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post 1679924293 03-31-2023, 04:42 AM
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Has anyone who stays in shape ever had a wife “leave” then ?

I know of a guy who was middle aged and chubby , his wife was banging the trainer at the gym , I can’t imagine how that feels to know someone who’s in better shape than you’ll ever be stole your wife

I wonder if staying in shape is the ultimate insurance policy for marriages
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post 1679924623 03-31-2023, 04:59 AM
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post 1679924933 03-31-2023, 05:09 AM
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Originally Posted By syrk
I know of a guy who was middle aged and chubby , his wife was banging the trainer at the gym , I can’t imagine how that feels to know someone who’s in better shape than you’ll ever be stole your wife

I wonder if staying in shape is the ultimate insurance policy for marriages
I think so, yes.

I've always thought this too...

Women could care less what car you drive, your job, etc. as long as you're financially stable/secure and can give her the tingles w/ your looks is all that really matters


That's why when a guy gets too comfortable in a relationship and his looks diminish (gets fat/sloppy)...the wife/gf finds ways to branch-swing


If you're lean-maxxxed...you'ree gf/wife is gonna worry you're the one cheating...hah
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post 1679924963 03-31-2023, 05:09 AM
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Yes I have.

But to be fair I've banged a lot more other guys wives than I've had wives cheat on me.
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post 1679925133 03-31-2023, 05:13 AM
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Sure. Most girls are just like most guys... you could be banging the hottest girl on the planet, but you'll grow tired of her eventually if your lifestyles and personalities aren't compatible for long term.
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post 1679941643 03-31-2023, 10:28 AM
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How do we know the fat chubby guy didnt secretly arrange the personal training sessions knowing his wife would cheat so he could get rid of her?

he takes out the trash, gets to stay fat and lives the rest of his life in tranquility.

Smarter, not harder.
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post 1679942963 03-31-2023, 10:43 AM
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If your confidence decreases during a relationship then yeah you're more likely to get dumped.

You can be your best self and continue to be during a relationship and still get broken up with. People change/want different things/grow apart/etc...

Nothing makes you immune from this. It's just the risk you take by dating.
post 1679943533 03-31-2023, 10:49 AM
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Probably for the better. She didn't care for him, and maybe he can get his life straight this time around and find someone who truly loves him for who he is.
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post 1679944133 03-31-2023, 10:56 AM
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Originally Posted By Paulrut23
I think so, yes.

I've always thought this too...

Women could care less what car you drive, your job, etc. as long as you're financially stable/secure and can give her the tingles w/ your looks is all that really matters


That's why when a guy gets too comfortable in a relationship and his looks diminish (gets fat/sloppy)...the wife/gf finds ways to branch-swing


If you're lean-maxxxed...you'ree gf/wife is gonna worry you're the one cheating...hah
The last part is especially true.. even had some who give out snide remarks/complaints about me going to the gym.. after they themselves had put on 10-20lbs from when the relationship started

Jealously/insecurity it keeps them on their toes.. and if your desirable to the opposite sex.. she's not as likely to be looking elsewhere (especially if ur financially good)
post 1679944593 03-31-2023, 11:02 AM
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Bro tom brady's wife left him.

There is no method to a woman's madness. Its a gamble settling down with a woman. There are alot of things you can do to minimize the risk of it failing but people can change, for better or worse. Its life.

You just gotta do you, can't let yourself get lost because then if things do fail with your woman you are twice as fuked. So its important to take care of yourself and be your best, always.

Not saying neglect your wife and family by any means, just that you can't lose yourself in doing so.

There are plenty of example of couples who entirely let themselves go and are far from being at their best but it all works out relationship wise. There are couples who both have their chit together and are great people who can't fuking make things work at home.

A stable life and relationships are all about balance when it comes down to it. There are no guarantees to anything.
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post 1679944623 03-31-2023, 11:02 AM
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It'll help. But if you aren't high status enough for her liking (i.e., you don't make a lot of money) then the odds she cheats are still high. It could even happen with a less attractive guy if he makes ten times your salary or something like that.
post 1679945063 03-31-2023, 11:07 AM
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Originally Posted By crupiea
How do we know the fat chubby guy didnt secretly arrange the personal training sessions knowing his wife would cheat so he could get rid of her?

he takes out the trash, gets to stay fat and lives the rest of his life in tranquility.

Smarter, not harder.
Lol, you might be onto something. I recently did this to a girl who was acting up, but she didn't do anything completely vile so I didn't really have a strong reason to kick her to the curb.

If this ever happens again, I'll likely take a more direct approach and just get rid of her.
post 1679945233 03-31-2023, 11:09 AM
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Originally Posted By viccruise420
Bro tom brady's wife left him.

There is no method to a woman's madness. Its a gamble settling down with a woman. There are alot of things you can do to minimize the risk of it failing but people can change, for better or worse. Its life.

You just gotta do you, can't let yourself get lost because then if things do fail with your woman you are twice as fuked. So its important to take care of yourself and be your best, always.

Not saying neglect your wife and family by any means, just that you can't lose yourself in doing so.

There are plenty of example of couples who entirely let themselves go and are far from being at their best but it all works out relationship wise. There are couples who both have their chit together and are great people who can't fuking make things work at home.

A stable life and relationships are all about balance when it comes down to it. There are no guarantees to anything.
Kind of feel bad for Tom but at least he'll land on his feet.

Have you read about Boris Becker? And the crazy thing is, the dude is still out there simping!
The three-time Wimbledon champion, 55, had Anna Ermakova, now 23, after his infamous one-night stand with model and waitress Angela Ermakova, 55, at the London branch of Nobu restaurant in June 1999 while his first wife Barbara, 56, was pregnant with the couple’s second son, Elias, now 23.

Becker – nicknamed ‘Boom Boom’ after his thunderous serve – spoke about the fling on his upcoming Apple+ documentary, which charts the ups and downs of his life including his recent imprisonment.

“I wouldn’t like to go into all the details but we went to the back room. No, it wasn’t a cupboard – the cupboard is way too small, it is impossible to have any sort of physical activity in the cupboard.

“We got together and we had sex. I had no number from Angela, I had no contact, and that was that.”

Becker, released in December from prison in the United Kingdom after he was convicted of hiding £2.5 million (C$4.2 million) in assets during his bankruptcy proceedings, adds in his new tell-all two-part documentary called ‘Boom! Boom! The World vs. Boris Becker’, out April 7, he was stunned when Ermakova showed up pregnant after he got a fax telling him he was going to be a dad.
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post 1679945283 03-31-2023, 11:09 AM
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This is why you don't lift for women

A lot of guys who only lift to attract women will give up on working out after getting married

But I lift just to get stronger and have been able to lift serious weight, I just enjoy lifting weights honestly

Just finished a cut and am at low weight, bulking up right now to a higher weight to gain some more muscle and cut down again
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post 1679945523 03-31-2023, 11:11 AM
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Originally Posted By syrk
I know of a guy who was middle aged and chubby , his wife was banging the trainer at the gym , I can’t imagine how that feels to know someone who’s in better shape than you’ll ever be stole your wife

I wonder if staying in shape is the ultimate insurance policy for marriages
Staying is shape is pretty much a must in my opinion.

If you are in a relationship and you turn into a slob, that gives your partner the right to cheat on or leave you.

I don't mean a LITTLE out of shape, I mean a LOT out of shape.

Many people lie about themselves in order to trick a partner into becoming their slaves as they turn into a slob, that's fraud. So, staying in shape and even improving is maintaining the unspoken contract you made with your partner. Also, improving your health says you want to stay healthy and vital for the sake of the relationship/family.
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post 1679945703 03-31-2023, 11:13 AM
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Originally Posted By crupiea
How do we know the fat chubby guy didnt secretly arrange the personal training sessions knowing his wife would cheat so he could get rid of her?

he takes out the trash, gets to stay fat and lives the rest of his life in tranquility.

Smarter, not harder.
Lol!

I have been in some relationships where I wised the woman would cheat. It would be less fuss getting rid of her.
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post 1679946493 03-31-2023, 11:21 AM
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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian
Lol!

I have been in some relationships where I wised the woman would cheat. It would be less fuss getting rid of her.
what kind of woman would cheat on cock diesel?!?!?!
post 1679946683 03-31-2023, 11:24 AM
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'I love my husband but..."

A lot of taken or married women cheat and/or leave and find some way to justify it.
post 1679946733 03-31-2023, 11:25 AM
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Originally Posted By Cleveland33
what kind of woman would cheat on cock diesel?!?!?!
None so far.

I doubt that's the case in your life.

However, just to be technical, you have to actually want to have sex with women before they can cheat on you, right ****git?
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post 1679947023 03-31-2023, 11:30 AM
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88
If your confidence decreases during a relationship then yeah you're more likely to get dumped.

You can be your best self and continue to be during a relationship and still get broken up with. People change/want different things/grow apart/etc...

Nothing makes you immune from this. It's just the risk you take by dating.
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