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SRS thread - I love being a dad
12-11-2022, 07:13 AM
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Originally Posted By macrocrunch⏩
If your age in your avi is correct then you're fine. I had my son at 32. He's 21 now and I am not old and crippled. lolNo f*cks given - I waited til I had my own chit right so that I was a better parent than mine were.
Originally Posted By FarmersSon⏩
Bittersweet for sure!Feels. We've had little ones in our home for a long time. My oldest is a junior in high school and my baby girl turned 4 last month. It's our last time going through firsts with a child.
Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
Keep up the movie nights. We did it with my son his whole childhood and even now at 21 he comes over every Sunday for dinner and we watch a movie or our shows.Awesome thread. My kids are 9 and 7 and whenever I look at old pics of things from years ago I get all the feels. And those memories keep coming, they just change. Now I get to cheer for my daughter at her first track meet and gymnastics competitions, cook with them, work out with them, get to know what they really love.
I just introduced them to Star Wars and we do movie night every Sunday so did the whole series of movies, just finished last weekend. It's a whole different experience watching stuff with kids who have an entirely different perspective.
Biggest advice I got as a new parent and it has held true to this day is be patient and calm always and also follow through on everything you say.
I just introduced them to Star Wars and we do movie night every Sunday so did the whole series of movies, just finished last weekend. It's a whole different experience watching stuff with kids who have an entirely different perspective.
Biggest advice I got as a new parent and it has held true to this day is be patient and calm always and also follow through on everything you say.
Originally Posted By Pterodactyl314⏩
Are those your boys?! So sweet!Can confirm
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12-11-2022, 07:32 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Yes, 11 months & 2. Times flying by, feels like just the other day we were in the hospital and I was putting a misc hat on him.If your age in your avi is correct then you're fine. I had my son at 32. He's 21 now and I am not old and crippled. lol
Bittersweet for sure!
Keep up the movie nights. We did it with my son his whole childhood and even now at 21 he comes over every Sunday for dinner and we watch a movie or our shows.
Are those your boys?! So sweet!
Bittersweet for sure!
Keep up the movie nights. We did it with my son his whole childhood and even now at 21 he comes over every Sunday for dinner and we watch a movie or our shows.
Are those your boys?! So sweet!
See you tomorrow
12-11-2022, 07:42 AM
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Originally Posted By macrocrunch⏩
Same page bro, mine is 6 years younger lolgood thing my wife is 7 years younger
Originally Posted By kusok⏩
If any of y’all get a chance to look into birth centers I’d recommend it. That’s the route we took and it was a much more enjoyable experience than what I’ve seen as far as hospital births.Lots of future dads in here, ha. I hope you guys are doing all the right things. Or you gonna be in for a few nasty life surprises with lifelong consequences. I helped a woman deliver naturally with no tears, she already recovered fully only days after, baby super strong and healthy. Take this period in your wife’s life very seriously bros, loss of her body health and figure, hormonal imbalance resulting in depression and personality change, vaginal tears resulting in loose pussy etc. those are very real things, and I advice you future fathers to take action NOW to prevent all of that. You are about to have a horrific experience in a hospital, and about to witness your wife in insane inhuman amount of pain and suffering, all totally unnecessary, by the way. If you do things right she should push out the baby easily and not even need a Motrin after. Good luck.
I was skeptical at first until we did a walk through.
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12-11-2022, 08:04 AM
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Originally Posted By Pterodactyl314⏩
So sweet! Just wait til they get older. It's like warp speed. lolYes, 11 months & 2. Times flying by, feels like just the other day we were in the hospital and I was putting a misc hat on him.
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12-11-2022, 08:08 AM
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me too mang, here's me and my boy at 2 months
12-11-2022, 09:07 AM
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12-11-2022, 09:10 AM
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
Mine was born loving Baby Yoda. Yea I know it's name is Grogu but for a kid Baby Yoda is much easier. I think we have like, 9 of them now, including a remote control one. Star Wars is gonna be a core memory.Awesome thread. My kids are 9 and 7 and whenever I look at old pics of things from years ago I get all the feels. And those memories keep coming, they just change. Now I get to cheer for my daughter at her first track meet and gymnastics competitions, cook with them, work out with them, get to know what they really love.
I just introduced them to Star Wars and we do movie night every Sunday so did the whole series of movies, just finished last weekend. It's a whole different experience watching stuff with kids who have an entirely different perspective.
Biggest advice I got as a new parent and it has held true to this day is be patient and calm always and also follow through on everything you say.
I just introduced them to Star Wars and we do movie night every Sunday so did the whole series of movies, just finished last weekend. It's a whole different experience watching stuff with kids who have an entirely different perspective.
Biggest advice I got as a new parent and it has held true to this day is be patient and calm always and also follow through on everything you say.
I did try Lord of the Rings with her. I wanted to see if she could handle it so I played the beginning of The Two Towers, and she was cool with Gollum until the tied the rope around and him and she legitimately was terrified. Felt like ultimate chit for quite some time for that one.
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12-11-2022, 09:14 AM
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Originally Posted By OffwhiteBrah⏩
Is that you brah or am I looking into a hairy bungme too mang, here's me and my boy at 2 months
*Look at reflection in car window and flex every time crew*
*Use half the roll to wipe after a poo crew*
*Fart in the gym and blame rotten smell on faulty ventilation crew*
*Fart at home and blame it on the dog crew*
*Watch neutron-star density poop mock me as water flushes around it and it stays put crew*
*Drive 2 minutes in the summer and back of shirt gets completely wet crew*
*Coffee black as midnight on a moonless night crew*
*Fat shame my cat on a daily basis crew*
12-11-2022, 09:24 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Yea, like I said before if rather us both end up with good mental states instead of partaking in having a kid before I was ready. Thanks for the words.If your age in your avi is correct then you're fine. I had my son at 32. He's 21 now and I am not old and crippled. lol
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12-11-2022, 09:44 AM
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Originally Posted By cgh⏩
Where are you at that you get solid paternity leave like that? I had decent paternity leave when I was in the military, not gonna get that in the regular people arena.My boy is 15 months. I've been on paternity leave since 12 months. This is probably the best time of my life. I love watching the little guy learn new things every day.
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12-11-2022, 12:44 PM
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We came downstairs to an inch and a half of snow this morning. Because of the floor to ceiling windows and it being fields and trees outside, there is an enormous green and brown backdrop. Today everything was just white.
The little went up to the window then looked at us with the clearest "WTF" expression I have ever seen. You could almost see her thinking "where did everything go, why is everything white?"
When we got her outside she was very unsure of what to make of the snow at first and kept pushing down on it with her boots to squash it.
The snowman saved the day. My wife and I were putting snow in to a pile, so she started picking up little bits of snow and adding it to the pile. As the snowman started to grow, she got a lot more enthusiastic and she now keeps looking at it through the window; but the snow might have been a fail without the snowman.
The little went up to the window then looked at us with the clearest "WTF" expression I have ever seen. You could almost see her thinking "where did everything go, why is everything white?"
When we got her outside she was very unsure of what to make of the snow at first and kept pushing down on it with her boots to squash it.
The snowman saved the day. My wife and I were putting snow in to a pile, so she started picking up little bits of snow and adding it to the pile. As the snowman started to grow, she got a lot more enthusiastic and she now keeps looking at it through the window; but the snow might have been a fail without the snowman.
Screw nature; my body will do what I DAMN WELL tell it to do!
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12-11-2022, 12:48 PM
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Originally Posted By DuracellBunny⏩
Hell yes! Solid memorable moment. Can't wait to get mine out in the snow.We came downstairs to an inch and a half of snow this morning. Because of the floor to ceiling windows and it being fields and trees outside, there is an enormous green and brown backdrop. Today everything was just white.
The little went up to the window then looked at us with the clearest "WTF" expression I have ever seen. You could almost see her thinking "where did everything go, why is everything white?"
When we got her outside she was very unsure of what to make of the snow at first and kept pushing down on it with her boots to squash it.
The snowman saved the day. My wife and I were putting snow in to a pile, so she started picking up little bits of snow and adding it to the pile. As the snowman started to grow, she got a lot more enthusiastic and she now keeps looking at it through the window; but the snow might have been a fail without the snowman.
The little went up to the window then looked at us with the clearest "WTF" expression I have ever seen. You could almost see her thinking "where did everything go, why is everything white?"
When we got her outside she was very unsure of what to make of the snow at first and kept pushing down on it with her boots to squash it.
The snowman saved the day. My wife and I were putting snow in to a pile, so she started picking up little bits of snow and adding it to the pile. As the snowman started to grow, she got a lot more enthusiastic and she now keeps looking at it through the window; but the snow might have been a fail without the snowman.
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12-11-2022, 12:55 PM
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Originally Posted By macrocrunch⏩
You'll have fun.Hell yes! Solid memorable moment. Can't wait to get mine out in the snow.
We deployed the secret weapon known as the santa hat and put one on the snowman. She loves santa hats.
I don't know what will happen when the snow gets deeper.
Screw nature; my body will do what I DAMN WELL tell it to do!
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12-11-2022, 01:56 PM
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Originally Posted By DuracellBunny⏩
lol that’s awesome man! Solid memory for sure.We came downstairs to an inch and a half of snow this morning.
We’d have to move for little man to see snow more than likely.
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12-11-2022, 01:58 PM
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Originally Posted By DuracellBunny⏩
You a Midwest brah? I miss living among the snow - now that I'm back in Georgia it's not really an option.We came downstairs to an inch and a half of snow this morning. Because of the floor to ceiling windows and it being fields and trees outside, there is an enormous green and brown backdrop. Today everything was just white.
The little went up to the window then looked at us with the clearest "WTF" expression I have ever seen. You could almost see her thinking "where did everything go, why is everything white?"
When we got her outside she was very unsure of what to make of the snow at first and kept pushing down on it with her boots to squash it.
The snowman saved the day. My wife and I were putting snow in to a pile, so she started picking up little bits of snow and adding it to the pile. As the snowman started to grow, she got a lot more enthusiastic and she now keeps looking at it through the window; but the snow might have been a fail without the snowman.
The little went up to the window then looked at us with the clearest "WTF" expression I have ever seen. You could almost see her thinking "where did everything go, why is everything white?"
When we got her outside she was very unsure of what to make of the snow at first and kept pushing down on it with her boots to squash it.
The snowman saved the day. My wife and I were putting snow in to a pile, so she started picking up little bits of snow and adding it to the pile. As the snowman started to grow, she got a lot more enthusiastic and she now keeps looking at it through the window; but the snow might have been a fail without the snowman.
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12-11-2022, 06:42 PM
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Originally Posted By akferd⏩
This.Das it mane. Literally what life is about.
But how do you feel about this country being run by ped0es? Seriously. One of my biggest concerns at the moment. Most parents are just NPCing through life, acting as if the elites/wealthy arent actively trying to sexualize and groom their children.
Keep her close and protect her. Chit is going to get real bad in the near future.
But how do you feel about this country being run by ped0es? Seriously. One of my biggest concerns at the moment. Most parents are just NPCing through life, acting as if the elites/wealthy arent actively trying to sexualize and groom their children.
Keep her close and protect her. Chit is going to get real bad in the near future.
I know the statement I'm about to make can apply to any point in human history, but even if I had a wife I wanted to have kids with, I'd be too nervous to bring a kid into this world.
12-11-2022, 07:18 PM
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Originally Posted By macrocrunch⏩
I'm in the UKYou a Midwest brah? I miss living among the snow - now that I'm back in Georgia it's not really an option.
I just post at US times because I don't sleep very much, so I get up and work in the middle of the night, which frees up more time in the day to spend with the family.
It was great when the little one was born, as since I was going to be awake anyway, I did all the night feeding and stuff and let my wife sleep.
Originally Posted By Maestro⏩
Your job is to be the best parent you can be and if you actually take that job seriously and are involved in your kids lives, you can give them the tools to deal with most things.This.
I know the statement I'm about to make can apply to any point in human history, but even if I had a wife I wanted to have kids with, I'd be too nervous to bring a kid into this world.
I know the statement I'm about to make can apply to any point in human history, but even if I had a wife I wanted to have kids with, I'd be too nervous to bring a kid into this world.
There has never been a good time to have kids, but you take the chance anyway.
I was always ambivalent about having kids. If I had them, I had them and if I didn't, I didn't. I had a kid because my wife wanted to have one and I decided in advance that I would do whatever I had to do to be the best father I could be. That decision was an intellectual one.
The moment my daughter was born and I saw her face, it was no longer an intellectual decision. In the instant I switched from father to be, to father, I became ready to kill for her or die for her.
If you don't want kids, don't have them. There are plenty of crap parents out there, without adding another one who resents their kid.
If youdowant kids,havethem and make the world better for them.
Screw nature; my body will do what I DAMN WELL tell it to do!
The only dangerous thing about an exercise is the person doing it.
They had the technology to rebuild me. They made me better, stronger, faster......
12-11-2022, 07:29 PM
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I thought I'd mention, since there's so many dads in this thread, we had a pretty active "official misc dad's thread" earlier this year. It's been quiet lately, and of course standalone threads are welcome, too, just wanted to throw out an invite.
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=180321363
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=180321363
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Originally Posted By FarmersSon⏩
Hell yes bro thanksI thought I'd mention, since there's so many dads in this thread, we had a pretty active "official misc dad's thread" earlier this year. It's been quiet lately, and of course standalone threads are welcome, too, just wanted to throw out an invite.
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=180321363
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=180321363
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Originally Posted By leoaa777⏩
Congrats on the boys m8. For a split second when I found out we were having a girl I got bummed... And then she got here... And it all changed.Nice thread and vibes from OP, repped.
I got my 1.5 year old boy and another boyo on the way. Best thing to ever happen.
I got my 1.5 year old boy and another boyo on the way. Best thing to ever happen.
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Nice to see so many PMA posts from parents here. One of the things my wife says to me sometimes is like - we spend all weekend in a luxurious way, sex whenever we want, chilling, fine restaurants. Basically, 'living for us'.
And this'll change. Sometimes she wonders how much she'll miss this - some parents say 'you change completely as soon as your child is born', and others go 'you'll miss it, but when they grow up a bit you can do date nights and still romp around when they are sleeping etc.'
What's your take, Misc parents?
And this'll change. Sometimes she wonders how much she'll miss this - some parents say 'you change completely as soon as your child is born', and others go 'you'll miss it, but when they grow up a bit you can do date nights and still romp around when they are sleeping etc.'
What's your take, Misc parents?
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
My son is only 6 months old so we’re in the “have fun when he naps” stage lol.Nice to see so many PMA posts from parents here. One of the things my wife says to me sometimes is like - we spend all weekend in a luxurious way, sex whenever we want, chilling, fine restaurants. Basically, 'living for us'.
And this'll change. Sometimes she wonders how much she'll miss this - some parents say 'you change completely as soon as your child is born', and others go 'you'll miss it, but when they grow up a bit you can do date nights and still romp around when they are sleeping etc.'
What's your take, Misc parents?
And this'll change. Sometimes she wonders how much she'll miss this - some parents say 'you change completely as soon as your child is born', and others go 'you'll miss it, but when they grow up a bit you can do date nights and still romp around when they are sleeping etc.'
What's your take, Misc parents?
Think my mother in law is going to watch him for us to go out to dinner sometime soon. Would’ve happened already but things have been very busy lately.
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
We were older than most new parents (both of us are in our 40s), so it was a bit different for us. We'd both had very successful careers, we'd travelled the world and to a reasonable extent had "done it all".Nice to see so many PMA posts from parents here. One of the things my wife says to me sometimes is like - we spend all weekend in a luxurious way, sex whenever we want, chilling, fine restaurants. Basically, 'living for us'.
And this'll change. Sometimes she wonders how much she'll miss this - some parents say 'you change completely as soon as your child is born', and others go 'you'll miss it, but when they grow up a bit you can do date nights and still romp around when they are sleeping etc.'
What's your take, Misc parents?
And this'll change. Sometimes she wonders how much she'll miss this - some parents say 'you change completely as soon as your child is born', and others go 'you'll miss it, but when they grow up a bit you can do date nights and still romp around when they are sleeping etc.'
What's your take, Misc parents?
Consequently, we didn't feel like we were giving things up, but moving on to the next phase.
We went from a "power couple" living in a house to a family with a home.
Screw nature; my body will do what I DAMN WELL tell it to do!
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
It's weird. For me personally, I don't really prioritize those things anymore, I'd legitimately just rather chill with my kid. I do things with my bros still, and about half of them don't have kids.Nice to see so many PMA posts from parents here. One of the things my wife says to me sometimes is like - we spend all weekend in a luxurious way, sex whenever we want, chilling, fine restaurants. Basically, 'living for us'.
And this'll change. Sometimes she wonders how much she'll miss this - some parents say 'you change completely as soon as your child is born', and others go 'you'll miss it, but when they grow up a bit you can do date nights and still romp around when they are sleeping etc.'
What's your take, Misc parents?
And this'll change. Sometimes she wonders how much she'll miss this - some parents say 'you change completely as soon as your child is born', and others go 'you'll miss it, but when they grow up a bit you can do date nights and still romp around when they are sleeping etc.'
What's your take, Misc parents?
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Thanks for the replies.
We, too, have romped around the world and I feel a call towards increased "roots" in me. Wild visions of being in the PTA, local communities, volunteer coach etc.
Weird right? Almost as if my brain is re-wiring itself.
May have to be one of the last ones at a speakeasy sometime soon and see, heh.
We, too, have romped around the world and I feel a call towards increased "roots" in me. Wild visions of being in the PTA, local communities, volunteer coach etc.
Weird right? Almost as if my brain is re-wiring itself.
May have to be one of the last ones at a speakeasy sometime soon and see, heh.
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