While I was casually dating her, she continued talking to another guy. She barely knew the guy except meet him twice or something but apparently "loved him" "he's her twin", etc. I continued banging her and cumming down her throat until the day she flew out to visit the guy. I didn't hear from her at all during her trip there and I was fine with it. A little bruised ego because she didn't reach out to me once while with him lmao, but I had already mentally moved on long before this happened.

Suddenly a couple of days after she got back, she called and texted me. I never replied and continued NC for 3 weeks until she started calling/texting everyday after Valentine's day that I never replied to. One night, she messages me saying that she needs sex and wants to be FWB. I was like ok, fine, come over. When we met, she started crying.

She apparently thought the other guy was better so she had kind of kept me in the backburner. I only allowed this because I was only interested in her casually anyway and never wanted anything more. I did find out that the guy has mental issues and deep traumas so they don't talk anymore but she really ruined it by going to see him and putting him above me.

Now we are just FWBs so I make sure my dick is constantly in her mouth. She is talking about moving in with me, "wasn't ready before", and wants to me bf/gf but it is way too late for that. So the sex part is nice but I still feel a bit peeved that I allowed the above situation to happen and I kind of took her back even as a human sex toy. We're not exclusive and she also has other guy friends/hookups so I'm sharing her too. Do I throw her back into the streets and go completely permanent NC?

Go NC, try men.

Go NC, try men.

If your just FWB just know she's replying to DM's, especially given what you said about her. if she's fun to be around and the sex is good. keep her around but keep your distance. and do not move in with her at all

Definitely not moving in with her. Way too late for that and she's only a FWB sex toy to me after trying to put some other guy above me and me in the backburner. Kind of pissed off about this (ded fkin srs)

if you can easily get another girl in. than NC her

I have a few others girls that I can have come over for sex (other FWBs that I still text sometimes) but this current is most attractive in face and body plus this one really enjoys sucking dick and swallowing

She told me a long time ago that she's a submissive type in bed and that has been true

The cuck move would be dating her now/letting her move in with you. Sounds like you aren't doing that, so I see no problem.

So you're entertaining a whore who cucked you right to your face, and came crawling back after the other guy she was in love with didn't want her.

Lol.

What if I'm splitting every expense with her 50/50 so I'm not taking her out on dates or anything. Just hanging out casually.
Plus I use her for blowjobs and sex?

Try contact, go men

If you want to keep entertaining a girl who humiliated you to your face be my guest. You do you.

This is the same chick I presume?

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=182257413

She's draining your T brah, she's a damn T vampire and you need to send that skank packing (and then get tested since she already slooted on you).

Go try, contact men

She didn't technically cuck me right to my face. She still doesn't know that I know and I found out through other methods. She didn't openly talk about other guys in front of me, of course not

I did try to ghost her for real and went NC for weeks until she kept texting me and proposed being FWB for sex and I finally replied to that bottom part text:

Need pics of her face/body to evaluate

That's pretty psycho if you ask me. If you want to be FWB for the sexors, that's fine, but be careful, she sounds like a bunny boiler.

If you haven’t told her exactly why you ghosted her, don’t shut “moving in” or “bf / gf” talk down IMMEDIATELY, then she is still thinking she Cucked you without consequence…… and she is right.

You admit you are still up in your feels over her using you as a backup plan and emotional tampon, and the longer you string this out the more she will JUST KEEP USING YOU.

This is not a FWB situation at all.

Everyone has their boundaries. For most guys it's when you find out she's talking to someone else. For you it's not quite over after she goes on a two week sex marathon. Maybe next time when she does the sex marathon for three weeks will be the final straw.

Your priorities are way out of whack. It's perfectly acceptable as a man to have a rotation of women AND not let them see other people. You don't have to rub it in her face or even aware her that you are seeing anyone else. You just keep dating around and when one girl falls off you get a new one. You DON'T take them back after they disrespect you or act up.

Lmfaoooooo at being this emotional invested in a whore.

You're a cuck for being so emotionally invested imo

I get your point because those are my boundaries too so that's why i cut it off. What ended up happening is that during the NC period I had 0 feelings left. I move on super fast and I was fine after I ended it. But as I said, I had 0 feelings honestly and just meeting up with her for some blowjobs was the mindset only after she proposed being FWBs. She knows why I never pay for her and I thought I could just be friends with her.

Lmaooo have you seen your post history you idiot?

Cliffs: are you a cuck for being a cuck? By definition, yes.

No pics huh? K then

id take it as a compliment
and keep using her holes as long as I could

How does prove what I'm saying is wrong?

Clearly the girl is crazy based on the texts

Clearly you seem to like It deep down based on the way you talk of her sexually

Clearly a part of you is emotionally invested in her but you don't want to admit it


Cope harder son

Typically it shouldn’t matter if y’all both are seeing other people

But the bruised ego, knowing you’re not her first choice, as well as the slight emotional investment on your part tells me that u can try and tell yourself and us how little she matters but humans are pretty complicated and we can agree that you have feels even if slightly.

So keeping her around knowing all this will only hurt your self esteem more ded srs, best to cut her off

If you can hold frame and have the time to hook up with her, then go for it, but you do seem too invested.

But you didn't cut her off. She walked all over you and you took her back. As long as you understand that and are okay with being a bitch in her rotation, everything's fine.

It will keep happening. Most of the time you won't even know about it. The only thing you 'taught' her is you're a little cuck who will get butt hurt when she steps out on you, but won't actually do anything about it.