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post 1679072323 03-16-2023, 01:29 PM
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I noticed something about females and happiness, misc...

Just about every woman I've dated (including my wife) has the same way of making themselves happy.

It involves insulting me, criticizing me and poking the bear until I react with a bit of anger back. Then they smile and seem happy again. Sometimes this takes all day before I finally snap back, because it's impossible to maintain my laid back frame while under a constant barrage of bitchiness.

Cliffs:

Broads hate seeing brahs happy, and must attack until they bring you down to their level of misery.

How do you deal, misc?
post 1679072523 03-16-2023, 01:34 PM
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****ing games man.

Drop that chit immediately. Are you really 43 still entertaining this nonsense? I mean, I can get pretty weak around some puss but I have gotten in the habit of setting some hard personal boundaries.

There is only one thing to do in that situation.

There are plenty of mature women who can productively contribute to a higher standard of living for the entire family. They can accept you for who you are, which I would suggest is one of the most important aspects in a relationship.

Find one. Then you don't have to deal.

Also, live the way you want to live, and people who have similar values and beliefs will be attracted to you. If they don't, no biggie.
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post 1679072653 03-16-2023, 01:36 PM
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Originally Posted By 4Bertuzzi4⏩
How do you deal, misc?
Try men.
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post 1679072833 03-16-2023, 01:39 PM
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Never happened to me, srs. Lived with two so far so idk.
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Age: 43 and you're just figuring out now that women like being put in their place?
post 1679073053 03-16-2023, 01:43 PM
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Originally Posted By yewotm8⏩
Age: 43 and you're just figuring out now that women like being put in their place?
makes no fukking sense - to like being told to back down, stfu or something along those lines. like how fukked do you have to be to like to be told to shut up or to pipe down. its like they approach the world with an unlimited amount of entitlement and when they get told no, it actually makes them feel good because of it. this makes zero sense.
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post 1679073063 03-16-2023, 01:43 PM
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It sounds like you've ignored red flags with women. If your wife is doing it too you need to talk to her about it, not the misc. Entering this thread I figured it was going to be about consoooomerism.
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post 1679073113 03-16-2023, 01:45 PM
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Originally Posted By yewotm8⏩
Age: 43 and you're just figuring out now that women like being put in their place?
Pretty sure they get dampies when we raise our manly voice.
post 1679073183 03-16-2023, 01:46 PM
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Originally Posted By friesbruh⏩
makes no fukking sense - to like being told to back down, stfu or something along those lines. like how fukked do you have to be to like to be told to shut up or to pipe down. its like they approach the world with an unlimited amount of entitlement and when they get told no, it actually makes them feel good because of it. this makes zero sense.
It's not supposed to make sense, brah. Much like their attraction to violent criminals doesn't make sense. It just is.
post 1679073353 03-16-2023, 01:48 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
****ing games man.

Drop that chit immediately. Are you really 43 still entertaining this nonsense? I mean, I can get pretty weak around some puss but I have gotten in the habit of setting some hard personal boundaries.

There is only one thing to do in that situation.

There are plenty of mature women who can productively contribute to a higher standard of living for the entire family. They can accept you for who you are, which I would suggest is one of the most important aspects in a relationship.

Find one. Then you don't have to deal.

Also, live the way you want to live, and people who have similar values and beliefs will be attracted to you. If they don't, no biggie.
I married her because she wasn't bitchy at all for the 7 years we dated. It's true, misc. After marriage, they flick a switch and become a different person.

All most men want is peace. Women can't tolerate a contented man, because she has zero ability to remain content on her own.
post 1679073553 03-16-2023, 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted By 4Bertuzzi4⏩
I married her because she wasn't bitchy at all for the 7 years we dated. It's true, misc. After marriage, they flick a switch and become a different person.

All most men want is peace. Women can't tolerate a contented man, because she has zero ability to remain content on her own.
I feel like women often times have unrealistic expectations of us. When we first meet and start courting, they make up this idea of what they want us to be in their mind. Down the road, when they begin to realize we are not even close to being the god they pretended we are, they get resentful. They do not accept us for who we are, then they blame us for it. This will destroy daily interactions until you finally decide to get divorced.

I am not saying that is what is happening for sure, but it does happen. Maybe ask her to examine herself and determine what the source of her ****ery is.

You are married so it does require more work. If you weren't, I would just say move on and let her figure her chit out by herself or be alone forever. I agree with the other miscer. You have to talk to her man.
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post 1679073873 03-16-2023, 01:56 PM
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Originally Posted By 4Bertuzzi4⏩
Just about every woman I've dated (including my wife) has the same way of making themselves happy.

It involves insulting me, criticizing me and poking the bear until I react with a bit of anger back. Then they smile and seem happy again. Sometimes this takes all day before I finally snap back, because it's impossible to maintain my laid back frame while under a constant barrage of bitchiness.

Cliffs:

Broads hate seeing brahs happy, and must attack until they bring you down to their level of misery.

How do you deal, misc?
So true, OP. It was only when I curbed my anger that I realized how toxic she was and that it wasn't just me "being an *******"
post 1679073893 03-16-2023, 01:57 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
I feel like women often times have unrealistic expectations of us. When we first meet and start courting, they make up this idea of what they want us to be in their mind. Down the road, when they begin to realize we are not even close to being the god they pretended we are, they get resentful. They do not accept us for who we are, then they blame us for it. This will destroy daily interactions until you finally decide to get divorced.

I am not saying that is what is happening for sure, but it does happen. Maybe ask her to examine herself and determine what the source of her ****ery is.

You are married so it does require more work. If you weren't, I would just say move on and let her figure her chit out by herself or be alone forever. I agree with the other miscer. You have to talk to her man.
I talk to her about it often. She just says the kids make her tired, and gives typical excuses for being bitchy. I don't have much to complain about, she does everything including working full time. Just trying to understand why it makes them happy to piss us off.
post 1679074033 03-16-2023, 01:59 PM
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It’s quite simple

There is no resolving it, you can try to discuss and break it down but it’s for nothing

Women and men aren’t meant to be monogamous and women are evil, irrational creatures

You can cope with it and just ignore the issue and try to force the relationship (all marriage) or end it. But there is no resolution and I’m dead srs
post 1679074103 03-16-2023, 01:59 PM
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Originally Posted By jimbone21⏩
So true, OP. It was only when I curbed my anger that I realized how toxic she was and that it wasn't just me "being an *******"
Honestly, I only take the bait and react once per month or so. It's the only way to stop the bitchiness for awhile.
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Originally Posted By 4Bertuzzi4⏩
I talk to her about it often. She just says the kids make her tired, and gives typical excuses for being bitchy. I don't have much to complain about, she does everything including working full time. Just trying to understand why it makes them happy to piss us off.
I think resentment has a lot more to do with it. When you don't become the fortune 500 CEO they pictured, their life suck comparatively.

I do believe BPD/daddy issues/general female psychosis plays a role, but I would suggest that resentment is the main contributor. It will kill a marriage.
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Originally Posted By 4Bertuzzi4⏩
she does everything including working full time.
I'd be pissed too.
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Originally Posted By yewotm8⏩
Age: 43 and you're just figuring out now that women like being put in their place?
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post 1679074333 03-16-2023, 02:04 PM
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Originally Posted By dfprodz⏩
THIS



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Originally Posted By KurtMussell⏩
I'd be pissed too.
That's why I didn't marry you.
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Do you share the workload or does she to all the house chit/errands?

She could just be bitter cause you're a lazy fart
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Women are illogical, self-serving and often a burden due to their emotional/physical weaknesses. It’s no wonder they like to play mind games for pure satisfaction. My girl has a tendency to do similar things. I love her and she’s usually fun to be around, but there’s always 3-5 days out of the month where she can be a complete bitch over the tiniest chit. The best part is when I tell her she’s wrong to be mad about something, I’m accused of “gaslighting.” I swear that term was invented by sloots to absolve them of any responsibility. WTF does it even mean?

I also noticed most women, especially white women, are lacking in authenticity. They put up a front with that fake valley girl customer service voice, but behind the facade they’re just as bitter and angry as most men are in modern society. The difference is they have no ability to tell it like it is or present with any real honesty. Kunts.
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Originally Posted By friesbruh⏩
makes no fukking sense - to like being told to back down, stfu or something along those lines. like how fukked do you have to be to like to be told to shut up or to pipe down. its like they approach the world with an unlimited amount of entitlement and when they get told no, it actually makes them feel good because of it. this makes zero sense.
Why are you getting mad about the way women have evolved to be (or the way God made it them if that triggers you)? It's like getting mad at a dog for sniffing everything and licking his own balls. You look completely insane saying this, expecting women to act differently. Do you think they're men or something?
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Originally Posted By 4Bertuzzi4⏩
That's why I didn't marry you.
You're missing out.
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Originally Posted By yewotm8⏩
Why are you getting mad about the way women have evolved to be (or the way God made it them if that triggers you)? It's like getting mad at a dog for sniffing everything and licking his own balls. You look completely insane saying this, expecting women to act differently. Do you think they're men or something?
I suppose there's no point in figuring out why women are the way they are. It just is what it is, with zero Logic, reason nor accountability behind their behavior.
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Originally Posted By KurtMussell⏩
You're missing out.
I know brah, I know.
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Was she ever single for more than a year before dating you? srs. If not, she never had to learn to self-soothe.
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Originally Posted By stealthlife49⏩
Was she ever single for more than a year before dating you? srs. If not, she never had to learn to self-soothe.
She was a virgin and didn't really date before me, that's why I married her
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Yeah women love to see that ''anger'' a man can have, they are kinda addicted to it, such a high. Women are by nature highly submissive so they need that dominant, angry man, it's a primal need they have
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Originally Posted By 4Bertuzzi4⏩
She was a virgin and didn't really date before me, that's why I married her
Maybe she's ready to try men.
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