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Forum » Is it Alpha or Beta to be Asked On A Date by a Girl?

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Thread: Is it Alpha or Beta to be Asked On A Date by a Girl?

post 1679302603 03-20-2023, 06:53 PM
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Is it Alpha or Beta to be Asked On A Date by a Girl?

Is it some Chad sh!t or means she thinks you’re a Timothy who can’t sack up and ask?


If it matters, a drinks first date. Not a ice cream, coffee or walk in the park kinda date.
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post 1679302653 03-20-2023, 06:54 PM
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I can't speak on A or B since you really can't control if or when a sloot asks you out.

If anything it's kinda flattering because she finds you attractive enough to make the first move.

Definitely not beta IMO. A lot of men have yet to experience something like that, srs.
post 1679302803 03-20-2023, 06:57 PM
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I pick option “It’s neither here nor there”

Dunno how it being beta or not is even a thing, I dunno what your brain is doing to feel the need to ask this as a question, srs
post 1679303793 03-20-2023, 07:13 PM
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Hmm I would say beta.. especially if you want to date her but are too scared to ask yourself.

Most girls who want to be asked out give you signals so hard you'd have to be autistic to not know.
post 1679304323 03-20-2023, 07:25 PM
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Not beta.

Women asking you out or even being forward when it comes to sex doesn't make you a beta. Quite the opposite in fact. Makes you a "magnet".

What is beta, however, is if a woman publicly proposes to you. Rarely happens, but if that happens then she doesn't respect you as a man.
post 1679304693 03-20-2023, 07:31 PM
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Originally Posted By basedcap⏩
Hmm I would say beta.. especially if you want to date her but are too scared to ask yourself.

Most girls who want to be asked out give you signals so hard you'd have to be autistic to not know.
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post 1679304843 03-20-2023, 07:33 PM
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I voted beta
post 1679305183 03-20-2023, 07:40 PM
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Depends

I’ve been asked on dates before but only be legit 2-3/10’s so for me it ain’t alpha.

If a girl I actually found attractive asked me out I’d feel like an alpha chad.
post 1679305293 03-20-2023, 07:44 PM
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Chad status, srs.
post 1679305773 03-20-2023, 07:53 PM
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Originally Posted By Austin317⏩
I pick option “It’s neither here nor there”

Dunno how it being beta or not is even a thing, I dunno what your brain is doing to feel the need to ask this as a question, srs
It emasculates you. Like the example below.
Originally Posted By knightbefree⏩
What is beta, however, is if a woman publicly proposes to you. Rarely happens, but if that happens then she doesn't respect you as a man.
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post 1679306043 03-20-2023, 07:58 PM
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Are you even sure it's a date? You could be a Timothy in her eyes
post 1679306173 03-20-2023, 08:01 PM
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Depends on if you fuk her or if she fuks you
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Beta imo because she's showing dominance.
post 1679318803 03-21-2023, 04:38 AM
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Originally Posted By Cite⏩
Are you even sure it's a date? You could be a Timothy in her eyes
First time meeting and she suggests drinks, not a fancy seafood dinner.

Probably a MISC 7/10
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Depends if she's hot or not.

HBB: Alpha
4/10: Beta
post 1679319743 03-21-2023, 05:09 AM
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Depends if you follow up with breakfast sausage in bed.
If not then OP beta.
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It's neither alpha or beta. The over-analyzing over such an event is however in line with an insecure mind. If being insecure is alpha or beta is something I'm sure your able to answer on by yourself.
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Originally Posted By Archheretic⏩
It's neither alpha or beta. The over-analyzing over such an event is however in line with an insecure mind. If being insecure is alpha or beta is something I'm sure your able to answer on by yourself.
This is purely an academic exercise.




LOL at you for not being a MISC Intellectual.
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LOL, idk
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Originally Posted By KingBert⏩
This is purely an academic exercise.




LOL at you for not being a MISC Intellectual.
Ofc it is, no true miscer would ever be asked out on a date.
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Originally Posted By KingBert⏩
Is it some Chad sh!t or means she thinks you’re a Timothy who can’t sack up and ask?


If it matters, a drinks first date. Not a ice cream, coffee or walk in the park kinda date.
If you know shes into you but are afraid to ask and she does it it's beta as phuck.

If youre at a bar and get randomly approached its alpha.
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post 1679325433 03-21-2023, 07:28 AM
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Originally Posted By Archheretic⏩
Ofc it is, no true miscer would ever be asked out on a date.
Which also kinda answers your question
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