know a ton of ugly midgets fuking hot chicks.

It doesn't happen dude. Stop. Maybe you just hang out in some weird circle but the vast majority of ugly manlets are in the 30% of American males not getting laid.

Common sense. You people are idiots
When did I ever say midget? I said manlets 5'5-5'8ft


Get out there and talk to people, irl and online. If you are friendly and outgoing don't waste it sitting inside and posting on the misc and crying.


The key is to have people like you, not everyone will but focus on the ones who do. If you like some girl and she friendzones you ask her to set u up with one of her friends.
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
You have to be interesting or have some sort of hobby and/or purpose. One thing that helps me is I know a little bit about everything. That's because I have a natural curiosity about the world and people. I'm well read and love ideas. I've accepted I'm more an extrovert introvert. I can be hyper social and do stuff but in my information gathering phase I need to go home, be introspective, and reflect.

Also for some reason getting into certain hobbies for the simple fact to attract women kind of annoys meand I wouldn't recommend it. I'm into firearms and I've taken a few female friends of mine shooting and they love it. Some girls aren't into it, but I'm not going to ****ing learn how to dance salsa or learn guitar to get women b/c I'm not as interested in it compared to say shooting, gardening, or cooking.
This.

I'm bettering myself

Why?

To get women...aye
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