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I think cold approach or traveling abroad is the only way for me to meet a girl
feelsbadman at age 36
ain't gonna happen any other way.
Seems like a massive mountain to climb just to get an attractive woman that isn't a fat hoe.
ain't gonna happen any other way.
Seems like a massive mountain to climb just to get an attractive woman that isn't a fat hoe.
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Have you tried men?
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Gunna be hard.
Most women are more whacked out then a crack addict.
Have trains ran on them.
Has kids from several different men.
Or is likely taken already by a twink/wannbe lil yachty.
Most women are more whacked out then a crack addict.
Have trains ran on them.
Has kids from several different men.
Or is likely taken already by a twink/wannbe lil yachty.
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Originally Posted By nickh04⏩
I'm not ugly but I ddi accidentally dreamer bulk. Gonna have to go on a cycle to really get a chad bodhave you tried not being fat/ugly?
Originally Posted By sfgiants13⏩
not yetHave you tried men?
Originally Posted By SamIAm1892⏩
feelsbadmanGunna be hard.
Most women are more whacked out then a crack addict.
Have trains ran on them.
Has kids from several different men.
Or is likely taken already by a twink/wannbe lil yachty.
Most women are more whacked out then a crack addict.
Have trains ran on them.
Has kids from several different men.
Or is likely taken already by a twink/wannbe lil yachty.
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01-10-2023, 05:35 PM
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Whats about signing up for a college class and prowl that way?
01-10-2023, 05:41 PM
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I’ve been married long enough to be out of touch with this chit. If I really had no options 10 years ago, I’d just join some stupid group of something that people are interested in and make friends. Grow a network of friends, get invited to stuff, meet women.
01-10-2023, 07:33 PM
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Originally Posted By drFEEL⏩
Hate to break it to you, partner. Hate to break it to you, but you most likely lack the social status needed to lock down a gal whom you'd consider to be attractive. Attractive women are able to land connected fellas with good families, secure jobs, good looks, confidence.... you're most likely a mid-level man on the social hierarchy. And being a mid-level man wins you a generic chubby gal with a hairy pussy. Congratulations.feelsbadman at age 36
ain't gonna happen any other way.
Seems like a massive mountain to climb just to get an attractive woman that isn't a fat hoe.
ain't gonna happen any other way.
Seems like a massive mountain to climb just to get an attractive woman that isn't a fat hoe.
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01-10-2023, 07:43 PM
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Originally Posted By DonVonDuck⏩
lot of truth to thisHate to break it to you, partner. Hate to break it to you, but you most likely lack the social status needed to lock down a gal whom you'd consider to be attractive. Attractive women are able to land connected fellas with good families, secure jobs, good looks, confidence.... you're most likely a mid-level man on the social hierarchy. And being a mid-level man wins you a generic chubby gal with a hairy pussy. Congratulations.
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Originally Posted By Zere0wn⏩
False.lot of truth to this
People who aren't naturally good at something does not mean they are weak in it. It means it needs development.
And you can have an advantage. Naturally gifted folk tend to not refine their skills while people like you can and do
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Can’t understand the thought process of someone who turned 30/31/32 and saw themselves going down this path yet didn’t do everything they can to get obscenely rich
Still not too late. It’s your only way if you want it bad enough. Get jacked rip rich set up a sick social media profile - quality of women will go up
Still not too late. It’s your only way if you want it bad enough. Get jacked rip rich set up a sick social media profile - quality of women will go up
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Cold Approach is a skill that's tough but can be improved and is still a piece of game.
Because it doesn't matter if you get rejected by 9 bitches if the 10th is all about you, your game plan for life, etc.
Because it doesn't matter if you get rejected by 9 bitches if the 10th is all about you, your game plan for life, etc.
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Cold approach is too brutal, try money & social life maxxing instead.
I went back to Uni in my late 20's so that was a great boost to my social life. I've hooked up twice so far without even trying and while buried in schoolwork, just going out here and there. Completely blew it with the one I wanted to lock down, tho. At 36 tho I think that's too old for 99% of dudes to go back to school and gel with the 18-23 crowd
I went back to Uni in my late 20's so that was a great boost to my social life. I've hooked up twice so far without even trying and while buried in schoolwork, just going out here and there. Completely blew it with the one I wanted to lock down, tho. At 36 tho I think that's too old for 99% of dudes to go back to school and gel with the 18-23 crowd
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01-10-2023, 08:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Condo41⏩
he didn't say it couldn't be learned/fixed.....False.
People who aren't naturally good at something does not mean they are weak in it. It means it needs development.
And you can have an advantage. Naturally gifted folk tend to not refine their skills while people like you can and do
People who aren't naturally good at something does not mean they are weak in it. It means it needs development.
And you can have an advantage. Naturally gifted folk tend to not refine their skills while people like you can and do
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Originally Posted By DonVonDuck⏩
How the phuck is this guy back.Hate to break it to you, partner. Hate to break it to you, but you most likely lack the social status needed to lock down a gal whom you'd consider to be attractive. Attractive women are able to land connected fellas with good families, secure jobs, good looks, confidence.... you're most likely a mid-level man on the social hierarchy. And being a mid-level man wins you a generic chubby gal with a hairy pussy. Congratulations.
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Originally Posted By Condo41⏩
Its not about being "gifted" or having "skills," society has a hierarchy. Higher status men tend to go after very attractive women; very attractive women tend to go after men of higher status. Its all relative though. And there are several categories related to status; categories which may vary from culture to culture. This is what women care about. Men care about looks, women care about social status.... social status in relation to her own. For example, a woman typically won't be attracted to a man who's noticeably shorter than she is. Women with a college degree tend not to be interested in men without a college degree. Gals won't go after men who make less money either. Women are hypergamous and will always look for a man who increases her social standing. Fellas like OP want to land a beautiful gal with nice legs & a full bosom. But chances are, he's a very average guy and will have to settle for a woman who's appearance is on the low end of average and who's social standing is below that of his own.False.
People who aren't naturally good at something does not mean they are weak in it. It means it needs development.
And you can have an advantage. Naturally gifted folk tend to not refine their skills while people like you can and do
People who aren't naturally good at something does not mean they are weak in it. It means it needs development.
And you can have an advantage. Naturally gifted folk tend to not refine their skills while people like you can and do
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Originally Posted By DonVonDuck⏩
Right....but if you go to a small town and there's a hot girl there then you're fine.Its not about being "gifted" or having "skills," society has a hierarchy. Higher status men tend to go after very attractive women; very attractive women tend to go after men of higher status. Its all relative though. And there are several categories related to status; categories which may vary from culture to culture. This is what women care about. Men care about looks, women care about social status.... social status in relation to her own. For example, a woman typically won't be attracted to a man who's noticeably shorter than she is. Women with a college degree tend not to be interested in men without a college degree. Gals won't go after men who make less money either. Women are hypergamous and will always look for a man who increases her social standing. Fellas like OP want to land a beautiful gal with nice legs & a full bosom. But chances are, he's a very average guy and will have to settle for a woman who's appearance is on the low end of average and who's social standing is below that of his own.
Not all 9/10 girls are in Miami
Some are in, f*ckin.......brunswick Ohio.
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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport⏩
The illest abilties are the ones that's brutal to learn at first.Cold approach is too brutal,try money & social life maxxing instead.
I went back to Uni in my late 20's so that was a great boost to my social life. I've hooked up twice so far without even trying and while buried in schoolwork, just going out here and there. Completely blew it with the one I wanted to lock down, tho. At 36 tho I think that's too old for 99% of dudes to go back to school and gel with the 18-23 crowd
I went back to Uni in my late 20's so that was a great boost to my social life. I've hooked up twice so far without even trying and while buried in schoolwork, just going out here and there. Completely blew it with the one I wanted to lock down, tho. At 36 tho I think that's too old for 99% of dudes to go back to school and gel with the 18-23 crowd
and 18-23 bitches got a lotta dick to fill em up so they got options. Just stay up with yo looks the best you can
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Oh by the wy...Size f*ckng matters, in everything. Don't believe the hype. Size f*ckin maters. Size DOESN'T matter to peope who dont have any size, that's why they'r like "oh size doesn't mater". SIZE, GIRTH, THICKNESS, EVERYTHING. Its a game of inches in life..add up all those inche, Victory muthaf*cker!-Gre Pitt
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Originally Posted By AgentSkyhawk⏩
is it still considered a "cold" approach if you are getting clear signals?Cold Approach is a skill that's tough but can be improved and is still a piece of game.
Because it doesn't matter if you get rejected by 9 bitches if the 10th is all about you, your game plan for life, etc.
Because it doesn't matter if you get rejected by 9 bitches if the 10th is all about you, your game plan for life, etc.
OP...looksmax, workout, smell good, dress nice, smile... when you find a chick you like, try and make eye contact with her. You will know right away if she's feeling you. Even better if she looks away and looks back and smiles.
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Originally Posted By Sevenlionz⏩
LOL at getting rich like it's so easy. That said, at least strive to $100k salary, opens up doors to slooty nurses, lawyers, professors, etc.Can’t understand the thought process of someone who turned 30/31/32 and saw themselves going down this path yet didn’t do everything they can to get obscenely rich
Still not too late. It’s your only way if you want it bad enough. Get jacked rip rich set up a sick social media profile - quality of women will go up
Still not too late. It’s your only way if you want it bad enough. Get jacked rip rich set up a sick social media profile - quality of women will go up
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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport⏩
You don't have to gel with college students. A clean established 36 yr old can pull college sloots just being mature, confident, and outgoing.Cold approach is too brutal, try money & social life maxxing instead.
I went back to Uni in my late 20's so that was a great boost to my social life. I've hooked up twice so far without even trying and while buried in schoolwork, just going out here and there. Completely blew it with the one I wanted to lock down, tho. At 36 tho I think that's too old for 99% of dudes to go back to school and gel with the 18-23 crowd
I went back to Uni in my late 20's so that was a great boost to my social life. I've hooked up twice so far without even trying and while buried in schoolwork, just going out here and there. Completely blew it with the one I wanted to lock down, tho. At 36 tho I think that's too old for 99% of dudes to go back to school and gel with the 18-23 crowd
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Cold approaching has worked for years.
The internet has only been around for a short time when you think about it.
Its not as hard as people think. You dont need all these slick lines or anything. Its just a matter of starting a conversation with a stranger. Just like you would maybe talk to someone in walmart or wherever.
Key is eye contact. Make eye contact, if they look away or look down, move along. if they make eye contact back and smile, thats the one worth talking to. Otherwise its like applying for a job you arent qualified for. Obviously you wont get a call back for an interview. same thing here.
Staying in your lane too. Of course, everyone wants the hottest girl. They are also always approached and have plenty of options. Thats like applying for the job that everyone wants. Why would they hire you? Chances are, unless you are the top candidate, they wont. Same thing here.
Take a good look in the mirror. If you arent some chad, dont expect chad level results. be honest with yourself.
The internet has only been around for a short time when you think about it.
Its not as hard as people think. You dont need all these slick lines or anything. Its just a matter of starting a conversation with a stranger. Just like you would maybe talk to someone in walmart or wherever.
Key is eye contact. Make eye contact, if they look away or look down, move along. if they make eye contact back and smile, thats the one worth talking to. Otherwise its like applying for a job you arent qualified for. Obviously you wont get a call back for an interview. same thing here.
Staying in your lane too. Of course, everyone wants the hottest girl. They are also always approached and have plenty of options. Thats like applying for the job that everyone wants. Why would they hire you? Chances are, unless you are the top candidate, they wont. Same thing here.
Take a good look in the mirror. If you arent some chad, dont expect chad level results. be honest with yourself.
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Originally Posted By AgentSkyhawk⏩
Yeah but for dudes in OP's position with less confidence and who are desperate, i say take the easier route that also works first.The illest abilties are the ones that's brutal to learn at first.
and 18-23 bitches got a lotta dick to fill em up so they got options. Just stay up with yo looks the best you can
and 18-23 bitches got a lotta dick to fill em up so they got options. Just stay up with yo looks the best you can
Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
It's pretty rare for college girls to meet guys like that, having been around them for 3 years now. 95% of their time is with people their age barring the professors.You don't have to gel with college students. A clean established 36 yr old can pull college sloots just being mature, confident, and outgoing.
Most older guys in college don't even bother socializing, they head straight home after class. But it's pretty easy for me to hit it off with anyone, old or young.
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Originally Posted By DeputyDong5⏩
Yessur. Because you don't know that girl. It's not like a house party where your homie introduced her to you. Plus she's not going to approach you and talk to you, that's our job as guys. It's still a cold approach where guys can still fcuk up even though she's giving you 'signals', or she just likes what she sees but ain't tryna do nuffin else.is it still considered a "cold" approach if you are getting clear signals?
OP...looksmax, workout, smell good, dress nice, smile... when you find a chick you like, try and make eye contact with her. You will know right away if she's feeling you. Even better if she looks away and looks back and smiles.
OP...looksmax, workout, smell good, dress nice, smile... when you find a chick you like, try and make eye contact with her. You will know right away if she's feeling you. Even better if she looks away and looks back and smiles.
Originally Posted By crupiea⏩
It's not necessarily hard but you gotta be prepared for rejection like a mothafcukaCold approaching has worked for years.
The internet has only been around for a short time when you think about it.
Its not as hard as people think.You dont need all these slick lines or anything. Its just a matter of starting a conversation with a stranger. Just like you would maybe talk to someone in walmart or wherever.
Key is eye contact. Make eye contact, if they look away or look down, move along. if they make eye contact back and smile, thats the one worth talking to. Otherwise its like applying for a job you arent qualified for. Obviously you wont get a call back for an interview. same thing here.
Staying in your lane too. Of course, everyone wants the hottest girl. They are also always approached and have plenty of options. Thats like applying for the job that everyone wants. Why would they hire you? Chances are, unless you are the top candidate, they wont. Same thing here.
Take a good look in the mirror. If you arent some chad, dont expect chad level results. be honest with yourself.
The internet has only been around for a short time when you think about it.
Its not as hard as people think.You dont need all these slick lines or anything. Its just a matter of starting a conversation with a stranger. Just like you would maybe talk to someone in walmart or wherever.
Key is eye contact. Make eye contact, if they look away or look down, move along. if they make eye contact back and smile, thats the one worth talking to. Otherwise its like applying for a job you arent qualified for. Obviously you wont get a call back for an interview. same thing here.
Staying in your lane too. Of course, everyone wants the hottest girl. They are also always approached and have plenty of options. Thats like applying for the job that everyone wants. Why would they hire you? Chances are, unless you are the top candidate, they wont. Same thing here.
Take a good look in the mirror. If you arent some chad, dont expect chad level results. be honest with yourself.
But if guys learn from each rejection, watch videos via youtube, forums, aka use their resources to be better at the chit, they'll be better off than the majority of men at cold approaching, which should be in the arsenal along with online dating, etc.
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Oh by the wy...Size f*ckng matters, in everything. Don't believe the hype. Size f*ckin maters. Size DOESN'T matter to peope who dont have any size, that's why they'r like "oh size doesn't mater". SIZE, GIRTH, THICKNESS, EVERYTHING. Its a game of inches in life..add up all those inche, Victory muthaf*cker!-Gre Pitt
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Dating aps are stupid if you're looking for anything besides banging random sloots and have zero interest in anything else, that's for damn sure lol
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