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post 1679099313 03-16-2023, 11:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O
Trust me, they will. Hell, they already are frustrated. Tons of cute looking women on their late 20's early 30's wondering how on earth are they still single and on the dating game. With time, they will realize why, aka high standards. They will understand that the guys they like are the same guys that every other girls likes, and since girls are fuking guys on the first date, or getting into "situationships" with guys so easily (guys that have situationship with 5 other girls at the same time), then they will understand that they will HAVE to make a choice between three options:

1) Become polyamorous, aka share their man publicly and accept the fact the father of her kids is fuking multiple other women
2) Become monogamous even if it means lowering her standards a bit (aka what women did the last century)
3) Become the female version of an incel aka a women that simply doesnt have any romantic connection with anybody, just fukin or lonely.


Right now most girls still think they have option 4 which is just be patient and hope the guy they want commits to them (which wont happen for the vast majority of them). Thats around 80% of modern women, so in around 5-10 years i expect a good portion of that % to realize the game they are playing and shift to one of the other 3 options. By then, being a normal guy with his life and **** together will be golden for the girls that pick option number 2.
Bro don't forget

4. Some of them give up completely, sleep with younger guys in their 40s or late 30s with 5 cats running around their house depressed childless lonely and empty etc

I remember back when I was 23 this chick I was with was 38 prayed to god I would never end up like that at her age
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As with lots of other things, women will never hold themselves accountable to their situation. If they are chronically single, they will almost always chalk it up to the men they are encountering, not the fact they are mentally unwell or high maintenance. I know lots of very attractive women who are single all the time - mainly because they are train wrecks emotionally and demand ridiculous things and a lot of guys are done putting up with that crap. Or they are easy to use for casual sex, so why would a guy commit? A lot of these girls I know who are 6's and 7's will bang anyone on the second date - first date if they are hot enough - so it's not even necessary.

It's easier to just be single. If you want to get laid, you lower your standards and get a FWB or pay for it.
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah
The problem here is the word “loser”, which is a broad term.

The type of losers you’re thinking of are different to the type he is thinking of.
how is it broad?
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Originally Posted By davik
how is it broad?
A lot of “losers” are rebellious bad boy types. The type who can’t hold down a job because they commit gross misconduct or mouth off to the boss or whatever.

Then there are “losers” who are more like NEETS. The type who live in their parents basement and don’t have a job because they are too anxious to go to interviews.
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah
A lot of “losers” are rebellious bad boy types. The type who can’t hold down a job because they commit gross misconduct or mouth off to the boss or whatever.

Then there are “losers” who are more like NEETS. The type who live in their parents basement and don’t have a job because they are too anxious to go to interviews.
no its not broad, you literally boiled it down to a job which means money. the girls do date these losers which is my point
post 1679106783 03-17-2023, 05:00 AM
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Originally Posted By davik
no its not broad, you literally boiled it down to a job which means money. the girls do date these losers which is my point
I wasn’t giving you a precise definition, I was trying to highlight that there are different “flavours” of loser.

It’s never the NEET basement dweller type loser that girls date, it’s the bad boy loser.
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah
I wasn’t giving you a precise definition, I was trying to highlight that there are different “flavours” of loser.

It’s never the NEET basement dweller type loser that girls date, it’s the bad boy loser.
well obviously theres different aspects of loserdom, but it isnt broad and you can identify key attributes such as a job
post 1679107593 03-17-2023, 05:33 AM
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Originally Posted By davik
well obviously theres different aspects of loserdom, but it isnt broad and you can identify key attributes such as a job
The very fact we’re having a discussion about what exactly a loser is clearly demonstrates it’s not clearly defined. We wouldn’t have this discussion about the word “car” or “egg”.

This is actually a BIG reason why a lot of arguments and discussions go nowhere, because people will be using the same terms but mean different things.

You and the guy you quoted both use the term “loser”, but I can guarantee the pair of you had a different concept of loser in mind.
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Originally Posted By Rebel012
You referring to women in general as "used up whores" if they're single in their 30s is a caricature. Find a woman who is single in her early thirties for a legit reason, who is on your looks level, and date her. You've done it before twice.

But at this point I think Alltrapbrah is right--your resentment of women precludes you from having a genuine romantic relationship with one, it can only be transactional at this point.
No I havent done it before. That was from pure luck online and online has gotten impossible. Never met anyone in any other context. Its not possible.

The women who are single in their 30s for a 'legit reason' are going to be in way too high of demand for someone like me. Its not happening. I rot.
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah
The very fact we’re having a discussion about what exactly a loser is clearly demonstrates it’s not clearly defined. We wouldn’t have this discussion about the word “car” or “egg”.

This is actually a BIG reason why a lot of arguments and discussions go nowhere, because people will be using the same terms but mean different things.

You and the guy you quoted both use the term “loser”, but I can guarantee the pair of you had a different concept of loser in mind.
no you are creating that discussion and car or egg vs loser arent even in the same category of thought. get this, one is a sentient human male thats got some complexity.
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget
As with lots of other things, women will never hold themselves accountable to their situation. If they are chronically single, they will almost always chalk it up to the men they are encountering, not the fact they are mentally unwell or high maintenance. I know lots of very attractive women who are single all the time - mainly because they are train wrecks emotionally and demand ridiculous things and a lot of guys are done putting up with that crap. Or they are easy to use for casual sex, so why would a guy commit? A lot of these girls I know who are 6's and 7's will bang anyone on the second date - first date if they are hot enough - so it's not even necessary.

It's easier to just be single. If you want to get laid, you lower your standards and get a FWB or pay for it.
What is the reward for being a good responsible man? If there's no worthwhile woman, why bother.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
No I havent done it before. That was from pure luck online and online has gotten impossible. Never met anyone in any other context. Its not possible.

The women who are single in their 30s for a 'legit reason' are going to be in way too high of demand for someone like me. Its not happening. I rot.
do vocaroo
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Originally Posted By sf813
Saw this other article on the front page of CNN

They're talking about us

https://www.cnn.com/2023/03/16/us/in...cec/index.html
Lol. These articles never put 2 and 2 together. They just did the 63% men single thing, and now they're acting like incels are fringe crazies.
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Originally Posted By davik
do vocaroo
About what
post 1679111203 03-17-2023, 07:18 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
About what
your thoughts overall about this thread
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Originally Posted By davik
your thoughts overall about this thread



post 1679114083 03-17-2023, 08:23 AM
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Originally Posted By TaiMaiSchutze
It's sort of a biological fact tho brah. Post wall females in their 30s are unfit to bear my seed and are therefore USELESS to me!



not srs



semi srs





srs
You're an obese virgin in your thirties who lives with his parents and has been institutionalized for half-assed suicide attempts due to mental weakness. Your seed is unfit to impregnate any woman, whether in her twenties, thirties, or forties.
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Originally Posted By davik
no you are creating that discussion and car or egg vs loser arent even in the same category of thought. get this, one is a sentient human male thats got some complexity.
The point is, I bet any money you and that guy mean different things despite both using the term “loser”, and all I was doing was to try to bring your attention to that.
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Originally Posted By BigGameJames
articles about single lonely men feels off.

society doesn't care about the hordes of men.

the reason there are these articles is because of shaming. we are not manning up. (doing what they want).
Yep. Its a nihilist and negative perspective. This is the result of Godlessness and narcissism.

This is why J Peterson's work is so important and why the left hates him. He is an expert in behavior and the decline of civilizations and his findings point a finger at leftism.
One party system; Most Republicans are Democrats, but no Democrats are Republicans.
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Definitely an agenda at play here
A couple of 60 minutes types shows in my country are running the exact same “incel/ single men” stories all of a sudden

Now that a global conflict is on the cards with China and Russia the money lenders have to change gears from whipping white men and pillaging western countries to making white men feel guilt for not taking part in the system
They’ve realised the west has collapsed without young white men

Over the coming months expect the media in unison to ramp up the guilt on young white men and transfer that into pressure for them to join the military
Plant the trees in whose shade your grandchildren will play
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Originally Posted By moosik85
Definitely an agenda at play here
A couple of 60 minutes types shows in my country are running the exact same “incel/ single men” stories all of a sudden

Now that a global conflict is on the cards with China and Russia the money lenders have to change gears from whipping white men and pillaging western countries to making white men feel guilt for not taking part in the system
They’ve realised the west has collapsed without young white men

Over the coming months expect the media in unison to ramp up the guilt on young white men and transfer that into pressure for them to join the military
They have no idea the harm they do when they run this kind of stuff. “Forgive them Father, for they do not know what they do”.

Why is the news running this stuff? What changed in their ethics that they went from reporting events and happenings to peddling extremist group’s propaganda? Federal money and influence?
One party system; Most Republicans are Democrats, but no Democrats are Republicans.
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Originally Posted By moosik85
Definitely an agenda at play here
A couple of 60 minutes types shows in my country are running the exact same “incel/ single men” stories all of a sudden

Now that a global conflict is on the cards with China and Russia the money lenders have to change gears from whipping white men and pillaging western countries to making white men feel guilt for not taking part in the system
They’ve realised the west has collapsed without young white men

Over the coming months expect the media in unison to ramp up the guilt on young white men and transfer that into pressure for them to join the military
Its not really an agenda, the reality is society cant function if this continues. they're getting worried and dont wanto admit whats actually going on to cause the situation. Instead just 'men bad be better' without looking at the actual factors.
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They dont give a chit about men, women spend the money and decide elections.

What they need men to be is tax pigs, bullet magnets and ditch diggers.

They are going to feign concern but ramp up the social shaming. Personally I expect them to implement bachelor taxes within 15 years tops
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