Discuss.

so if you aren't expecting money, what else do you expect that she would bring to the table? and by different class do you mean middle class and lower?

It would all depend on how much the guy makes. If he is ballin', then it may be preferable for her to stay home and raise the kids. Otherwise, it should at least be a decent salary. Really, teachers are the GOAT wife professions as they are stable, flexible jobs with doting skills being emphasized.

More than they can afford, pal.

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enough that she doesn't need any of mine.

As long as she makes more money than she spends, that's all that matters. Being in my mid-30's, I've already learned my lesson with career oriented broads.

To be clear, they can have a career. However, that career/their work life has to be a distant second priority in her life compared to her family values. Can't stand that bullchit where a chick constantly prioritizes her job over her family, would rather be with a chick who works at a gas station or as a bank teller or some chit. Ded fkn srs.

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So what if your wife wants to be a stay at home mom but still wants to spend money? where should she get money from to spend if she has none of her own? Is having no money a deal-breaker?

That's all fine and well until you find out they're f*cking the HS QB in between periods.

All depends on what else she brings. A good woman that takes care of the house and dogs/pets, cooks, cleans and all of that and doesn't bring in kids from another man, I'd be glad to take care of her and let her live for free.

Do you believe in giving her an allowance? If so, how much should she get to spend on herself?

Of course, that could be a concern, lol.

pay for her own **** and no debt

that's it

The one thing she really needs to bring to the table are traditional female attributes. Femininity, caring, nurturing, that sort of stuff.

For some strange reason, they cant seem to do any of that stuff. Its like they force themselves to deny biology.

I don't care if she works or not as long as she understands that I control the finances (even the money she makes). If I have kids I'd want my woman to stay home and raise the kids. If she wants to work it can be from home. Or maybe part time.


There are a few things in my life that are non-negotiable:
-I control the household/make the decisions.
-I control the finances/budget.
-She must know how to cook well, and be willing to cook.
-She must not get fat and must stay fit.
-She is not allowed to argue with me. She can disagree quietly. But no nagging/yelling/arguing.


I know a lot of couples/marriages people tend to believe they are 'equals' and everything is 50/50. But I don't subscribe to that belief. I personally believe a man should have a higher income, net worth, and physical/mental strength. If you are getting out-performed by a female in those regards its time to level up. Because she won't fully respect you or comply otherwise.
You live in California so surrounded by liberals and feminists.

I live in the South. A place where girls are raised in 2 parent house-hold with present fathers. And where their grand-fathers likely stayed married to their grandmothers for 50+ years until death.


There are plenty conservative/feminine girls here. Unfortunately things are getting worse in this degen tiktok generation. But still some good girls out there.