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post 1673434763 12-24-2022, 02:12 AM
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Explain this op




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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Most people by age 31 want a relationship, or a family. You make it sound like im 19.

im 31. Its normal and reasonable to at this point want something to happen, especially after being alone for the vast majority of my life. Most people would be this way. Random distractions dont help. Work doesnt provide any meaning. Distractions cant make up for this key missing piece of life
It has nothing to do with age. There’s not some hard mandate dictating what you have do at certain ages in life.

And you’re right, distractions won’t work, and you know this from your present situation. This is why you’re still miserable despite playing videogames, because they’re more like a drug that offers temporary respite.

What I’m talking about is changing your life to the extent that FULL engagement is required. If you do something that properly challenges you and involves all of your mental faculties, you will not cry over the chit you presently do. As I said, your present woes are largely borne out of the drudgery and boredom of your present existence.

It’s my guess that your lifestyle has not changed a lick since leaving University, and you now know that living the way you do isn’t an especially enjoyable or fulfilling existence, plus you know you are too unattractive to ever have a partner, so…

Try changing things, significantly, and see where you end up.
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
dating is really bad for average men. I'm above average and struggle. I have hundreds of tinder matches with 0 dates. All girls who are too ugly to date or norespnders/flakes.

I'm pretty good looking, dress nice, make 85k/year, have my own place etc.... I am attracted to 5/10s as long as they're asian and 8+ white girls. A guy like me should not be struggling.
If you were above average women wouldn't bother with the conversation, they'd just be inviting themselves over to your house.

I understand lying to us. But why lie to yourself?
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
How are you trying to meet women?

Have you tried finding single moms on dating apps?
I've given up at this point but yes in the past I used to literally swipe specifically on uglies and fatties for best returns. Still got no returns.
post 1673442663 12-24-2022, 06:38 AM
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
It has nothing to do with age. There’s not some hard mandate dictating what you have do at certain ages in life.

And you’re right, distractions won’t work, and you know this from your present situation. This is why you’re still miserable despite playing videogames, because they’re more like a drug that offers temporary respite.

What I’m talking about is changing your life to the extent that FULL engagement is required. If you do something that properly challenges you and involves all of your mental faculties, you will not cry over the chit you presently do. As I said, your present woes are largely borne out of the drudgery and boredom of your present existence.

It’s my guess that your lifestyle has not changed a lick since leaving University, and you now know that living the way you do isn’t an especially enjoyable or fulfilling existence, plus you know you are too unattractive to ever have a partner, so…

Try changing things, significantly, and see where you end up.
You miscCels don't get it. Age has everything to do with it. Most people change as they get older. Its normal.

At 21, I was one of the red pillers saying money is all that matters and marriage is a waste of time.

At 31 I see things very different. And thus desires change.

Its not so simple to say generically my life is miserable. I am happy when I play videogames. And do other fun things.

The problem is what is missing. You can come up with other random things for me to do but at the end of the day it's cope.
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
It has nothing to do with age. There’s not some hard mandate dictating what you have do at certain ages in life.
This, it's one of the most cucked mindsets you can have. Especially if you're a man. Now if you're a woman then age actually really matters.
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Originally Posted By miscbro333⏩
Have you come across anything that shows that is a recent phenomenon?

My theory is that a 5ft 3 whiney *******, would always have struggled.
dude do you live under a rock. The rise of sexless men, the rapid decline of marriage and monogamy in general, online dating/social media, rising female standards, single moms.

So much evidence showing how its gotten harder. a 5'3 man always had less options than others but we used to culturally and economically coerce women to settling. Now they are more free to just stay alone or sleep around or be single moms etc.
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Originally Posted By ****inator⏩
This, it's one of the most cucked mindsets you can have. Especially if you're a man. Now if you're a woman then age actually really matters.
Age always matters. you think a 65 yr old man should feel the same as a 30 yr old? Or a 50 yr old and 20 yr old? Obviously age changes goals and desires.

misc has some absolute weirdos arguing against obvious common sense
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Ay op
I'm back, bitches!
post 1673443413 12-24-2022, 07:11 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩



Ay op


merry christmas muzz
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
You miscCels don't get it. Age has everything to do with it. Most people change as they get older. Its normal.

At 21, I was one of the red pillers saying money is all that matters and marriage is a waste of time.

At 31 I see things very different. And thus desires change.

Its not so simple to say generically my life is miserable. I am happy when I play videogames. And do other fun things.

The problem is what is missing. You can come up with other random things for me to do but at the end of the day it's cope.
It’s actually a point of mild fascination to me how next to nothing gets through to you. You’re so defensively minded it’s unreal, even for the misc.

I really do think you need quality therapy of some kind, but at the same time I have concerns you may be an untreatable patient.
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
It’s actually a point of mild fascination to me how next to nothing gets through to you. You’re so defensively minded it’s unreal, even for the misc.
there are people in this thread that ive agreed with. The problem is most miscers are stupid and dont use logic or common sense. And Im an extremely logical, no bullchit, just the fax person. If you say anything that doesnt make complete logical sense, go fuk off. I dont deal in cope or bullchit.

I tried therapy last year just to see, and it was literally just cope. I dont like that nonsense. i like to see it and say it as it is, no matter how brutal.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
And Im an extremely logical, no bullchit, just the fax person. If you say anything that doesnt make complete logical sense, go fuk off. I dont deal in cope or bullchit.
For once I completely agree with you. When I’m discussing things with you I frequently feel like I’m talking with someone who is mildly autistic or something, and I wager that is the source of many of your issues.

A talented therapist MIGHT be able to get through to you and help, but I honestly fear you are far, far, far too close minded for it to work. There’s no point in doing it if you’re not at least somewhat open to the process.

Good luck.
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
For once I completely agree with you. When I’m discussing things with you I frequently feel like I’m talking with someone who is mildly autistic or something, and I wager that is the source of many of your issues.

A talented therapist MIGHT be able to get through to you and help, but I honestly fear you are far, far, far too close minded for it to work. There’s no point in doing it if you’re not at least somewhat open to the process.

Good luck.
im not autistic you idiot, I just like accuracy and no cope. In life i've been punished mercilessly for not having accurate information. I need to be right or else things go very wrong for me. So no bullchit with me, ever.

Therapy by definition is cope. I do not accept it.

If someone wants cope, therapy is great. But if you want to just live in reality regardless of how brutal, its not for you.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
im not autistic you idiot, I just like accuracy and no cope. In life i've been punished mercilessly for not having accurate information. I need to be right or else things go very wrong for me. So no bullchit with me, ever.

Therapy by definition is cope. I do not accept it.

If someone wants cope, therapy is great. But if you want to just live in reality regardless of how brutal, its not for you.
You're worse than an autist. You refuse to put for any effort and blame everyone but yourself for your short comings.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
im not autistic you idiot, I just like accuracy and no cope. In life i've been punished mercilessly for not having accurate information. I need to be right or else things go very wrong for me. So no bullchit with me, ever.

Therapy by definition is cope. I do not accept it.

If someone wants cope, therapy is great. But if you want to just live in reality regardless of how brutal, its not for you.
Yea it may not be autism, but there is something a bit “off” about you on a psychological level. I think a good therapist might be able to discover exactly what it is and then help you accordingly. Just my .02 cents.

So yea, good luck brah.
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
You're worse than an autist. You refuse to put for any effort and blame everyone but yourself for your short comings.
sigh. how many times do I have to list this stuff. All I heard for years from the misc was improve yourself. Get status. Get money. So I:

Went to the ivy league which almost nobody can do. I worked to a 6 figure salary which is like top 10%. I got my own car and own house at a time when most people cant afford one. I moved twice to new places around the country, and built a new social circle both times.

Look, if you want to say these things arent enough for me, sure. you're clearly right. but stop saying I have done nothing. you're a retard that I have to keep repeating these things.

I also dont see where I ever blamed anyone. Where have I done that. What Ive said is the reality of how society and culture has changed and its effect on dating. Im saying those things because thats the reality, im not blaming anyone.

fukin miscTards I swear
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
im not autistic you idiot, I just like accuracy and no cope. In life i've been punished mercilessly for not having accurate information. I need to be right or else things go very wrong for me. So no bullchit with me, ever.

Therapy by definition is cope. I do not accept it.

If someone wants cope, therapy is great. But if you want to just live in reality regardless of how brutal, its not for you.
You are hopeless/helpless
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
Yea it may not be autism, but there is something a bit “off” about you on a psychological level. I think a good therapist might be able to discover exactly what it is and then help you accordingly. Just my .02 cents.

So yea, good luck brah.
Thanks for your armchair diagnosis but since 2020 misc has clearly proved not to be the best place for medical analysis
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Originally Posted By poolshark472⏩
You are hopeless/helpless
Being born ugly and 5'3 will do that. shocker
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
sigh. how many times do I have to list this stuff. All I heard for years from the misc was improve yourself. Get status. Get money. So I:

Went to the ivy league which almost nobody can do. I worked to a 6 figure salary which is like top 10%. I got my own car and own house at a time when most people cant afford one. I moved twice to new places around the country, and built a new social circle both times.

Look, if you want to say these things arent enough for me, sure. you're clearly right. but stop saying I have done nothing. you're a retard that I have to keep repeating these things.

I also dont see where I ever blamed anyone. Where have I done that. What Ive said is the reality of how society and culture has changed and its effect on dating. Im saying those things because thats the reality, im not blaming anyone.

fukin miscTards I swear
You've literally done the bare minimum and are complaining about doing even that. I went to college in a 3rd world country and make way more money than you, and I gotta tell you, while I try to do my shyt correctly, I'm not trying all that hard. So you have someone with a third world education outperforming you, and I'm not in sales or some other field where being charismatic or good looking helps.

I have multiple cars, multiple properties, and even a business, so again, you are doing the bare minimum and complaining about how you've done so much. And you don't even have a job anymore. You think moving twice and having a few friends is enough? Ask yourself, if you were a woman, as a man, would you think your life or accomplishments were at all impressive?
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
Explain this op




The bottom one looks like the heels push her over.

When my wife wears heels, she looks the same.
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
You've literally done the bare minimum and are complaining about doing even that. I went to college in a 3rd world country and make way more money than you, and I gotta tell you, while I try to do my shyt correctly, I'm not trying all that hard. So you have someone with a third world education outperforming you, and I'm not in sales or some other field where being charismatic or good looking helps.

I have multiple cars, multiple properties, and even a business, so again, you are doing the bare minimum and complaining about how you've done so much. And you don't even have a job anymore. You think moving twice and having a few friends is enough? Ask yourself, if you were a woman, as a man, would you think your life or accomplishments were at all impressive?
why am I bothering with a troll
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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
Explain this op




among the 7 billion people on earth there many examples of outliers. Even rare things have many examples. They're still rare.

The reason they are making a point to showcase the height disparity is because of the very fact that its rare in general to see something like this.

And as ive said many times in the past, when you do see outlier stuff theres a reason its usually a white guy. White guys have it way easier and can way more often be exceptions. Minorities are judged way more harshly and cant get away with the same chit.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Thanks for your armchair diagnosis but since 2020 misc has clearly proved not to be the best place for medical analysis
See this is kinda my point. This is an autistic-esque response.

I am not a medical professional and I have not given you a medical analysis. I’ve given my opinion on how you come across to me and have suggested it may be something you want to investigate.

How do you think something like autism gets discovered? It starts by the people close to the individual noticing strange behaviour or weird mannerisms or difficulties with certain things, and then that person is usually advised to see a specialist, and then the SPECIALIST makes an informed diagnosis.

I’ve read hundreds if not thousands of your posts over the years, and I have always thought there was something a bit off about you, psychologically. Obviously it’s just my opinion but if other miscers share my opinion, it may be something you wanna investigate.

Btw I’m not saying you’re retarded or anything, you actually come across as relatively bright to me. I don’t think your issue is one of intelligence, or lack thereof. I think the issue is emotional in nature. You come across to me as emotionally stunted / emotionally underdeveloped.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
why am I bothering with a troll
Yes, everyone who disagrees with you is a troll. I can only imagine the effort your parents put forth to to get you to this country, only for you to turn out an utter loser and failure.
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
How do you think something like autism gets discovered?
not by random people who dont know you on the internet.
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
Yes, everyone who disagrees with you is a troll.
no, people saying ivy league degree, own car and house and 6 figures etc is bare minimum are trolls. pls go.

Almost nobody in this thread agrees with me. Ive only called you a troll for being a blatant troll. And one other person but they messaged me admitting they are trolling
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
no, people saying ivy league degree, own car and house and 6 figures etc is bare minimum are trolls. pls go.

Almost nobody in this thread agrees with me. Ive only called you a troll for being a blatant troll. And one other person but they messaged me admitting they are trolling
Again, if that's your absolute best, and you have people like myself just running laps around you, then you aren't doing too well. Also keep in mind that you don't even have a job right now. Now here's where you have two choices. You can either better yourself, or say I'm a troll and continue to be mediocre. I know which one you'll pick.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
not by random people who dont know you on the internet.
Everything you do is a source of information.

To think that 15,000+ posts on an internet discussion forum does not provide any insight or information about the person who wrote them is quite baffling.
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