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post 1679057363 03-16-2023, 08:59 AM
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Question for Mods

Can someone be banned if they are encouraging a recovery drug addict to relapse, they are even offering to pay for the drugs?

I’d hate to get anyone banned but this just doesn’t seem right.
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post 1679057543 03-16-2023, 09:02 AM
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I’m not sure how to search individual threads but if you search this thread
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=180479163Maybe just the word Venmo
The post in question should be able to be found.


This particular dude has even resorted to sending private messages I can share them here.

I really don’t read munch of them because it’s complete filth, but I am getting tired of the harassment.

Thank you for anything you can do
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post 1679057693 03-16-2023, 09:05 AM
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Don't know about banning per se, but sounds like a miserable douchebag move.

Someone should page poonycheeps the narrator for additional data.
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post 1679057873 03-16-2023, 09:08 AM
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Read some of thedickus post in the last few pages of the thread I posted, dude needs to go.
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post 1679057943 03-16-2023, 09:10 AM
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Anyone know how to use the thread search feature?
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post 1679057953 03-16-2023, 09:11 AM
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Nod here,

maybe grow up and welcome to the internet man. Feel free to come and go as you please.
“The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood. Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.“

PS: Don't eat poop, just don't let the idea of it stop you from living life to its fullest.
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Originally Posted By BlackJack619⏩
Anyone know how to use the thread search feature?
Has that ever worked?
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post 1679058113 03-16-2023, 09:15 AM
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Originally Posted By lightsarefallin⏩
Has that ever worked?
Looks like we joined around the same time.

I have never once successfully been able to use the search function here. I understand it could have worked and I just did not use it then. But the impression I have, is that is has never worked.
“The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood. Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.“

PS: Don't eat poop, just don't let the idea of it stop you from living life to its fullest.
post 1679058443 03-16-2023, 09:23 AM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
Nod here,

maybe grow up and welcome to the internet man. Feel free to come and go as you please.
Maybe you’re right but evil prevails when good men do nothing.
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post 1679058473 03-16-2023, 09:23 AM
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Originally Posted By lightsarefallin⏩
Has that ever worked?
I believe there was a time when it worked
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post 1679058573 03-16-2023, 09:26 AM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
Looks like we joined around the same time.

I have never once successfully been able to use the search function here. I understand it could have worked and I just did not use it then. But the impression I have, is that is has never worked.
Yeah, that's my experience too.
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snitches get ditches
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Originally Posted By BlackJack619⏩
I believe there was a time when it worked
Lol, no there wasn’t. It was a broken feature from the start.
post 1679058963 03-16-2023, 09:32 AM
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Who cares about some ugly ass fat boomer saying some mean things? Just put him on ignore and be done with it.
post 1679059073 03-16-2023, 09:34 AM
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Originally Posted By Unstumpable⏩
Who cares about some ugly ass fat boomer saying some mean things? Just put him on ignore and be done with it.
Does that work or is that like the search feature?
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post 1679059293 03-16-2023, 09:41 AM
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Originally Posted By BlackJack619⏩
Maybe you’re right but evil prevails when good men do nothing.
People troll to get responses just like this man.

If your sobriety relies on strangers on the internet, I got some news son.....

(I have been diagnosed with alcohol use disorder and have multiple years of sobriety)

It isn't "evil". It just humans being mischievous in a way that is entertaining to them. We can choose to assign it value or not. I recommend not. You dedicate your attention and emotions to whatever you feel compelled to. I would just advocate a lot more personal responsibility and accountability. Especially with things like over coming addiction.

All we do the entire time is blame other people for our problems. That is the number one reason we cannot fix them. We don't take responsibility for them.

When I first started working on sobriety, one of my friends (a drinking buddy who desperately needed a drinking partner) tried to get me to drink one time when we were out at a restaurant. He was acknowledging the statistical likelyhood of failure, my personal relationships with people who do drink, just trying to keep me down at his level.

When he was done with his little rant, I said "I don't need to worry about any of that. The only thing I need to focus on is the fact I am not drinking right now."

I never spent time with him again.

Because you made this thread, and apparently took offense to it, I assume you take it personal.

Are you struggling with addiction man? We can talk about solutions if you want instead of focusing on the perceived obstacles.
“The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood. Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.“

PS: Don't eat poop, just don't let the idea of it stop you from living life to its fullest.
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
People troll to get responses just like this man.

If your sobriety relies on strangers on the internet, I got some news son.....

(I have been diagnosed with alcohol use disorder and have multiple years of sobriety)

It isn't "evil". It just humans being mischievous in a way that is entertaining to them. We can choose to assign it value or not. I recommend not. You dedicate your attention and emotions to whatever you feel compelled to. I would just advocate a lot more personal responsibility and accountability. Especially with things like over coming addiction.

All we do the entire time is blame other people for our problems. That is the number one reason we cannot fix them. We don't take responsibility for them.

When I first started working on sobriety, one of my friends (a drinking buddy who desperately needed a drinking partner) tried to get me to drink one time when we were out at a restaurant. He was acknowledging the statistical likelyhood of failure, my personal relationships with people who do drink, just trying to keep me down at his level.

When he was done with his little rant, I said "I don't need to worry about any of that. The only think I need to focus on is the fact I am not drinking right now."

I never spent time with him again.

Because you made this thread, and apparently took offense to it, I assume you take it personal.

Are you struggling with addiction man? We can talk about solutions if you want instead of focusing on the perceived obstacles.
100% this. Internet trolling is a behaviour espoused by miserable, bitter people. They're trying to spread their misery around. Misery loves company. Well-adjusted, content, fulfilled people don't mindlessly troll online. Factors that reinforce trolling (and bullying) are fighting back or giving off that their words bother you. Just ignore them and move on. Don't feed the trolls
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*Use half the roll to wipe after a poo crew*
*Fart in the gym and blame rotten smell on faulty ventilation crew*
*Fart at home and blame it on the dog crew*
*Watch neutron-star density poop mock me as water flushes around it and it stays put crew*
*Drive 2 minutes in the summer and back of shirt gets completely wet crew*
*Coffee black as midnight on a moonless night crew*
*Fat shame my cat on a daily basis crew*
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
People troll to get responses just like this man.

If your sobriety relies on strangers on the internet, I got some news son.....

(I have been diagnosed with alcohol use disorder and have multiple years of sobriety)

It isn't "evil". It just humans being mischievous in a way that is entertaining to them. We can choose to assign it value or not. I recommend not. You dedicate your attention and emotions to whatever you feel compelled to. I would just advocate a lot more personal responsibility and accountability. Especially with things like over coming addiction.

All we do the entire time is blame other people for our problems. That is the number one reason we cannot fix them. We don't take responsibility for them.

When I first started working on sobriety, one of my friends (a drinking buddy who desperately needed a drinking partner) tried to get me to drink one time when we were out at a restaurant. He was acknowledging the statistical likelyhood of failure, my personal relationships with people who do drink, just trying to keep me down at his level.

When he was done with his little rant, I said "I don't need to worry about any of that. The only thing I need to focus on is the fact I am not drinking right now."

I never spent time with him again.

Because you made this thread, and apparently took offense to it, I assume you take it personal.

Are you struggling with addiction man? We can talk about solutions if you want instead of focusing on the perceived obstacles.
I appreciate your words, and I get what you’re saying. I just wish more people had principal. I’m not so much worried about my own sobriety, but the others may come in contact with this gentleman.

I believe what this guy is doing is equal to those who encourage people to commit suicide. I just believe this behavior goes against most community guidelines.

Maybe I am being a baby, but I am a firm believer, if anything matters, everything matters.
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Hope so-that is horrendous behaviour.
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Originally Posted By BlackJack619⏩
I appreciate your words, and I get what you’re saying. I just wish more people had principal. I’m not so much worried about my own sobriety, but the others may come in contact with this gentleman.

I believe what this guy is doing is equal to those who encourage people to commit suicide. I just believe this behavior goes against most community guidelines.

Maybe I am being a baby, but I am a firm believer, if anything matters, everything matters.
I wouldn't say you are being a baby, that is a pointless insult.

I would suggest you are misplacing emotional resources, which is easy for anyone to do. Have your values man, don't let any of us try to talk you out of them. I just have some recommendations for stuff that worked for me. And the easiest way for me to express them is to be as direct and blunt as I can be. I had to do that to myself before I ever did it externally. It has been effective for me.

Doesn't work for everyone.

You should expect to come out with a completely different mindset afterwords man. Any amount of discipline or strength I have, was primarily the result of me overcoming alcoholism.

I am grateful for it. The work required to become sober can be applied in all areas of your life and I mean it has been extremely beneficial for me. I am grateful for all the "struggles" in my life, but that one man.... I am lucky


I don't see your age, but one thing I realized through my development and maturing stages (still going on today, and will be until I am physically/mentally unable), is not to have expectations for other people. That is us projecting our standards and values on them, which leaves a lot of room for self inflicted emotional stress.

Marcus Aurelius revisits this theme in his journal which has been titled "Meditations".

Be brutally strict on yourself. You should fail to meet your own standards every day. And at the end of everyday, review yourself. Did you accomplish what you set out for, did you behave with intention, did you rise to your full potential? If not, why and how to fix it......

You have to be patient with other people though. Just like we will fail to meet our own standards, I do every day, other people will fail to meet the standards we set for them. Again, it is on us to place value in that or not.

Radical acceptance man. Another theme in Meditations. When you wake up, tell yourself the truth. People will be *******s today. They will interfere with my driving, they will be selfish in their behavior, and they will absolutely try to bring us down to their level the second it appears you are progressing in life beyond what they have decided they want for you (themselves). Accepting that as fact before hand removes the surprise aspect of it, which makes it easier to cope with. This has been a huge help in building patience with other people.
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PS: Don't eat poop, just don't let the idea of it stop you from living life to its fullest.
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Yea, you’re probably right I definitely need to do more meditation and reflection. I feel like I have been a new comer for over a decade, i struggle to get a year under my belt.

As I observe and reflect on things I notice I’m probably trolling the dude more than he is trolling me, but there is an honest part of me that wants to see this guy healed, he seems to be full of bitterness,

There’s a Christian principle I am trying to exercise on him and that is loving my enemies. Regardless of all the stuff he says, I still want him to find peace and joy.

I believe every cloud has a silver lining, like every cloud, maybe that’s a controversial statement but what doesn’t cause controversy these days,
Okay I’m done with my burning desire rant
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