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» The Cold Hard Reality of Being a Man (not an incel post) somewhat positive.
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post 1681657703 04-28-2023, 07:47 AM
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The Cold Hard Reality of Being a Man (not an incel post) somewhat positive.

Is that no one really does care about you or how you feel(accept for your mother). You need to suck it up. You need to push through. No one wants to hear your bs.

For example I watched two good men die of cancer over the past 3 years. No one blinked an eye. They died with their family by them and that was it. No one else got upset. No one else cared. I then watched a woman get Stage 1 cancer that was cured and everyone in these same circles fell apart. Benefits, care packages, all that good stuff.

My point is that this is why men (real men not Biden men) can run a country, why we can fight wars, why we can be titans of industry. Because it’s how we are built. Do you think the two men who died of cancer were laying there thinking omg no one cares about me? No most likely they were thinking of how their families will be taken care of and that this is really the end. Keep on trucking bro. Don’t become an emotional man.
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post 1681659683 04-28-2023, 08:13 AM
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post 1681659863 04-28-2023, 08:16 AM
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People do care about how you feel, and I really genuinely think men would benefit from having serious conversations with each other about the things they feel.

Men have the highest rate of suicide and are the least likely to talk about their feelings. There’s a pretty big correlation between those two things, I think.

We aren’t a pillar unto ourselves. On the converse side; we should be willing to hear out our fellow men, without dismissing how they feel.

We’d all be better for admitting that we aren’t always incredibly hard motherfukkers.

While I can solve most of my problems on my own, there are a handful of times where I need help (as we all do). It is important to have people you can trust and count on, who feel the same way about you.
post 1681660533 04-28-2023, 08:27 AM
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Christian religion is designed to treat the souls, including memories and impact of ancestors, right. Can give peace
post 1681686163 04-28-2023, 03:45 PM
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post 1681686473 04-28-2023, 03:51 PM
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Many mothers do not care about how their sons feel. Maybe when he's a little kid. If you are an adult man with a family or your own, your mother cares about you providing for your children, her grandkids. Not you.

Men are valuable to society for the function they play. The 'real' you doesn't matter. It's what you do that people care about.
post 1681686523 04-28-2023, 03:53 PM
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Just because we don’t speak about it doesn’t mean we don’t care. I know someone that killed themselves and I still miss them and think about them all the time. I ain’t gonna sit there balling my eyes out but I be just like damn
post 1681686613 04-28-2023, 03:54 PM
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OP just realized that men are treated as nothing more than cogs in a machine...

Society views men as either:

1) Tax cattle

or

2) Cannon fodder sent to die in a war to enrich the elites
Everything I post is satire.
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post 1681686643 04-28-2023, 03:55 PM
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Originally Posted By Kaliconic
Many mothers do not care about how their sons feel. Maybe when he's a little kid. If you are an adult man with a family or your own, your mother cares about you providing for your children, her grandkids. Not you.

Men are valuable to society for the function they play. The 'real' you doesn't matter. It's what you do that people care about.
This
post 1681686773 04-28-2023, 03:57 PM
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Nah people care about you as a man if you’re trying hard and have a good attitude.
post 1681687003 04-28-2023, 04:01 PM
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Men lead lives of quiet desperation.

Good men take the quiet part seriously.
For every man, there is a sentence, a string of words, that has the power to destroy him
"The strong do what they can, and the weak suffer what they must" -Thucydides
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post 1681687123 04-28-2023, 04:04 PM
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no one cares
family beside him while he dies

pick 1

and if you meant friends maybe its cuz he was a loser and had none
post 1681687273 04-28-2023, 04:07 PM
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When a tragedy occurs everyone flocks to the women for support. Sure men might get a few pats on the back, but for the most part they're expected to hold it together.

Its a double edged sword cause on the one hand I don't want ppl coddling me cause I am a man, but on the other hand it does feel like no one on earth really gives two fuks about you

When I need emotional support I just take a walk in nature and meditate. It sorta grounds me back to reality and makes me realize most of my problems arent chit and not worth stressing over

Also drinking helps
post 1681687703 04-28-2023, 04:17 PM
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Originally Posted By koreannoodles77
When a tragedy occurs everyone flocks to the women for support. Sure men might get a few pats on the back, but for the most part they're expected to hold it together.

Its a double edged sword cause on the one hand I don't want ppl coddling me cause I am a man, but on the other hand it does feel like no one on earth really gives two fuks about you

When I need emotional support I just take a walk in nature and meditate. It sorta grounds me back to reality and makes me realize most of my problems arent chit and not worth stressing over

Also drinking helps
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