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post 1681456023 04-25-2023, 03:42 AM
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The reality of this life is nobody gives af about you.

Friends will msg you here and there even come visit.

Your own gf/wife can leave you and become your worst enemy. It's a cold world out there boyos stay safe.

Do what makes you happy. Fuk everyone.
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post 1681456053 04-25-2023, 03:45 AM
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its a mogg or be mogged world out there buddy
post 1681456113 04-25-2023, 03:50 AM
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Learned the hard way.
When I was rock bottom everyone left me all of a sudden.

You can have a good time with friends you can have a good time with a girl.
But if you ever have a bad time they will all leave you.

Then when you meet them again 10+ years later and you are doing well.
They are like hey how u doing?
You might want to not reconnect lol.
post 1681456173 04-25-2023, 03:56 AM
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I learned this harsh lesson after my dad passed. Specifically, I was crossing the street, and car ran a red light and hit me 5 months ago. Car drove off. I laid on the ground and cars just kept driving pass me (at 6 am, it's pretty much all illegals going to work). I finally crawled to the side. The police have done nothing to even try and get the guy even though their were cameras and a witness got the guys liscense plate. I don't own a car, and this person's car had the cheapest progressive insurance (didn't matter cause they couldn't prove it was him apparently. I have extensive nerve damage in my left leg. The first doctor literally had one foot out the door after seeing me and just kept telling me to wait for it to heal (it had been getting worse and worse over time). Finally he just threw a physical therapy script my way, which I know would not work (i have a degree in exercise science and multiple personal training scripts. I now deal with pain everyday and it's very hard to walk, and am out thousands in medical bills.

Long story short, the bystandards didn't care I laid helpless in the middle of the road. The police didn't care about doing anything to solve the crime, the doctors didn't care about moving forward in finding out my leg pain. I am paying out of pocket for an MRI next week. I didn't even bother to tell friends because they have their own families to deal with and wouldn't care. I grew up always trying to help people, doing volunteer work, and doing my best to help anyone with problems I could be of assistance. I realized I was just a sucker. No one gives a fuk about anyone but themselves. People think being helpful nowadays is telling some 400lb female on reddit she is beautiful, or encouraging and supporting someone online that wants to cut their dick off. People think that things like this makes them a generous good hearted person. Somone will give some outlier examples of someone dedicating their lives to help others, but mostly people are sh*t.

The irony isn't lost on me that in college I did several mission trips to poor parts of Ecuardor. My city is like 95% Ecuadorian, so because of one, I may never be able to walk without pain again.
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post 1681456313 04-25-2023, 04:06 AM
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Originally Posted By Pats2022SBwin
people are sh*t.
It all comes down to this yeah
post 1681456373 04-25-2023, 04:10 AM
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People aren't sh*t, it's society that makes most people sh*t.

I believe only a few % is really inherently evil when they're born.
post 1681457723 04-25-2023, 05:12 AM
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What a sad outlook.
Nah bro I’m sweet.
post 1681457943 04-25-2023, 05:21 AM
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Just be self sufficient. Key to happiness is not depending on others for you happiness.

Women can get tired of fking you.

That's okay because you can get tired of fking them too. If you are making each other miserable then go find someone else. Also, don't intertwine your finances with a woman so much that you can't easily leave.

Family can split up over petty chit. Mostly money. Get your own chit. Don't feel like anyone owes you anything. If your brother steals your inheritance understand he's just a chit person and cut him out of your life completely.
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post 1681457953 04-25-2023, 05:22 AM
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Originally Posted By GnomeSaiyanBruh
What a sad outlook.
Nah man ppl not giving a fk about you is daily life.
You just gotta build your own life and yes ppl will like you more when you improve.

Just keep in mind friendships are pretty fake, and so are relationships.
You like each other until one of the 2 decide otherwise.
post 1681458303 04-25-2023, 05:36 AM
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We’re all gonna make it dude
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post 1681459463 04-25-2023, 06:12 AM
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You are right OP but that can be extremely liberating when framed correctly. I would suggest that is right where we want to be.



A lot of us walk around pretending other people are out to get us and that our problems are a result of other people trying to “get” us.

The truth, we are not that important to anyone.

But it is mutual.

In the same way I would never give someone else responsibility for my feelings, I will never take responsibility for theirs.

Pretty liberating man. Not having to depend on people. I feel we should strive to achieve that.

Just me gaslighting myself to cope with the fact I don’t have friends.


I do not feel like most people suck. No one should be walking around acting like anyone owes them anything.

You guys would get offended if someone doesn’t hold the door for you or say thank you if you choose to hold the door for them.

That isn’t them being rude. They didn’t owe you that in the first place.

Imagine having the ability to not give other people or situations unnecessary control of your emotions.
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post 1681462073 04-25-2023, 07:17 AM
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I realized this while ago. Nobody is truly your own, not even blood. But if you enjoy your own company then you're never truly alone

Loneliness isn't about being around ppl, its being with bad company.
post 1681462573 04-25-2023, 07:28 AM
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Nobody will ever care about you more than you can care about/for yourself, indeed.
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post 1681462693 04-25-2023, 07:30 AM
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My kids love me.

inb4 bla bla wait until they're older

Nah, I was that kid that grew up to be a ****, but I've learned a lot from that exp. Will raise them right. Plus, we're not in the Western "civilized" world, so bigger chances they'll turn out right.
post 1681462833 04-25-2023, 07:33 AM
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What an awful way of thinking, OP. I know many people love me dearly, and me them. I'm sure someone loves you very much.
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post 1681463003 04-25-2023, 07:36 AM
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Originally Posted By lightsarefallin
What an awful way of thinking, OP. I know many people love me dearly, and me them. I'm sure someone loves you very much.
All love is conditional, I think thats what OP was getting at
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post 1681463413 04-25-2023, 07:44 AM
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this is where something like mgtow comes in...essentially teaching men that their worth as a person has nothing to do with acceptance by women or their ability to keep one pleased.

the disney fantasy is sold to men just as much as it women.
post 1681463643 04-25-2023, 07:48 AM
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Originally Posted By lightsarefallin
What an awful way of thinking, OP. I know many people love me dearly, and me them. I'm sure someone loves you very much.
Well said. Repped.
Nah bro I’m sweet.
post 1681464093 04-25-2023, 07:55 AM
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It is important to have family, as they tend to be the ones that care the most about you.
post 1681465243 04-25-2023, 08:15 AM
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Originally Posted By Pats2022SBwin
I learned this harsh lesson after my dad passed. Specifically, I was crossing the street, and car ran a red light and hit me 5 months ago. Car drove off. I laid on the ground and cars just kept driving pass me (at 6 am, it's pretty much all illegals going to work). I finally crawled to the side. The police have done nothing to even try and get the guy even though their were cameras and a witness got the guys liscense plate. I don't own a car, and this person's car had the cheapest progressive insurance (didn't matter cause they couldn't prove it was him apparently. I have extensive nerve damage in my left leg. The first doctor literally had one foot out the door after seeing me and just kept telling me to wait for it to heal (it had been getting worse and worse over time). Finally he just threw a physical therapy script my way, which I know would not work (i have a degree in exercise science and multiple personal training scripts. I now deal with pain everyday and it's very hard to walk, and am out thousands in medical bills.

Long story short, the bystandards didn't care I laid helpless in the middle of the road. The police didn't care about doing anything to solve the crime, the doctors didn't care about moving forward in finding out my leg pain. I am paying out of pocket for an MRI next week. I didn't even bother to tell friends because they have their own families to deal with and wouldn't care. I grew up always trying to help people, doing volunteer work, and doing my best to help anyone with problems I could be of assistance. I realized I was just a sucker. No one gives a fuk about anyone but themselves. People think being helpful nowadays is telling some 400lb female on reddit she is beautiful, or encouraging and supporting someone online that wants to cut their dick off. People think that things like this makes them a generous good hearted person. Somone will give some outlier examples of someone dedicating their lives to help others, but mostly people are sh*t.

The irony isn't lost on me that in college I did several mission trips to poor parts of Ecuardor. My city is like 95% Ecuadorian, so because of one, I may never be able to walk without pain again.
Wtf... thats really messed up no one stopped to check on you.... Im sorry you're still dealing with a lot of things as a result of the accident :/


I'm a bit on the fence with it. I do think one of the people you can 100% rely on is yourself. I've been burned a lot in the past trying to help others and caring for them only for them to spit on it. But I will say I've been lucky enough to have a few instances that showed me the opposite as well.

True kindness from others is few and far in between, but is worth so much when you find them because through good and bad, they're there.

I've also seen it for patients in the ICU and it's honestly reaffirming that there is genuine love in this world.
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Originally Posted By koreannoodles77
I realized this while ago. Nobody is truly your own, not even blood. But if you enjoy your own company then you're never truly alone

Loneliness isn't about being around ppl, its being with bad company.
I'm a lone 🐺 lol
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Originally Posted By miscallday12
He gets it
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Originally Posted By ParsleyTea
It is important to have family, as they tend to be the ones that care the most about you.
There is also nothing in this world worse than family, especially the sloot members.

Love is also the biggest scam in human history. It's just a nice word for debt. If you "love" someone most likely you owe them something in one way or another. Unconditional love is absolute horse sht.
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Originally Posted By Pats2022SBwin
I learned this harsh lesson after my dad passed. Specifically, I was crossing the street, and car ran a red light and hit me 5 months ago. Car drove off. I laid on the ground and cars just kept driving pass me (at 6 am, it's pretty much all illegals going to work). I finally crawled to the side. The police have done nothing to even try and get the guy even though their were cameras and a witness got the guys liscense plate. I don't own a car, and this person's car had the cheapest progressive insurance (didn't matter cause they couldn't prove it was him apparently. I have extensive nerve damage in my left leg. The first doctor literally had one foot out the door after seeing me and just kept telling me to wait for it to heal (it had been getting worse and worse over time). Finally he just threw a physical therapy script my way, which I know would not work (i have a degree in exercise science and multiple personal training scripts. I now deal with pain everyday and it's very hard to walk, and am out thousands in medical bills.

Long story short, the bystandards didn't care I laid helpless in the middle of the road. The police didn't care about doing anything to solve the crime, the doctors didn't care about moving forward in finding out my leg pain. I am paying out of pocket for an MRI next week. I didn't even bother to tell friends because they have their own families to deal with and wouldn't care. I grew up always trying to help people, doing volunteer work, and doing my best to help anyone with problems I could be of assistance. I realized I was just a sucker. No one gives a fuk about anyone but themselves. People think being helpful nowadays is telling some 400lb female on reddit she is beautiful, or encouraging and supporting someone online that wants to cut their dick off. People think that things like this makes them a generous good hearted person. Somone will give some outlier examples of someone dedicating their lives to help others, but mostly people are sh*t.

The irony isn't lost on me that in college I did several mission trips to poor parts of Ecuardor. My city is like 95% Ecuadorian, so because of one, I may never be able to walk without pain again.
You can kill the guy that hit you. That's what I'd do.
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Originally Posted By FinBra
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post 1681499323 04-25-2023, 05:33 PM
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i've always been a lone wolf type.

as I've gotten older, i've found it more and more difficult to connect with people.
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youre right OP but dont forget theres some good ppl in the world too

life is suffering but we all should strive for a semi-positive outlook on things
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Originally Posted By xTEXASPRIDEx
i've always been a lone wolf type.

as I've gotten older, i've found it more and more difficult to connect with people.
The most important person you need to connect to is yourself
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