…and she’s very conservative, is the polar opposite of most westernized women today, is smart (not a dumb sloot), wants a family (that includes a husband), is submissive, wants solely the role of wife/motherhood (does not want to be a boss bish), is a virgin and is attractive but average…

…BUT any intimacy other than some light kissing is off the table until marriage. Would you look past this and take a chance if you knew she’d at least be good wife material?

I’ve been with girls that are somewhat like this and I’ll be honest, they had little to no idea what to do in the bedroom. Other than laying on their back or lifelessly and methodically riding you, that’s about as exciting as it got. It’s hard when you’ve experienced a spectrum of women with some that blow your socks off and are oozing sex appeal.

I mean sex is important, but do you bruhs lessen its importance as you get older? I’m assuming it definitively decreases for many after marriage anyway. Just seems like either it’s not important to you in the first place or you take a bigass leap of faith and hope for the best.

Thoughts?


Cliffs:
-dating wife material
-no sex till marriage
-is it worth the risk?

I'd be all for it, dead srs

Dear Diary,

Virgin

Good in bed


Pick one

Do u get blowjobs?

..wheres the risk part

yeah I'd take that. more often than not that's the trade-off: boring sex or non-existent sex in exchange for loyalty and absence of any dumb whorish BPD bull****. If you think long-term it's a no-brainer.

Women change with marriage over the years. Doesn't matter how amazing she is now. Hormones and menopause cannot be overcome.

I didn't even get light kissing, but it's worked out:

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...3&p=1676203303

I think I’m willing to risk it…I gave you cliffs and you still couldn’t meet me halfway… Sad.Sadly, I think this holds true unless someone can prove otherwise.Not sure how to even ask that…like do you say ‘you planning on suckin this dink when I put a ring on it?’ or something along those lines? Brootal. Im going to see how far I can joke with her and then I’ll kinda know what’s off limits…maybe.I guess you’re right bruh…one option is still good…the other is just closer to the total package. Fact is, I’ve never had ‘bad sex’ either…it just wasn’t as thrilling I guess.I think that’s right…I think I’m going all in. These types aren’t growing on trees.True…I guess you want one with at least a good personality who’s friendly…maybe that won’t change…maybe.

Seems so foreign to me but if the US did it, there’d probably be a smaller window of opportunity for women to be sloots and it’d fix like 90s of the problems in this country, srs.

Yeah, there is no downside. "But what if she sucks in bed?" If she's good wife material she'll figure it out.

That's literally my dream girl in every way OP.

Pretty much doesn't exist in modern times but hey, like the idea of it.

If I genuinely got along with her and liked her as a person. Like literally enjoyed spending time with her and stuff? Yeah that's an easy yes. I mean sex is important and all but it's one of many factors. If that's the only thing that's a negative about her you're coming out way ahead (srs). And it's not like you still don't get to have sex with her. Even bad sex is still sex

At some point you won't want to really have sex with her anyway when you're both like 50+.