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Forum » Is lack of willingness to do bj's a deal breaker for you in a woman?

View Poll Results: Is lack of bj's a deal breaker?

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I mean let's beef cereal, they stop when they get comfortable anyway
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Thread: Is lack of willingness to do bj's a deal breaker for you in a woman?

post 1678895913 03-13-2023, 04:29 PM
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Is lack of willingness to do bj's a deal breaker for you in a woman?

Let's say she never or barely ever does bj's at all. Is that a deal breaker to you?
post 1678896183 03-13-2023, 04:35 PM
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Corze it is, OP. It's not normal for them to stop happening, either. If she stops giving you bj's, she's probly just tired after sucking Chad, Chang, & Tyrone.
post 1678896213 03-13-2023, 04:36 PM
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BJ's used to be a firm requirement, but now I've refined my sexual requirements a bit.

Basically the girl needs to be able to give me great orgasms in some fashion. Either by sucking dick really good, or riding dick really good and doing the thing where she clenches her vag muscles to make me cum. But if a girl can't make me cum, it's an absolute dealbreaker and I'll kick her ass away fast.
post 1678897323 03-13-2023, 04:58 PM
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There's no such thing as being unwilling (unless it's an extreme sex act). If she isn't prepared to give a you a BJ, it's already over for you.

The notion that sloots have actually have "do's and don'ts" is the sort of bullchit that beta males think is true.
post 1678897383 03-13-2023, 04:59 PM
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it's better to suck dink than to be killed

"My outer appearance was poor, but in this way my inner world became richer than anyone else's. Was it not natural that a young boy who suffered from an indelible drawback like mine should have come to think that he was a secretly chosen being? I felt as though somewhere in this world a mission awaited me of which I myself still knew nothing." --Yukio Mishima
post 1678897453 03-13-2023, 05:01 PM
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Depends. Some women can suck my cock for hours and I'll never cum. Then other women know how to bob their head and mouth with such a rhythm that I cum so fast. (Ded fkn Srs)
post 1678897943 03-13-2023, 05:11 PM
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If I'm dating someone I expect them to want to enthusiastically give me pleasure (as I do to them). If it's something that is just casual then fine if they don't want to give but I will get bored after a few times.

I think the majority of women who don't want to give BJ's have a warped view of sexual acts being something that's done to please men and not a mutually pleasurable experience.

For the few who just think it's gross and don't want to do it ever, then yeah it's probably a dealbreaker.
post 1678898023 03-13-2023, 05:13 PM
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She may not do it for you, but she certainly will for me.
post 1678898763 03-13-2023, 05:29 PM
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Willingness? Bruh.

DESIRE.
Smooth Seas don't make Strong Sailors. Keep your head up.

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post 1678898843 03-13-2023, 05:30 PM
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ive gotten 10+ blowjobs over the last two months lol
post 1678898973 03-13-2023, 05:33 PM
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my wife doesn't enjoy doing it which is fine because she sucks at it and always has.

oh well, she aint slooty whatsoever so I can't give her sh*t for not being, you know, slooty.

I'll get one on some special occasions, which again is fine because every time i've gotten a blowjob my whole life i just wanted to be f*cking instead.

The thrusting is what does it for me.
post 1678899093 03-13-2023, 05:36 PM
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For me personally not a deal breaker. But no pussy is
post 1678899433 03-13-2023, 05:45 PM
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Originally Posted By MrBourbon⏩
Willingness? Bruh.

DESIRE.
Lettuce be real tea...
post 1678899523 03-13-2023, 05:48 PM
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It's not necessarily a hard fast dealbreaker, but it better be made up for in some other ways.

That said, it is ALMOST a hard fast dealbreaker for me, because I love em.
"So t
post 1678900233 03-13-2023, 06:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Condo41⏩
my wife doesn't enjoy doing it which is fine because she sucks at it and always has.

oh well, she aint slooty whatsoever so I can't give her sh*t for not being, you know, slooty.

I'll get one on some special occasions, which again is fine because every time i've gotten a blowjob my whole life i just wanted to be f*cking instead.

The thrusting is what does it for me.
So youll now go your whole life without getting a good bj? You can still thrust when a sloot lets you completely fk her face and throat...
post 1678904223 03-13-2023, 07:40 PM
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Originally Posted By Condo41⏩
my wife doesn't enjoy doing it which is fine because she sucks at it and always has.

oh well, she aint slooty whatsoever so I can't give her sh*t for not being, you know, slooty.

I'll get one on some special occasions, which again is fine because every time i've gotten a blowjob my whole life i just wanted to be f*cking instead.

The thrusting is what does it for me.
Hang on you are married?

BWHAHAAHAHAHHAAH. This after all the previous posts where you were trying to intimate that you were some sort of playboy and you only get BJ's on special occasions

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA

Listen buddy, the fact that your wife wont zuk your dik is exactly why the vast majority of men who visit hookers are married or in relationships. They love their wives/GF's for more reasons than just sex, but they still have needs that need to be met.

Holy crap, what a cuck.
post 1678904533 03-13-2023, 07:44 PM
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it's better to suck dink than to be killed

"My outer appearance was poor, but in this way my inner world became richer than anyone else's. Was it not natural that a young boy who suffered from an indelible drawback like mine should have come to think that he was a secretly chosen being? I felt as though somewhere in this world a mission awaited me of which I myself still knew nothing." --Yukio Mishima
post 1678904743 03-13-2023, 07:47 PM
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Not trying to satisfy your partner is a deal breaker for sure.
post 1678905543 03-13-2023, 08:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Condo41⏩
my wife doesn't enjoy doing it which is fine because she sucks at it and always has.

oh well, she aint slooty whatsoever so I can't give her sh*t for not being, you know, slooty.

I'll get one on some special occasions, which again is fine because every time i've gotten a blowjob my whole life i just wanted to be f*cking instead.

The thrusting is what does it for me.
Clearly you’ve never had a proper bj lol

The good ones let you **** their face however you want
RON PAUL 2012
post 1678906053 03-13-2023, 08:11 PM
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Originally Posted By ShiiiiitPickle⏩
Let's say she never or barely ever does bj's at all. Is that a deal breaker to you?
I would disengage from such a woman so fast she would think I evaporated.

Anyone with sexual hangups like that or worries about their "gag reflex" is a f@cking crazy person.

They would be a disaster to be in a relationship with.

At some point, you will want a blowjob and then you will try to get one, then hookers will enter the picture.
If you want to ask me a question:

Ask: TheAdlerian

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post 1678906093 03-13-2023, 08:12 PM
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yes,if she ignores my BALLS
because its a complete unit
balls and cock...leaving something behinds
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BYE..
post 1678906363 03-13-2023, 08:16 PM
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Fellatio always struck me as being a homosexual behavior. Gays have to do it because they have no sexual organ made to accommodate a penis. Women have a vagina, which is specifically designed for sex, unlike the mouth.
post 1678906543 03-13-2023, 08:19 PM
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i mean if i go down on her and she likes it and asks for it but doesn't for me.. goodbye bae
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post 1678906793 03-13-2023, 08:24 PM
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Could care less. Would rather kiss their snatch instead.
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post 1678907003 03-13-2023, 08:27 PM
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yes

i could never trust a woman who isn't willing to have my penis inside of her mouth
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post 1678907063 03-13-2023, 08:27 PM
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For me absolutely, that’s the least they need to be willing to do.
post 1678909283 03-13-2023, 09:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Kaliconic⏩
Fellatio always struck me as being a homosexual behavior. Gays have to do it because they have no sexual organ made to accommodate a penis. Women have a vagina, which is specifically designed for sex, unlike the mouth.
What the f@ck is wrong with you?

Why are people such weird ****gits on this forum?
If you want to ask me a question:

Ask: TheAdlerian

http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=150655983&p=1000366043#post1000366043

Read my science fiction novel:

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post 1678911653 03-13-2023, 10:03 PM
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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩
I would disengage from such a woman so fast she would think I evaporated.

Anyone with sexual hangups like that or worries about their "gag reflex" is a f@cking crazy person.

They would be a disaster to be in a relationship with.

At some point, you will want a blowjob and then you will try to get one, then hookers will enter the picture.
Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩
What the f@ck is wrong with you?

Why are people such weird ****gits on this forum?
You know, sometimes you say something so based that I completely forget any weird chit that you might post. Thank you for this. 🍻
post 1678911883 03-13-2023, 10:10 PM
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Deal breaker for me for sure. My gf loves to please me though
In my experience, the best bjs are when the girl actually wants to do it.
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my pnus doesn't suck itself m8
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