Some girls are pros to hide red flags - however they were revealed pretty quickly.

My ex:

1) baby rabies : after 8 weeks of dating, we already had to meet all of the friends back to back, pressure to meet family, etc.

2) all closest friends are promiscuous / non traditional: e.g. cheating, girls night out to do light drugs and meet random dudes

3) never had a relationship longer than a year at 32

4) dating rich men close to 15+ years older

5) keeping men of the past around

6) lying (including about getting a STD test done - luckily i did not catch anything)

7) giving the silent treatment each time she has to pay for something

8) anxiety meds

9) wants to travel 6 times per year (and therefore twice alone without me)

10) questionnable respect for father? she is allegedly very close to him yet dated guys that wanted her to convert (religion) while her dad completely disapproved

11) always sh0tting on ex bfs

12) bitter / critical / unable to make positive comments except on her own family



previous ex :

1) raised by her single mother and groomed to hate her father

2) no female friends (and brags about it)

3) "girl boss"

4) always sh0tting on ex bfs

5) never accepts to pay for anything - throwing a tantrum every time she does



Good thing i was able to leave early.

Gonna be patient and eventually find the good one as I am on my "end game".

3) never had a relationship longer than a year at 32

4) dating rich men close to 15+ years older"



If this one is hot please send me her number.



"8) anxiety meds"



Nevermind

both were hot (type of girls that get hit on everywhere they go)

it's going to be fun for a few weeks until the sh0t show starts

guess it's ok when you are dating short-term but not when you are trying to find a wife

hmmm

Its threads like these which make me wonder why you havent won an Emmy for Best Actor in Comedy Series...

1. Atheist vegan with snake tattoos and hand tatts

2. Alcoholic lesbian single mother who lives away from her kids (didn't date just smashed for a couple months) I was smart enough to make it clear I didn't want a relationship

fuark i personally stay away from "apparent" red flags

the problem is when they are not apparent at first sight

btw for those asking the OP is 100% srs

I don't think meeting her friends after 8 weeks of dating is a red flag

i agree

the problem is more the "sprint" approach for meeting ALL the friends right now, the family, parents - like we are on a schedule and there is not a minute to waste

i agree that i can't blame the girl though

at 32 I can understand how a girl wants things to build up quickly as there is limited time to make babies...