can't help but to feel sad for my ex

i am not sad in the sense that i want her back or miss her - it was my choice to leave

i am just sad of what is happening to her

i left her at the beginning of the year (no compatible on significant levels)

she was REALLY mad

even after a month she sent me a 10 page hate letter and harsh text messages

she even criticized me for starting to date again....

in the meantime, her father died - she was extremely close to him

she asked me to go the funerals which i did

sent her a message approx. two weeks later (just recently) just sending positive thoughts to her and her family - she did not reply so i assumed she was either pissed or found another man

i learned through my friends on instagram that she is dating a dude - they post stories of romantic suppers they cook at their places, activities, etc

for sure that rebound 2 months post breakup will not last and result in more grievance

she is very fragile (did anxiety therapy in the past and now taking meds)

can't help but feeling sad for the girl - like things must be f**** messed up right now

i would like to help her but i can't

just had to get it off my chest as it comes up to my mind a lot

srs thread please no hate

p.s. before miscers start the hating, i know she was not dating the guy before i left her lol

bump for thoughts

Kinda sounds like my break up but I was on the receiving end 2 months ago~ was quite traumatizing and still is but I'm trying to move forward some days are a struggle so far

And no I didn't send her Hate messages etc tho

yeah i guess i gotta let her cope

just sucks seeing her in a bad place like thislol'd

this is part of why you go no contact

helping out in the family death situation, fine.

otherwise you need to be no contact

sounds like you still have a thing for her

You need to move on bro she's not your problem anymore


Think about it this way would she worry and check up on you if you were on the receiving end?


If your breakup is recent I get it but you need to be iron hearted it's for your own good find another women and just Bury how u feel about her and her problems.


Bro move on and DO NOT talk to chicks ur dating about her

thanks for the post man

all her family appreciated my presence and i had to support her and the family - would have been a dick move not to

but i guess now it's not in my hands any more and i gotta accept it
I would not get back with her under in any circumstances

just legit feel bad for the girl

thanks man - makes sense i appreciate

how many people are legit on anxiety meds these days? i feel like 'scripts get thrown around way too easily.

i know rightunaware ?

Laughing hard at this cope thread. You’re saying you feel bad for her cuz this and that, but you saw her happy with a new man and that’s what had you make this thread

Play stupid games OP, you shouldn’t have been creeping on her to begin with. You made the decision to end it, get yourself a new bish instead of stalking the old one

bottom line is that she is trying to move on, for the better or the worst

i don't have the responsibility of looking after her anymore

thks bros for the voice of reason - appreciate it

Don’t feel bad. The trauma of losing her father will connect her to this new bf with a bond stronger than anything you two ever had. Along with the super deep intimate sex they will share in this time of heightened emotions, it’ll be unlike anything she’s ever experienced. She will forget about u in no time so don’t stress brah 👍

^ that would be great for her (srs)

Did she give good Bjs? Swallow?

How was the pussy? Did you ever cum inside her?

sounds like she's his problem now srs

LOL'd at just going in dry this way.

Pics aren't working for me brah

women should not have multiple relationships.

Dysgenic having "relationships" that are just ****ing some guy with no mutual life, children, or other development

That's just the way the world works man. Good job on going to her family stuff.
Don't break NC anymore though. Sounds like things are going in the right direction for both of you now

You have divorced her and now she is with someone else. It's not your problem now.

she was
the BEST man

https://imgur.com/a/6HPGO1p

I just received this text from my ex. She got a new number and decided to hit me up, because she was blocked on the other numbers.

Just block and move on. Have some spine.

Sounds like you're jelly of her new bf and this pity thing for her is your way of coping

She'll move on quicker than you boyo srs, worry about yourself

sex was great (including all of the above...)100% man - i don't want to get into more details but she is literally the craziest girl I have metas mentioned earlier, i truly wish it turns out to be a great relationship (100% honest)

i just know her very well and her patterns and it looks shakymisc detectives still do their work bro - happened even today if I am correct
i appreciate bro - thanksagreedi completely agree

again i appreciate the support boyos

don't want to get into the details but I can't be with this chick in no way - she begged me to give her a chance when i left her and I refused although she chased me for weeks

i don't have much of an ego and would not mind being honest and admitting it if I was jelly or mad - I don't think it's the case though

I hear North Carolina is a pretty nice place to be right now, you should try it OP.

this, there's nothing else to do